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Chop Logic

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TL DR

Think about this:

You give her your contact info, making it clear you're only looking to be friends. You guys start chatting, maybe even hanging out.

What are the chances you'll stay friends, and not muck it up with squishy fluid exchange?

Al_wat

Go for it. You don't want a girlfriend... but you seem to have somewhat of a crush on her (you are thinking about her). See where it goes.

Might as well.

Chop Logic

I dont know, part of me thinks that I may just want someone to flirt with since I just broke up with my girlfreind. Theres also a part of me that doesn't see a point in me giving it to her because I don't want a girlfriend, but at the same time, here I am thinking about her. Being in high school is lame.

IreneDAdler

I think you're going through rebound. Even if you're not consciously hung up on your ex, I imagine she still left a bit of a void in your life, since you've been together for a while. So your subconscious is probably seeking to replace her, and that's why you're thinking about this girl so much, even though you don't really "want to."

Whether or not you should try to get to know her better isn't that big a deal, I imagine. Would it really be so odd for you to give her your AIM info? I mean, I imagine that you have more than 3 seconds to talk to each other between classes; so just strike up a conversation with her, and casually slip in your screen name. There's no reason to ignore her if you enjoy spending time with her. Though, to keep your life simple, you should probably try to avoid romantic entanglements, since you're about to graduate. If you're planning on leaving for college, it's probably best to not leave a girlfriend behind, because that'll just get messy.

Dulcius_ex_asperis

Thing is, I don't want a girlfriend now. At all.

I stopped reading after this. Don't do anything. Especially because if you're dating and don't make it clear, she will most likely want a relationship. Bonus suckage points for graduating in six months.

ege02

Giving this girl your AIM will lead to her being your girlfriend how, exactly? I mean usually there are quite a few steps you would have to take afterwards.

No harm in it, as long as you don't lead her on. Hell, it's a smart move; if you change your mind you have a line of communication to her and you can make your move then.

VoodooV

Id say just be her friend and let the cards fall where they may. Just because you spend a lot of time with a girl doesn't necessarily make you bf/gf. But yeah, be honest with her about it. Don't do that whole "let's just be friends" thing because it makes her think something is wrong with her. Just be straight with her and tell her you're not looking for a girlfriend right now

blu3man

Whats wrong with people like you? surely by now you have learnt some sort of social skills. im sick of all of you.... im going to bed. i may even talk to "the other species" tomorow... and get confused like some schoolgirl..... then ill have to buy a new skirt...... maybe a dress aswell..... then i will cry and lose sleep because im a girl..... if you really have that little decision making skill then roll a dice to decide or flip a coin....

I take 10......