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Not much to say about this, other than that would be horrible.
Unless these parents are some psychotics who bounce around rehab and homeless shelters or something.
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Even the most abusive, mentally ill, or drug-addicted parents can believe themselves to be perfectly capable of caring for their children. And they'll all curse social services and tell everybody they know that the actions of CPS were wholly unjustified and damn the nanny state and its overbearing goons. That doesn't mean they're even remotely right.
As far as I'm concerned, the entire case hinges on this:
"A personality disorder" could represent the entire spectrum from mild borderline personality disorder all the way to schizoid personality disorder. The actions of social services could be perfectly justified or they could be absolutely disgusting, but without knowing more information about the mother, I'd be hesitant to jump to any conclusions.
the "no true scotch man" fallacy.
My thoughts as well. There's NO mention of quota's either in the article or the tape itself, and I'd be willing to call that pure hyperbole until I see evidence that states otherwise. We are only hearing half the story about Social Services seeking an injunction to put a child into care as soon as possible once it is born because they feel there is a very significant risk to the welfare of the child. They still have to go through the court system in order to do so, and they may still be rejected if the courts deem this to be an unnecessary measure. Beyond this we don't know any of the background information necessary to judge.
From listening to the recording, it's pretty clear that the lady involved isn't arguing with him at any stage about them going forward with this procedure, or why they're going through with this procedure. There's very little background information given at all. Mainly they talk about the breastfeeding arrangements. She's clearly emotional about this, but that's all you can get from the tape. Plus the tape even cuts off before they've even finished talking with the advisor. Makes it difficult to get any decent context from what could be half a conversation.
Sorry, I don't buy it. At the very least I certainly don't believe there's any sort of quota system at work. Whether or not she should have her child placed into protection depends on the specifics of the case at hand, none of which are addressed.
Though I am still wholly in agreement with Feral. It depends on what her disorder is. Also, I'm curious as to why the father is not being considered capable unless they are simply refusing to let the child reside in the same home as the mother.
...thanks!
Anyway, social services have a tough time. They either do too much, or not enough. For every report like this there's ten like this.
I had the windows in my old office open one Friday afternoon in the summer and I heard someone down the street swearing like a sailor. Since it beats working I walked outside and looked. It was a child services worker "M-er F-er-ing" some lady she was investigating or working with. The worker was just standing on the sidewalk letting loose a torrent of profanit at the lady, who was looking out an upstairs window at her.
It's not a job I'd want and 99% of the people you deal with are probably worthless shits but the people who complain about the police here would have a stroke if they saw some of the stuff that goes on with social services.
I'm not saying that it's your fault or that you're one of those people. I'm saying that there is a point somewhere between "knife control" "beer bottle control" and "boot control" where things are horribly horribly wrong.
So that comment wasn't actually a joke, and you intended it to be partially serious?
You use a complaint about UK social services as an excuse to lambast an entire country, and then your next post acknowledges that American social services aren't all peachy-keen either?
Congratulations, you've just magically managed to invalidate everything you've ever said or will ever say. Dick.