I need external help to determine what to do next, if anything, in this relationship of mine, so here I come.
I am a canadian living in QuÃ©bec and I'm in a LDR with an american living in Indiana.
We're both in our mid 20s and we're both inexperienced with the opposite sex. It's the first serious relationship for both of us. We had other relations before, but nothing that even come close in seriousness and intensity to this one. In short, we're both n00bs at this relationship thing.
Her brief description : Goody-2-shoe. Shy. NERD.
We met in person twice, the first time for 4 days and the other one for 9 days.
Our emotional and intellectual connection is so intense, it's almost unreal. We even complete each other sentences!
No mind games.. we're completely open with our feelings and toughts. It's awesome!
I never felt so strongly for anyone before. I want this relationship to ask for a long time.
The only BIG problem in this otherwise rosy picture is than she's not certain if she is ready or even willing to move to Canada to live with me. I'm getting sick of the distance. You cant hug or kiss a computer. Yet I really want this relationship to stay alive for a long, long time.
It's not an easy decision for her to make for sure. Does she love me enough to be willing to leave her familly behind?
She have all the informations needed to make a decion, but it will take time to sort all that out.
Right now I'm giving her space to make a decision om her own.
Have I done enough to be a good boyfriend? Have I done anything wrong? What could I have done more?
Those questions will haunt me forever should I loose her.
The ball is not in my court anymore and it is really destressing to me.
What to do? What to not do? I seriously need help.
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