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A thred about spoilers. [SPOILERS INSIDE!]

noir_bloodnoir_blood Registered User regular
edited November 2007 in Debate and/or Discourse
So spoilers.

What with the interweb, you can't help but run into them. Some people hate them, some people love them. My question is, if someone goes into a thread where something is being discussed, do they have any right to complain when they stumble upon something they personally didn't want to be revealed to them? Yes, it might be common courtesy to hide spoilers under tag, but does anyone have a right to complain about them?

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  • MalkorMalkor Registered User regular
    edited November 2007
    People either slip up, forget or don't care. It sucks that it happens and something gets revealed to you that you didn't want to know about, but you run that risk when people are excitedly talking about something the like.

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  • ElkiElki get busy Moderator, ClubPA Mod Emeritus
    edited November 2007
    Yes, it's OK to complain, because all you need to do to hide a spoiler is a simpler highlight + click. It takes a couple of seconds not to be an asshole, so just do it.

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  • Satan.Satan. __BANNED USERS regular
    edited November 2007
    Malkor wrote: »
    People either slip up, forget or don't care. It sucks that it happens and something gets revealed to you that you didn't want to know about, but you run that risk when people are excitedly talking about something the like.

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  • ElkiElki get busy Moderator, ClubPA Mod Emeritus
    edited November 2007
    Also, total Than-bait.

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  • ThanatosThanatos Registered User regular
    edited November 2007
    noir_blood wrote: »
    So spoilers.

    What with the interweb, you can't help but run into them. Some people hate them, some people love them. My question is, if someone goes into a thread where something is being discussed, do they have any right to complain when they stumble upon something they personally didn't want to be revealed to them? Yes, it might be common courtesy to hide spoilers under tag, but does anyone have a right to complain about them?
    There are people who kick you in the balls out there in the world. You see it in UFC all the time. So, if you're walking down the street, and I walk up to you and kick you in the balls, you don't have any reason to complain, right? Because if you didn't want to be kicked in the balls, you should know better than to walk down the street in a world where there are ball-kickers. I mean, yeah, sure, it might be common courtesy to not kick you in the balls, but do you have a right to complain about it? Sure, there are laws (or, as you might call them in a more general sense, "rules") against kicking you in the balls, and sure, I'm just being a fucking enormous cockwad by doing it in an area where ball-kicking is explicitly forbidden, but do you really have a right to complain about it?
    Elki wrote: »
    Also, total Than-bait.
    Fuck you.

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  • Casual EddyCasual Eddy The Astral PlaneRegistered User regular
    edited November 2007
    It's easy to make a spoiler but reading through 25 pages of

    So is it obvious to anyone else that
    claire is sylar

    especially when I have to click through every damn post. Of course, stuff that hasn't aired yet and is in the process of airing (with a grace period for people in different time zones) should be spoilered, imho.

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  • ThanatosThanatos Registered User regular
    edited November 2007
    It's easy to make a spoiler but reading through 25 pages of

    So is it obvious to anyone else that
    claire is sylar

    especially when I have to click through every damn post. Of course, stuff that hasn't aired yet and is in the process of airing (with a grace period for people in different time zones) should be spoilered, imho.
    To clarify, I don't give a shit about, say, Heroes spoilers in the Heroes thread; I know better than to look there.

    I'm talking about dropping spoilers into random threads that have nothing to do with the thread topic.

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  • templewulftemplewulf The Team Chump USARegistered User regular
    edited November 2007
    It's easy to make a spoiler but reading through 25 pages of

    So is it obvious to anyone else that
    claire is sylar

    especially when I have to click through every damn post. Of course, stuff that hasn't aired yet and is in the process of airing (with a grace period for people in different time zones) should be spoilered, imho.

    You son of a bitch.

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  • _J__J_ Pedant Registered User, __BANNED USERS regular
    edited November 2007
    I think that spoilers, as with everything else in the world, are the responsibility of the people who care. The burden of preventing a user from reading a spoiler ought to fall on that user and not everyone else. If a person goes to the first showing a movie and wants to yell out the ending to all of the people waiting in line for the second showing then good for them; anyone who cared about the ending ought to have been at the first showing.

    I think it is asinine to throw the burden of spoilering things onto the people who don't care as if this were some socialist paradise in which everyone's primary responsibility was someone else. If you don't want to read spoilers then avoid places whereat spoilers may be. It's not my job to pwotect you from spoiwers. It's not my job to take care of you. It's your job to take care of you. Deal with it.

    And don't B.S. about "oh, it's not a burden to spoiler anything that might possibly be a spoiler for anyone, ever." because it fucking is. I don't know what you would consider to be a spoiler. You don't know what I would consider to be a spoiler. So how about we each bear the responsibility for ourselves and if I don't want to know what happens in the most recent House episode I avoid areas in which people talk about House. And if you don't want to know how the final Harry Potter book ended then you avoid areas where people talk about Harry Potter.

    Because otherwise we're in this undefined grey area of "spoiler things that need to be spoilered" without any sensible direction or reasoning or means by which that quality can be assessed.

    Oh, and **Spoilers Edited out**.

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  • MalkorMalkor Registered User regular
    edited November 2007
    Spike...?

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  • _J__J_ Pedant Registered User, __BANNED USERS regular
    edited November 2007
    Malkor wrote: »
    Spike...?
    Cowboy Bebop. And Buffy, come to think of it...

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  • SithDrummerSithDrummer Registered User regular
    edited November 2007
    _J_ wrote: »
    nothing
    Is this a serious post?

    It's about general decency. This isn't Mad Max every-man-for-himself apoco-wasteland. The general rule is that if it costs you nothing to keep from fucking with someone's enjoyment of a story, why make the effort? Why shout out the hero's final fate to a line of people waiting to see the movie?

    It takes minimal effort to put a
    around a twist/important plot point, and unless you simply don't think it reasonable that it will ruin someone's surprise, why wouldn't you go ahead and
    it? Oh, but this is the part you're going to latch onto - the grey area of "what should be spoiled?" - because then you get to play your piddling semantic games and irritate the entire fucking readership of the thread.

    If you don't know where the line is, you just don't know. It's another thing if you simply don't care.

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  • ElkiElki get busy Moderator, ClubPA Mod Emeritus
    edited November 2007
    _J_ wrote: »
    Because otherwise we're in this undefined grey area of "spoiler things that need to be spoilered" without any sensible direction or reasoning or means by which that quality can be assessed.
    _J_ wrote: »
    Spoilers edited

    So, it's not sensible, and yet you knew exactly what kind of 'spoilers' you can use for your joke. Interesting.

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  • Casual EddyCasual Eddy The Astral PlaneRegistered User regular
    edited November 2007
    Fair enough, than.

    However, where do we draw the line? I tend to err on the side of caution when mentioning the ending of a book or something in a random thread, but are we still supposed to spoiler the end of Citizen Kane, and the shocking revelation of just what Rosebud is?

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  • QuidQuid Definitely not a banana Registered User regular
    edited November 2007
    I avoid mentioning most important events in books. And if I start a thread about something that could be spoilered I generally state in the title or OP whether or not spoilers should be used. That said, unless it's specified one way or the other it's just good manners to spoiler most media.

    Quid on
  • ÆthelredÆthelred Registered User regular
    edited November 2007
    Rather than drawing a line anywhere, I wish people would just use the rules already in place: write what your spoilers are going to be about before them.

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  • _J__J_ Pedant Registered User, __BANNED USERS regular
    edited November 2007
    Is this a serious post?

    It's about general decency. This isn't Mad Max every-man-for-himself apoco-wasteland. The general rule is that if it costs you nothing to keep from fucking with someone's enjoyment of a story, why make the effort? Why shout out the hero's final fate to a line of people waiting to see the movie?

    It takes minimal effort to put a
    around a twist/important plot point, and unless you simply don't think it reasonable that it will ruin someone's surprise, why wouldn't you go ahead and
    it? Oh, but this is the part you're going to latch onto - the grey area of "what should be spoiled?" - because then you get to play your piddling semantic games and irritate the entire fucking readership of the thread.

    If you don't know where the line is, you just don't know. It's another thing if you simply don't care.

    Why should an individual spoiler something?

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  • _J__J_ Pedant Registered User, __BANNED USERS regular
    edited November 2007
    Elki wrote: »
    So, it's not sensible, and yet you knew exactly what kind of 'spoilers' you can use for your joke. Interesting.

    Not knowing what to spoiler is not what makes the policy not sensible. What makes the policy not sensible is the idea that somehow individuals are responsible for keeping others from seeing what others do not want to see.

    And, yes, the rules are to use spoiler tags. Which is fine because those are the rules. But in a thread debating the virtue of the rule I think it sensible to debate the virtue of the rule.

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  • Casual EddyCasual Eddy The Astral PlaneRegistered User regular
    edited November 2007
    _J_ wrote: »
    Is this a serious post?

    It's about general decency. This isn't Mad Max every-man-for-himself apoco-wasteland. The general rule is that if it costs you nothing to keep from fucking with someone's enjoyment of a story, why make the effort? Why shout out the hero's final fate to a line of people waiting to see the movie?

    It takes minimal effort to put a
    around a twist/important plot point, and unless you simply don't think it reasonable that it will ruin someone's surprise, why wouldn't you go ahead and
    it? Oh, but this is the part you're going to latch onto - the grey area of "what should be spoiled?" - because then you get to play your piddling semantic games and irritate the entire fucking readership of the thread.

    If you don't know where the line is, you just don't know. It's another thing if you simply don't care.

    Why should an individual spoiler something?

    Common decency?

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  • SithDrummerSithDrummer Registered User regular
    edited November 2007
    ^

    The very second sentence of my post. :-\

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  • _J__J_ Pedant Registered User, __BANNED USERS regular
    edited November 2007
    I don't think decency has anything to do with it.

    If someone asks for a person to not post spoilers about Guitar Hero then, sure, don't post spoilers about Guitar Hero. But the "spoiler spoilers" rule doesn't have any foundation in anything akin to that.

    The rule is basically that there is some nebulous user out there who doesn't want to read any spoilers, and one's task is to prevent that user from being upset by anything one posts.

    So whenever someone posts something they must consider, "Hmm, ok self. Could nebulous user be upset by this? Well, I know how Citizen Kane ends. But perhaps nebulous user has never seen it or any of the thousands of things which have spoofed the movie. So what is the degree to which this needs to be spoilered?"

    I can understand not doing X if someone asks me to not do X provided that X is sensibly defined. But as the spoiler rule exists now it's just a rule founded on faux politeness.

    "Don't post things that may spoil something for someone else."

    That's EVERYTHING.

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  • WashWash Sweet Christmas Registered User regular
    edited November 2007
    Fuck you, J. That spoiler was misleading.

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  • TubeTube Registered User admin
    edited November 2007
    If the thread has SPOILERS INSIDE in the title, I don't expect to have to click a bunch of little fucking spoiler buttons, and if you click on said thread not expecting to see spoilers you are stupid and a cry baby.

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  • LanzLanz ...Za?Registered User regular
    edited November 2007
    _J_ wrote: »
    I think that spoilers, as with everything else in the world, are the responsibility of the people who care. The burden of preventing a user from reading a spoiler ought to fall on that user and not everyone else. If a person goes to the first showing a movie and wants to yell out the ending to all of the people waiting in line for the second showing then good for them; anyone who cared about the ending ought to have been at the first showing.

    Uh, why? What right have you to go and spoil a movie for someone because of some illogical "Well, you should have gotten there right at the first showing, screw whatever else might have kept you from doing that"?

    Seriously, I'm insulted by your assumption that if I or anyone else cared about the ending then we'd have been there at the first showing. Perhaps it was lower on one's priorities than making the first showing? Perhaps they weren't actually able to make it there for some reason?
    _J_ wrote: »
    I think it is asinine to throw the burden of spoilering things onto the people who don't care as if this were some socialist paradise in which everyone's primary responsibility was someone else. If you don't want to read spoilers then avoid places whereat spoilers may be. It's not my job to pwotect you from spoiwers. It's not my job to take care of you. It's your job to take care of you. Deal with it.

    It's not "some socialist paradise" it's not being an asshat to others. And no, it's not your job to "protect" people from spoilers or take care of them. But it is your job to actually act with tact towards others, and that involves not recklessly bandying spoilers about.
    _J_ wrote: »
    And don't B.S. about "oh, it's not a burden to spoiler anything that might possibly be a spoiler for anyone, ever." because it fucking is. I don't know what you would consider to be a spoiler. You don't know what I would consider to be a spoiler. So how about we each bear the responsibility for ourselves and if I don't want to know what happens in the most recent House episode I avoid areas in which people talk about House. And if you don't want to know how the final Harry Potter book ended then you avoid areas where people talk about Harry Potter.

    Because otherwise we're in this undefined grey area of "spoiler things that need to be spoilered" without any sensible direction or reasoning or means by which that quality can be assessed.

    How is it a burden? hell, all it takes to spoiler something on here is to click this "!" icon, click between "][" and start writing the spoiler. or just writing out the spoiler tags which doesn't even take 10 seconds. It's as much a burden as carrying a tissue.

    And maybe, just maybe people are going into those places to talk about other aspects than just the latest episode and their spoilers. Maybe someone wants to talk about House's parallels to sherlock holmes, perhaps someone wants to talk about an older Potter book or movie?

    _J_ wrote: »
    *a bunch of spoilers*

    Any reason you did that, especially including spoilers for a manga/Anime which is only around 4 or 5 episodes in of it's US TV run?

    EDIT: Wow those were a lot of missing words, odd punctuation and confused words

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  • Blake TBlake T Do you have enemies then? Good. That means you’ve stood up for something, sometime in your life.Registered User regular
    edited November 2007
    There has to be an arbitary line drawn.

    I mean not everyone can buy a game as soon as it comes out. One month after it comes out though unless it's a 100+ hour epic RPG 95% of the people posting in the thread know the ending. Really the other 5% shouldn't be in the thread if they don't have it unless they want to ask, "Hey guys, is the game any good?" cause shit the thread is there to talk about the game. If you want to talk about the game maybe you should buy it.

    Personally I find it ridiculous the fact people still post spoilers about Bioshock. Everyone that doesn't want to be spoiled about that game has already played it.

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  • Satan.Satan. __BANNED USERS regular
    edited November 2007
    Honestly, if I don't want to be spoiled about something... I stay my ass away from it. South Park aired at 10 EST (it's about 11 EST here now) and I see the South Park thread is updated. I'm not going in there. Why? Someone is probably talking about this week's episode!

    When the internet went ZOMG GUITAR HERO last week about South Park, I was pissed. I like the surprise every week about what they're going to be covering, it's part of the fun.

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  • _J__J_ Pedant Registered User, __BANNED USERS regular
    edited November 2007
    When the internet went ZOMG GUITAR HERO last week about South Park, I was pissed. I like the surprise every week about what they're going to be covering, it's part of the fun.

    Holy fuck.

    This isn't the 1860s. We don't live in small isolated towns frequented by buggy riding nitwits who forage for berries to sustain life. This is 2007. Information is readily available.

    This. Is. Not. Bad.

    To access the internet and frequent gaming websites and then complain that people are discussing things which interest you is asinine. People on the internet were talking about a South Park episode about Guitar Hero?

    Really? People on the INTERNET were discussing a SOUTH PARK episode about GUITAR HERO? You're shitting me. Who could have fucking seen that coming?

    :roll:

    One cannot have their cake and eat it too. To access the internet and then complain that your pwecious spoiwer hating mind was subject to information about things is little more than retarded and a complete failure on your part to recognize what you're doing.

    If you don't want to read spoilers get the fuck off the internet. That's the only realistic approach to take to avoid spoilers of movies, games, or anything. It's what my friend who doesn't like spoilers does. If a game is coming out which he wants to enjoy on his own without prior knowledge? He avoids information sources like the plague. Because, you see, if he avoids sources of information he is not risking access to information he does not want.

    It's a sensible approach to life.

    Edit: Or maybe I'm just being unreasonable. But, to me, complaining about spoilers on the internet is like complaining about tits at hooters.

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  • Blake TBlake T Do you have enemies then? Good. That means you’ve stood up for something, sometime in your life.Registered User regular
    edited November 2007
    When the internet went ZOMG GUITAR HERO last week about South Park, I was pissed. I like the surprise every week about what they're going to be covering, it's part of the fun.

    Can I ask what exactly did you feel cheated about about that you new the rough topic of South Park? It's like being upset that Assasain's Creed is set in the Crusades, there's more to the goddam story than that.

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  • ThanatosThanatos Registered User regular
    edited November 2007
    _J_ wrote: »
    I don't think decency has anything to do with it.

    If someone asks for a person to not post spoilers about Guitar Hero then, sure, don't post spoilers about Guitar Hero. But the "spoiler spoilers" rule doesn't have any foundation in anything akin to that.

    The rule is basically that there is some nebulous user out there who doesn't want to read any spoilers, and one's task is to prevent that user from being upset by anything one posts.

    So whenever someone posts something they must consider, "Hmm, ok self. Could nebulous user be upset by this? Well, I know how Citizen Kane ends. But perhaps nebulous user has never seen it or any of the thousands of things which have spoofed the movie. So what is the degree to which this needs to be spoilered?"

    I can understand not doing X if someone asks me to not do X provided that X is sensibly defined. But as the spoiler rule exists now it's just a rule founded on faux politeness.

    "Don't post things that may spoil something for someone else."

    That's EVERYTHING.
    The fundamental philosophy behind this forum is "don't be a dick." Posting spoilers in random threads is being a dick. I'm not really seeing what's so hard about this...?

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  • ThanatosThanatos Registered User regular
    edited November 2007
    _J_ wrote: »
    When the internet went ZOMG GUITAR HERO last week about South Park, I was pissed. I like the surprise every week about what they're going to be covering, it's part of the fun.

    Holy fuck.

    This isn't the 1860s. We don't live in small isolated towns frequented by buggy riding nitwits who forage for berries to sustain life. This is 2007. Information is readily available.

    This. Is. Not. Bad.

    To access the internet and frequent gaming websites and then complain that people are discussing things which interest you is asinine. People on the internet were talking about a South Park episode about Guitar Hero?

    Really? People on the INTERNET were discussing a SOUTH PARK episode about GUITAR HERO? You're shitting me. Who could have fucking seen that coming?

    :roll:

    One cannot have their cake and eat it too. To access the internet and then complain that your pwecious spoiwer hating mind was subject to information about things is little more than retarded and a complete failure on your part to recognize what you're doing.

    If you don't want to read spoilers get the fuck off the internet. That's the only realistic approach to take to avoid spoilers of movies, games, or anything. It's what my friend who doesn't like spoilers does. If a game is coming out which he wants to enjoy on his own without prior knowledge? He avoids information sources like the plague. Because, you see, if he avoids sources of information he is not risking access to information he does not want.

    It's a sensible approach to life.

    Edit: Or maybe I'm just being unreasonable. But, to me, complaining about spoilers on the internet is like complaining about tits at hooters.
    This is like saying "well, if you don't want your kid to watch videos of real people being gangraped and murdered, you need to lock them in your house, homeschool them, and never, ever let them outside the basement."

    If I want to not have movies or games spoiled for me, I'll stick to places on the internet that have rules against spoiling shit. Like, say, this place. Even here, I'll avoid threads about the stuff I don't want spoiled. All I ask is that people posting spoilers of things in threads not related to those things put them in spoiler tags, and label them. And if people don't like that? Hey, there are all sorts of places on the internet that don't make you do that. Literally millions of them. Go to one of those places.

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  • Casual EddyCasual Eddy The Astral PlaneRegistered User regular
    edited November 2007
    You're blaming the victim. If it's my fault for being second in line for harry potter and having the first person yell out the ending, then if I find you kick you real hard in the shin, it's your fault for not reacting first and seeing it coming. I am clearly blameless in this situation.

    Anywho that's how I see it. And seriously, stop being a dick. You're discussing this in a childish manner.

    and for fucks sake get rid the of death note spoiler. I only watched it translated on a pirated site, jesus.

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  • RaakamRaakam Too many years... CanadalandRegistered User regular
    edited November 2007
    Well, with regards to the Heroes thread. I clearly labeled it "spoilers inside" and the OP was extremely clear about the rules. Yet, it seemed every other person reading the thread was complaining about spoilers being unspoilered... in hindsight, I should've just told them to suck it and move on, but I just didn't want to hear about it anymore.

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  • The CatThe Cat Registered User, ClubPA regular
    edited November 2007
    I think we have a thread that already sums up the sensible position nicely. We call it the 'rules thread'.

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  • Irond WillIrond Will WARNING: NO HURTFUL COMMENTS, PLEASE!!!!! Cambridge. MAModerator Mod Emeritus
    edited November 2007
    _J_ wrote: »
    I think that spoilers, as with everything else in the world, are the responsibility of the people who care. The burden of preventing a user from reading a spoiler ought to fall on that user and not everyone else. If a person goes to the first showing a movie and wants to yell out the ending to all of the people waiting in line for the second showing then good for them; anyone who cared about the ending ought to have been at the first showing.

    I think it is asinine to throw the burden of spoilering things onto the people who don't care as if this were some socialist paradise in which everyone's primary responsibility was someone else. If you don't want to read spoilers then avoid places whereat spoilers may be. It's not my job to pwotect you from spoiwers. It's not my job to take care of you. It's your job to take care of you. Deal with it.

    And don't B.S. about "oh, it's not a burden to spoiler anything that might possibly be a spoiler for anyone, ever." because it fucking is. I don't know what you would consider to be a spoiler. You don't know what I would consider to be a spoiler. So how about we each bear the responsibility for ourselves and if I don't want to know what happens in the most recent House episode I avoid areas in which people talk about House. And if you don't want to know how the final Harry Potter book ended then you avoid areas where people talk about Harry Potter.

    Because otherwise we're in this undefined grey area of "spoiler things that need to be spoilered" without any sensible direction or reasoning or means by which that quality can be assessed.

    Oh, and Aeris, Trinity, Bambi's mom, Darth Vader, Yoda, King Kong, Light from Death Note, Spike AND Viscious, Jesus and Leonardo Di Caprio in Titanic all die.

    Posting the PM I sent _J_ along with his infraction:
    Irond_Will wrote:
    You should realize that, as moderators, our central responsibilities are maintaining some standard of decorum, which includes limiting pertinent spoilers. Regardless of your woefully myopic general feelings regarding people's responsibilities to others in some twisted Randian context, we are empowered to maintain a certain standard of politeness and consideration on our forum.

    If you don't like adhering to certain standards of decorum on this forum or treating others with basic consideration (including a simple respect for noting spoilers), then you can fuck right off to definitions.com or some other cesspool where pedantry is regarded highly.

    We have pretty basic standards for belonging to the PA community. It seems to me that someone has to be sociopathic, deeply autistic, or otherwise unfit for human society to not only fail to meet these standards, but to actually fail to grasp their importance or significance.

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