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I'm having something of an unexpected problem recently with my romantic life...
russelwhite
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Ok, so I just recently got back on the horse and have been successfully dating for about a year now. The problem is that when we get in the sack they are getting off and becoming genuinely sore before I have a chance to finish. I'm an average size in most respects (according to various internet sources such as askallice etc) but after about an hour or so I still haven't finished and they need a break.
I've tried taking extra time doing sort of reverse keigel exercises with them, using toys to help stretch them out a little more, and all sorts of other stuff but I still can't finish quickly enough. It's probably a sensitivity thing on my part more than anything else and so I'm wondering whether or not there's a condom or something that would help out (I've tried all the ultra-thin and other stuff readily available at shoppers drug mart etc...)?
It's happened with the last two girlfriends I've had and I'm starting to get a little frustrated, any help/advice would be appreciated...
I've tried taking extra time doing sort of reverse keigel exercises with them, using toys to help stretch them out a little more, and all sorts of other stuff but I still can't finish quickly enough. It's probably a sensitivity thing on my part more than anything else and so I'm wondering whether or not there's a condom or something that would help out (I've tried all the ultra-thin and other stuff readily available at shoppers drug mart etc...)?
It's happened with the last two girlfriends I've had and I'm starting to get a little frustrated, any help/advice would be appreciated...
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Anyone's going to be sore after an hour. It makes my girly bits sore just to think about it. Chafing and bruising and friction burns, owwww. The max I'd ever want of straight in-and-out sex is half an hour, and that's a marathon session with gallons of lube, and even then I would need a couple days to heal.
You're probably masturbating with a death grip. Loosen your grip and retrain your dick to respond to more subtle sensations, use lube to reduce friction and imitate partnersex, etc. If this doesn't work, have sex with the girl until she's tired, then pull out and get yourself off manually.
(Jeez, really an hour? And they let you back into bed? Those must've been either very forgiving or very masochistic ladies.)
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Also, if you are using condoms when doing the deed, try tossing the dog with a condom on. It helps train your wang to perform properly when needed.
6" long and 5.1" circumference seems to be about average, at least according to most of the internet sources I can find.
I'm seeing her in Alberta next week, so we'll see how the lack of a 'death grip' between now and then helps.
Are you taking any medications, like antidepressants? First time I tried Prozac, I think it was, I had the same problem, with the added bonus of an increased libido.
You can get yourself off easily because you are quite familure with your wang, it's far harder for someone because they can't adjust on the fly like you can. If your nuts are bustin to blow you'll get off a hell of alot quicker than if you just went the tug before you head off to see her.
Also consider discussing a different form of contreception, I have trouble going if I have a cover on my wang as well.
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Kudos to all, you managed to help me salvage our intimicy in no small way.
If so, that could have something to do with it.
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*EDIT* I know it's a real problem and all, I'm not trying to make a joke out of it or anything, but that little immature part of my brain caused me to start cracking up when i read it. I'm sorry, lol.
Stopping masturbating is important, I'm sure. I also wonder whether circumcision (I'm not) plays a part.
Can of worms mate. Half the room says circumcision makes you feel less, and the other half says it makes you feel more. There was a big bitchfest about it in D&D a while back.
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