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Also, if your already cuddling slowly get more aggressive with that, have your hand closer to her tit or higher on her thigh. Areas that she will be perceptive of, use that to test the water.
"I'm in love with you Pam. I'm sorry if this is weird for you, but I needed you to know." etc etc.
I wouldn't say love.
Just be direct with her. "I want you to know that I'm attracted to you. I think you're really cool because..." and then just start talking about all the stuff that you actually like about her. Don't make shit up to win her over, just be honest about what you like about her.
I would just go for it, man. Think about it logically. If you don't do anything, you'll always be wondering, and you'll never know. If you do do something, you have a chance of actually having a relationship with this girl. Maybe it'll suck. Maybe it'll be awesome. But at least you didn't sit on your hands like a wuss.
I kind of figured that valued her as a friend or something, and didn't want to risk it etc etc.
Because yeah, if she's not that important as a friend, might as well give it a shot.
Yeah this.
She's absolutely amazing. If I put it all on the line, it would probably ruin our friendship.
Well, if she's a friend, I'd say you keep her as a friend, and forget about this whole thing.
"I'm in love with you Pam. I'm sorry if this is weird for you, but I needed you to know." etc etc.
oh dear god no. i have had several guys do this to me and then i just sit there horrifed because i only saw them as a friend, then i have to shoot them down, then try to reassure them and get back into being friends and it is the most annoying thing and just don't do it.
i knew this dude in university who was fat and had horrible acne and all the girls thought he was hot because he was completely convinced of how awesome he was
try that
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i knew this dude in university who was fat and had horrible acne and all the girls thought he was hot because he was completely convinced of how awesome he was
So I did this in my youth and as soon as I said it I realised it was ridiculous.
Having a an attractive girl for a friend is better than creating an awkward social situation and getting told you're a good friend. We didn't speak properly for about a year afterwards and a few years later we're just getting back to being close friends.
There are single girls just as good as her out there that you haven't met yet. Try those instead.
i knew this dude in university who was fat and had horrible acne and all the girls thought he was hot because he was completely convinced of how awesome he was
So I did this in my youth and as soon as I said it I realised it was ridiculous.
Having a an attractive girl for a friend is better than creating an awkward social situation and getting told you're a good friend. We didn't speak properly for about a year afterwards and a few years later we're just getting back to being close friends.
There are single girls just as good as her out there that you haven't met yet. Try those instead.
Being the kind of guy that I am, I'm convinced at this point that she is the greatest and most perfect girl ever, but that's obviously not true. But I can't help but think that.
i knew this dude in university who was fat and had horrible acne and all the girls thought he was hot because he was completely convinced of how awesome he was
try that
I also have poor self confidence
waaaaaaaaagh
me too. h5
and women are attracted to confidence!
so lacking self-confidence you won't have as much luck with the ladies.
and then your confidence will drop even further.
it's really a vicious cycle, it took me until about a year and a half ago to break out of it.
"I'm in love with you Pam. I'm sorry if this is weird for you, but I needed you to know." etc etc.
oh dear god no. i have had several guys do this to me and then i just sit there horrifed because i only saw them as a friend, then i have to shoot them down, then try to reassure them and get back into being friends and it is the most annoying thing and just don't do it.
To be honest, upon reading this, I momentarily considered confessing a love for you at PAX, just to see how horrorstruck you'd get.
Ok, here's my imput. Sorry guys, but a lot of you interpret things wrong. I'm serious. When girls say hi to guys and smile, guys are all like, she wants my penis. I have had many guys confuse my friendship. I'm just hanging out playing video games with you. It does not mean I want you cock when I laugh at something you say....well not always. And another thing, cheaters cheat. If your relationship starts with her cheating on her boyfriend with you, it's very likely it will end with her cheating on you.
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i knew this dude in university who was fat and had horrible acne and all the girls thought he was hot because he was completely convinced of how awesome he was
try that
I also have poor self confidence
waaaaaaaaagh
me too. h5
Never sell yourself short. I made the mistake of doing this once and it almost ruined my life. Now I'm with an amazing girl who is way better than I deserve. Go Go Charm and Confidence!
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Basically, then steel your heart for the 10-15 episode, er, week period where she's not into you yet.
Then I did, and she felt the same way about me!
Pretty much what I'm saying here is la la la I love my life and being alive and the world and everyone in it
then i realized oh shit i don't actually like her.
that was embarrassing for everyone
I'm telling you dude
Sky-bride
Giant Grabber Claw
Dead hookers
Wave of the future man.
So one day I up and decided that it was stupid.
Thats right, folks.
Emo is stupid.
however i am not pretty and she is
I think of Callius as my American twin.
I'm eating scrambled eggs right now and I can't stop laughing at them.
I wouldn't say love.
Just be direct with her. "I want you to know that I'm attracted to you. I think you're really cool because..." and then just start talking about all the stuff that you actually like about her. Don't make shit up to win her over, just be honest about what you like about her.
Well, if she's a friend, I'd say you keep her as a friend, and forget about this whole thing.
because then you're trying to date her when she's in a committed relationship and a lot of people don't respond well to that.
oh dear god no. i have had several guys do this to me and then i just sit there horrifed because i only saw them as a friend, then i have to shoot them down, then try to reassure them and get back into being friends and it is the most annoying thing and just don't do it.
You've done this joke like 3 times now.
What have you been smoking (penis?)
wonky brain-chemistry mostly
That's cool.
Ladies love dudes that have fucked up melons.
Actually I smoked some salvia earlier but that's long since worn off.
I thought I had a tiny woman in my mouth, and I was protecting her from some kind of evil force.
But it turned out that she was just a big ball of saliva and I dribbled her all over the carpet.
i knew this dude in university who was fat and had horrible acne and all the girls thought he was hot because he was completely convinced of how awesome he was
try that
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That sounds awesome.
Salvia made me think my sofa was trying to swallow me.
I should go to Nottingham more often for Salvia and Whiskey
I also have poor self confidence
waaaaaaaaagh
HI GAZ
Sir, you are a pioneer
towing the line
Join me, we shall build a better tomorrow
or kill a kitten.
mail it to her with a note that says 'unlike this kitten, my love for you will never die'
Its a sexy date.
Infact I have been in Nottingham several times recently. There are women and live musics a'plenty.
I can so dig that Sam. So dig that.
Having a an attractive girl for a friend is better than creating an awkward social situation and getting told you're a good friend. We didn't speak properly for about a year afterwards and a few years later we're just getting back to being close friends.
There are single girls just as good as her out there that you haven't met yet. Try those instead.
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me too. h5
Don't sign it though, if your love is truly meant to be, she'll know
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Being the kind of guy that I am, I'm convinced at this point that she is the greatest and most perfect girl ever, but that's obviously not true. But I can't help but think that.
I'm not nearly outgoing enough and I know next to nothing about dating
and women are attracted to confidence!
so lacking self-confidence you won't have as much luck with the ladies.
and then your confidence will drop even further.
it's really a vicious cycle, it took me until about a year and a half ago to break out of it.
To be honest, upon reading this, I momentarily considered confessing a love for you at PAX, just to see how horrorstruck you'd get.
Do you know how to hang out with people and have a good time?
Because people like that.
Never sell yourself short. I made the mistake of doing this once and it almost ruined my life. Now I'm with an amazing girl who is way better than I deserve. Go Go Charm and Confidence!
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