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Cat obsessed with knocking things over.

LucidLucid Registered User regular
edited January 2009 in Help / Advice Forum
So, my girlfriends cat can be somewhat annoying to us on occasion. What he does is this; we usually hang around in the living room where there's seating and a coffee table. This is where we watch movies/games/misc computer stuff. It's just that if we bring out stuff to put on the table to eat or drink he becomes obsessed with knocking them off the table. Even in the bedroom on the nightstand we can't leave drinks on. It's either shut him out of the room or get up during the night if you get thirsty. It's mostly drinks that he does this with too. He'll put his paw in them then pull/push it around until it spills or falls over. It's not fun to have to keep bitching at him to get off of the table every so often, especially during movies or other fun activities. That or no leaving drinks on the table, which honestly seems unfair. With non drinks he'll push them to the floor then almost immediately not care about them.

He's about a year old, so that's why I thought maybe it's not too late to teach him somehow. We've tried using a water gun to shoot him, but sometimes he'll just sit there and take it(even in the face) before he goes away. It gets stuff wet too.

She says he doesn't do this that much when I'm not around. I'm wondering if it has anything to do with me being there? It's like he's not submissive at all, he bites a lot(not just me). I have my own cat as well, who is around 7 years old and I somehow made him realize not to mess around over the years, but part of that may be that he is an outdoor cat(in the spring/summer) while hers is an indoor cat. Her cat has plenty of toys as well, but ..yeah.

I appreciate any advice/help.

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  • LaonarLaonar Registered User regular
    edited January 2009
    Is he neutered? That would take a lot of spark out of him. Just get the ole bags cut off. Also does he drink from the cups or sniff around them a lot while preparing to push them off? Try hot sause on the rim of the glass. Bet your ass he wont fuck with them after that. We do this for our dogs who like to dig in our garden. Drop some hotsause in the ground... dogs didnt dig anymore.

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  • ApexMirageApexMirage Registered User regular
    edited January 2009
    Sounds like he might be threatened by you as he doesn't get as much attention from her when you're around, but I'm no cat expert.

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  • TheMarshalTheMarshal Registered User regular
    edited January 2009
    It sounds like the cat is used to getting attention from his mama, and when you're there, he's all but ignored. Just like a kid, he'll start to act out. If your girlfriend's up for it, I'd suggest that she try to get an additional cat, which would give her current cat someone to play with.

    It's also possible that she just hasn't done a very good job of disciplining him. The resistance to the squirt bottle is actually common amongst males (it doesn't bother my orange tabby nearly as much as my calico), but she could also try using canned air. My cats really don't like that, and I don't even have to be near them when the spray goes off for them to get their act together.

    Finally, if you don't already, you should try to play with him whenever you go over there. Bring him treats or little toys (I suggest plastic bottle-caps or O-rings from soda bottles) whenever you visit. As long as he knows that you're not there to usurp him, he may warm up to you and stop acting up.

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  • JaysonFourJaysonFour Classy Monster Kitteh Registered User regular
    edited January 2009
    That cat is doing his damndest to get some attention. It doesn't matter if it's positive or negative, having to acknowledge its presence is good enough.

    Kitty just feels left out. Buy it a new toy, give it a treat or two, just let it know you know he's there every once in a while and he should stop. He might be curious- just let him sniff the stuff in the glass or whatever and let them figure out it's not something they want to eat or drink. Afterwards, the cat should leave it alone.

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  • FyreWulffFyreWulff YouRegistered User, ClubPA regular
    edited January 2009
    If he's resistant to the water bottle method, start putting empty glasses on the table in front of you. When he knocks them over, don't react.

    He's basically trained you to react to him. He wants attention. You could try interacting with him more (petting, etc), or as I said, don't react to him when he does this. My mom has a cat that used to knock things over all the time, and when people stopped reacting to it, the cat stopped doing it.

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  • winter_combat_knightwinter_combat_knight Registered User regular
    edited January 2009
    Might be stupid suggestion, but try sticking a few glasses down on tables, so that they are pretty well stuck. Then when your gf's cat tries to knock it off, he can't, so therefor he should get tired trying, and will eventually grow out of the problem. Cats can be little shatners!

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  • ThylacineThylacine Registered User regular
    edited January 2009
    I think some cats are just like this. My cat does the exact same thing. She loves putting her feet in glasses, and will sometimes knock them over on accident(or on purpose when she wants to play with them). My cat goes so far as to stick her foot and rub it all over the bottom of empty glasses. I think she just realized there is water in side of them, and she wants it. She's obsessed with anything with water in it. Sink, tub, glasses...

    Anyway...while it's annoying you just have to keep any eye on your glasses. Don't leave glasses unattended, and shoo the cat away from them if he messes with them in front of you.

    As for having a drink around at night....I have a rubbermaid drink bottle thing that has a flip top. Since the top is sealed she pretty much leaves it alone, and don't think she realizes it is a cup. And if she did knock it over, it wouldn't spill.

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  • DeathwingDeathwing Registered User regular
    edited January 2009
    I think some cats are just like this.

    Same here....Our cats get tons of attention, and they still (try to) pull this sort of stuff all the time - cups, figurines, screwdrivers, hairbrushes, pens, coins, etc. etc.

    My wife has learned not to leave glasses unattended anymore after our boy just couldn't resist the urge to tip a water glass on her keyboard (twice) :):P

    I'm also convinced they have some sort of telepathy for coordinating attempts to steal meat off my dinner plates, but that's for another thread sometime.

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  • QuidQuid Definitely not a banana Registered User regular
    edited January 2009
    Do you know the breed? Turkish Vans and Savannah cats are actually attracted to water a great deal and simply enjoy playing with it. Which may also explain why he isn't phased by the water gun.

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  • UnderdogUnderdog Registered User regular
    edited January 2009
    I'd try the empty cup + ignoring him. Even if unsuccessful, it doesn't hurt any.

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  • noobertnoobert Registered User regular
    edited January 2009
    Chiming in to say that my cat is the same. When she gets bored things start falling off surfaces, then things like corded mice become toys as they dangle helplessly.

    Could always try squirting him with water when he begins to play with a cup. Stopped my cat doing some more naughty things.

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  • HlubockyHlubocky Registered User regular
    edited January 2009
    Yeah, just get used to it. Our cat was the same way... squirting, yelling, etc... nothing worked.

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  • EmanonEmanon __BANNED USERS regular
    edited January 2009
    Don't mean to hijack as the ladyfriend just got a cat too that is about 6 months old. He is really cute & fun but keeps jumping on my lap, even when playing a game which is annoying. Will the spray bottle work?

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  • SevorakSevorak Registered User regular
    edited January 2009
    Emanon wrote: »
    Don't mean to hijack as the ladyfriend just got a cat too that is about 6 months old. He is really cute & fun but keeps jumping on my lap, even when playing a game which is annoying. Will the spray bottle work?

    Depends on the cat, but I think it would be a really bad idea to discipline a cat for jumping on your lap. He's likely to get antisocial if you spray him in the face with water when he just wants some cuddles. Just put him down if he jumps on you at an inopportune time, or deal with the awful ordeal of having a cute widdle kitten on your lap.

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  • Conroy BumpasConroy Bumpas Registered User regular
    edited January 2009
    sorry for my bad spelling

    my cat is evil. if i do somthing he dosent like he goes over an tips over my drink on perpouse. and teh little git wakes me up at 4 am.

    basicly from help on here and books. a cat wants attention and it dosnt matter what attention it gets as long as its getting a reaction. the more "naughty" it acts teh bigger the reaction it gets from you.

    i started spraying him when he jumped up at food. then hed go and tip somthing over as revenge.

    then he lernd to not react when i sprayed him with water.

    to stop him wakeing me up . i locked him out of my room and put door mats so he could scratch. i ignored his scraching for 3 days. then he started making noises like a crying baby to try to get my girlfiend to get up. there was nothing wrong he just lerned things to do that get the bigest reaction.

    so i think its likly that your cat has lerned that spilling a drink get a pretty huge reaction out of you guys.


    i think a likly best option would be to try to not react. and mybe put your drinks in bottles with lids so if he tips them they dont spill. likly after time he'll find somthing else to try to get a reaction from you.

    get a lazer pointer and make him chase it for 10 mins that userly wares mine out before i want to watch a film, he get tired then comes and stits on the sofa with me. feed the thing up to that makes them sleepy.

    a big reaction is all he wants from you. remeber cats dont think like we do

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  • Conroy BumpasConroy Bumpas Registered User regular
    edited January 2009
    Emanon wrote: »
    Don't mean to hijack as the ladyfriend just got a cat too that is about 6 months old. He is really cute & fun but keeps jumping on my lap, even when playing a game which is annoying. Will the spray bottle work?

    thast what cats do the want to sit on your lap for a warm snooze. id get used to it.

    if you dot let it and it feels neglected it will start doing somthing like tipping drinks over to get attcetion

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  • The Crowing OneThe Crowing One Registered User regular
    edited January 2009
    The kitty wants attention!

    My cat has a habit of drinking out of cups, even when we, her owner's, are actively using them. The issue generally got solved when I began covering my water cup at night.

    We went through the "why won't you play with me at 3AM?" routine, as well. By ignoring the screaming and scratching it was over and done within a few days. Give the cat some attention, pick him up and pet him or play around with some of his toys. Let him nuzzle up to you and allow the cat to lead you around when he wants to show you something.

    The most success I've had with cat behavior is, as everyone has said, to simply ignore the furball. Give attention when appropriate, and ignore actions which cause him to get a "rise" out of you. If the cat knocks over another glass just grab him and put him in another room, alone, for awhile before cleaning up. Don't scold the cat or try to change the behavior by showing attention, change the cat's behavior by managing the kitty's expectations of consequences.

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  • bowenbowen Sup? Registered User regular
    edited January 2009
    The cat used to do this to us when we were in the room and had an empty can on our nightstand. We'd get up, pick the can up, and pet him and give him attention. This started a bad habit where he'd do it even if all he got was a shout and a tap on the nose for being a bad kitty. He's retarded and started doing it while we were asleep. He eventually found out that this wasn't getting our attention and moved on to scratching up on some wood paneling.

    If you give him attention for doing something, they'll keep doing it. Try the ignore routine and you'll find they stop doing it all together.

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