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How should I style my hair?

squeefishsqueefish Registered User regular
edited January 2009 in Help / Advice Forum
So, this is my hair (I'm pondering my next Scrabble move in this photo :P):

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I have a formal event on Friday and I'm not sure what I should do with it. I don't really want to leave it down, and pulling the bangs back looks a little strange to me. Any suggestions?

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  • TopiaTopia Registered User regular
    edited January 2009
    Go to a stylist and ask them to make you look pretty(er).

    They know best, unless someone in here has a sense of your hair and body and can tell you what you will look good on you. A stylist will be able to get an "understanding" of your hair and your body type to get a good look going.

    I mean I think it looks good as is, but that's just me. By the looks of things it's a very full/thick head of hair so it should open up a lot of different possibilities.

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  • Robos A Go GoRobos A Go Go Registered User regular
    edited January 2009
    I like pixie cuts, but that's just me.

    Anyway, why not spend a few hours browsing hair styles, select a few you like, then print them out and take them to a stylist and decide what'll work?

    Whatever you pick, I'm sure you'll end up looking great.

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  • TopiaTopia Registered User regular
    edited January 2009
    I like pixie cuts, but that's just me.

    Why not spend a few hours browsing hair styles, select a few you like, then print them out and take them to a stylist and decide what'll work?

    Whatever you pick, I'm sure you'll end up looking great.

    ah yes I like this, it elaborates well what I was saying. Not every hair style will work well with your face.

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  • KyouguKyougu Registered User regular
    edited January 2009
    I would say shorten the bangs. Your face looks really hidden, though it may be the framing of the picture.

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  • squeefishsqueefish Registered User regular
    edited January 2009
    Thanks, guys. Just to clarify, though - I'm not getting it cut, I was just wondering if anyone knew of any easy updos or anything for hair my length that I could do myself. If it were only a little bit longer or if I didn't have those bangs I could probably manage something, but I'm out of ideas for now. Unfortunately I don't have the money to go to a stylist - I might be getting a bang trim before then (they won't be much shorter though, I like 'em at around eyebrow length or a bit longer) but that's only because they're free at the salon I usually go to :P

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  • TopiaTopia Registered User regular
    edited January 2009
    squeefish wrote: »
    Thanks, guys. Just to clarify, though - I'm not getting it cut, I was just wondering if anyone knew of any easy updos or anything for hair my length that I could do myself. If it were only a little bit longer or if I didn't have those bangs I could probably manage something, but I'm out of ideas for now. Unfortunately I don't have the money to go to a stylist - I might be getting a bang trim before then (they won't be much shorter though, I like 'em at around eyebrow length or a bit longer) but that's only because they're free at the salon I usually go to :P

    Oh that sucks. Well in that case try giving it a good back-comb and curl it a bit, it will give you some volume, and will give you a different look. With that extra volume it could show your face a bit more, which I agree is a little too covered. From what we can see you have a very good looking face, so show it off, pull the hair back off of it a bit.

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  • purplebubblespurplebubbles Registered User regular
    edited January 2009
    As a girl who recently cut her hair to just above shoulder length and regrets it, I'm so envious! You can do practically anything you want with hair that length, the only thing that might get in the way are the shorter layered parts that might need to be pinned up for some hairstyles.

    If you had any particular styles that you really liked, you should post pictures of them and we can try and direct you in recreating them. If you were looking for a simple solution, you could curl sections of your hair with a curling iron. Use a good heat protectant on your hair first, and make sure you don't use anything that adds extra volume or if your hair is anything like mine, it will poof out and go all frizzy.

    Another suggestion is to put your hair up in a sleek elegant high bun, or french twist. They look absolutely adorable with bangs like you've got and are really easy to re-create and there are plenty of websites to tell you how to do it if you don't know. You could also put it up in a messy bun and curl the very ends/pin them so that you have ringlets falling down.

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  • squeefishsqueefish Registered User regular
    edited January 2009
    Thanks so much for the tips, purplebubbles! I don't know if we own a curling iron (I've never curled my hair before, I use my straightener almost every day...maybe I should do a test run before Friday) but my mom might have one kicking around somewhere.

    I'll look around for styles online that I like. I did find a few that I thought were very pretty, but it seemed most of them were designed for girls without bangs. I'll keep searching though. Thanks again!

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  • ImprovoloneImprovolone Registered User regular
    edited January 2009
    Whatever you do, it needs to be shinier than it is in that picture.

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  • purplebubblespurplebubbles Registered User regular
    edited January 2009
    You are welcome. If you find any you like, post them and I'll see what I can do in order to help you figure out how to create the same look, or modify it so that it suits your hair.
    If you've got a slimline hair straightener you can also use that a bit like a curling wand, but it takes a bit of extra work to do, and to get the curls going in the right direction. If not, you should think about getting a curling iron at some stage anyway. Adds loads of variety to your hairstyles and every girl should be armed with one!
    You also need to invest in a heat protectant for using your hair straightener if you don't already, it will add lots and lots of shine to your hair and keep it in great condition.

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  • MedopineMedopine __BANNED USERS regular
    edited January 2009
    I posted some pics in the D+D fashion thread

    Googling "updo" along with "fringe" or "bangs" gets okay results

    You can also find a celeb with the same style hair and search them by name (Lily Allen has heavy bangs, among others)

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  • MunacraMunacra Registered User regular
    edited January 2009
    SQUEEFISH!

    Color. You know you want to.

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  • CryogenCryogen Registered User regular
    edited January 2009
    I totally agree with purplebubbles! Was even planning to write the same thing before i got to her post :)

    I'd definately try tying it up, with the glasses you'd look very cool & 60's retro! Love that look, i went swing dancing on the weekend and a girl there had that kind of look.

    I also used to have a friend with hair about your length, and she curled it occasionally. It looked fantastic. You can do mild curling with a hair straightener if you twist the hair around the tongs as you pull, try that before investing in an actual curling iron. This is more effective if your straightener doesnt have big broad plates though. If you're nervous about it, go to a shop that sells straighteners, that also has a dummy head with hair for demonstrations. Ask them to show you how to do it. If they dont know, say you've heard it can be done and ask if you can try. Not many stores will say no. A curling iron gives much tighter curls though, depends on the look you're after.

    *edit - beaten on the straightener curling!*

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  • squeefishsqueefish Registered User regular
    edited January 2009
    Great tips, thanks everyone!

    Medopine, I searched for updos with bangs on google and found this (which is a little low to be an "updo," I suppose :P):

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    Looks like it would probably be pretty easy, but I'm not sure if I have enough hair for it (lengthwise, that is). What do you guys think? Could I manage something similar?

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  • purplebubblespurplebubbles Registered User regular
    edited January 2009
    Probably won't have long enough top layers to do that so low down, but if you were to lift the bun upwards slightly, to the middle of the head it would look much better because the bun itself would be fuller.

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  • squeefishsqueefish Registered User regular
    edited January 2009
    Okay, well, I think I'll search around for a curling iron at home tomorrow and try it out, and if that doesn't work, I'll go for some sort of updo. Thanks for all the suggestions, everyone! I'll keep the thread open just in case I have difficulty figuring this stuff out over the next few days :P

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  • Charles KinboteCharles Kinbote Registered User regular
    edited January 2009
    you've definitely gotten some helpful advice, but as always we can make give the most informed help with a couple pictures of different angles. people's faces can look different from different directions, and something important might occur to us if we can see what you look like/what your hair has been like at different times.

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  • VixxVixx Valkyrie: prepared! Registered User regular
    edited January 2009
    you've definitely gotten some helpful advice, but as always we can make give the most informed help with a couple pictures of different angles. people's faces can look different from different directions, and something important might occur to us if we can see what you look like/what your hair has been like at different times.

    yeah I was just going to suggest this

    the picture you posted shows us your hair, not your face

    we need a better idea of what you look like before we can even give you proper hair-wear tips

    some do's just don't suit on some faces

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  • squeefishsqueefish Registered User regular
    edited January 2009
    Vivixenne wrote: »
    you've definitely gotten some helpful advice, but as always we can make give the most informed help with a couple pictures of different angles. people's faces can look different from different directions, and something important might occur to us if we can see what you look like/what your hair has been like at different times.

    yeah I was just going to suggest this

    the picture you posted shows us your hair, not your face

    we need a better idea of what you look like before we can even give you proper hair-wear tips

    some do's just don't suit on some faces

    Okay. Here's what I look like with bangs pulled back. I'm worried it's kind of a severe look with the glasses (which I'll still be wearing on Friday.)
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  • KrunkMcGrunkKrunkMcGrunk Registered User regular
    edited January 2009
    You have nice, thick hair, and a very cute face.

    If you go to a good stylist and ask them to re-do your hair, I'm sure you'll get something great out of it. It may be expensive though.

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  • LiiyaLiiya Registered User regular
    edited January 2009
    I don't think your hair is long enough for the up-do style you posted earlier. The best thing to do is buy a hair magazine, they often have sections dedicated to hair colours, lengths and thickness. Browse through these magazines until you find a few stlyes you may be comfortable with and ask your stylist's opinion on them and if they are possible with your hair. Don't tell the stylist to "Do what you think is best" because they may give you something you truly dont like, and you don't want to pay for something you don't like in the end.

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  • MunacraMunacra Registered User regular
    edited January 2009
    You have nice, thick hair, and a very cute face.

    If you go to a good stylist and ask them to re-do your hair, I'm sure you'll get something great out of it. It may be expensive though.

    Squee loves expensive haircuts.

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  • squeefishsqueefish Registered User regular
    edited January 2009
    Munacra wrote: »
    You have nice, thick hair, and a very cute face.

    If you go to a good stylist and ask them to re-do your hair, I'm sure you'll get something great out of it. It may be expensive though.

    Squee loves expensive haircuts.

    Hurr, hilarious, Munacra ;). I have mentioned it in this thread already : I do not have the money for a stylist, I just want to know of a style I can do with my hair by myself. I hope I can figure out how to use a curling iron properly. Is it difficult? I've never used one before. Mainly I'm hoping I don't burn myself with the damn thing.

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  • KrunkMcGrunkKrunkMcGrunk Registered User regular
    edited January 2009
    Oh crap, sorry Squee. I skimmed the thread.

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  • squeefishsqueefish Registered User regular
    edited January 2009
    Oh crap, sorry Squee. I skimmed the thread.

    Heh, no problem. Compliments don't bother me too much :P

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  • MunacraMunacra Registered User regular
    edited January 2009
    Squee loves compliments almost as much as she likes chili and expensive haircuts.

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  • squeefishsqueefish Registered User regular
    edited January 2009
    Munacra wrote: »
    Squee loves compliments almost as much as she likes chili and expensive haircuts.

    What wonderful advice!

    Oh wait...

    :P

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  • MunacraMunacra Registered User regular
    edited January 2009
    :long distance hugs:

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  • DemerdarDemerdar Registered User regular
    edited January 2009
    Anyone else finding this thread a wee bit repulsive?

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  • squeefishsqueefish Registered User regular
    edited January 2009
    Demerdar wrote: »
    Anyone else finding this thread a wee bit repulsive?

    I've found it pretty helpful. I'm terribly sorry you don't like it.

    Back on topic... are curling irons like straighteners, where you have to spend a fair bit of money to get anything half decent? If my mom doesn't have one I might consider picking one up if I can get it for, say, around 40 bucks, but somehow I'm guessing that's not realistic. I bought my straightener for about that much but it doesn't work very well (and it's huge and clunky, so trying to use it to make curls is out).

    And yes, I know I could just go to a stylist for that price, but as a curling iron is something I could use many times, I wouldn't mind buying one.

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  • Dulcius_ex_asperisDulcius_ex_asperis Registered User regular
    edited January 2009
    Personally, I think you look cute with your bangs back. You could always do something like this:

    http://katemoynahan.googlepages.com/hair6.jpg/hair6-full.jpg

    which is basically just curled pinned back somewhat randomly...and keep your bangs down or pull them back and pin them.

    As for curling irons, you can buy one that's not too expensive, since it sounds like you won't be using it every day. I'd recommend a 1" curling iron, because anything bigger will make pretty big curls, and ore often than not they 'loosen' a little after styling -- aka get a bit bigger. 1" is what I used to use when I had hair your length. Anything smaller makes too-tight ringlets, and anything bigger is just too big.

    Here are a few different models that you should be able to find for under $20:
    http://www.walmart.com/catalog/product.do?product_id=10153816

    http://www.target.com/dp/B00194CEW8/sr=1-1/qid=1232492345/ref=sr_1_1/190-5863120-8504840?ie=UTF8&index=target&rh=k%3Acurling%20iron&page=1

    they're obviously not super nice or anything, but they're definitely good enough for your needs. And yeah, get a heat protectant if you straighten every day, it can def. do a number on your hair.

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  • amelia_kateamelia_kate Registered User regular
    edited January 2009
    You could try a modified french twist and just pin your bangs back. Here's a video on how to do it with a comb, but if you don't have one you could just look on youtube for regular french twists. They are simple and pretty, and in my opinion look classic, without being overdone.


    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UI7WthQybvM



    edit: is it because you prefer the way your hair looks with bangs? after rereading your question, i'm not sure if you mean, you don't want to just pull your bangs back, or if you don't want to pull the rest of your hair back with your bangs hanging down, or if you want a hairstyle where your bangs will not be down. if that makes any sense.....

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  • VixxVixx Valkyrie: prepared! Registered User regular
    edited January 2009
    with your bangs back and your sharp-colored glasses, it IS a severe look, but it's easy to soften

    your bangs are cut very short and very horizontal, so the slanted-bangs look you find in a lot of up-dos will be very hard to pull off... consider pinning your bangs back and using the mid-length hair at the edges of your face to frame and take the attention away from your glasses

    I would suggest go with an up-do and pin your bangs back to show off your face and jawline, but towards the front, let loose a few locks of longer hair and twist them very slightly with a curling iron

    kinda like this
    prom-curly-hair-updos-14.jpg

    either on both sides or just one, depending on your preference

    from your first picture you have hair of medium length that blends the length from your bangs to the rest of the hair... that'll work in this case

    for the actual updo, go with a style that has plenty of fly-aways (i.e., not all the hair is clipped in place), and this will help soften your look some more

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  • squeefishsqueefish Registered User regular
    edited January 2009
    Thanks for the new tips, guys. I think my hair's too short to pull off the French twist, even if I modified it a bit, but I like the idea of using the short bits to frame the side of my face.

    amelia_kate, I think I understand your edit about the bangs - and I meant that I'm not crazy about how they look pulled up with the rest of my hair down, even though I see a lot of girls wearing theirs that way. I would think that having all of my hair pulled back would make the effect even more severe, but curling the side pieces and leaving them down should help a bit.

    Back to curling irons - my mom's is pretty thin (less than an inch, I'd say) but I know curls tend to loosen after a while. I just don't want to end up with little sausage ringlets or something. If I curl it a few hours in advance, will they relax a fair bit by the time I go to the event? I could put the hairspray in right before I left or something.

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  • splashsplash Registered User regular
    edited January 2009
    What about parting your bangs a bit?

    and other similar ideas:
    http://www.imdb.com/name/nm0221046/mediaindex

    This may have been a dumb post.

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  • Hobbit0815Hobbit0815 Registered User regular
    edited January 2009
    You could try using a fancy headband (not pulling back your bangs, but set behind them) with the rest of your hair pinned back.

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  • Dulcius_ex_asperisDulcius_ex_asperis Registered User regular
    edited January 2009
    squeefish wrote: »
    Back to curling irons - my mom's is pretty thin (less than an inch, I'd say) but I know curls tend to loosen after a while. I just don't want to end up with little sausage ringlets or something. If I curl it a few hours in advance, will they relax a fair bit by the time I go to the event? I could put the hairspray in right before I left or something.

    Totally depends on your hair type. In my case, for instance, my hair is straight but holds curl pretty well, so if I curl it, it stays curled. I'd try it out beforehand to make sure. Just do what you wanna do to your hair and see how it looks, see if it is all little-house-on-the-prairie curls or if they loosen up nicely. Then the day of you don't have to worry about it.

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