This too. But yeah, love adds a nice extra layer of awesome to it, but if they suck at it then you're still left with a shitty sex life. I guess for some people that doesn't really matter, and for some it does. Different strokes for different folks, you know :winky:
My point is that you don't need to be stuck in a shitty sex life if you talk to the person about. Say "Your fucking doing it wrong" and usually they'll listen.
It's not all about whether they are doing things "right" or "wrong." What if you really like to do things that they don't like? Either you have to give it up, or they have to go along with it and all the while you know they are unhappy doing it. And where's the fun in that? You can talk until you're blue in the face but that isn't always going to make one person totally compatible with another person.
It's not all about whether they are doing things "right" or "wrong." What if you really like to do things that they don't like? Either you have to give it up, or they have to go along with it and all the while you know they are unhappy doing it. And where's the fun in that? You can talk until you're blue in the face but that isn't always going to make one person totally compatible with another person.
In this case, right and wrong are subjective to the person its about. And, maybe I'm the only guy out there like this, but I want the girl to enjoy it- her enjoying it = me enjoying it and whatever I need to do for her to enjoy it, I'm right there doing it.
You're certainly not the only guy out there like that, though I've got to say that I'm with Betel on this; first of all, because you never know when you fall madly in love with a girl who loves her whips, and more generally, because I think sexual compatibility and romantic compatibility aren't necessarily neatly linked. I don't think they're completely separate, either, but you can be in love with someone with whom the sexual enjoyment on someone's end just isn't there, or (it seems, sometimes, more commonly, though who knows?) have great sex with someone you're always fighting with.
It's there so men can catch filthy women in their dirty lies and stone them to death for being impure. What else?
Truly the finest example of intelligent design.
hahahhahah excellent
I think ND is going along the right track. As an artist we have the unique ability to critique something into the ground
"I can see multiple problems with your composition, here and here. You're technique is also lacking. Overall it feels like you just improvised something 5 minutes ago and weren't prepared at all."
It's there so men can catch filthy women in their dirty lies and stone them to death for being impure. What else?
Truly the finest example of intelligent design.
hahahhahah excellent
I think ND is going along the right track. As an artist we have the unique ability to critique something into the ground
"I can see multiple problems with your composition, here and here. You're technique is also lacking. Overall it feels like you just improvised something 5 minutes ago and weren't prepared at all."
Did you quote the right post? Cause I'm kind of struggling to make the connection, here. Could be it's late, though.
It's there so men can catch filthy women in their dirty lies and stone them to death for being impure. What else?
Truly the finest example of intelligent design.
hahahhahah excellent
I think ND is going along the right track. As an artist we have the unique ability to critique something into the ground
"I can see multiple problems with your composition, here and here. You're technique is also lacking. Overall it feels like you just improvised something 5 minutes ago and weren't prepared at all."
Did you quote the right post? Cause I'm kind of struggling to make the connection, here. Could be it's late, though.
I quoted for general topic. ND's post was down there somewhere.
On my coming 25th and all before it I had to deal with people who believed with great conviction that I ceased to be in-between leap years. Some would even stand there and try to calculate my "real" age.
On my coming 25th and all before it I had to deal with people who believed with great conviction that I ceased to be in-between leap years. Some would even stand there and try to calculate my "real" age.
To get the full effect, you would have to dodge a series of logical hurdles I used to steer them toward reality. I don't think any of you can pretend to be that dumb.
I turn 22 in 30 days! 22 is going to feel weird. I think after I turned 18, and up until I turned 21, I would tell people i was 18 by accident. I guess I just didn't feel like I was 19 or 20, when I was. I sure as hell don't feel 22! I dunno, maybe I just feel that at 22 I should be running my own business out of my mansion with a 5 car garage and $2 million in stocks.
With an indoor-heated pool that I keep by boat in.
I'm away for a night and this place is full of busted hymens. Jesus guys.
That seems to be what always happens when there's women in a conversation...
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BRO LET ME GET REAL WITH YOU AND SAY THAT MY FINGERS ARE PREPPED AND HOT LIKE THE SURFACE OF THE SUN TO BRING RADICAL BEATS SO SMOOTH THE SHIT WILL BE MEDICINAL-GRADE TRIPNASTY MAKING ALL BRAINWAVES ROLL ON THE SURFACE OF A BALLS-FEISTY NEURAL RAINBOW CRACKA-LACKIN' YOUR PERCEPTION OF THE HERE-NOW SPACE-TIME SITUATION THAT ALL OF LIFE BE JAMMED UP IN THROUGH THE UNIVERSAL FLOW BEATS
You're old? Why, when you were in elementary school, I was...also in elementary school...hmm...
I found that 22 is the start of a sort of shift in birthdays. There isn't any major privilege to look forward to anymore (unless you really want that senate seat, so I found myself kind of forgetting how old I was every now and again. I get the feeling it'll be even worse once I hit 25, because in addition to not keeping track, I also have that lingering disbelief.
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edited January 2009
I'm... 20.
I'm an "adult" but not old enough to legally enjoy the awesomeness that entails.
I'm not sure I've got any such days or signs. My hair's already graying, sometimes my joints hurt on cold mornings, I'm pretty damn forgetful to start with, I've got pretty heavy wrinking going on on my forehead...I suppose I could still go bald...
I turn 22 in 30 days! 22 is going to feel weird. I think after I turned 18, and up until I turned 21, I would tell people i was 18 by accident. I guess I just didn't feel like I was 19 or 20, when I was. I sure as hell don't feel 22! I dunno, maybe I just feel that at 22 I should be running my own business out of my mansion with a 5 car garage and $2 million in stocks.
With an indoor-heated pool that I keep by boat in.
Or.....something.
I'm old!
Soon you'll realize that you have many decades ahead and that it's best to take your time and do it right. Hopefully.
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edited January 2009
I started greying at 24 and then it just stopped and hasn't really come back and also yay for my hair, it just keeps getting thicker the older I get, it's like I have a bizarro-balding gene.
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edited January 2009
You guys are making me feel like having a quarter life crisis five years early.
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It's not all about whether they are doing things "right" or "wrong." What if you really like to do things that they don't like? Either you have to give it up, or they have to go along with it and all the while you know they are unhappy doing it. And where's the fun in that? You can talk until you're blue in the face but that isn't always going to make one person totally compatible with another person.
Ah, the words every tender lover longs to hear...
In this case, right and wrong are subjective to the person its about. And, maybe I'm the only guy out there like this, but I want the girl to enjoy it- her enjoying it = me enjoying it and whatever I need to do for her to enjoy it, I'm right there doing it.
Unless she wants whips.
That's out of the question.
look at this namby pamby prude over here
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I think ND is going along the right track. As an artist we have the unique ability to critique something into the ground
"I can see multiple problems with your composition, here and here. You're technique is also lacking. Overall it feels like you just improvised something 5 minutes ago and weren't prepared at all."
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Did you quote the right post? Cause I'm kind of struggling to make the connection, here. Could be it's late, though.
I quoted for general topic. ND's post was down there somewhere.
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*unless it will make me feel better.
edit: That could be the title of a country song.
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I don't know why this is hitting me so hard, but it's been pretty heavy on my mind for the past couple days.
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Not that that'll stop me from doing it again in three years when he turns 30.
"Well aren't you a tall 6.25-year-old."
Make it March- that way I can actually share a birth month with someone I kind of know maybe. Well, for 75% of your life anyway.
With an indoor-heated pool that I keep by boat in.
Or.....something.
I'm old!
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awesome.
No it's not. And you're not old. Stop being so unrealistic!
At least that's what he would've said....were he alive.
You're old? Why, when you were in elementary school, I was...also in elementary school...hmm...
I found that 22 is the start of a sort of shift in birthdays. There isn't any major privilege to look forward to anymore (unless you really want that senate seat, so I found myself kind of forgetting how old I was every now and again. I get the feeling it'll be even worse once I hit 25, because in addition to not keeping track, I also have that lingering disbelief.
I'm an "adult" but not old enough to legally enjoy the awesomeness that entails.
Now I just don't care anymore, but secretly I really do care, cause getting old really sucks balls.
i'm still young and spry
and my boobies are still perky
the day my boobs stop being perky is the day i admit aging defeat
I'm not sure I've got any such days or signs. My hair's already graying, sometimes my joints hurt on cold mornings, I'm pretty damn forgetful to start with, I've got pretty heavy wrinking going on on my forehead...I suppose I could still go bald...
Soon you'll realize that you have many decades ahead and that it's best to take your time and do it right. Hopefully.
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