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Buying Girlfriend a sex toy
randomman
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Okay, I know that asking my girlfriend what she would like best would be the best option, however I would like this to be a surprise. We've already bought stuff for each other so that will rule out any possible awkwardness.
So I know there are a bunch of sites on google that offer reviews and I've read most of them, particularly the rabbit vibrators seem to be a promising choice; however despite reading the reviews I just feel like talking to other people about it would give me a better idea on the matter. I just feel like talking to actual people would give me a better idea of what to expect.
So if anyone could give me some recommendations that would be awesome, also I guess it would help to say that I need a place that can ship to Canada. (so far we've just been using www.lovedreamer.ca)
So I know there are a bunch of sites on google that offer reviews and I've read most of them, particularly the rabbit vibrators seem to be a promising choice; however despite reading the reviews I just feel like talking to other people about it would give me a better idea on the matter. I just feel like talking to actual people would give me a better idea of what to expect.
So if anyone could give me some recommendations that would be awesome, also I guess it would help to say that I need a place that can ship to Canada. (so far we've just been using www.lovedreamer.ca)
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As for suggestions about specific things, I got nothin.
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Well I always figured throwing a condom on it would solve that issue, even though I do agree with you those ones are kind of gross.
Ah, yeah there is pretty much only one decent store for that where I am and it's the Love Bug (http://www.lovebugshop.com/Scripts/default.asp) and we've been there and.... there really isn't much selection, they basically just have a lot of "clothing".
Oh you're not prying, um she likes clitoral stimulation, we've ventured into clitoral and g-spot stimulation a little while ago... I am not exactly sure how much she likes it haha since she says she has to go pee a lot when it gets um... into it. Basically I asked her if she wanted me to not do it anymore, she said to keep trying something about an Opera episode saying that it's normal to have that reaction and get used to it and so forth.
*edit* oh and for clitoral she prefers pressure over speed
She already has a bullet, she uses it sometimes... but not often.
am I allowed to link sex toys here?
Well basically Ann Summers in the UK have something called a "Hot Pink Clit Kit" which comes with a vibrating bullet thing with interchangable heads so you get some interesting variation. Something similar to that might be what you're looking for?
G-spot stimulation will make her feel like peeing if you don't ease into it. I mean, really really, take it slow. One finger, then maybe two, straight on for a bit. Then slightly curve them up a bit, and just push lightly. Then when she gets more into it you can go faster and she won't have the peeing urge. You just have to ramp it up slowly.
As for condoms, yeah, but that is 6 or 7 bucks every 12 times. If you go silicone you can save that money right there and have the piece of mind.
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Ahhh, I'll try easing into the g-spot more next time, and yeah you make a good point I guess a good silicone toy would be best then.
(sorted price low to high)
Japanese G Spot Squirmy - Velvet Touch Silicone Sleeve
Sue Johanson’s Silicone Royal Rabbit
Evolved - True Love Edition Waterproof Honey Bunny
*edit adding this in*iVibe Rabbit Vibrator WaterProof
Silicone Clitifier - Exotic Butterfly Arouser - Waterproof
Fun Factory Delight - Rechargeable Silicone G-Spot Vibe
Any other suggestions would be great
Is that thing about plastics being bad true? How bad? How can they even sell it if it's poisonous?
Well I am guessing that the part (on the last one) you stick the end without the controls in the special place:|
Um I remember vaguely hearing about the non-silicone toys before, essentially the plastic isn't terribly dangerous, some people might be allergic or some say that it might not be exactly healthy (I assume a "better be safe than sorry" theory) and finally the most important: some of the none silicone ones like cyberskin, jelly, etc are porous which means it has a lot of little microscopic hard to clean holes in which germs can gather.
*Edit* oh yeah, and well I guess the whole using a condom on the sex toy thing could work since my University gives out condoms for free...:|
My fiance has a bullet and doesn't want anything else. She doesn't want a toy used for penetration. So maybe your girl has similar desires and you should just get her a gift certificate.
Can't give specific recommendations on toys, as it's a pretty personal thing. Even stuff she picks out herself, once she gets it home and tries it out she might not like it (too big, too small, too much force, not enough, etc.) and then it probably cannot be returned. If she has a bullet and she doesn't use it much I dunno, maybe try a larger piece, maybe she's just not into those kinds of toys?
Or you could get her a multi-speed massaging hand shower or something and install it at her place. Not sure if this will work in her living situation.
It is bad, causes cancer in lab rats. Sex toys are less regulated than dog toys, so best to play it safe.
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Hmmmm yeah you make a good point, it is indeed a tough call. I've seen her eye similar rabbit type toys before while we were in the local sex shop (they only had jelly ones last I was there), she even picked it up and looked interested in it, but the price of $120 made her not even consider it. It's hard to tell if she was just looking at it for just interest sake, or actually wanting it. I know she likes indirect G-Spot stimulation... so I figured... why not direct with a rabbit or dildo of sorts? But I could be counting my eggs before they are laid.
The Hitachi Magic wand seems like a good alternative if she doesn't want penetration from a toy, I've read up on it and it seems to be recommended and powerful. It just seems big and cumbersome is it worth it? Also you said it is a bit intense to start off with, how intense exactly? She's impatient and jumps the gun too fast and generally starts too hard... I remember when she got the bullet she always got turned off by it because it made her feel numb.
I went through this process of picking out a surprise for my girlfriend just a little while ago, I ended up going with the Lelo Gigi and she loved it.
I bought this for my girlfriend as a gift and she absolutely LOVED it. Currently it says its out of stock by they probably have it other places.
Its a classic vibrator, however, it hooks into an iPod for music feedback. How awesome is that? She said that the song Something by the Beatles was pretty much the only song she used with the thing because it was "Perfect." It looks like there are all kinds of playlists people have put together and everything. She couldn't recommend it enough.
Definitely worth checking out, it looks like they even make different shapes.
Seriously, even if it falls flat its such a cool thing that its still an awesome gift.
I don't think it'll fall flat though. My girlfriend really didn't use it for penetration and said it was awesome. The ability to link it with music also could help your girlfriend be patient.
You know the one that they popularize in porn-o and such. As its not really urine (unless it is in this instance), just part of G-spot stimulation on some women.
Correct me if I am wrong.
I'm pretty sure G-spot stimulation can put pressure on your bladder, giving you the illusion you have to pee.
I might be horribly wrong though.
edit: best TOTP ever
Unlike porn implies, this squirting orgasm only happens to a small minority of people. For most women this is an uncomfortable feeling that comes with you rushing into it too fast. Very unsexy.
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How would it do that? The g-spot(to the front) is the opposite direction of the bladder(to the back).
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That was my understanding.
Check out Babeland like some people said or Good Vibrations. They both are really good for customer service and having reviews/marking which ones are the most popular.
The Hitachi Magic wand is sort of clunky in size but it's worth it. Depending on what she's used to you might want to buy some of the attachments to go with it so she can try out different things, and if it's too intense she can use a towel to muffle down the power.
So it's like the Rez trance vibrator for your iPod?
Sold.
I think its totally worth it. It is a tad clunky and does have to be plugged in (which, I think is a good thing as battery powered toys arnt intense enough, but you cant take it in the shower or anything). Alone it is nice externally but with the attachments (which i recommend) you can go for penetration. options
But if she didnt like the bullet because it made her feel numb, then this probably isnt the best choice.
OhMiBod G-Spot
Wow that looks... Awesome. *bookmarked* Thank you for that.
You make a good point, I'll go with the original instead.
Good choice man. That thing is probably one of the best things that I have spent money on.
Check an anatomical diagram: the G-spot is kind of where the urethra comes near the surface of the vagina. The bladder is right next to it.
Damn. You're right. Bladder is to the front, kidneys are to the back. I had kidneys in my head for some reason.
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In your head? You best go see a doctor about that one; they certainly shouldn't be up there.
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