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VOTE NOW - Coin Return Values & Code of Conduct - open through December 27th

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  • zagdrobzagdrob Registered User regular
    Yea
    ChicoBlue wrote: »
    I think that this document could use another month or two of effort and debate (not on my part) in order to iron out the wrinkles.

    I'll only vote yes if we can achieve a hyper-consensus.

    The response seems to be almost a consensus but the no votes should have a free and open reason to say why they went that way.

    Also I'd say the timeline doesn't really give this sort of thing that much time to cook, and I think this got a fair amount of visibility and feedback for the time-frame we got.

  • zagdrobzagdrob Registered User regular
    Yea
    Like aimed specifically at anyone who voted no or wants to but feels intimidated please say why or PM the transition team why you feel that way.

    This is important input. If you want to do it anonymously we can probably figure out a good way.

  • AbsoluteZeroAbsoluteZero The new film by Quentin Koopantino Registered User regular
    Nay
    What do we mean by "heated" argument? I don't think someone should be punished for being passionate about something, or choosing to debate with stronger language than Barney the dinosaur would use.

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  • tastydonutstastydonuts Registered User regular
    Gnizmo wrote: »
    Chanus wrote: »
    Not that I necessarily think we have a problem with people not feeling free to openly dissent, but is having people's votes be public the right call for things like this?

    It's a fair question. I would say that for matters involving ratifying important community and governance decisions it's best to be as open and transparent as possible. I'm looking at it similarly to votes in Congress. Anyone's welcome to dissent, but for something this foundational I'd think they should be willing to stand behind that position if they feel strongly enough to cast a vote.

    We don't need people to be accountable for their vote like we do with Congress is the major difference in my opinion. I am not saying this is bad, and I dunno if there even is another options since we need to protect against malicious actors. I think the pros outweigh the cons if there is a simple option. We also have a ticking clock so we can revisit it later if it is an issue. I gave all my thoughts during the process so I am happy with the results. I just want to make sure everyone is comfortable voicing their opinions.

    I'll definitely note it as something to revisit for the next time around. This felt like the better way to go to me, but I'm not opposed to doing it anonymously in the future if people are concerned.

    I was kind of surprised to see that a poll like this wasn't anonymous, and I also surprised at the lack of an option to abstain. Point number 6 seems weird but is probably driven by events that have happened outside of the places I pay attention to here, so idk... I suppose it's necessary? However it's not worth rejecting the thing as a whole either, especially given the other bits in the text. As a binary option I can't imagine it not reaching the requisite supermajority though. I doubt that would be the case even anonymously and with abstention too... so it all really just feels performative to me.

    Is the expectation that all the people here who really abide some of the more serious portions of this would fall on that sword?

    Edit: For clarity, I dont mean to minimize the severity of whatever happened to require point 6 being added, so apologizes to any who may take that the wrong way.

    Without relitigating old issues, 6 is something that has happened -- not just on one occasion, or in one specific capacity. It covers everything from dragging an argument about a video game onto someone's Instagram account, to literally stalking a person and showing up at their work (although, to be clear, there are quite a few degrees between those two examples).

    The more nuanced discussion over it has taken place over the last few weeks in order to get the document to this point, so this probably is more of a formality, but still one that needs to be done. Honestly, if this was presented with any anticipating of it being a close vote, I think that would be a failure on our part to not listen to community feedback and first get this thing to a state that it's broadly agreeable and usable (even if not quite perfect). Personally, with the diversity of opinions we have around here, I'm a little proud of the fact that we mostly got on the same page enough to get it to this point.

    Also, regarding abstaining -- we don't really have a set, stable voting population here. We might get 300 votes, we might get 900 votes. We could, theoretically, get almost 2000 votes. We're at the mercy of who still logs in, who looks at the announcements, etc. We can't really base a supermajority on the total number of eligible voters so a simple yes/no supermajority felt like the most feasible way to manage it at this time.

    Ah, understandable. I don't need to know what happened in the past, it just raised a brow.

    While they're not directly comparable cases, in the legislation/Congress example that was mentioned too, sometimes initially a bill has a lot of great things going for it, but then things poison pills get added that ultimately make someone who is a proponent of those great things vote against it. And in the public record and as ammunition against them in the future it's not "they voted no because these extra things were tacked on" it's, "they voted no."

    It's not apples to apples here, but when we have greater and obviously harmful behaviours people shouldn't engage in at the fore, an identified "nay" here can really put somebody in a bad spot. Which is why I think at the very least a poll of this nature should be anonymous.

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  • minor incidentminor incident publicly subsidized! privately profitable!Registered User, Transition Team regular
    Yea
    zagdrob wrote: »
    Like aimed specifically at anyone who voted no or wants to but feels intimidated please say why or PM the transition team why you feel that way.

    This is important input. If you want to do it anonymously we can probably figure out a good way.

    Yeah. For the record, I have always solicited and gladly accepted anonymous/PM'd feedback. There are a couple of things incorporated into this version of the document that came about that way, in fact. So if there's something you want to voice about the values of code of conduct, feel free to reach out. And if for some reason you hate my guts, then hit up one of the other members of the Transition Team directly who you feel more comfortable with and they'll bring it into the discussion for you. No hard feelings. Anyone who wants to be heard can be. Even if it's something that doesn't effect change immediately right now, it could be a consideration for when we do a review of our code of conduct or rules in the future.

    Hell, New Jersey, it said on the letter. Delivered without comment. So be it!
  • Inquisitor77Inquisitor77 2 x Penny Arcade Fight Club Champion A fixed point in space and timeRegistered User regular
    Yea
    After some rumination I believe there's some conflation going on between values, principles (a.k.a. "values in practice"), the code of conduct, and what I'll call a "mission statement" (i.e., driving purpose). But it's not enough to warrant another round of spilled ink. Just throwing it out there if in the future it ever pops up that things need to be streamlined and/or revised.

  • MMMigMMMig Registered User regular
    Sorry if this isn't the place to ask, but on mobile and about to take off so:

    Are our existing badgers moving over, hopefully maybe, somehow?

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  • SnicketysnickSnicketysnick The Greatest Hype Man in WesterosRegistered User regular
    Yea
    good old, Call to a member function Result() on string nothing beats Call to a member function Result() on string :)

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  • ElJeffeElJeffe Registered User, ClubPA regular
    Yea
    Magell wrote: »
    I am very obviously in a super minority with this, but I have kind of a hard time with the code of conduct. I agree with every point by itself but all of them together give the vibe of it devolving into one of those workplaces with over aggressive HR policies where everyone is afraid to say anything, and thus nothing is said except token niceties . It also kind of gives the impression of if you're not an oppressed minority or woman you best keep your mouth shut about everything *shrug*

    The point of the rule about listening to minority or women is for issues regarding their lived experiences. It's not some "I win" button for any argument. It's so you listen when a minority gives their lived experience on how politics affects their life, not that you can't disagree with their opinion on Star Wars.

    And it's not even that you can't disagree with a minority on the specific thing being discussed. It just means actually paying attention to what they say, and if you choose to respond to them, not being dismissive of their experiences as irrelevant.

    It's a good thing to have in the CoC!

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  • Atlas in ChainsAtlas in Chains Registered User regular
    Avoid saying anything to another member you would not say face-to-face.

    I'll most likely vote yes, but before I do, I'd like to point out that this particular sentiment probably isn't the wording we want. I get the intent, but I say a lot of things here I wouldn't in person because anonymity is a feature. I'd prefer something more along the line of "treat each poster with dignity," or something similar that hits the same idea but sounds as grown up as the rest of the document.

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  • DelzhandDelzhand Coin Return Admin Registered User, Transition Team regular
    Yea
    It's never too late! Coin Return is going to be a living organism. That said, the time for feedback on this version is past unless we discover a huge collective blind spot. But there will be opportunities to revise in the future - there are some other, more pressing governance concerns at the moment, but I'm sure we'll have info on how things can be changed at some point.

  • zagdrobzagdrob Registered User regular
    Yea
    Avoid saying anything to another member you would not say face-to-face.

    I'll most likely vote yes, but before I do, I'd like to point out that this particular sentiment probably isn't the wording we want. I get the intent, but I say a lot of things here I wouldn't in person because anonymity is a feature. I'd prefer something more along the line of "treat each poster with dignity," or something similar that hits the same idea but sounds as grown up as the rest of the document.

    I would agree that (9) Avoid saying anything to another member you would not say face-to-face. (1, 5, 6) is kinda meaningless and a weird point to add.

    I've seen what people (not here, but in the world) will say to people's faces and it basically empowers assholes to say "well I'd say it in person too". And probably honestly mean or even have done it in their lived experience. We've all seen someone go off on a retail worker, and I don't think what those folks said should be an acceptable standard just because someone will scream in someone else's face.

    Regardless, that sort of behavior is likely covered under other rules, and probably not necessary but it's not something that is a deal breaker at least to me.

    I'd amend 9 to 'Wouldn't say to someone in a professional workplace without consequences' except for one different workspaces and then gets into some of the stuff we talk about is definitely NSFW in a mixed professional environment.

  • ElJeffeElJeffe Registered User, ClubPA regular
    Yea
    I dunno, I think the intent of 9 is pretty obvious, and the first time someone tries to justify being an asshole with "No, I'm an asshole in person too!" I feel it's not going to fly.

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  • HoukHouk Nipples The EchidnaRegistered User regular
    Yea
    yeah I guess if you wanted to rules lawyer it out I can see how you'd get to that kind of reading, but the intended everyday meaning of the phrase seems pretty clear and valuable to me

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  • zagdrobzagdrob Registered User regular
    Yea
    ElJeffe wrote: »
    I dunno, I think the intent of 9 is pretty obvious, and the first time someone tries to justify being an asshole with "No, I'm an asshole in person too!" I feel it's not going to fly.

    Well for sure, but it feels like it's either not meaningful or contradictory to any actual real life scenarios.

    Like sure whatever it being there, it's not gonna make me vote against the rules (i'm already voting for them ofc) but it seems unnecessary.

  • discriderdiscrider Registered User regular
    Yea
    I agree that 9 is a funny sort of soft lock for social awkwardness.
    You got to say something to communicate, even when you don't want to interrupt everyone else, and so don't want to say anything.

  • MagellMagell Detroit Machine Guns Fort MyersRegistered User regular
    Yea
    The thing with point 9 is it doesn't supersede other rules about being polite. It's, as Vixx said, to remind you posters are real people and forums are real life, even if it's online.

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  • HoukHouk Nipples The EchidnaRegistered User regular
    edited December 2024
    Yea
    totally, I'm not married to the wording but you'd be hard pressed to convince me that its intent is meaningless, unnecessary, or contradictory

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  • wunderbarwunderbar What Have I Done? Registered User regular
    I'm really torn on this. I don't disagree with any of this in principle, but I do agree with comments about being worried about turning into a place where no one is ever allowed to have a dissenting voice about anything.

    I'm pretty sure this is more strict than the HR policy where I work.

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  • MagellMagell Detroit Machine Guns Fort MyersRegistered User regular
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    wunderbar wrote: »
    I'm really torn on this. I don't disagree with any of this in principle, but I do agree with comments about being worried about turning into a place where no one is ever allowed to have a dissenting voice about anything.

    I'm pretty sure this is more strict than the HR policy where I work.

    You can dissent about anything you want except for minorities rights to exist.

  • V1mV1m Registered User regular
    Yea
    wunderbar wrote: »
    I'm really torn on this. I don't disagree with any of this in principle, but I do agree with comments about being worried about turning into a place where no one is ever allowed to have a dissenting voice about anything.

    I'm pretty sure this is more strict than the HR policy where I work.

    Are you concerned that you won't be able to disagree that apple pie is better than cherry pie?

  • kimekime Queen of Blades Registered User regular
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    wunderbar wrote: »
    I'm really torn on this. I don't disagree with any of this in principle, but I do agree with comments about being worried about turning into a place where no one is ever allowed to have a dissenting voice about anything.

    I'm pretty sure this is more strict than the HR policy where I work.

    What makes you think people won't be able to have a dissenting voice? What types of things are you thinking you'd dissent about?

    (Also did you discuss this the previous few weeks when we were hashing out this whole thing as a community, out of curiosity? What did folks have to say then about your concerns?)

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  • ManOHokutoManOHokuto Knight of the Bloody Fist Registered User regular
    Yea
    Does the company with an HR department so strict everyone is afraid to say anything actually exist? My only experience with that concept is as a right-wing talking point, usually from someone who has really strong feelings about why they should get to use slurs.

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  • V1mV1m Registered User regular
    Yea
    Ultimately, the expression of any set of rules or code of conduct is the people who will be applying said rules and codes. If you're confident in those people acting in good faith, then you're probably fine. If you're not, then it's pointless to quibble about nuances of interpretation.

  • MorninglordMorninglord I'm tired of being Batman, so today I'll be Owl.Registered User regular
    edited December 2024
    Yea
    This is a pretty bog standard set of values and coc, and there's nothing strict about any of this. Overly draconian interpretations of this document that stifles discussion is counter to the values of safety, accountability, and connectedness. There are already processes being setup that will enable leadership change in that case. It all naturally balances out.

    There really is no reason to worry about this, people are not going to jump down your throat unless you are being a shitheel, and individuals aren't allowed to rules lawyer you during a discussion anyway, only mods can enforce any of this, and they're going to be well trained as to what "accountability" means for them.

    If you think any of this is draconian, I think the missing link here is that this all applies both ways: to the leadership, and to the users. Everyone has to adhere to these values.

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  • wunderbarwunderbar What Have I Done? Registered User regular
    kime wrote: »
    wunderbar wrote: »
    I'm really torn on this. I don't disagree with any of this in principle, but I do agree with comments about being worried about turning into a place where no one is ever allowed to have a dissenting voice about anything.

    I'm pretty sure this is more strict than the HR policy where I work.

    What makes you think people won't be able to have a dissenting voice? What types of things are you thinking you'd dissent about?

    (Also did you discuss this the previous few weeks when we were hashing out this whole thing as a community, out of curiosity? What did folks have to say then about your concerns?)

    I haven't been around very much in the last couple of months as my mom died. She actually passed away literally the day that it was announced that PA was ending the forums. So I've not been around much for many reasons. (note: not a woe is me I didn't get to contribute to the discussion, life happened, I wasn't here. It's fine. Family is more important than an internet community).

    I have seen other online communities with the best intentions go south because those good intentions get applied to a point that people feel uncomfortable saying things that aren't the majority opinion. I'm not saying I 100% believe that will happen here. It probably won't. But we absolutely can have a situation where we try so hard to keep the bad things down that constructive, good discussion also suffers.

    I'm not running away from the forums. I'll be one of the first people signing up to support the new forums monetarily. Don't think for a second that I'm someone trying to stir up things unnecessarily. I'm just wary of the pendulum swinging too far the other way.

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  • MorninglordMorninglord I'm tired of being Batman, so today I'll be Owl.Registered User regular
    edited December 2024
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    Nah, nobody working on this document was trying to make that happen. We are just trying to construct a place that protects its users. That's what this looks like.

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  • ToxTox I kill threads Dilige, et quod vis facRegistered User regular
    edited December 2024
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    wunderbar wrote: »
    kime wrote: »
    wunderbar wrote: »
    I'm really torn on this. I don't disagree with any of this in principle, but I do agree with comments about being worried about turning into a place where no one is ever allowed to have a dissenting voice about anything.

    I'm pretty sure this is more strict than the HR policy where I work.

    What makes you think people won't be able to have a dissenting voice? What types of things are you thinking you'd dissent about?

    (Also did you discuss this the previous few weeks when we were hashing out this whole thing as a community, out of curiosity? What did folks have to say then about your concerns?)

    I haven't been around very much in the last couple of months as my mom died. She actually passed away literally the day that it was announced that PA was ending the forums. So I've not been around much for many reasons. (note: not a woe is me I didn't get to contribute to the discussion, life happened, I wasn't here. It's fine. Family is more important than an internet community).

    I have seen other online communities with the best intentions go south because those good intentions get applied to a point that people feel uncomfortable saying things that aren't the majority opinion. I'm not saying I 100% believe that will happen here. It probably won't. But we absolutely can have a situation where we try so hard to keep the bad things down that constructive, good discussion also suffers.

    I'm not running away from the forums. I'll be one of the first people signing up to support the new forums monetarily. Don't think for a second that I'm someone trying to stir up things unnecessarily. I'm just wary of the pendulum swinging too far the other way.

    So the neat thing is we have Values and if enforcement of the rules and/or CoC go against those Values then we have an enforcement problem.

    There is a group working on governance that will provide a process for redress so that we can make sure we are not stuck in the situation of having bad rules being enforced badly by bad enforcers without recourse.

    Tox on
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  • ToxTox I kill threads Dilige, et quod vis facRegistered User regular
    edited December 2024
    Yea
    Also I want to clarify there was no intended snark there idk if it reads that way but if it does read snarky I do apologize

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