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Well, it's a common prejudice that the US, as a whole, is rather prudish. And from what I've seen in the media (the only thing I have practically unlimited access to), that's kinda true.
Compared to Europe that is.
I think you'll get over the controlling thing. The oral sex- not so much an oddity. Lots of people dislike it (both the concept and the actual sensation). When you're eventually comfortable give it a shot. Don't feel weird if it feels weird.
I think I'm too young to comfortably give advice like this but hey. I like you, remember?
I hope so. I dunno. Being shown images or sensations deliberately meant to arouse always seem to bring out the worst in me. I become short-sighted and manipulative and downright mean. And while it hasn't happened, I'm aware I could be easily manipulated by any female who put her mind to it.
But on the other hand if I actually genuinely really like the girl I don't feel jealous at all. Or maybe I tell myself I don't. I dunno.
The thing is I was exactly the opposite of him (in terms of the oral sex thing) when I was younger. It was all I thought about, sexually. Intercourse looked kind of boring in contrast. I hyped it up in my mind again and again. A girl admitting that she was comfortable with oral sex in a relationship got my blood boiling. At sixteen before I touched a girl I had it all mapped out: on days she was being generous I'd get oral sex. On days I was being generous I'd let her hump me. It was simple.
Why am I up this late? Is it because I refuse to go to bed without feeling some sort of accomplishment? Is it fear of the disturbing dreams I've been having recently? Is it mere apathy?
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Eww?
depends on whether they put out or not.
Uncomfortable, mostly.
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so delicious
It's my desktop background. People say "Hey! That's a comic on your desktop. Let me read it." And when they scowl like Girl I grin like Cat.
So, what I learned today from one of the threads here is there's too much explicit sexuality in the US media?
Really?
I don't like the amount, but that's from my own personal, moral and sexual failings rather then the fault of the media itself.
I like that you frankly use the word 'failings' rather than "experiences" or "perspectives" or "personal lenses". I like that and I like you.
Compared to Europe that is.
If I can't feel attracted to women without somehow feeling like I need to control them it's a failing, not a fucking perspective.
Would you like to talk about it?
Because we can.
No, no, it's probably just a being a teenager thing. Hopefully I'll get over it.
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I'm also deathly afraid of oral sex.
Edit: Ok, what... are you afraid of teeth?
I think I'm too young to comfortably give advice like this but hey. I like you, remember?
But on the other hand if I actually genuinely really like the girl I don't feel jealous at all. Or maybe I tell myself I don't. I dunno.
My brain's all fucked up.
Man.
Those days fell behind pretty abruptly.
I try to live by silly ideals, but they're all I have, you know?
And so naive. Ah, teenager.
Edit: Goddammit, did I kill it again?
They were fun times, talking to girlfriends on the phone for 6 hours at a time... kissing and doing nothing else for another 6 hours.
College ruined my soul.
I love my shitty little webcam.
unfortunately it was a spur of the moment thing and I don't have any action figures.
Or I would have totally done it.
I don't want to risk oversleeping so I'm just staying up.
Why am I up this late? Is it because I refuse to go to bed without feeling some sort of accomplishment? Is it fear of the disturbing dreams I've been having recently? Is it mere apathy?