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Blond Bomshells with Boyfriends
Zonugal
(He/Him) The Holiday ArmadilloI'm Santa's representative for all the southern states. And Mexico!Registered User, Transition Team regular
(He/Him) The Holiday ArmadilloI'm Santa's representative for all the southern states. And Mexico!Registered User, Transition Team regular
Hello fine gents and ladies.
So I find myself in the position of always flirting with a blonde bomshell who has a boyfriend. It is not as if I go after those who aren't single but every single woman I flirt with who has blond hair has a boyfriend (the time this information hits my ears depends on the amount of flirting).
So I have to ask, anyway to get around this problem?
So I find myself in the position of always flirting with a blonde bomshell who has a boyfriend. It is not as if I go after those who aren't single but every single woman I flirt with who has blond hair has a boyfriend (the time this information hits my ears depends on the amount of flirting).
So I have to ask, anyway to get around this problem?
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I thought that was only a term for women.
It's a serious problem which needs some serious help I think.
Haha...
Don't. Even. Bother.
Move on. Find someone else.
Not worth the drama.
So Quit?
Alright, let's say these single blond bombshells exist (hypothetically), how do I tell if they are in a relationship?
It's times like this I wish there was a relationship ring, much like the wedding ring...
And frankly, if you have to ask how, you can't.
Um.
Ask them?
"So, you got a boyfriend?"
"Are you with somebody?"
or one of those cheesy lines that implies she has a boyfriend cuz oh gosh she's so gorgeous and depending on her answer you gauge whether or not she has a boyfriend.
Every girl, every relationship is different.
I act real chummy with my guy friends and with my best friend it looks like I'm dating him because we're so close. The majority of my friends are dudes, too, so I know to an outsider it looks like I'm dating one of them.
Guys usually come up, flirt, and casually ask.
The ones that don't, they just miss out.
It's not like I find out they have a boyfriend and want to break them up, but it really has become irritating that every girl I find interest in turns out to be taken.
Keep looking.
I guess...
What the hell else do you expect us to tell you, "invest in Rohypnol"?
What, pray tell, would that be?
(you could probably guess, though.)
Indeed.
Has anybody else ever had the problem of only being attracted to girls that you later find to be in a relationship?
This, in itself, makes the idea of you flirting with 'blond bombshells' highly suspect.
And who says bombshells anymore?
Bombshells, pray tell?
What are you?
50 and english?
What if I was? I'm not, but what if?
'course, I'm willing to bet most of these women are just trying to get you to fuck off.
Nope.... All of them actually do have boyfriends...
It can be frustrating, but thats just the way it goes. There's no point obsessing about it or being all melodramatic and saying "why does it always happen to me?!?!"
There's no magic way to know. Sometimes people like to flirt when they are unavailable, everybody likes to feel wanted.
Its just timing and luck.
Best advice yet, thank you.
So you've stalked them until you see them kiss another dude, or do you just take what they say and assume that it is absolute truth? Your choices here are being incredibly creepy or being incredibly naive.
No. There is no magical indicator for you to find out without talking to them that they have a boyfriend. Stop wishing/asking for one and deal with it. Just talk to them and find out whether or not they have a boyfriend by, you know, asking them. If you plan on getting involved with them, a question as simple as that should be simple to ask or hint at... if it's not then are you like 13 or something?
Anyways just talk to them and find out their status. It sounds like you might be doing this already, in which case you are already good on what to do but are complaining that it isn't working. Well, sucks for you I guess.
It's not that which I am afraid/angry about.
It's more about the fact that lately I have only become attracted to women who I find out later all have boyfriends.
I'm as old as I feel, and I feel great.
That is what you are saying.
If you feel that's what I am saying, sure.
There's plenty of single women out there, just keep looking.
You already know all this though. You've recieved the correct advice multiple times in this thread and keep challenging it and asking for some magical out that just doesn't exist (and you know it doesn't, it's written all over your posts and the way you phrase them). It can be frustrating when it seems that every girl you talk to is seeing someone, and it does feel good to vent, but H/A isn't the place for venting. Also it seems silly to me to limit yourself based on something as trivial as hair-colour, particularly when so many blondes aren't actually blondes. But that one's your call to make.
tl,dr; STFU, if you don't like the advice you get in H/A you don't have to take it but this subforum doesn't exist as a place for people to keep telling everyone who tries to help them to fuck off until they tell you what you want to hear.