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Sexual Stamina

precisionkprecisionk Registered User regular
edited July 2009 in Help / Advice Forum
So I have an interesting situation this weekend. I am meeting a gal I have been dating for a little while and she pretty much wants me to meet her just for sex. Now this in itself is not bad, not one bit, however, it sounds like she expects action ALL NIGHT LONG and I want to deliver.

Now I can last quite a while with condoms, however, it seems once I orgasm, that is all she wrote. So I need ways or tips on how to lengthen the stamina or able to get erect once after said first release and to keep going. Never had more then one orgasm in a sex session, so this shall be new.

Obviously, I don't want to use extreme methods such as viagra or such.

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    ZsetrekZsetrek Registered User regular
    edited November 2006
    Take breaks & look after her whilst leaving your dick alone.

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    ege02ege02 __BANNED USERS regular
    edited November 2006
    I found this... I don't know how helpful it will be.

    http://ezinearticles.com/?Boost-Your-Sex-Power---Natural-Ways&id=4823

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    HamjuHamju Registered User regular
    edited November 2006
    Trying to go right after you've finished is generally asking for trouble. If you just take breaks in between (I've heard half an hour is a generally good rule) it's easier to do multiple sessions. During that half-hour you can do anything from taking a piss, to reading a book, to fooling around. Personally I suggest either fooling around (but not too much) to taking a piss. Or getting something to eat/drink. Actually, if you can convince her to fetch you food... naked... then do that.

    In terms of actually making the individual sessions last longer, thinking about non-sexual things works somewhat. It can backfire though, becase no one wants to have their big finale while they're thinking about baseball. The only thing that definitely works is a bit of hard liquor beforehand that dulls the senses. But for the love of God, don't overdo it. You don't want to start off your "night of passion" with either a)passing out, b)not being able to get it up or c)vomit.

    Unless you're into that...

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    ChopperDaveChopperDave Registered User regular
    edited November 2006
    I find that sometimes it takes very specific stimuli to get the second or third erection. For me, a little oral sex will usually do it. Try experimenting with different kinds of foreplay, and in different orders, to get results.

    Also, don't expect it to feel the same or as strong as the first erection. A lot of times, the second/third erections for me feel "weak" in comparison, but trust me when I say that she won't notice the difference. Also, the difference in stimulation and hardness can actually lead you to go on MUCH longer, which is what you want. A lot of times, I feel the first go lasts about 10 to 15 minutes, while the second one I'm able to keep up for an hour or two.

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    YarYar Registered User regular
    edited November 2006
    Rub cocaine on it to numb it.

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    As7As7 Registered User regular
    edited November 2006
    Switching positions before you get too excited can help you last a lot longer, and hopefully she'll tell you when she's had enough.

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    DynagripDynagrip Break me a million hearts HoustonRegistered User, ClubPA regular
    edited November 2006
    Alcohol can be your friend.

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    Blake TBlake T Do you have enemies then? Good. That means you’ve stood up for something, sometime in your life.Registered User regular
    edited November 2006
    Other tips can be.

    Mix it up, once you get close whip it out for a bit and do something else.

    Squeeze one out by hand before you meet up, that way once you start you'll be onto your second.

    A shot or two of alcohol always slows everything down a bit too.

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    Kewop DecamKewop Decam Registered User regular
    edited November 2006
    Dynagrip wrote:
    Alcohol can be your friend.

    or your enemy.

    Take breaks inbetween orgasms. I would be more worried about physical stamina which there is no way you'll improve in this short amount of time.

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    Mmmm... Cocks...Mmmm... Cocks... Registered User regular
    edited November 2006
    A friend of mine goes to town on himself the night before and then he says he can last way longer the next day.

    I believe him mostly - ever have sex and sometimes wake up with insane morning wood the next day? Boom...

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    precisionkprecisionk Registered User regular
    edited November 2006
    Dynagrip wrote:
    Alcohol can be your friend.

    or your enemy.

    Take breaks inbetween orgasms. I would be more worried about physical stamina which there is no way you'll improve in this short amount of time.

    Physically, I should be good. I have tried the alcohol and unfortunately suffered from the dreaded, "Whisky Dick".

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    ege02ege02 __BANNED USERS regular
    edited November 2006
    Alcohol is terrible for this. While you might "numb it down a bit," you'll also enjoy it a lot less.

    On the other hand, energy drinks do wonders. If you chug one or two before your session, they will prevent you from passing out during the inbetween breaks. You won't be able to sleep until the morning in fact, but in this case I'm gonna assume that's a good thing.

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    bsjezzbsjezz Registered User regular
    edited November 2006
    Don't force it if it isn't happening. In my experience it can be pretty painful going a second or third round in too short a period of time, if your body's not ready. If you're getting sore back off and maybe use your hands and mouth for a while. 20 minutes of that and you'll be into it again for sure.

    Hell, if you do it right the first time maybe she'll fall asleep and you won't need to worry about it!

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    ALockslyALocksly Registered User regular
    edited November 2006
    Relay; fingers hand off to tongue, tongue hands off to dick, dick hands off to fingers again. repeat (vary order)

    Stop when she conks out or can't feel her legs anymore*.


    *either result can be obtained without even taking your pants off ;-)

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    Filler Inc.Filler Inc. Registered User regular
    edited November 2006
    Anyone suggest jackoff before the meet up?

    Cause that should help a little.

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    RaggaholicRaggaholic Registered User regular
    edited November 2006
    How old are you? This plays a MAJOR factor.

    I recently met up with an ex that I was with for three years (three years ago) to make peace (really bad breakup). We were laughing and joking about old times when we talked about how much our "record" was for sex in 24 hours. Our record was 12, and this was when I was 20 years old. I'm 26 now, and if I even THOUGHT about 12 in one night, my foot would swing around and kick me in my own ass.

    All I'm saying is age plays a major role.

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    TroubledTomTroubledTom regular
    edited November 2006
    If lasting all night isn't a possibility, you could always bring a toy. Or another guy.


    And don't forget foreplay.

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    Seattle ThreadSeattle Thread Registered User regular
    edited November 2006
    Your cock might get tired.

    Your tongue will not.

    Just because you spooge does not mean that sex is over.

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    BasarBasar IstanbulRegistered User regular
    edited November 2006
    "insane morning wood"

    That has nothing to do with sexual energy. During the course of your sleep, your bladder fills up with piss and pushes to the nerve endings near it, which coincidentally also control your wood.

    More scientifically: A morning erection that is naturally caused as the brains enters the REM-deep sleep phase. At this stage, the body's skeletal muscle structure relaxes and causes hypervasodilation in the capillaries of the body, resulting in said erection.

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    precisionkprecisionk Registered User regular
    edited November 2006
    Raggaholic wrote:
    How old are you? This plays a MAJOR factor.

    I recently met up with an ex that I was with for three years (three years ago) to make peace (really bad breakup). We were laughing and joking about old times when we talked about how much our "record" was for sex in 24 hours. Our record was 12, and this was when I was 20 years old. I'm 26 now, and if I even THOUGHT about 12 in one night, my foot would swing around and kick me in my own ass.

    All I'm saying is age plays a major role.

    22.

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    precisionkprecisionk Registered User regular
    edited November 2006
    Makershot wrote:
    Your cock might get tired.

    Your tongue will not.

    Just because you spooge does not mean that sex is over.

    Not to tout my own horn, but foreplay and such won't be a problem. I definitely can rely on my tongue to get things down to take a break (gene simmons tongue ftw).

    The issue isn't keeping her going, its more of getting a second and or third erection when needed.

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    DrZiplockDrZiplock Registered User regular
    edited November 2006
    It'll happen if you're into it. I mean..yea...you can't force it up and mores the pity, but if the three of you (you, her, and your dick) are up to task then I wouldn't really worry about it.

    After you've fired your cannon take 20 or so minutes and just focus on her, if she's into you during that time be a little wary of over-attention to your unit. It'll take it's breather and be back in action soon enough.

    The experience itself? Any variety of ways can extend it. Switching between methods of stimulation is a good way of taking "mini-breaks". Switching positions is great as well. Just know which position is more likely to get you off and save that one until last.


    Funny..I find myself in the same situation as you. Heading back home this weekend and getting to see my someone special. The dick and I have been giving each other pep talks all week.

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    itylusitylus Registered User regular
    edited November 2006
    Take zinc supplements.

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    precisionkprecisionk Registered User regular
    edited November 2006
    DrZiplock wrote:
    It'll happen if you're into it. I mean..yea...you can't force it up and mores the pity, but if the three of you (you, her, and your dick) are up to task then I wouldn't really worry about it.

    After you've fired your cannon take 20 or so minutes and just focus on her, if she's into you during that time be a little wary of over-attention to your unit. It'll take it's breather and be back in action soon enough.

    The experience itself? Any variety of ways can extend it. Switching between methods of stimulation is a good way of taking "mini-breaks". Switching positions is great as well. Just know which position is more likely to get you off and save that one until last.


    Funny..I find myself in the same situation as you. Heading back home this weekend and getting to see my someone special. The dick and I have been giving each other pep talks all week.

    That is a good idea, the pep talks that is. Perhaps we will get a chalkboard and draw out a gameplan.

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    DrZiplockDrZiplock Registered User regular
    edited November 2006
    precisionk wrote:
    DrZiplock wrote:
    It'll happen if you're into it. I mean..yea...you can't force it up and mores the pity, but if the three of you (you, her, and your dick) are up to task then I wouldn't really worry about it.

    After you've fired your cannon take 20 or so minutes and just focus on her, if she's into you during that time be a little wary of over-attention to your unit. It'll take it's breather and be back in action soon enough.

    The experience itself? Any variety of ways can extend it. Switching between methods of stimulation is a good way of taking "mini-breaks". Switching positions is great as well. Just know which position is more likely to get you off and save that one until last.


    Funny..I find myself in the same situation as you. Heading back home this weekend and getting to see my someone special. The dick and I have been giving each other pep talks all week.

    That is a good idea, the pep talks that is. Perhaps we will get a chalkboard and draw out a gameplan.


    Just gotta make sure everyone knows what the plan is and that everyone is on the same page. You two are in this together, no "I" in team, etc..etc..

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    Nitsuj82Nitsuj82 Registered User regular
    edited November 2006
    I find that I need a good 20 minutes to a half hour in between the sexy times. After two times though, it gets rough, and condoms get dry. Just keep lube on hand.

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    LondonBridgeLondonBridge __BANNED USERS regular
    edited November 2006
    DO NOT JERK OFF THE DAY YOU MEET HER!

    Now here are some things you can take that can make you a sexual addict.

    1. Drink plenty of water and I do mean plenty.

    3. Eat light, dont eat any junk food and stay away from too much alcohol. Heck, I'd stay from alcohol altogether if I were you.

    2. There are certain supplements that work kinda like Viagra (increased blood flow). Go to a GNC or Vitamin Shoppe and look for Nitrous Oxide (NO) supps, make sure you dont get the ones with caffiene or creatine as it'll make you dehydrated.

    3. If you had the time to order this try out Pavarol, I've been taking this stuff for 2 months and it'll make you nut like you never experienced.

    http://www.1fast400.com/?products_id=2685

    As for condoms, if she is on the pill and she is safe (no STDs) then forgo condoms as they can dry her out and make things sore quick. Lube will help but going bareback is the way to go.

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    Kewop DecamKewop Decam Registered User regular
    edited November 2006

    Increased Confidence and Explosive "Shooting Power"

    :lol:

    I usually stay away from things like this because no one knows the long term effects (or is it affects?)

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    KingMooKingMoo Registered User regular
    edited November 2006
    3. If you had the time to order this try out Pavarol, I've been taking this stuff for 2 months and it'll make you nut like you never experienced.

    SOLD! I don't really have problems but how can you say no to "nutting like you've never experienced" ?

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    EclecticGrooveEclecticGroove Registered User regular
    edited November 2006
    I would also stay away from the herbal (sexual enhancement) areas... even viagra, which has legitimate medical claims, can cause problems if a normal person takes it. As far as all these herbal remedies, most wind up being placebo's... they work because you think they will work. That or you preceive them to have an impact when in fact something else you are doing is actually doing the work (Like working out).

    Drinking plenty of water and not eating a lot of junk food is just good advice all around. I'd never suggest going without a condom is a good idea if this is "just" sex. It's one thing for a commited couple to do without, there's lot of trust and commitment built up there.
    If you are getting together for a night of straight out sex, I don't give a damn if she swears to be mother Theresa, wrap that sucker!

    Condoms can indeed get dry, and so can she... if you guys are goin for a marthon, invest in some lube, it will make things a lot easier on both of you. Also make sure to switch up the condom as well, keep it fresh, even if you don't "finish" if there is one that's been on for awhile I'd suggest changing it.

    I find that when my girl and I are just THAT damn randy, everything else tends to work itself out. If you need a slight break, that's cool.. pause ofr a drink or a slight break before continuing. Most people don't make marathon sex runs, so if it's a plan, make sure you put in some "pit stops" for each other. My girl tends to get sore fairly quick if we go beyond a single session.. maybe yours will say uncle before you do.. who knows? Everyone is different.

    Anyways, have fun!

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    LondonBridgeLondonBridge __BANNED USERS regular
    edited November 2006
    KingMoo wrote:
    3. If you had the time to order this try out Pavarol, I've been taking this stuff for 2 months and it'll make you nut like you never experienced.

    SOLD! I don't really have problems but how can you say no to "nutting like you've never experienced" ?

    I've been taking it for almost 2 months now. The first month I could feel extra contractions after I nut and into the second month there is the contractions plus more spooge. Yeah, it works.

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    ege02ege02 __BANNED USERS regular
    edited November 2006
    What do you mean, "nut"? Never heard of that term before.

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    ThanatosThanatos Registered User regular
    edited November 2006
    ege02 wrote:
    What do you mean, "nut"? Never heard of that term before.
    Ejaculate.

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    Nitsuj82Nitsuj82 Registered User regular
    edited November 2006
    The other day on Howard Stern, there was a listener calling in about how he could get "thick ropes of cum like Peter North". Even Howard was taken aback by the guy.

    Not really that relevant, and I don't have a point, but this was brought to mind.

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    an_altan_alt Registered User regular
    edited November 2006
    itylus wrote:
    Take zinc supplements.

    This works much better than you'd think it could. Start at least a couple days early and take one or two a day. You are going to need breaks, water, etc as has been previously mentioned, but some zinc in your body will raise the dead more times than you expect.

    You might experience some discomfort if you take it on an empty stomach so take them after a meal or snack. Also, you probably won't want to be taking it all the time as a constant hard-on will get annoying before long.

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    itylusitylus Registered User regular
    edited November 2006

    Increased Confidence and Explosive "Shooting Power"

    :lol:

    I usually stay away from things like this because no one knows the long term effects (or is it affects?)

    Effects.

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    polarbluepolarblue Registered User regular
    edited November 2006
    Yar wrote:
    Rub cocaine on it to numb it.

    I was watching a brittish show about 101 sexual mishaps.

    One guy injected his penis with cocaine.

    Consequently the llello fucked it up pretty bad and he had to have it surgically removed.

    So dont do that.

    I have heard from people that ginseng works pretty well for stamina (its been used in asian cultures for such a thing)

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    RhinoRhino TheRhinLOL Registered User regular
    edited July 2009
    A prolonged erection can cause problems. It can damage tissue and cause you pain/problems in the future. This shouldn't' be your goal.

    Get in there, get out; let it settle down while you use your other "talents".

    Also nothing says you have to go 6 hours of just intercourse. Lots of women like foreplay. Nothing says you can't make out for 45 minutes while watching a movie or tease/flirt with her over dinner before hand. In fact, that could be preferred.

    Also, if you need a break, you can give her a body massage, feed her fruit, read poems over candle light, hop in the shower/tub with her or other sensual; but not necessarily sexually activities that keep the mood going. Once your recovered, you can just start back up from any of those activities.

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