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  • FCDFCD Registered User regular
    edited December 2008
    Incenjucar wrote: »
    FCD wrote: »
    It didn't kill all the gays, but it did kill many who engaged in casual, indiscriminate sex. And it affects heterosexuals who engage in similar indiscriminate sex as well, as the spread of AIDS in Africa seems to show.

    Or, say, people who have blood transfusions or are born to people who have it, etc.

    Nothing about homosexuality itself can be said based on HIV.

    I never said it was. Hell, just look at the low numbers of lesbians who have HIV, for example.

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  • IncenjucarIncenjucar VChatter Seattle, WARegistered User regular
    edited December 2008
    Podly wrote: »
    If by choice? Probably.

    Is it a sin to knowingly marry an infertile person?

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  • s7apsters7apster Registered User regular
    edited December 2008
    Cardinal Alfonso López Trujillo of Nairobi to be precise.

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  • FCDFCD Registered User regular
    edited December 2008
    Podly wrote: »
    Is it a sin to be in a childless marriage?

    If by choice? Probably.

    Then churches should not conduct marriage ceremonies unless both particpants confirm that they definitely intend to have children afterwards.

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  • PodlyPodly you unzipped me! it's all coming back! i don't like it!Registered User regular
    edited December 2008
    Incenjucar wrote: »
    Podly wrote: »
    If by choice? Probably.

    Is it a sin to knowingly marry an infertile person?

    Hrmmm... that's interesting. I think that the lame answer would be that nothing is impossible with God's grace.

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  • FCDFCD Registered User regular
    edited December 2008
    s7apster wrote: »
    FCD wrote: »
    Podly wrote: »
    FCD wrote: »
    Podly wrote: »
    FCD wrote: »
    Incenjucar wrote: »
    FCD wrote: »
    Monogamy is generally the model that seems to work best, yes.

    Based on what peer-reviewed articles?

    It's just that it is better than indiscriminate casual sex.

    ermmmm... says who?

    hint -- probably the church

    Well, the AIDS epidemic seemed to show that that kind of sex generally wasn't the best thing.

    you mean the AIDS epidemic that killed all the gays?

    It didn't kill all the gays, but it did kill many who engaged in casual, indiscriminate sex. And it affects heterosexuals who engage in similar indiscriminate sex as well, as the spread of AIDS in Africa seems to show.
    See the thing you have to understand about that is that an African Cardinal of the Catholic Church told people not to use condoms, because they have little holes poked in them to let the AIDS through.

    Oh, I know all about the Church's little brand of misinformation. That certainly doesn't help the situation at all.

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  • s7apsters7apster Registered User regular
    edited December 2008
    FCD wrote: »
    Podly wrote: »
    Is it a sin to be in a childless marriage?

    If by choice? Probably.

    Then churches should not conduct marriage ceremonies unless both particpants confirm that they definitely intend to have children afterwards.
    Is that what you believe or is that what the church says?

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    edited December 2008
    Podly wrote: »
    Feral wrote: »
    Is it a sin to be celibate?

    No, because they are not having sex.

    How do you reconcile that with a justification from societal sustainability? If the argument is that people have a moral duty to reproduce, whether or not somebody happens to be having safe sex is completely tangential to that moral duty. Its relevance is negligible.

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  • ViolentChemistryViolentChemistry __BANNED USERS regular
    edited December 2008
    Podly wrote: »
    FCD wrote: »
    Monogamy is generally the model that seems to work best, yes.

    As is heterosexuality

    What does heterosexuality have to do with building a family? In what way does heterosexuality actually even play in to something like raising a child, or maintaining a household? Monogamy helps to provide economic and psychological stability (multiple partners cost more attention and resources, and kids tend to do better when they don't have different parents every other day).

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  • FCDFCD Registered User regular
    edited December 2008
    s7apster wrote: »
    FCD wrote: »
    Podly wrote: »
    Is it a sin to be in a childless marriage?

    If by choice? Probably.

    Then churches should not conduct marriage ceremonies unless both particpants confirm that they definitely intend to have children afterwards.
    Is that what you believe or is that what the church says?

    I'm just going by what Poldy says.

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  • IncenjucarIncenjucar VChatter Seattle, WARegistered User regular
    edited December 2008
    Podly wrote: »
    Hrmmm... that's interesting. I think that the lame answer would be that nothing is impossible with God's grace.

    So if a gay couple had faith that God would knock one of them up somehow they could marry and have sex without sinning?

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  • s7apsters7apster Registered User regular
    edited December 2008
    FCD wrote: »
    s7apster wrote: »
    FCD wrote: »
    Podly wrote: »
    FCD wrote: »
    Podly wrote: »
    FCD wrote: »
    Incenjucar wrote: »
    FCD wrote: »
    Monogamy is generally the model that seems to work best, yes.

    Based on what peer-reviewed articles?

    It's just that it is better than indiscriminate casual sex.

    ermmmm... says who?

    hint -- probably the church

    Well, the AIDS epidemic seemed to show that that kind of sex generally wasn't the best thing.

    you mean the AIDS epidemic that killed all the gays?

    It didn't kill all the gays, but it did kill many who engaged in casual, indiscriminate sex. And it affects heterosexuals who engage in similar indiscriminate sex as well, as the spread of AIDS in Africa seems to show.
    See the thing you have to understand about that is that an African Cardinal of the Catholic Church told people not to use condoms, because they have little holes poked in them to let the AIDS through.

    Oh, I know all about the Church's little brand of misinformation. That certainly doesn't help the situation at all.
    But you must admit that indiscriminate sex isn't really to blame for the severity of the AIDS epidemic.

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  • ZimmydoomZimmydoom Accept no substitutes Registered User regular
    edited December 2008
    Podly wrote: »
    Incenjucar wrote: »
    Podly wrote: »
    If by choice? Probably.

    Is it a sin to knowingly marry an infertile person?

    Hrmmm... that's interesting. I think that the lame answer would be that nothing is impossible with God's grace.

    The Church is really good at giving lame answers to complex problems.

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  • ElendilElendil Registered User regular
    edited December 2008
    FCD wrote: »
    Podly wrote: »
    Is it a sin to be in a childless marriage?
    If by choice? Probably.

    Then churches should not conduct marriage ceremonies unless both particpants confirm that they definitely intend to have children afterwards.
    I was under the impression they didn't.

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  • AresProphetAresProphet Registered User regular
    edited December 2008
    Feral wrote: »
    Podly wrote: »
    Well, if society has a right to be concerned with itself, then its inquiry into its sustainability is within its rights. The original objection was that people had no right to inquire into such means.

    Is it a sin to be celibate?
    Is it a sin to be in a childless marriage?

    It's worth pointing out that the "sex is for procreation" angle is applicable strictly to the Catholic faith, and the official party line in most Protestant congregations is that the Catholics are a bunch of crazies. Considering that Catholic denominations in America aren't the most vocal or populous opponents of gay marriage, this kind of argument isn't all that useful. Though I always appreciate it when someone points out just how weird Catholics are when it comes to sex.

    Episcopalians seemed pretty cool, they married my brother and his wife after the Catholic church kicked him to the curb for divorcing his crazy first wife.

    And yeah that's about the nicest thing I'll ever have to say about religious people so I don't think I'll be contributing much more to this thread for fear of getting infracted.

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  • FCDFCD Registered User regular
    edited December 2008
    s7apster wrote: »
    FCD wrote: »
    s7apster wrote: »
    FCD wrote: »
    Podly wrote: »
    FCD wrote: »
    Podly wrote: »
    FCD wrote: »
    Incenjucar wrote: »
    FCD wrote: »
    Monogamy is generally the model that seems to work best, yes.

    Based on what peer-reviewed articles?

    It's just that it is better than indiscriminate casual sex.

    ermmmm... says who?

    hint -- probably the church

    Well, the AIDS epidemic seemed to show that that kind of sex generally wasn't the best thing.

    you mean the AIDS epidemic that killed all the gays?

    It didn't kill all the gays, but it did kill many who engaged in casual, indiscriminate sex. And it affects heterosexuals who engage in similar indiscriminate sex as well, as the spread of AIDS in Africa seems to show.
    See the thing you have to understand about that is that an African Cardinal of the Catholic Church told people not to use condoms, because they have little holes poked in them to let the AIDS through.

    Oh, I know all about the Church's little brand of misinformation. That certainly doesn't help the situation at all.
    But you must admit that indiscriminate sex isn't really to blame for the severity of the AIDS epidemic.

    Alrighty, then.

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  • FCDFCD Registered User regular
    edited December 2008
    Elendil wrote: »
    FCD wrote: »
    Podly wrote: »
    Is it a sin to be in a childless marriage?
    If by choice? Probably.

    Then churches should not conduct marriage ceremonies unless both particpants confirm that they definitely intend to have children afterwards.
    I was under the impression they didn't.

    Do they ask every heterosexual couple they conduct marriage ceremonies for if they intend to have children or not?

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  • PodlyPodly you unzipped me! it's all coming back! i don't like it!Registered User regular
    edited December 2008
    Incenjucar wrote: »
    Podly wrote: »
    Hrmmm... that's interesting. I think that the lame answer would be that nothing is impossible with God's grace.

    So if a gay couple had faith that God would knock one of them up somehow they could marry and have sex without sinning?

    I would imagine that the church would point to Abraham and Sarah and say there is biblical examples for the heterosexual couple, but no such supportive example for a homosexual couple.

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  • IncenjucarIncenjucar VChatter Seattle, WARegistered User regular
    edited December 2008
    Podly wrote: »
    I would imagine that the church would point to Abraham and Sarah and say there is biblical examples for the heterosexual couple, but no such supportive example for a homosexual couple.

    There isn't anyone eating sandwiches in the Bible either.

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  • DrezDrez Registered User regular
    edited December 2008
    Incenjucar wrote: »
    Podly wrote: »
    I would imagine that the church would point to Abraham and Sarah and say there is biblical examples for the heterosexual couple, but no such supportive example for a homosexual couple.

    There isn't anyone eating sandwiches in the Bible either.

    "Flip to the page that shows where the mess hall is."

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  • ZimmydoomZimmydoom Accept no substitutes Registered User regular
    edited December 2008
    Incenjucar wrote: »
    Podly wrote: »
    I would imagine that the church would point to Abraham and Sarah and say there is biblical examples for the heterosexual couple, but no such supportive example for a homosexual couple.

    There isn't anyone eating sandwiches in the Bible either.

    Do you enjoy eating sandwiches?

    If you do I can guarantee you it's a sin.

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  • ElendilElendil Registered User regular
    edited December 2008
    FCD wrote: »
    Elendil wrote: »
    FCD wrote: »
    Podly wrote: »
    Is it a sin to be in a childless marriage?
    If by choice? Probably.

    Then churches should not conduct marriage ceremonies unless both particpants confirm that they definitely intend to have children afterwards.
    I was under the impression they didn't.

    Do they ask every heterosexual couple they conduct marriage ceremonies for if they intend to have children or not?
    I can't say, myself, not having been married or anything. If I'm remembering my Catholic schooling, though, you're at least supposed to pay lip service to it. I also heard the same thing Podly mentioned, in regards to infertile couples.

    I think it's fantastically silly.

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    edited December 2008
    Podly wrote: »
    I would imagine that the church would point to Abraham and Sarah and say there is biblical examples for the heterosexual couple, but no such supportive example for a homosexual couple.

    If David and Johnathan weren't doing it in the butt, I'll eat my hat.

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  • IncenjucarIncenjucar VChatter Seattle, WARegistered User regular
    edited December 2008
    Zimmydoom wrote: »
    Do you enjoy eating sandwiches?

    If you do I can guarantee you it's a sin.

    I only eat sandwiches in hopes that it will impregnate someone.

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  • ViolentChemistryViolentChemistry __BANNED USERS regular
    edited December 2008
    Incenjucar wrote: »
    Podly wrote: »
    I would imagine that the church would point to Abraham and Sarah and say there is biblical examples for the heterosexual couple, but no such supportive example for a homosexual couple.

    There isn't anyone eating sandwiches in the Bible either.

    The same part of the bible with Abraham and Sarah also says rape victims should be forced to marry their attackers. Now tell us why heterosexuality is at all relevant to building a family.

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  • IncenjucarIncenjucar VChatter Seattle, WARegistered User regular
    edited December 2008
    The same part of the bible with Abraham and Sarah also says rape victims should be forced to marry their attackers.

    So, does Podly have a sister? :winky:

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  • s7apsters7apster Registered User regular
    edited December 2008
    Incenjucar wrote: »
    Podly wrote: »
    I would imagine that the church would point to Abraham and Sarah and say there is biblical examples for the heterosexual couple, but no such supportive example for a homosexual couple.

    There isn't anyone eating sandwiches in the Bible either.

    The same part of the bible with Abraham and Sarah also says rape victims should be forced to marry their attackers. Now tell us why heterosexuality is at all relevant to building a family.
    You see, you people ignore all sorts of "lessons" from the bible because they are outdated and or violent/stupid. Why can't you add this to the list? Like VC says. How about a modern reason why Gays don't make good parents.

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  • ViolentChemistryViolentChemistry __BANNED USERS regular
    edited December 2008
    s7apster wrote: »
    Incenjucar wrote: »
    Podly wrote: »
    I would imagine that the church would point to Abraham and Sarah and say there is biblical examples for the heterosexual couple, but no such supportive example for a homosexual couple.

    There isn't anyone eating sandwiches in the Bible either.

    The same part of the bible with Abraham and Sarah also says rape victims should be forced to marry their attackers. Now tell us why heterosexuality is at all relevant to building a family.
    You see, you people ignore all sorts of "lessons" from the bible because they are outdated and or violent/stupid. Why can't you add this to the list? Like VC says. How about an actual reason why Gays don't make good parents.

    fixed

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  • AresProphetAresProphet Registered User regular
    edited December 2008
    s7apster wrote: »
    You see, you people ignore all sorts of "lessons" from the bible because they are outdated and or violent/stupid.

    Because the gays are icky!

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  • IncenjucarIncenjucar VChatter Seattle, WARegistered User regular
    edited December 2008
    Maybe the priests just really love hearing confessions about lesbian orgies.

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  • ZimmydoomZimmydoom Accept no substitutes Registered User regular
    edited December 2008
    Honestly I'd bet 10 Hail Mary's a 3 Hello Dolly's that the Catholic Church will for all intents and purposes change it's position on homosexuality to "still bad but not awful so don't worry about it" within my natural lifetime.

    Of course by then we'll have Zenmormons lobbying the Imperial Senate to ban polyunions between half-humans and Three-Socket Talzakkian sexbots from Rigel XIV.

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  • IncenjucarIncenjucar VChatter Seattle, WARegistered User regular
    edited December 2008
    The Catholic church will change its mind whenever it decides it is politically expedient to do so. God moves in mysteriously convenient ways.

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  • ViolentChemistryViolentChemistry __BANNED USERS regular
    edited December 2008
    Zimmydoom wrote: »
    Honestly I'd bet 10 Hail Mary's a 3 Hello Dolly's that the Catholic Church will for all intents and purposes change it's position on homosexuality to "still bad but not awful so don't worry about it" within my natural lifetime.

    Of course by then we'll have Zenmormons lobbying the Imperial Senate to ban polyunions between half-humans and Three-Socket Talzakkian sexbots from Rigel XIV.

    Only because Rigel XIV is an abomination.

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  • PodlyPodly you unzipped me! it's all coming back! i don't like it!Registered User regular
    edited December 2008
    I hope that the church makes the following move.

    1) Deus carnitas est.
    2) Sex is a physical expression between two loving people.
    3) Sex between two people of the same sex who love each other is not immoral.

    That does away with the tricky "God as the third party" deal, and it opens up all sex for morality. And, likewise, people who have sex with the opposite gender, even in marriage, will have to analyze whether their sex is moral or not. I also hope that the church establishes rites for gay union, though it should definitely be lower than marriage.

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  • s7apsters7apster Registered User regular
    edited December 2008
    Podly wrote: »
    I hope that the church makes the following move.

    1) Deus carnitas est.
    2) Sex is a physical expression between two loving people.
    3) Sex between two people of the same sex who love each other is not immoral.

    That does away with the tricky "God as the third party" deal, and it opens up all sex for morality. And, likewise, people who have sex with the opposite gender, even in marriage, will have to analyze whether their sex is moral or not. I also hope that the church establishes rites for gay union, though it should definitely be lower than marriage.
    Why?

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  • s7apsters7apster Registered User regular
    edited December 2008
    Why lower than marriage I mean.

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  • PodlyPodly you unzipped me! it's all coming back! i don't like it!Registered User regular
    edited December 2008
    s7apster wrote: »
    Podly wrote: »
    I hope that the church makes the following move.

    1) Deus carnitas est.
    2) Sex is a physical expression between two loving people.
    3) Sex between two people of the same sex who love each other is not immoral.

    That does away with the tricky "God as the third party" deal, and it opens up all sex for morality. And, likewise, people who have sex with the opposite gender, even in marriage, will have to analyze whether their sex is moral or not. I also hope that the church establishes rites for gay union, though it should definitely be lower than marriage.
    Why?

    because I think the church's stance on homosexuality is wrong

    edit* oh

    Well, I think that, in the abstract, a heterosexual family is preferable. Both a mother and a father, who raise their own children. I see nothing wrong with heterosexual marriages and families -- I support them -- but I do think that the best situation is a heterosexual family.

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  • s7apsters7apster Registered User regular
    edited December 2008
    Podly wrote: »
    s7apster wrote: »
    Podly wrote: »
    I hope that the church makes the following move.

    1) Deus carnitas est.
    2) Sex is a physical expression between two loving people.
    3) Sex between two people of the same sex who love each other is not immoral.

    That does away with the tricky "God as the third party" deal, and it opens up all sex for morality. And, likewise, people who have sex with the opposite gender, even in marriage, will have to analyze whether their sex is moral or not. I also hope that the church establishes rites for gay union, though it should definitely be lower than marriage.
    Why?

    because I think the church's stance on homosexuality is wrong
    ^^ Why lower than marriage?

    **oh

    You made a typo but I see what you mean. Cool beans.

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  • ZimmydoomZimmydoom Accept no substitutes Registered User regular
    edited December 2008
    Incenjucar wrote: »
    The Catholic church will change its mind whenever it decides it is politically expedient to do so. God moves in mysteriously convenient ways.

    Pretty much.

    Also keep in mind that the Church is not some monolithic, internally consistent, uniform entity. To say "The Church's position is: blahblahblah" isn't a very useful statement. It may be the position of some in the Church that blahblahblah, but there are hundreds of orders and thousands of diocese and millions of individual clergy and faithful who all have different interpretations not only of scripture, but of doctrine derived from scripture.

    It's about as meaningful as claiming that there is an official "American position" on the war in Iraq. The Bush administration may technically have an official position, but that isn't necessarily consistent with the beliefs of any given American citizen, member of the US government, or even those within the White House itself. So don't make the mistake of assuming that when Rome says jump, we say how high. Rome is a political institution with its own parties and competing ideologies, and intelligent Catholics recognize that.

    A Catholic /= The Catholic Church /= A Catholic Church /= The Vatican /= A Priest. So on and so forth.

    Keep all that in mind.

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  • ZimmydoomZimmydoom Accept no substitutes Registered User regular
    edited December 2008
    Zimmydoom wrote: »
    Honestly I'd bet 10 Hail Mary's a 3 Hello Dolly's that the Catholic Church will for all intents and purposes change it's position on homosexuality to "still bad but not awful so don't worry about it" within my natural lifetime.

    Of course by then we'll have Zenmormons lobbying the Imperial Senate to ban polyunions between half-humans and Three-Socket Talzakkian sexbots from Rigel XIV.

    Only because Rigel XIV is an abomination.

    Fucking snot-eyed spoonheads.

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