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Public Intox and AA

JPArbiterJPArbiter Registered User regular
edited June 2007 in Help / Advice Forum
Ok I got arrested for Public Intox four weeks ago. Finally got a hearing going and the judge told me if I wanted to get the incident stricken from my record, I had to attedn AA meetings for a month. what is the problem?

AA is a cleverly disguised religous institution rather then an actual recovery agency. small subproblem is that I do not have an addiction to alchohol, just had a wild night.

the twelve steps as I see them are as follows

admit your an asshole, and can not change the fact
start believing in God
Ask God to stop making you an asshole
make a list of all the reasons you are an asshole
confess to the world and God of your asshollishness
Admit you want to stop being an asshole
ask God to forgive you being an asshole
make a list of all the people you have been an asshole too
Apologize to said people for being an asshole
continue to keep track of your asshole inventory
thank God for helping you not being an asshole
Stop being an asshole and encourgae other people to stop being assholes as well. hang out with former assholes.

a lot of God in there and I am an Athiest. I objected to the judge that she can not give such a reccomendation to me on constitutuional grounds. Offered community service or even going to a different group called "Rational Recovery" which teaches you self discipline and science instead of cop outs and religon. the judge will not have it though.

I have two options, I have a local ACLU guy willing to take the case pro bono, or I can walk around with a public intox arrest on my record. I REFUSE to attend AA

what should I do?

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  • ThanatosThanatos Registered User regular
    edited June 2007
    I'm not entirely sure, but fairly certain this has been fought out before... You should check FindLaw for precedents (I'm at work right now, otherwise I would).

    What kind of time do you have, and how willing are you to go through with this? Personally, I'm fairly familiar with the issue, and I'd like to see less of AA being thrown around in cases like this (so would AA, actually) because of the religious indoctrination issue.

    The easy way out is just to take it and show up for the meetings.

    Thanatos on
  • MildQuixoticMildQuixotic ClubPA regular
    edited June 2007
    Suck it up, ive' been going to AA meetings since I was three. And I am an
    Atheist and not even an alcoholic.

    You just have to drop pretenses and make it about the people around you, you will get
    NOTHING without participation. If nothing else, its an excercise in meeting new people
    with generally colorful and varied backgrounds (you'd be surprised)

    One other thing. It works. You may not be an Alcoholic at all, but I know that
    this program saves lives. Its not for everyone, but it DOES work.

    Also I don't know what AA meetings you are going to but the "higher power" concept
    can be entirely transcendental of normal religion, but it can certainly be read too far into.
    Keep an open mind

    MildQuixotic on
  • kaliyamakaliyama Left to find less-moderated fora Registered User regular
    edited June 2007
    JPArbiter wrote: »
    Ok I got arrested for Public Intox four weeks ago. Finally got a hearing going and the judge told me if I wanted to get the incident stricken from my record, I had to attedn AA meetings for a month. what is the problem?

    AA is a cleverly disguised religous institution rather then an actual recovery agency. small subproblem is that I do not have an addiction to alchohol, just had a wild night.

    the twelve steps as I see them are as follows

    admit your an asshole, and can not change the fact
    start believing in God
    Ask God to stop making you an asshole
    make a list of all the reasons you are an asshole
    confess to the world and God of your asshollishness
    Admit you want to stop being an asshole
    ask God to forgive you being an asshole
    make a list of all the people you have been an asshole too
    Apologize to said people for being an asshole
    continue to keep track of your asshole inventory
    thank God for helping you not being an asshole
    Stop being an asshole and encourgae other people to stop being assholes as well. hang out with former assholes.

    a lot of God in there and I am an Athiest. I objected to the judge that she can not give such a reccomendation to me on constitutuional grounds. Offered community service or even going to a different group called "Rational Recovery" which teaches you self discipline and science instead of cop outs and religon. the judge will not have it though.

    I have two options, I have a local ACLU guy willing to take the case pro bono, or I can walk around with a public intox arrest on my record. I REFUSE to attend AA

    what should I do?

    No one here is qualified to give legal advice, so this is all just people's personal opinions - so i would weight what an actual lawyer says over one of us.

    That said, by far the easiest thing to do is to take the AA. But this is a public intoxication charge - not as far as I know, a big deal. If it was a DUI i'd say to take the AA in a heartbeat. If you're not worried about employment issues (this should be minor, but i don't know what MO is like or wha tfield you're in i.), i say fight it and see if you can get good any good precedent on the books - at least allowing the rational recovery option. if you can do AA but not RR it sounds like its also an equal protection claim versus a traditional establishment claim. But you should be doing this not to get rid of the AA charge but because you want to improve constitutional law.

    IMO, don't bother messing with findlaw - let the ACLU guy do the legal work. Choosing to fight it given who has been making judicial appointments will almost certainly not result in the charge being stricken, and if you win it will certainly not in be the near term. Lawsuits take a long time to wind their way through the federal district and appellate court process. Luckily your role in this thing seems fairly limited - you probably wouldn't have to make a lot of court appearances of whatever.

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  • themightypuckthemightypuck MontanaRegistered User regular
    edited June 2007
    Er pretty easy answer. Pro bono. (or even better just go to AA--think of it like a punishment as opposed to a cure).

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  • ThanatosThanatos Registered User regular
    edited June 2007
    Suck it up, ive' been going to AA meetings since I was three. And I am an
    Atheist and not even an alcoholic.

    You just have to drop pretenses and make it about the people around you, you will get
    NOTHING without participation. If nothing else, its an excercise in meeting new people
    with generally colorful and varied backgrounds (you'd be surprised)

    One other thing. It works. You may not be an Alcoholic at all, but I know that
    this program saves lives. Its not for everyone, but it DOES work.

    Also I don't know what AA meetings you are going to but the "higher power" concept
    can be entirely transcendental of normal religion, but it can certainly be read too far into.
    Keep an open mind
    This is pretty much bullshit. I mean, if you're the type of person who decides "I need to quit drinking, and I need a higher power to do it," yeah, AA is great. But it is a religious organization, and court-mandated attendence doesn't do much to help you if you're not one of those people. One of my friends who got a couple DUIs had to go, and he said that it mostly depressed him, and made him want to drink.

    And JP, according to Wiki, the two court rulings it listed were by appeals courts, and both were in favor of the person not wanting to attend AA. The Supreme Court denied certiori on both, meaning that they couldn't get 4 justices who thought it was non-religious enough to hear the case. Based on that, if it's accurate, I'd say you'd win.

    Thanatos on
  • OdiniousOdinious regular
    edited June 2007
    I don't know why you would think that you would magically turn into some kind of different person if you attended 4-5 meetings. I would just eat it: go to the meetings, and be done with it. The judge is doing you a favor, even if you aren't an alcoholic.

    Odinious on
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    edited June 2007
    I'll point out that AA differs significantly from region to region. I've heard that in the midwest (I see that you're in Missouri, JP) it is significantly more religious than in the "blue" states. Here in San Francisco AA meetings don't mention God at all - they talk about your "higher power" and they make a big deal about your "higher power" can be anything - family, community, a belief in your ideal self, whatever. But I know somebody who used to live in St. Louis and participated in AA and said that many AA meetings there were unadulterated Jesus-fests.

    I'll also point out that if you talked to judge the way you phrased your OP, you fucked up. "I objected to the judge that she can not give such a reccomendation to me on constitutuional grounds." Never ever ever tell a judge what he or she can or cannot do, and especially don't try to appeal to your constitutional rights. It just pisses them off. Let your lawyer argue with the judge, that's what they're there for. If you must address the judge personally, ask nicely and politely if you can please have alternate arrangements. Pretend you're Oliver Twist asking for gruel. "Please sir, may I have community service?"

    Anyway, take the ACLU lawyer. The worst that could happen is that you'd have to go to AA anyway.

    Feral on
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  • ThanatosThanatos Registered User regular
    edited June 2007
    Odinious wrote: »
    I don't know why you would think that you would magically turn into some kind of different person if you attended 4-5 meetings. I would just eat it: go to the meetings, and be done with it. The judge is doing you a favor, even if you aren't an alcoholic.
    o_O

    How is the judge doing him a favor?

    Thanatos on
  • GlaealGlaeal Registered User regular
    edited June 2007
    Is there any particular reason why you can't have that on your record? Unless the rest of your record is particularly bad and you can't afford to have another offense, like for a security clearance, I don't see how this would be that big a deal. It's just a misdemeanor, right?

    Glaeal on
  • DocDoc Registered User, ClubPA regular
    edited June 2007
    Thanatos wrote: »
    Odinious wrote: »
    I don't know why you would think that you would magically turn into some kind of different person if you attended 4-5 meetings. I would just eat it: go to the meetings, and be done with it. The judge is doing you a favor, even if you aren't an alcoholic.
    o_O

    How is the judge doing him a favor?

    Having the arrest stricken from his record is a pretty good favor.

    Doc on
  • ThanatosThanatos Registered User regular
    edited June 2007
    Doc wrote: »
    Thanatos wrote: »
    Odinious wrote: »
    I don't know why you would think that you would magically turn into some kind of different person if you attended 4-5 meetings. I would just eat it: go to the meetings, and be done with it. The judge is doing you a favor, even if you aren't an alcoholic.
    o_O

    How is the judge doing him a favor?
    Having the arrest stricken from his record is a pretty good favor.
    Is it even a misdemeanor, or just a violation?

    I mean, that's pretty much par for the course for someone getting hit with public intoxication who has a clean record. It's not really a "favor" so much as "to be expected."

    Thanatos on
  • Arch Guru XXArch Guru XX Registered User regular
    edited June 2007
    I'd take the pro bono if I were you - what do you have to lose? If you lose you'll have to attend some AA sessions, but I would regard this as a reasonable price to drop the charge. I can't speak to your state, but in northern Virgina (where my father attended meetings) the focus was on helping alcoholics by using the 12 steps as a framework for assistance. There was not a rampant desire to make every attendee accept Christ as their personal savior. In my opinion, any Alcoholic who dismisses AA out of hand due to the religious connection is doing themselves a tremendous disservice. It's not for everyone, but it absolutely can help. Heck, you might be able to try several different meetings to find the one near you with the least level of religious overtones.

    Arch Guru XX on
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  • ThanatosThanatos Registered User regular
    edited June 2007
    I'd take the pro bono if I were you - what do you have to lose? If you lose you'll have to attend some AA sessions, but I would regard this as a reasonable price to drop the charge. I can't speak to your state, but in northern Virgina (where my father attended meetings) the focus was on helping alcoholics by using the 12 steps as a framework for assistance. There was not a rampant desire to make every attendee accept Christ as their personal savior. In my opinion, any Alcoholic who dismisses AA out of hand due to the religious connection is doing themselves a tremendous disservice. It's not for everyone, but it absolutely can help. Heck, you might be able to try several different meetings to find the one near you with the least level of religious overtones.
    First of all, he's not an alcoholic. Second of all, AA is, at best, no better than the secular alternatives, so alcoholics aren't doing themselves any favors by specifically going to AA. The pedestal AA gets put on in this country is pretty ridiculous.

    Thanatos on
  • Arch Guru XXArch Guru XX Registered User regular
    edited June 2007
    Thanatos wrote: »
    I'd take the pro bono if I were you - what do you have to lose? If you lose you'll have to attend some AA sessions, but I would regard this as a reasonable price to drop the charge. I can't speak to your state, but in northern Virgina (where my father attended meetings) the focus was on helping alcoholics by using the 12 steps as a framework for assistance. There was not a rampant desire to make every attendee accept Christ as their personal savior. In my opinion, any Alcoholic who dismisses AA out of hand due to the religious connection is doing themselves a tremendous disservice. It's not for everyone, but it absolutely can help. Heck, you might be able to try several different meetings to find the one near you with the least level of religious overtones.
    First of all, he's not an alcoholic. Second of all, AA is, at best, no better than the secular alternatives, so alcoholics aren't doing themselves any favors by specifically going to AA. The pedestal AA gets put on in this country is pretty ridiculous.

    I agree with you, the only thing I think AA probably has over other recovery methods is the raw number of groups. Obviously the OP is not in a position where AA is the only game in town, but I can certainly imagine there being places in the US where if you don't want to use AA you have no other options. If you're an alcoholic seeking help I think you should basically find help any way you can. But not every system works for everybody, and refusing AA (or any other system, really) without trying it doesn't make a lot of sense to me if you need help. That's not to say that every alcoholic should try AA first, but I would at least leave the option open if I were in that situation, and I'm extremely uncomfortable with religion in general.

    Question to the OP - what is the schedule of sessions you would have to attend? Once weekly for a month? Every day? The frequency might impact advice, since 'suck it up and take it' is a lot more reasonable for four hour-long classes than it is if the judges wants you to go twice daily for a month.

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    Should have been a rock star.
  • JPArbiterJPArbiter Registered User regular
    edited June 2007
    10 sessions once a week

    and in my hometown public intox is merely a violation, I just would like it striken because of my work involving the finnacial universe

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