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VOTE NOW - Coin Return Values & Code of Conduct - open through December 27th

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  • ChanusChanus Harbinger of the Spicy Rooster Apocalypse The Flames of a Thousand Collapsed StarsRegistered User, Moderator mod
    Yea
    it is the year 2025, crime is legal and mod's are illegal

    Allegedly a voice of reason.
  • DrezDrez I’m exactly the same in real life Registered User regular
    crime cannot be legal due to isaac asimov's 3rd law of robotics: Do Unto Others As You Would Have Robots Do So Under Thee To Thou

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  • [Deleted User][Deleted User] regular
    edited December 2024
    Yea
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  • YellowhammerYellowhammer Registered User regular
    Yea
    On one hand I understand how someone would see it and feel like any contentious argument would be settled by whoever is a marginalized person. But I think as long as an argument is cogent and doesn't strip someone of a humanity it will be fine. I also think it's good to not dunk on someone just to score points and remembering the human is a huge part of that. That all of us have thoughts and feelings and emotions, with good days and bad days. Making empathy a value can only be a good thing.

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  • Judge Jessie WJudge Jessie W Registered User regular
    edited December 2024
    I feel like "remember you're talking to actual human people" and "don't blow marginalized people off when they're talking about their concerns" are hardly onerous restrictions that are going to stifle discussion

    edit: Just for the record, I'm not voting. I haven't posted here enough in the last fifteen years to really have an actual say, but I have done community management and run my own small forum community and wanted to give my feedback as someone with that experience.

    Judge Jessie W on
  • V1mV1m Registered User regular
    edited December 2024
    Yea
    There is no way to construct a set of rules - in English of all languages - that doesn't allow for edge-case bad outcomes.

    If you feel like your dissent about cherry pie* is being stifled or whatever because someone is getting emotional about stuff like IDK, denial of their right to exist, there's always the option of ducking out of that discussion and reframing your opinion in another less fraught arena at a later date. So far as I am aware few or no societal policy decisions are made in this forum, so there's not really any cost to to deferring your perspective for a bit.

    *This is figurative cherry pie. Please do not @ me if you love and/or hate that specific confection.

    V1m on
  • EddyEddy Gengar the Bittersweet Registered User regular
    edited December 2024
    Nay
    I voted no.

    This is because the values as listed are not defined. What does "connectedness" mean? Is that even a value? Is the feeling of connectedness more important than the dormant freedom from association? I want the right to block as many people as I want. I'm inferring what "connectedness" means here, because again it's undefined, but it implies that we value interaction more than concord.

    Also, considering how many people have self-banned, I would also like to add Privacy to the Safety value, insofar as either of those words have meaning in a public-facing forum nowadays.

    Next, I want an actual definition of harassment. I would also like to extend the "no harassment" shield onto the forums themselves. I've seen enough dogpiling and constant hounding across threads (which I consider harassment) to know that Forum Beefs will remain as we transition. I want someone like spool (sorry to single you out) to be able to post without half the forum listing every decades-old grievance they've ever had with him. If we really want safety, self-expression, accountability, and equity, then mods should be willing to visibly police popular people just as much as the unpopular and the cringe among us. The Code of Conduct theoretically covers that, but just like Equal Rights legislation explicitly lists protected classes, I would feel better if it explicated that meta-modding and dogpiling/harassment of any sort will be punished, even if a poster is popular and comments something widely agreed to.

    Either that or officially establish that we are allowed to block as many people as we want. Have 'freedom from association' in the core values-- integrate that into "Connectedness" or get rid of that value altogether.

    Eddy on
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  • jothkijothki Registered User regular
    Yea
    It's noteworthy that the rules don't state that any form of belief is inherently protected, cherry pie or otherwise. If someone feels that their assocation with cherry pie is causing them to be subject to meritless attacks then they might be arguably covered, but if they've just heavily tied their identity into cherry pie and view actual discussion about it as an attack on their ego, then they shouldn't have any grounds for stifling dissent.

    The fact that this sort of thing is omitted is one of the reasons why I strongly approve of the code of conduct in its current form.

  • tuxkamentuxkamen really took this picture. Registered User regular
    edited December 2024
    There are some attitudes being expressed that are already unfortunate. Late voters are still voters. People who don't read banners, or are infrequent posters, or just realized something is happening, have an exactly equal right to lodge their reservations and misgivings about these proposed rules as anyone else and they don't need snark about "where they were when this was being discussed".

    Being early doesn't make you better or more correct in your opinions about it. Be better.

    EDIT: And I'll clarify that I'm not referencing any one particular person; this has been come up more than once already in this and the prior thread. Public voting is public, with all that entails.

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  • HoukHouk Nipples The EchidnaRegistered User regular
    Yea
    why are you trying hard to not vote on this?

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  • tuxkamentuxkamen really took this picture. Registered User regular
    That's a good point. Removed.


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  • kimekime Queen of Blades Registered User regular
    Yea
    tuxkamen wrote: »
    There are some attitudes being expressed that are already unfortunate. Late voters are still voters. People who don't read banners, or are infrequent posters, or just realized something is happening, have an exactly equal right to lodge their reservations and misgivings about these proposed rules as anyone else and they don't need snark about "where they were when this was being discussed".

    Being early doesn't make you better or more correct in your opinions about it. Be better.

    EDIT: And I'll clarify that I'm not referencing any one particular person; this has been come up more than once already in this and the prior thread. Public voting is public, with all that entails.

    Everyone is entitled to a vote.

    But also, there's a reason the process goes "let's all talk about this for a while" and then into "ok, with everyone's feedback let's try to take a vote here". Sometime coming in at this last step with some fundamental questions is not going to get the same response as someone doing it in the first step, and that is appropriate.. Otherwise, tbh, this will never be completed because a few folks are always going to straggle in late.

    No one should be insulted for this of course. And as has been mentioned, these Values/etc are expected to grow and change over time. But for right now, for this first version? Yeah it's too late to be coming in with the assumption we're gonna redo this for any change that isn't quite important.

    Your vote matters equally! Your concerns that maybe the specific wording in clause <x> is perhaps slightly too vague, and what if we passed out a bit differently like <x with minor changes> instead, etc? That doesn't matter as much right now, no

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  • Undead ScottsmanUndead Scottsman Cybertronian Paranormal Eliminator Registered User regular
    Yea
    There is the issue that we have a deadline (emphasis on the dead, as in these forums are destined for the scrapheap) for all of this. At some point a call has to be made and we have to move on.

  • MorninglordMorninglord I'm tired of being Batman, so today I'll be Owl.Registered User regular
    edited December 2024
    Yea
    Connectedness combined three earlier values from a previous draft into one: communication, discourse, accessibility.

    We started with way too many values and started folding them into each other, reducing it down to 5-6, which is standard best practice for a document of this type.

    No value is allowed to supersede another value. Connectedness cannot result in preventing you from blocking users, because that contravenes safety, another value.

    Privacy was folded into safety, because, again, its the same value in the end. Anything that contravenes privacy also contravenes safety.

    No value can counteract any other. No value is more important than any other.

    Values interact. If you are looking at them alone, I'm sorry to say you have misunderstood them, and, indeed, this entire document. Which I'm going to put down to a miscommunication on our part, as so far I have seen nothing, no point, no objection, that the values can't cover.

    edit:

    This is the original draft list, which was distilled from the principles in the current rules thread, with some others added.

    Community-led
    Communication
    Accessible
    Discourse
    Privacy
    Artistry
    Fairness
    Safety
    Empathy
    Accountability
    Adaptability

    After this was distilled down by folding redundant values into each other to make the current ones, empathy was added by the TT team.

    Morninglord on
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  • MorninglordMorninglord I'm tired of being Batman, so today I'll be Owl.Registered User regular
    Yea
    I would like to see a few words of clarification added for some of the values in the future, but for now, I think these are mostly self evident, as long as you understand they cannot be taken alone. They work as a team.
    Can you really say that connectedness without safety, equity and empathy is a real connection between people?
    Is it safe and equitable to allow literally all forms of self-expression without any accountability?
    And so on.

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  • [Deleted User][Deleted User] regular
    edited December 2024
    Yea
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  • MorninglordMorninglord I'm tired of being Batman, so today I'll be Owl.Registered User regular
    edited December 2024
    Yea
    I have never seen a forum transition put this much time, effort and thoughtfulness into trying to make the community as good as they can make it as here.

    Normally they just make the place, slap the rules down, and that's it. That's all you get.

    I feel for you if you missed out, but, sadly, you missed out. It's a consequence of limited time. We cannot keep arguing about this ad infinitum, there's a lot more to do.

    But don't worry, this document here? This document already has written into it that changes can be made later. The one that everyone has agreed to is not the iron hand of the law for all time, or anything like it.

    And there will be plenty of time to hash out whatever you want to hash out.

    Morninglord on
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  • EddyEddy Gengar the Bittersweet Registered User regular
    edited December 2024
    Nay

    No value is allowed to supersede another value. Connectedness cannot result in preventing you from blocking users, because that contravenes safety, another value.

    No value can counteract any other. No value is more important than any other.

    Values interact. If you are looking at them alone, I'm sorry to say you have misunderstood them, and, indeed, this entire document.

    These statements all contradict one another. Unless I'm misunderstanding what you mean by "supersede", "contravene", and "counteract". These statements are saying that Safety is more important/prioritized than Connectedness.

    I don't think I've misunderstood the document. I think I have a different interpretation of the document. I don't think any value's definition can be considered "self-evident", even within the context of other values (and saying that a value is both self-evident and reliant on / modified by other contextual values seems circular). The text stands alone. If you have to explain to me both whether and how the values are supposed to interact, then do that in the opening to the Values.

    Eddy on
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  • MorninglordMorninglord I'm tired of being Batman, so today I'll be Owl.Registered User regular
    edited December 2024
    Yea
    No it's saying you can't push connectedness so far that you make things unsafe, which, in your case would be being unable to block people. But safety can't be taken too far, as that would prevent all interactions between two people that could be accidentally or unintentionally seen as offensive, so then you interfere with connectedness (for example, maximum safety would cut out all friendly teasing, which is a natural way humans connect with each other).

    You'll find an example of how the values interact in the principles directly below them. Those numbers are the values. You can see from there how multiple values interacted to generate each principle.

    Essentially they all push and pull on each other, so if you Reductio ad absurdum one of them, the others will pull it back from that extreme. There was an attempt to explain this in the introduction in general, but I'll grant that perhaps an example would have been better. But I didn't want people bogged down with details and was afraid they'd focus on that one example.

    Morninglord on
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  • YellowhammerYellowhammer Registered User regular
    Yea
    Eddy wrote: »

    No value is allowed to supersede another value. Connectedness cannot result in preventing you from blocking users, because that contravenes safety, another value.

    No value can counteract any other. No value is more important than any other.

    Values interact. If you are looking at them alone, I'm sorry to say you have misunderstood them, and, indeed, this entire document.

    These statements all contradict one another. Unless I'm misunderstanding what you mean by "supersede", "contravene", and "counteract". These statements are saying that Safety is more important/prioritized than Connectedness.

    I don't think I've misunderstood the document. I think I have a different interpretation of the document. I don't think any value's definition can be considered "self-evident", even within the context of other values (and saying that a value is both self-evident and reliant on / modified by other contextual values seems circular). The text stands alone. If you have to explain to me both whether and how the values are supposed to interact, then do that in the opening to the Values.

    No value can be absolute in a society. There is free Speech, but you cannot yell fire in a crowded theater. There is an attempt to explain how the various values interact, compliment, and limit each other. There will always be an edgecase, and I'm sure the rules will be amended and changed as time goes on, just like any other place with rules and laws. But if this is a list of things that are important to our community, I feel pretty good about it. It's not perfect, but it's very thoughtful.

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  • discriderdiscrider Registered User regular
    Yea
    Privacy was folded into safety, because, again, its the same value in the end. Anything that contravenes privacy also contravenes safety.

    ...
    I don't think this is true.

    I've been in situations where it's been safety vs privacy.
    And I'm not sure what it means if privacy is not a value then.
    Would it just mean we're happy to breach privacy to keep users safe?

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  • ToxTox I kill threads Dilige, et quod vis facRegistered User regular
    edited December 2024
    Yea
    I mean, to a degree yes, and to a degree no, and again to a degree yes.

    Privacy is important, but we're still gonna track IP addresses in an attempt to increase safety.

    Safety is important but you don't have to include your full government name to sign up

    Privacy is important, but if you're stalking/harassing another user we're gonna tell folks why you were banned.

    Ultimately, it sounds like the choice will be to prioritize safety over privacy in such cases where privacy is genuinely not as important as safety and where such priorities will meaningfully help.

    cursededit - kinda like how when you fly United, Service is their passion but Safety is their priority

    Tox on
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  • MorninglordMorninglord I'm tired of being Batman, so today I'll be Owl.Registered User regular
    edited December 2024
    Yea
    You also can't have too many values or things get messy and the power of them are lost. You can't litigate that you have every single value under the sun, that's just having rules, but privacy was originally one of the values and it's not been lost it's just been made not so redundant.

    So privacy was folded into safety because the spirit of the issue, that we don't dox, harrass, go after people in real life, that peoples thoughts here don't end up attached to their real name by anyones actions, that we don't pry and try to find out as that could put people at risk, all of that gets covered.

    Weird edge cases are, unfortunately, beyond the scope of an internet forum, and so we are not having privacy as a sole value as that puts too much focus on it over other things.

    We had to agonise a lot over which values we kept and which we folded in or let go, which ones we made explicit and which ones we had to have be implicit. Privacy was one of the implicit ones, inside safety. I can't really see any genuine reasonable issue involving privacy on an internet forum that another combination of value plus safety can't cover. If you would like privacy to be absolute, well, that isn't going to happen. We are, as tox said, going to be tracking IP addresses.

    I also want to point out that these are all fairly bog standard values you will get in a lot of companies, community organisations, governments, local governments, in their values, coc or strategic plans. I actually looked at several local councils public facing documentation to help guide my approach.

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  • FalloutFallout ( ๑‾̀◡‾́)σ" Registered User regular
    Trolling allowance as a stretch goal?

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  • Commander ZoomCommander Zoom Registered User regular
    Fallout wrote: »
    Trolling allowance as a stretch goal?

    Selling indulgences, a fine tradition (and revenue model)...

  • FencingsaxFencingsax It is difficult to get a man to understand, when his salary depends upon his not understanding GNU Terry PratchettRegistered User regular
    edited December 2024
    Yea
    As a reminder, these are all people of this community, who value this community, and want to see it continue, while also witnessing how the last... decade or so has been a real asshole and certain things should improve.

    I think they collectively have earned the benefit of the doubt.

    Fencingsax on
  • USBPoetUSBPoet Stuck in the permafrost Chicago, ILRegistered User regular
    Yea
    Looks good to me. I'm glad there's a specific section talking about marginalised voices; the other forums I've been on have been a little less civil w/r/t gay people and poc in general.

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  • spool32spool32 Contrary Library Registered User, Transition Team regular
    Yea
    Drez wrote: »
    crime cannot be legal due to isaac asimov's 3rd law of robotics: Do Unto Others As You Would Have Robots Do So Under Thee To Thou

    Drez you're confusing this with Assimov's 3rd law of robotic sex

  • V1mV1m Registered User regular
    Yea
    spool32 wrote: »
    Drez wrote: »
    crime cannot be legal due to isaac asimov's 3rd law of robotics: Do Unto Others As You Would Have Robots Do So Under Thee To Thou

    Drez you're confusing this with Assimov's 3rd law of robotic sex

    "I like big boot-sectors and I cannot lie"?

  • scorozscoroz Registered User regular
    Yea

  • DrezDrez I’m exactly the same in real life Registered User regular
    Bzzt-whirr for me, daddy

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  • FishmanFishman Put your goddamned hand in the goddamned Box of Pain. Registered User regular
    Yea
    Voting closing soon, on the off chance anyone was sitting on voting and hadn't yet done so.

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  • zagdrobzagdrob Registered User regular
    edited December 2024
    Yea
    Please if you disagree post why before it closes.

    Any input is going to be seriously considered.

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  • minor incidentminor incident publicly subsidized! privately profitable!Registered User, Transition Team regular
    Yea
    VOTING IS OFFICIALLY CLOSED

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    As of the closing bell, our vote totals are as follows:

    Yea: 427 (96.39%)
    Nay: 16 (3.61%)


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    The ratification vote PASSES.

    The Values and Code of Conduct as presented here, dated December 18th, have been accepted as the official initial version for Coin Return.


    Thank you to everyone who turned out and voted. Your voices are appreciated and heard. Please stay tuned for future discussions and votes regarding Forum Rules and other governance decisions in the coming weeks and months.

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