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What defines a fetish?
misbehavin
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Google tells me that fetish means: "a form of sexual desire in which gratification depends to an abnormal degree on some object or item of clothing or part of the body." But that's really vague. I mean, what's abnormal?
For instance, I like hair. I have specific types of hairdoes and hair colors I like depending on the person, my favorite being brunette with curly hair about shoulder length and average volume, preferably with a slight tint of red. I usually notice a womans hair before I notice anything else about her. I have even done a double-take on an ugly woman just because she has beautiful hair.
However, I won't sleep or date someone for their hair, and I don't have any sexual needs directly surrounding the hair. So, do I have some weird hair fetish, or what?
For instance, I like hair. I have specific types of hairdoes and hair colors I like depending on the person, my favorite being brunette with curly hair about shoulder length and average volume, preferably with a slight tint of red. I usually notice a womans hair before I notice anything else about her. I have even done a double-take on an ugly woman just because she has beautiful hair.
However, I won't sleep or date someone for their hair, and I don't have any sexual needs directly surrounding the hair. So, do I have some weird hair fetish, or what?
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since that's pretty much impossible, i guess this whole discussion is pretty stupid
Does that make me a bad person?
However, I feel that using the word "abnormal" in a definition that is so shallow is irresponsible since sexuality is more natural than most people give credit. I gave monsterror advice about this last night, actually
Oh, okay. Phew! I don't feel like a freak anymore.
...don't ask what brought all this up...
they thought it was something you hate, so one day my mom is up there visiting, and my aunt is going on and on about how she has this fetish about spaghetti or something, and my mom is just horrified, until she figures out that my aunt is just retarded and though 'fetish' could also mean something you hate a lot, as though it was synonymous with anathema
That's actually a pretty good definition.
monsterror actually called me "almost poetic" after something i said during our talk last night on the subject of relationships. it made me grin like a foooool
brb collecting my assortment of yellow rubber duckies and saran wrap
i guess they make everything smaller in texas, huh?
really putting the jerk in tearjerker here
i just got this post
:^:
Ever now and then, I have a glimmer of my former self.
It also needs to be something you focus a lot of attention on, and if it's something you can't get off WITHOUT then it is definitely a fetish.
Secret Satan
Secret Satan
no, it's just going to be a bunch of dudes going 'why don't i get any women?' and then viv's gonna go 'because you never go outside' and it's going to repeat until it reaches 100 pages this time tomorrow
hahahaha if you're talking about his expectations for poetry, then yes. since he was talking to me of all people.
but i was teling him about the innate attraction between the sexes
...this one won't because due to the nature of the internet no one likes to follow directions or suggestions and chances are it will tangent off into something completely inoffensive along the lines of model airplane construction.
its like you can see the future
I think this means i have a sexual fetish for non-fat chicks
edit: Be she also can't be a skinny bitch.
I don't remember the definition.
I do remember that we had to watch a lot of weird porn in order to get desensitized to it.
Was the professor also your uncle?
Seriously, I love sports jackets and suits. Such a feeling of sexiness.