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Gay epithets in Penny Arcade

kongpl8kongpl8 __BANNED USERS regular
edited October 2007 in Debate and/or Discourse
Gabe and Tycho,
I just found your comic strip. At first I loved it. In fact, I thought I had found a new home. Your writing and commentary on the shared experiences of gamers gave me a sense of belonging, but then I continued to read your strip and saw instances where the two of you used “gay”, “queer”, “homo” and similar epithets in your writing. That’s not uncommon, but most writers include a foil – some character that puts the joke in perspective. Since you don’t do that, I doubted my first impression about you.
Me: I am a gamer. And I am a gay gamer, too. I would like to think I am simply ignored by developers and players, but in order to be ignored, my existence would have to first be acknowledged. I play the same video games you guys do – I face the same challenges and meet the same fictional characters. Despite that, I am not accepted into your group.
If you want to be a truly brilliant comic, stick to what makes your fans laugh – the bizarre world of gaming. Trash-talking is part of that world, but you don’t need to use epithets. X-Play’s “It Came from X-Box Live” segment does a great job of spoofing smack-talk. Most of the actual dialog is bleeped – maybe that’s why it’s so funny.
To sum up – I really want to like Penny Arcade – it’s made me laugh at myself. But after reading back through it a couple of years, I realize that even in the sub-culture of gamers there are cliques and places guarded by velvet ropes.

Last word: In your lifetime, at least one friend you have is gay/lesbian. If you never hear about it, it’s probably because they don’t trust you. Stand up for them because being neutral about an issue doesn’t help.

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  • _J__J_ Pedant Registered User, __BANNED USERS regular
    edited October 2007
    kongpl8 wrote: »
    If you want to be a truly brilliant comic, stick to what makes your fans laugh

    Making fun of gays makes us laugh.

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  • SamSam Registered User regular
    edited October 2007
    lol

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  • arod_77arod_77 __BANNED USERS regular
    edited October 2007
    I don't understand nor buy this sectionalism.

    Be a gamer. Great. You're with us.

    I don't see what orientation has to do with a hobby like this to be blunt

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  • kongpl8kongpl8 __BANNED USERS regular
    edited October 2007
    Why?

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  • DogDog Registered User, Administrator, Vanilla Staff admin
    edited October 2007
    _J_ wrote: »
    kongpl8 wrote: »
    If you want to be a truly brilliant comic, stick to what makes your fans laugh

    Making fun of gays makes us laugh.


    perhaps I should salmon this quote? :winky:

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  • NORNOR Registered User regular
    edited October 2007
    uhg, this yeah... uhg

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  • seancseanc Registered User regular
    edited October 2007
    You do realize they dont read the forums right?

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  • kongpl8kongpl8 __BANNED USERS regular
    edited October 2007
    Did you read my post? I just told you what being gay (not an orientation) has to do with it.

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  • ChurchChurch Registered User regular
    edited October 2007
    The use of words in an atrophied sense does not equate to persecution. If Gabe and Tycho hated gays, we wouldn't have as many of them floating around the forums as we do.

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  • kongpl8kongpl8 __BANNED USERS regular
    edited October 2007
    Of course they don't. I was being cathartic.

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  • kongpl8kongpl8 __BANNED USERS regular
    edited October 2007
    An epithet hurts people. It may not hurt you, but it hurts someone. That's why it's called an epithet.

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  • KetherialKetherial Registered User regular
    edited October 2007
    as far as i know, tycho and gabe hardly ever read the forums. send them an email if it really distresses you.

    edit: beat'd

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  • _J__J_ Pedant Registered User, __BANNED USERS regular
    edited October 2007
    kongpl8 wrote: »
    X-Play’s “It Came from X-Box Live” segment does a great job of spoofing smack-talk. Most of the actual dialog is bleeped – maybe that’s why it’s so funny.

    Here's the real problem, folks. kong things X-play is funny.

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  • KalTorakKalTorak One way or another, they all end up in the Undercity.Registered User regular
    edited October 2007
    For the most part, I think most of the gay-"bashing" comes from Gabe's character, who is consistently shown to be the stupid one. Putting ignorant speech in the mouth of a stupid character does not validate the stupid speech - quite the opposite, in fact. Kind of like in "Chasing Amy" when Jason Lee's character says that all every lesbian needs is "a good deep-dicking."

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  • ChurchChurch Registered User regular
    edited October 2007
    kongpl8 wrote: »
    An epithet hurts people. It may not hurt you, but it hurts someone. That's why it's called an epithet.

    Yeah, I get that. But the fact that it hurts you does not mean you're being persecuted.

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  • _J__J_ Pedant Registered User, __BANNED USERS regular
    edited October 2007
    Church wrote: »
    kongpl8 wrote: »
    An epithet hurts people. It may not hurt you, but it hurts someone. That's why it's called an epithet.

    Yeah, I get that. But the fact that it hurts you does not mean you're being persecuted.

    Or that other homosexuals lack a sense of humor.

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  • ChurchChurch Registered User regular
    edited October 2007
    J, you're not helping, God damnit.

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  • NORNOR Registered User regular
    edited October 2007
    Church wrote: »
    kongpl8 wrote: »
    An epithet hurts people. It may not hurt you, but it hurts someone. That's why it's called an epithet.

    Yeah, I get that. But the fact that it hurts you does not mean you're being persecuted.

    Good luck with this line of logic, while I agree with it and it is the correct one I really must say good luck.

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  • kongpl8kongpl8 __BANNED USERS regular
    edited October 2007
    I didn't write that I was being persecuted. I said that even in the sub-culture of gamers there are cliques.

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  • seancseanc Registered User regular
    edited October 2007
    kongpl8 wrote: »
    Did you read my post? I just told you what being gay (not an orientation) has to do with it.

    I did, but by starting your post "Gabe and Tycho" I assumed that they where your target audience. If you really want them to know what you think I would email them.

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  • arod_77arod_77 __BANNED USERS regular
    edited October 2007
    _J_ wrote: »
    Church wrote: »
    kongpl8 wrote: »
    An epithet hurts people. It may not hurt you, but it hurts someone. That's why it's called an epithet.

    Yeah, I get that. But the fact that it hurts you does not mean you're being persecuted.

    Or that other homosexuals lack a sense of humor.

    Oh god don't be ignorant now

    Plus everyone knows all gay guys are very witty and sharp

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  • ChurchChurch Registered User regular
    edited October 2007
    NOR wrote: »
    Church wrote: »
    kongpl8 wrote: »
    An epithet hurts people. It may not hurt you, but it hurts someone. That's why it's called an epithet.

    Yeah, I get that. But the fact that it hurts you does not mean you're being persecuted.

    Good luck with this line of logic, while I agree with it and it is the correct one I really must say good luck.

    I am ever the diplomat. It is my gift and my curse.

    Kong: If you know they don't care about your sexual orientation, what is the concern?

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  • kongpl8kongpl8 __BANNED USERS regular
    edited October 2007
    Ketherial wrote: »
    as far as i know, tycho and gabe hardly ever read the forums. send them an email if it really distresses you.

    edit: beat'd

    Thanks for the advice, but as I wrote previously, I was being cathartic. I don't care if the writers read my post or not.

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  • durandal4532durandal4532 Registered User regular
    edited October 2007
    When?

    I really can't remember them using any sort of gay epithets.

    Do you have links to the strip so I could understand exactly what you're talking about?

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  • Undead ScottsmanUndead Scottsman Cybertronian Paranormal Eliminator Registered User regular
    edited October 2007
    KalTorak wrote: »
    For the most part, I think most of the gay-"bashing" comes from Gabe's character, who is consistently shown to be the stupid one.

    He's also been shown to be the one who wants to have sex with Spiderman.

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  • ChurchChurch Registered User regular
    edited October 2007
    When?

    I really can't remember them using any sort of gay epithets.

    Do you have links to the strip so I could understand exactly what you're talking about?

    If I recall correctly, it's pretty much exactly as he describes it.

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  • kongpl8kongpl8 __BANNED USERS regular
    edited October 2007
    Kong: If you know they don't care about your sexual orientation, what is the concern?

    I wrote in my first post that there are cliques in gaming. I was expressing my disappointment.

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  • DogDog Registered User, Administrator, Vanilla Staff admin
    edited October 2007
    kongpl8 wrote: »
    Kong: If you know they don't care about your sexual orientation, what is the concern?

    I wrote in my first post that there are cliques in gaming. I was expressing my disappointment.

    there are cliques in everything. I don't know why you expected different.

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  • kongpl8kongpl8 __BANNED USERS regular
    edited October 2007
    KalTorak wrote: »
    For the most part, I think most of the gay-"bashing" comes from Gabe's character, who is consistently shown to be the stupid one.

    He's also been shown to be the one who wants to have sex with Spiderman.

    Yeah, I think scenes like that are hilarious. But an epithet is not funny.

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  • TarranonTarranon Registered User regular
    edited October 2007
    Yes. And you really have yet to demonstrate how their using a word which has very nearly come to be completely disassociated with homosexuality, although I think it's still fair to find it insulting, constitutes cliques that wont let homosexuals play ball with them. virtual video game ball.

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  • monikermoniker Registered User regular
    edited October 2007
    You do realize that homoeroticism fuels a good bit of the interplay and humor, right? Not to mention the inanity of actually being offended by epithets that aren't being directed at you personally. Even then it's rather idiotic to be pissed off at being called gay by a jackass rather than just being pissed at the jackass.

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  • durandal4532durandal4532 Registered User regular
    edited October 2007
    Church wrote: »
    When?

    I really can't remember them using any sort of gay epithets.

    Do you have links to the strip so I could understand exactly what you're talking about?

    If I recall correctly, it's pretty much exactly as he describes it.

    ... Describes it where?

    He says "uses gay epithets", lists some, and then nothing.

    I mean, okay. But I can't for the life of me remember the context...

    One of the grammar buddies comics?

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  • ChurchChurch Registered User regular
    edited October 2007
    kongpl8 wrote: »
    Kong: If you know they don't care about your sexual orientation, what is the concern?

    I wrote in my first post that there are cliques in gaming. I was expressing my disappointment.

    So your disappointment really has nothing to do with the comic.

    You were reminded of the prescence of bigots in the world and... Uh... Either your train of thought got de-railed at that point, or I just lost it completely.

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  • _J__J_ Pedant Registered User, __BANNED USERS regular
    edited October 2007
    kongpl8 wrote: »
    KalTorak wrote: »
    For the most part, I think most of the gay-"bashing" comes from Gabe's character, who is consistently shown to be the stupid one.

    He's also been shown to be the one who wants to have sex with Spiderman.

    Yeah, I think scenes like that are hilarious. But an epithet is not funny.

    Could you link one?

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  • kongpl8kongpl8 __BANNED USERS regular
    edited October 2007

    there are cliques in everything. I don't know why you expected different.

    I didn't expect it to be different. I am griping about a facet of Penny Arcade.

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  • ChurchChurch Registered User regular
    edited October 2007
    kongpl8 wrote: »

    there are cliques in everything. I don't know why you expected different.

    I didn't expect it to be different. I am griping about a facet of Penny Arcade.

    Make less sense.

    Seriously. I'm trying to be understanding. It is my nature. But you have to meet me half-way.

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  • _J__J_ Pedant Registered User, __BANNED USERS regular
    edited October 2007
    kongpl8 wrote: »

    there are cliques in everything. I don't know why you expected different.

    I didn't expect it to be different. I am griping about a facet of Penny Arcade.

    The existence of which you've yet to support with evidence.

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  • IncenjucarIncenjucar VChatter Seattle, WARegistered User regular
    edited October 2007
    kongpl8 wrote: »

    there are cliques in everything. I don't know why you expected different.

    I didn't expect it to be different. I am griping about a facet of Penny Arcade.

    The characters, especially Gabe, is intollerant.

    The creators are decidedly NOT intollerant.

    Are you upset at -fictional characters-?

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  • kongpl8kongpl8 __BANNED USERS regular
    edited October 2007
    Church wrote: »
    kongpl8 wrote: »
    Kong: If you know they don't care about your sexual orientation, what is the concern?

    I wrote in my first post that there are cliques in gaming. I was expressing my disappointment.

    So your disappointment really has nothing to do with the comic.

    You were reminded of the prescence of bigots in the world and... Uh... Either your train of thought got de-railed at that point, or I just lost it completely.

    Geez, did you read my post? ...To sum up – I really want to like Penny Arcade – it’s made me laugh at myself. But after reading back through it a couple of years, I realize that even in the sub-culture of gamers there are cliques and places guarded by velvet ropes.

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  • ChurchChurch Registered User regular
    edited October 2007
    kongpl8 wrote: »
    Church wrote: »
    kongpl8 wrote: »
    Kong: If you know they don't care about your sexual orientation, what is the concern?

    I wrote in my first post that there are cliques in gaming. I was expressing my disappointment.

    So your disappointment really has nothing to do with the comic.

    You were reminded of the prescence of bigots in the world and... Uh... Either your train of thought got de-railed at that point, or I just lost it completely.

    Geez, did you read my post? ...To sum up – I really want to like Penny Arcade – it’s made me laugh at myself. But after reading back through it a couple of years, I realize that even in the sub-culture of gamers there are cliques and places guarded by velvet ropes.

    Yeah, I saw that. Repeating it doesn't serve to clarify the intent or meaning behind it.

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