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MimMim dead.Registered User regular
edited December 2008 in Help / Advice Forum
So next Friday I am going on my first ever road trip with some friends from high school. My last thread mentioning this was about my friend canceling his portion of the trip because of me and another friend saying he shouldn't get a dog. Well, we worked it out and now the trip is back on. There will be 5 people in the car, and we're going from Tampa, Florida to somewhere in Maine stopping along the way in Charleston, SC; Washington D.C. (perhaps?); Fayettevile, NC; Philadelphia, PA (where my house is); New York City, NY, that...place where the water fall is (for some reason the name isn't coming to me) and possibly some other places I'm missing as well.

What I want to know is what can I do to make this trip enjoyable and argument free so I don't get stranded somewhere over someone's hurt feelings. Should I bring blankets, how much money should I bring, should I just apologize immediately (and trying to mean it, but probably not) to avoid fights of any size, and what are some interesting things to do in the above cities?

TL;DR I'm going on a road trip. What do I need to do to make it a fantastic time?

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  • AlpineAlpine Registered User regular
    edited December 2008
    Niagra Falls is a solid few hours from anywhere on that list, and it's only got about an hour's worth of entertainment if you don't gamble. If you really must go to it, the Canadian side is better, so have some sort of border crossing papers.

    Always bring blankets! If your car breaks down, you'll soon realize that your car isn't super-insulated, and it is freaking cold out there right now.

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  • SmurphSmurph Registered User regular
    edited December 2008
    You should make a firm "no hitting" rule. Groups of guys tend to punch or kick lightly when messing around, but it can get out of hand and ruin your trip. My brother and his friend had this happen a while ago. Casual punches on the shoulder turned into a fist fight and they weren't speaking for days. That would suck 10x more on a road trip. Go easy on making fun of each other too. I'm sure you can all take a joke but if someone finds themselves on the receiving end constantly for days on end, they can get pissy.

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  • KyouguKyougu Registered User regular
    edited December 2008
    Make sure you get a full tune up for your car, checking tires, oil, all that good stuff.

    Trip sounds like it'll be a long one, so an emergency road kit is a must too.

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  • MimMim dead.Registered User regular
    edited December 2008
    Well, I don't have a passport so I guess going through Canada is out of the question. I will definitely keep in mind the hitting/joking aspect of the trip. Sometimes we play jokes on each other but we have some sensitive people in the car and then we have another person who just likes to TOUCH all the time so I will talk to them about that.

    The car is out of my hands as it's my friend's car. He's been getting it checked up and fixed and I'm just hoping he won't use it against us (he says he won't but if someone pisses him off he might change his tune).

    How many blankets should I bring?

    And is there anything fun to do along the East coast?

    And how do we handle the music selection without someone killing someone else? Like my friend listens to Terra Naomi, Regina Spektor. I listen to the White Stripes and the Yeah Yeah Yeahs, I have another friend who listens to Amy Winehouse and Etta James and then I got another friend who likes showtunes. My boyfriend is coming and he's open to everything and anything but the Amy/Etta fan wants to be a singer and supposedly knows a TON about music and normally cracks on everyone else's music. I would say this could be solved by listening to individual iPods but then that cuts down communication.

    Also, what kind of food hold up on a car trip? I'm hoping for....crap. I just remembered I gave up beef and now I can't have my Krystal burgers...Shit. Well, what else holds up on the road?

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  • illigillig Registered User regular
    edited December 2008
    jeez... i hope this is not a car but a huge SUV or van at least

    trust me when i say that stuffing 5 people into a regular sedan for several days will end in murder

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  • Blake TBlake T Do you have enemies then? Good. That means you’ve stood up for something, sometime in your life.Registered User regular
    edited December 2008
    illig wrote: »
    jeez... i hope this is not a car but a huge SUV or van at least

    trust me when i say that stuffing 5 people into a regular sedan for several days will end in murder

    For serious.

    You will need at least several days of clothes for each of you plus random stuff.

    Your boot will fill up fast.

    Have stereo rules it solves arguments.

    Something like you listen to one cd then someone else chooses.

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  • wmelonwmelon Registered User regular
    edited December 2008
    If you're on I-95 when driving through South Carolina. You absolutely MUST stop at South Of the Border. It's a moral imperative! It's right on the border of SC and NC. You can't miss it. There are billboards for it for over a hundred miles in both directions. And just so you know, Charleston is about an hour from I-95. So I hope you've planned this trip over quite a few days.

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  • KyouguKyougu Registered User regular
    edited December 2008
    Not sure if you will drive during the night, but if you do someone must always stay up and keep the driver company.

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  • stawkstawk Registered User regular
    edited December 2008
    Blaket wrote: »
    illig wrote: »
    jeez... i hope this is not a car but a huge SUV or van at least

    trust me when i say that stuffing 5 people into a regular sedan for several days will end in murder

    For serious.

    You will need at least several days of clothes for each of you plus random stuff.

    Your boot will fill up fast.

    Have stereo rules it solves arguments.

    Something like you listen to one cd then someone else chooses.

    bring an extra pair or two of clothes just in case, especially socks.

    for the music one option could be putting every ones music on one mp3 players and set it to shuffle

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  • MimMim dead.Registered User regular
    edited December 2008
    We only have two people in the car capable of driving and the owner of the car has already expressed not wanting to share his driving duties. I however will see if I can't persuade him again to change his mind.

    Does anyone know how much the toll roads are to go into Niagara Falls? They wanted to go through Canada but only half the car have normal passports (I had a military passport that expired in 2007).

    Also, on the music front I might just bring my iPod an sneak in a listen every once in awhile (though I have this feeling that it'll be quiet the entire time in the car and then as soon as I whip out my iPod people will want to start talking to me....it ALWAYS happens).

    Now on to food because I don't want to waste it all on fast food, what's good to bring along? It'll be a 3-4 day trip from Tampa to Philadelphia (we're not stopping THAT much) Then we're resting for a bit in Philly before going to New York for New Years and onward up to Maine (I forget why we're going to Niagara falls but I think its for my friend from Australia).

    I also forgot that we're going to Baltimore so what's there? I also believe we're going to Boston (I think the driver, who is gay, wanted to check it out in case he wanted to move there for marriage purposes). And what the HELL is in Maine? I know we're stopping at a bunch of weird places to see some of their friends, but I'd like to remember those places for things other than "I spent the entire night in Maine....in someone's house....doing nothing."

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  • jefe414jefe414 "My Other Drill Hole is a Teleporter" Mechagodzilla is Best GodzillaRegistered User regular
    edited December 2008
    Mim wrote: »
    We only have two people in the car capable of driving and the owner of the car has already expressed not wanting to share his driving duties. I however will see if I can't persuade him again to change his mind.

    Does anyone know how much the toll roads are to go into Niagara Falls? They wanted to go through Canada but only half the car have normal passports (I had a military passport that expired in 2007).

    Also, on the music front I might just bring my iPod an sneak in a listen every once in awhile (though I have this feeling that it'll be quiet the entire time in the car and then as soon as I whip out my iPod people will want to start talking to me....it ALWAYS happens).

    Now on to food because I don't want to waste it all on fast food, what's good to bring along? It'll be a 3-4 day trip from Tampa to Philadelphia (we're not stopping THAT much) Then we're resting for a bit in Philly before going to New York for New Years and onward up to Maine (I forget why we're going to Niagara falls but I think its for my friend from Australia).

    I also forgot that we're going to Baltimore so what's there? I also believe we're going to Boston (I think the driver, who is gay, wanted to check it out in case he wanted to move there for marriage purposes). And what the HELL is in Maine? I know we're stopping at a bunch of weird places to see some of their friends, but I'd like to remember those places for things other than "I spent the entire night in Maine....in someone's house....doing nothing."

    Well, as mentioned, Charleston is not really on 95. It's a beautiful place and has excellent food. Many of the places also brew their own beer.
    Baltimore? I'd spend my time in D.C. instead. I actually like Brooklyn better then Manhattan when it comes to NYC but you are going for a specific event so that's different. On the way to Boston, stop off in New Haven, CT for their world famous pizza as well. Boston is a great city.

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  • EntriechEntriech ? ? ? ? ? Ontario, CanadaRegistered User regular
    edited December 2008
    As this road trip is happening prior to January 1st, 2009 you are not required to have a passport to re-enter the U.S. from Canada via land. You need only your birth certificate and a piece of photo ID. Just ensure that everyone has those with them before you leave.

    Edit: Also, there's lots of things to do on the Canadian side of Niagara falls. Seeing the falls themselves is impressive. There are jet boat tours of the whirlpool at the bottom of the falls. If that's a little fast, there's also slow boat tours that sail up to the base of the falls (the Maid of the Mist tours). You can also go down behind the falls in the maintenance tunnels. There's a pretty enjoyable aviary, and there's also the butterfly conservatory. Marineland is there, which is a bit like Sea World crossed with an amusement park. Clifton Hill alone is worth taking a stroll along, as it's more carnival midway than anything. The Ripley's believe it or not museum is still pretty fun.

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  • JokermanJokerman Registered User regular
    edited December 2008
    Make sure to SLOW DOWN. No need to haul ass everywhere. That's almost got me killed coming home from tennesee during this time of year.

    You should take a bunch of pictures, especialy by signs. There's a picture of me hanging off the tennesee border sign...good times.

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  • KanedaxKanedax Registered User regular
    edited December 2008
    Ah man I wish I could get outta Tampa this winter break :( Closest I get to that is Gainesville. Have fun and good luck on your trip.

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  • xa52xa52 Registered User regular
    edited December 2008
    Get bbq in NC. Baltimore's got the harbor, but it's pretty much just an outdoor mall and chain restaurants. The aquarium's nice if you're into that, but pretty expensive IIRC. As far as I'm concerned, this time of year there is fuck all in Maine except for ice and snow. In the warmer months, I understand it has nice trees and tasty lobsters.

    Check the chowhound.com forums for good/cheap places to eat in cities along the way, otherwise you could get stuck overpaying for a mediocre meal in a city full of good food.

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  • badpoetbadpoet Registered User regular
    edited December 2008
    Mim wrote: »
    Well, I don't have a passport so I guess going through Canada is out of the question. I will definitely keep in mind the hitting/joking aspect of the trip. Sometimes we play jokes on each other but we have some sensitive people in the car and then we have another person who just likes to TOUCH all the time so I will talk to them about that.

    You can still cross the border with a valid US drivers license and a your birth certificate (not a copy, the actual certificate).

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  • MimMim dead.Registered User regular
    edited December 2008
    On the Canada front, how about a valid driver's permit? Or would my military ID work (I'm a depen..was a dependent but it's still valid till I'm 23).

    In Charelston we're just going there because the driver wanted to walk around and take photos of buildings all day. He likes architechture. He doesn't want me to plan too much for that city because he really just wants to spend the day looking at all the pretty buildings but dammit, I am not one for just taking photos of buildings. Three out of the five of us aren't able to drink (legally) so the beer places are out.

    And I do prefer Brooklyn to Manhattan (I have a friend who goes to Pratt) and I'd like to visit the Williamsburg (I think that's what its called, I'm not sure I just read a news article) area for all the second hand shops which are like the ones on South street here.

    BBQ is pork not beef right? I gave up beef awhile ago.

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  • JokermanJokerman Registered User regular
    edited December 2008
    BBQ can be either Pork or Beef, you godless heathern.

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  • jefe414jefe414 "My Other Drill Hole is a Teleporter" Mechagodzilla is Best GodzillaRegistered User regular
    edited December 2008
    Mim wrote: »
    On the Canada front, how about a valid driver's permit? Or would my military ID work (I'm a depen..was a dependent but it's still valid till I'm 23).

    In Charelston we're just going there because the driver wanted to walk around and take photos of buildings all day. He likes architechture. He doesn't want me to plan too much for that city because he really just wants to spend the day looking at all the pretty buildings but dammit, I am not one for just taking photos of buildings. Three out of the five of us aren't able to drink (legally) so the beer places are out.

    And I do prefer Brooklyn to Manhattan (I have a friend who goes to Pratt) and I'd like to visit the Williamsburg (I think that's what its called, I'm not sure I just read a news article) area for all the second hand shops which are like the ones on South street here.

    BBQ is pork not beef right? I gave up beef awhile ago.

    BBQ can be either. Or chicken. It's more a method of cooking vs. what is actually cooked. I'm sure some people on these forums are from real BBQ territory and can throw in their 2 cents. In any case, you should be able to find something you like.

    Charleston also has a cool "ghost walk" thing (or it did the last time I was there). Out on the battery there should be some nice photo ops (Fort Sumter and all that) plus near by is the USS Yorktown.
    I would make an effort to try the food though. Not sure how the nightlife will be though, colleges might be out.

    The Hunley was on display there when I last visited (which was about 5 or so years ago).

    Charleston rules. For down South at least.

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  • embrikembrik Registered User regular
    edited December 2008
    Get a bunch of stand-up comedy albums to listen to. They're frequently hilarious, and no one fights over them (at least, not that I know of).

    Also, if you're going north, bring warm clothes, heavy jackets, and make sure you have an ice scraper or two. I can guarantee you'll need them.

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  • PeregrineFalconPeregrineFalcon Registered User regular
    edited December 2008
    Everyone seems to have the social/etc aspects nailed, so I'll jump in as the "winter driving" guy.

    You mentioned that only two people know how to drive and given that you're starting in Florida I'm going to assume that you've never seen snow outside of a ski hill. That's not exactly a good way to roll in the northern States or Canada.

    In snowy or icy conditions, you should be giving yourself 2.5-3x the stopping distance as in good weather, assuming you've got good tires. Speaking of tires, check 'em. I don't expect you to use winter tires, but make sure that you're on all-season tires, not summer performance, because that will send you ditchbound in a hurry. Make sure you've got plenty of tread depth left as well.

    Big vehicles take more time to stop, and this is exacerbated in winter. Also, while AWD/4WD will get you going faster, it won't do jackshit to make you slow down any quicker. Remember the laws of physics in addition to the traffic laws.

    Pack and bring a winter emergency kit:
    Antifreeze, wiper fluid
    Blanket (in your case, blankets)
    Booster cables (6ga)
    Candles, matches, and tin cans
    Cell phone (I imagine you'll each have one, but if you don't, get a cheap prepaid)
    First-aid kit
    Flares (road flares, not a flare gun)
    Flashlight (Keep multiple sets of batteries, and keep them separate)
    Fuses (for your car, you don't want to be caught without headlights)
    Gloves (again, more than one pair)
    Jackets (if you haven't already packed them)
    Kitty litter or traction pads
    Non-perishable food (granola bars)
    Sand bags
    Shovel (a small folding one is best)
    Scraper and brush
    Tire chains (optional)
    Tow chains/rope
    That's what I'd suggest as a minimum for an extended-length winter trip.

    Not trying to scare-tactic you into thinking that winter road trips are a hellish undertaking, but I don't want to be helping you guys out of a ditch. :P

    But that said, when you find a nice, empty, curb-free, snow-covered parking lot, get your skid on. :D

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  • xa52xa52 Registered User regular
    edited December 2008
    BBQ in NC is exclusively pork. Pulled pork with vinegar- or tomato-based sauce depending on where you are. It's served either on a bun or plate, and goes well with coleslaw and hushpuppies. It's a unique regional food and generally not available outside of the area, and when it is it's almost always not very good.

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  • JokermanJokerman Registered User regular
    edited December 2008
    Yeah any BBQ you get, you're gonna wanna get south of the mason dixon. Yankies, while nice folk, just cant make good BBQ.

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  • AlpineAlpine Registered User regular
    edited December 2008
    Thought of this in the car the other day - if you're planning on being in NYC for New Year's, park somewhere else and take a cab into the city. I doubt you'll be able to find parking that night, and if you do, I expect it's going to be well above regular price.

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  • MimMim dead.Registered User regular
    edited December 2008
    Alpine wrote: »
    Thought of this in the car the other day - if you're planning on being in NYC for New Year's, park somewhere else and take a cab into the city. I doubt you'll be able to find parking that night, and if you do, I expect it's going to be well above regular price.

    I believe we're going to park in Philadelphia and then take a bus into New York for the big day. Probably the day before and find a nice little hotel room to stay in (maybe). Actually...are there any nice hotel rooms in Manhattan/Brooklyn that are cheap?

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  • MimMim dead.Registered User regular
    edited December 2008
    Everyone seems to have the social/etc aspects nailed, so I'll jump in as the "winter driving" guy.

    You mentioned that only two people know how to drive and given that you're starting in Florida I'm going to assume that you've never seen snow outside of a ski hill. That's not exactly a good way to roll in the northern States or Canada.

    In snowy or icy conditions, you should be giving yourself 2.5-3x the stopping distance as in good weather, assuming you've got good tires. Speaking of tires, check 'em. I don't expect you to use winter tires, but make sure that you're on all-season tires, not summer performance, because that will send you ditchbound in a hurry. Make sure you've got plenty of tread depth left as well.

    Big vehicles take more time to stop, and this is exacerbated in winter. Also, while AWD/4WD will get you going faster, it won't do jackshit to make you slow down any quicker. Remember the laws of physics in addition to the traffic laws.

    Pack and bring a winter emergency kit:
    Antifreeze, wiper fluid
    Blanket (in your case, blankets)
    Booster cables (6ga)
    Candles, matches, and tin cans
    Cell phone (I imagine you'll each have one, but if you don't, get a cheap prepaid)
    First-aid kit
    Flares (road flares, not a flare gun)
    Flashlight (Keep multiple sets of batteries, and keep them separate)
    Fuses (for your car, you don't want to be caught without headlights)
    Gloves (again, more than one pair)
    Jackets (if you haven't already packed them)
    Kitty litter or traction pads
    Non-perishable food (granola bars)
    Sand bags
    Shovel (a small folding one is best)
    Scraper and brush
    Tire chains (optional)
    Tow chains/rope
    That's what I'd suggest as a minimum for an extended-length winter trip.

    Not trying to scare-tactic you into thinking that winter road trips are a hellish undertaking, but I don't want to be helping you guys out of a ditch. :P

    But that said, when you find a nice, empty, curb-free, snow-covered parking lot, get your skid on. :D

    Oh, even though I live in Philadelphia and the driver lives in Florida we've both been through winter driving experiences (I don't know about his off the top of my head but I lived in Denver and then Aurora, Colorado which is where I learned to drive) but thank you for the list. I don't know about sand bags though...

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  • CelzrroCelzrro Registered User regular
    edited December 2008
    Charleston
    There's a LOT of amazing architecture in this city, as well as a lot of historic sites. If you're not into that, there's still a lot of amazing food. Definitely try some of the local seafood and barbecue; I'd recommend checking out the flagship Sticky Fingers restaurant in Mount Pleasant, just outside of Charleston. Of course, I could make some better suggestions with more information on your tastes and preferences.

    Maine
    Do you like mountains, pine trees, seafood and/or lighthouses? I hope so. If you ski or snowboard, I strongly recommend visiting Sugarloaf. If you're into hiking or camping, any of the national parks will do. I'd recommend Acadia National Park on Mount Desert Island; the nature is so beautiful that David Rockefeller retired to the island (and he still lives there). Your architecturally-inclined friend needs to check out Portland, too... especially the Old Port (trust me on this one).

    Oh, and eat a lobster while you're in Maine.

    P.S. I was born and raised in Maine and have lived just outside of Charleston, SC for the past six years so I may be able to help if you have any other questions about either of those stops.

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  • illigillig Registered User regular
    edited December 2008
    Mim wrote: »
    I believe we're going to park in Philadelphia and then take a bus into New York for the big day.
    Take a train... a bus will have to deal with the extra tourist traffic that day
    Mim wrote: »
    Probably the day before and find a nice little hotel room to stay in (maybe). Actually...are there any nice hotel rooms in Manhattan/Brooklyn that are cheap?

    You're looking at $5-700 a night in Manhattan... and for new years, i'd book as quickly as possible... in fact you're probably too late for anything that could be considered "cheap"

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  • AlpineAlpine Registered User regular
    edited December 2008
    Try places like Seacaucus (sp?) NJ, we stayed there for two nights before we got into Manhattan last summer, I think it wasn't too far away from Manhattan and any decent hotel would have shuttle services to the city.

    (It wasn't too far in that across the water from my hotel was the NYC skyline)

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  • jefe414jefe414 "My Other Drill Hole is a Teleporter" Mechagodzilla is Best GodzillaRegistered User regular
    edited December 2008
    Jokerman wrote: »
    Yeah any BBQ you get, you're gonna wanna get south of the mason dixon. Yankies, while nice folk, just cant make good BBQ.

    Except the places up here run by people from the South :P.

    Also, my buddy makes some award winning chili but he did learn to make it in S.C.

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