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Powerpuppiesdrinking coffee in themountain cabinRegistered Userregular
edited January 2009
My 2 cents: I like the "I am going to show you how to empty the recycle bin." without mentioning the porn. If my SO pulled that I would be like, "you are a classy lady!" I feel like that opens the door to her bringing it up if she wants to, but still lets her keep it to herself if that's what she is more comfortable with.
My gut feeling is that you guys aren't going to be able to work out. If she's looking at this online, then there's a pretty good chance that she's into it and as you said, you have no interest in whatever porn you found. That makes you incompatible, and I seen what happens when someone stays in that type of relationship, and it isn't pretty.
Normally I would throw in that hey, just because she watches it doesn't mean she actually pursues it, but I think she might have wanted you to find the porn.
oh wow this is terrible advice. By your definition most relationships are incompatiable and 'won't work out'
The reason she lied to you about the porn is because, well, you would have exactly the reaction you're having right now. You would say ew gross and make a big deal and make an H/A thread. Like others I'm curious as to what it is, but the bottom line of sex is:
If one partner A wants to try something, and partner B isn't turned on or off by it, partner B owes it to partner A to try it. That is, if partner B gives a shit about A's happiness at all.
Now if you are genuinely uncomfortable with whatever this is, then you are under no obligation to try it. However, unless this fetish involves murder or something extremely illegal, I feel as though you are obligated to react calmly and say 'that's cool that you like whatever, but I'm just not into it'
She feels ashamed about this, and any other reaction will really hurt her feelings and make her resent you. If you want to act like a man, then you react calmly. DO NOT attack her about lying, but make it known that in a relationship you should be honest and feel as though you can share anything. Wouldn't you like the same from her?
Nobody else would do it so I feel obligated to both quote and lime this.
why would you feel the need to do that, it is long and a 'i agree with casualeddy' works just as well
Because text on the internet is not a finite resource?
I also assume people know how to use the scroll down function in their browser.
exactly, so a simply 'i agree with casualeddy, you know the guy three posts up' is pretty reasonable. there is no reason to assume cloudman is an idiot who can't scroll up a few inches to see eddy's post
but i digress. cloudman, you just gotta decide if it bothers you enough to bother mentioning or not
why would you feel the need to do that, it is long and a 'i agree with casualeddy' works just as well
Because that's kind of how we roll around here. It directly references the specific point Nocturne was supporting without forcing us to go digging back through the thread, and it cuts down confusion if Eddy had posted more than once in the thread. It's a huge time saver for all involved.
Someone make a poll of the stuff that it could be!
But yeah, the best thing to do is just to talk to her about it. It may just be a fantasy that she would never, ever want to try in real life, or it's something she's interested in and you guys could maybe dwelve into it lightly.
"Hey, I found some videos about [X] on my computer. I didn't think you were into that. Don't worry, I'm not going to freak out or whatever. I'm not into it, but if you are, that's okay by me. You can talk to me about stuff like that, you know. I'm not going to run away just because you have fantasies that I'm not into. I love you and I just wanna know what's going on inside of you, okay?"
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every person who doesn't like an acquired taste always seems to think everyone who likes it is faking it. it should be an official fallacy.
Does she have an actual porn stash on your comp? Is it possible that perhaps she put those in the recycle bin because she didn't like them at all? I know when I look for porn I find loads of stuff that I don't actually want, or specific scenes I do want but the rest is something I'm not interested in.
Unless it really bugs you I wouldn't bring it up with her. If it does do like others have been saying and make it clear that you're cool with it, although I wouldn't really include the "I don't want to try it" bit because like some have said as well she may not even actually want to try this stuff IRL. Along those lines if she does, she can bring it up with you to which you can kindly decline.
Really though, do you never look at porn? Do you tell her about every single porn you look at? Cuz it's kinda the same deal.
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edited January 2009
Hey guys just wanted to pop in for a second and thank you all for the advice. Again, I don't really have time for a long post but I might later tonight. Hopefully I'll be able to make some clarifications.
And no I'm not going to post what kind of porn it is, because that isn't relevant.
Hey guys just wanted to pop in for a second and thank you all for the advice. Again, I don't really have time for a long post but I might later tonight. Hopefully I'll be able to make some clarifications.
And no I'm not going to post what kind of porn it is, because that isn't relevant.
Except for it sorta is considering some of the things people are into are illegal and/or immoral, and some of us figure you're overreacting unless it falls into these categories.
Hey guys just wanted to pop in for a second and thank you all for the advice. Again, I don't really have time for a long post but I might later tonight. Hopefully I'll be able to make some clarifications.
And no I'm not going to post what kind of porn it is, because that isn't relevant.
Except for it sorta is considering some of the things people are into are illegal and/or immoral, and some of us figure you're overreacting unless it falls into these categories.
The only thing that could possibly change any of the advice given above is if it's child porn, because merely downloading child porn is illegal, and can get both of them in deep shit.
Anything else that crosses the bounds of legality would either be zoophilia, which he's already said it's not, or simulated acts of rape or torture, which are still just fantasy, so all of the above advice still applies. It's just a fantasy she's into and there's no reason to freak out, nor is there any reason to tell us what the fantasy is.
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every person who doesn't like an acquired taste always seems to think everyone who likes it is faking it. it should be an official fallacy.
Hey guys just wanted to pop in for a second and thank you all for the advice. Again, I don't really have time for a long post but I might later tonight. Hopefully I'll be able to make some clarifications.
And no I'm not going to post what kind of porn it is, because that isn't relevant.
Except for it sorta is considering some of the things people are into are illegal and/or immoral, and some of us figure you're overreacting unless it falls into these categories.
The only thing that could possibly change any of the advice given above is if it's child porn, because merely downloading child porn is illegal, and can get both of them in deep shit.
Anything else that crosses the bounds of legality would either be zoophilia, which he's already said it's not, or simulated acts of rape or torture, which are still just fantasy, so all of the above advice still applies. It's just a fantasy she's into and there's no reason to freak out, nor is there any reason to tell us what the fantasy is.
I don't know, I get the feeling perhaps theres more to it, Perhaps there are some insecurities in relation to whatever this porn might be on his part that are influencing the situation.
I'm not saying that, definitely.. It's just how it comes across, because anyone else would simply say " Hey guys my girl is into asian gangbang " or what have you.
I have on occasion watched (and got turned on by) porn depicting stuff I don't think I would like to partake in (even though it wasn't anything heavy). Porn is a fantasy. It's completely different from sex and sexual needs.
Pretend nothing happened and move on, or confront her very casually about it.
But then, confront her about what? I honestly don't know what the discussion would be like:
"You left some porn in the recycle bin."
"Oh, I did? I meant to delete it."
"Well, I did."
"Oh, ok, thanks."
"So..."
"Yeah?"
"You were looking at porn."
"Yeah."
"Uh, well... yeah, that's pretty much it."
"Ok, I'm off to work, see ya."
You know i had this issue with my ex fiance at one time. I confronted her about it and she literally was casual about it, and said "Yeah i think its hot to watch but i would never want to do it ever in real life, because i think it would ruin the fantasy because its probably not actually that nice in real life, it just seems hot when i watch it" and after that, i changed how i did things in the bed a little bit to kind of give her a bit of what she wanted, or at leas the thought of it in her head, and it was some of the best times we ever had.
Actually she kept on wanting me to spend the night even after we split up and i move out.
But there is a good chance that it is just a "fantasy" but something that she would never actually want to do in real life.
For me all it took was putting the mere thought of it in her head. It was something we both knew was actually impossible to do and something neither of us really would ever want to partake in.
Hey guys just wanted to pop in for a second and thank you all for the advice. Again, I don't really have time for a long post but I might later tonight. Hopefully I'll be able to make some clarifications.
And no I'm not going to post what kind of porn it is, because that isn't relevant.
Except for it sorta is considering some of the things people are into are illegal and/or immoral, and some of us figure you're overreacting unless it falls into these categories.
This. To be hiding the type of porn is to hide the actual issue. It feels semi-troll like, this is an anonymous web forum. Who cares if anyone here knows what your girlfriend is in to, its not like any of us know her, or you on a personal level and would give you any real crap about it.
This the Help and Advice forum, we can not advise unless you apprise us of the entire problem at hand. You asked a question, but didn't give the details.
On a side note: A persons definition about what is to risky and whats not that risky are very different. What could be gross and vile to you, could be regular porn to everyone else. By defining the type of porn, you would then define your position in sexual relations allowing us to diagnose and possibly help you react better to the situation. That is why you came here right?
Hey guys just wanted to pop in for a second and thank you all for the advice. Again, I don't really have time for a long post but I might later tonight. Hopefully I'll be able to make some clarifications.
And no I'm not going to post what kind of porn it is, because that isn't relevant.
Except for it sorta is considering some of the things people are into are illegal and/or immoral, and some of us figure you're overreacting unless it falls into these categories.
This. To be hiding the type of porn is to hide the actual issue. It feels semi-troll like, this is an anonymous web forum. Who cares if anyone here knows what your girlfriend is in to, its not like any of us know her, or you on a personal level and would give you any real crap about it.
This the Help and Advice forum, we can not advise unless you apprise us of the entire problem at hand. You asked a question, but didn't give the details.
On a side note: A persons definition about what is to risky and whats not that risky are very different. What could be gross and vile to you, could be regular porn to everyone else. By defining the type of porn, you would then define your position in sexual relations allowing us to diagnose and possibly help you react better to the situation. That is why you came here right?
Yes. If you said "The porn's about guys with huge penises", then it wouldn't be the same as if you said "It's basically 2 hours of 2 girls 1 cup" or "It's pedophilia". The advice would be different.
My gut feeling is that you guys aren't going to be able to work out. If she's looking at this online, then there's a pretty good chance that she's into it and as you said, you have no interest in whatever porn you found. That makes you incompatible, and I seen what happens when someone stays in that type of relationship, and it isn't pretty.
Normally I would throw in that hey, just because she watches it doesn't mean she actually pursues it, but I think she might have wanted you to find the porn.
I disagree. There's plenty of stuff I look at that I wouldn't even pretend to do in reality.
If they talk about it - maybe he cracks a joke about finding it and then goes into more serious discussion - then maybe he can get to the bottom of it. But for now - all we have is conjecture, which is a pretty shitty thing to be basing your decisions off of.
Basically what I'm saying is that 69ing is a lot more fun to watch than perform.
Hey guys just wanted to pop in for a second and thank you all for the advice. Again, I don't really have time for a long post but I might later tonight. Hopefully I'll be able to make some clarifications.
And no I'm not going to post what kind of porn it is, because that isn't relevant.
Except for it sorta is considering some of the things people are into are illegal and/or immoral, and some of us figure you're overreacting unless it falls into these categories.
This. To be hiding the type of porn is to hide the actual issue. It feels semi-troll like, this is an anonymous web forum. Who cares if anyone here knows what your girlfriend is in to, its not like any of us know her, or you on a personal level and would give you any real crap about it.
This the Help and Advice forum, we can not advise unless you apprise us of the entire problem at hand. You asked a question, but didn't give the details.
On a side note: A persons definition about what is to risky and whats not that risky are very different. What could be gross and vile to you, could be regular porn to everyone else. By defining the type of porn, you would then define your position in sexual relations allowing us to diagnose and possibly help you react better to the situation. That is why you came here right?
it isn't just being anonymous, a lot of us have met in real life, and hang out and all that jazz, even outside of PAX. i don't believe i have met cloudman, but i would not be too surprised if i did someday. and some people prize their sense of privacy, i mean, what if he brings his girl along and had told me 'she watches scat porn'. he doesn't want me to think 'that is the girl who watches scat porn'.
this is why most dudes make an alt for these threads, but cloudman dove right on in haha
So? I just admitted to looking at porn which was outside the spectrum of what I'd do, and while this declaration is nothing to be scandalized with, I said it with the username "Djiem", which I use for almost everything online, and that's also what I sign cartoons and drawings with.
I understand that everyone's different, but not everybody will panic at the idea of giving out personal information.
Hell, if I was to go to PAX and meet Cloudman and he'd admit in this thread that his GF was into scat porn, I wouldn't talk to him about this. I have good manners. I wouldn't even judge him, or his GF if she was with him. I find scat and scat porn absolutely disgusting myself, but unless she'd come over with stains on her face and hands I wouldn't be creeped out by talking to her. Of course, for a fleeting second, the first time I'd see her, I'd think "Oh, this is the girl who liked scat porn from that H&A thread", because I just met her and I mentally need some point of reference, but then I'd stop thinking about it because the conversation will have started and I want to be part of it.
Though, the OP's reluctance to say what type of porn was in the recycle bin lets me believe that either it was some real heavy shit or he has a problem with porn that he needs to solve.
Quick edit: Am I the only one who, when reading the thread title, mentally adds "Dun dun DUUUUN"?
Hey guys just wanted to pop in for a second and thank you all for the advice. Again, I don't really have time for a long post but I might later tonight. Hopefully I'll be able to make some clarifications.
And no I'm not going to post what kind of porn it is, because that isn't relevant.
Except for it sorta is considering some of the things people are into are illegal and/or immoral, and some of us figure you're overreacting unless it falls into these categories.
it does not fall into those categories, and i'm considering the possibility that i'm overreacting.
suffice to say it isn't kiddy porn, animal porn, or corpsefucking.
Inquisitor772 x Penny Arcade Fight Club ChampionA fixed point in space and timeRegistered Userregular
edited January 2009
OK, at this point I feel obligated to say if you're going to do the whole, "I'm not gonna tell you guys what kind of porn it is" thing, then don't play the, "But it's not X, Y, or Z" card either. Either tell us or don't. This is the H/A forum, not 20 Questions.
People have already told you that the type of porn can provide some context as to the advice they give you. If you are unwilling to provide that information, then don't. Otherwise, don't play games.
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Hey guys just wanted to pop in for a second and thank you all for the advice. Again, I don't really have time for a long post but I might later tonight. Hopefully I'll be able to make some clarifications.
And no I'm not going to post what kind of porn it is, because that isn't relevant.
Except for it sorta is considering some of the things people are into are illegal and/or immoral, and some of us figure you're overreacting unless it falls into these categories.
This. To be hiding the type of porn is to hide the actual issue. It feels semi-troll like, this is an anonymous web forum. Who cares if anyone here knows what your girlfriend is in to, its not like any of us know her, or you on a personal level and would give you any real crap about it.
This the Help and Advice forum, we can not advise unless you apprise us of the entire problem at hand. You asked a question, but didn't give the details.
On a side note: A persons definition about what is to risky and whats not that risky are very different. What could be gross and vile to you, could be regular porn to everyone else. By defining the type of porn, you would then define your position in sexual relations allowing us to diagnose and possibly help you react better to the situation. That is why you came here right?
it isn't just being anonymous, a lot of us have met in real life, and hang out and all that jazz, even outside of PAX. i don't believe i have met cloudman, but i would not be too surprised if i did someday. and some people prize their sense of privacy, i mean, what if he brings his girl along and had told me 'she watches scat porn'. he doesn't want me to think 'that is the girl who watches scat porn'.
this is why most dudes make an alt for these threads, but cloudman dove right on in haha
yeah pretty much this. plus I couldn't think of anything witty to name my alt.
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OK, at this point I feel obligated to say if you're going to do the whole, "I'm not gonna tell you guys what kind of porn it is" thing, then don't play the, "But it's not X, Y, or Z" card either. Either tell us or don't. This is the H/A forum, not 20 Questions.
People have already told you that the type of porn can provide some context as to the advice they give you. If you are unwilling to provide that information, then don't. Otherwise, don't play games.
I just wanted to clear up that it's nothing illegal, that's all. There will be no further hinting.
And at the end of the day if you hated it you didn't lose anything other then fulfilling one of your SO's fantasies. There are worse ways you can spend an evening.
Porn is porn. You watch it for kicks. Just because I like watching 30 dudes blast on a chicks face doesn't mean I want my girlfriend to get blasted by 29 of my good friends. And the same holds true in reverse.
Anyway, we know it's not child fucking, animal fucking or corpse fucking.
If you're not willing to provide more info, I'm going to have to say you're the one overreacting. All the "objectively wrong" porn types are listed as not being in the recycle bin.
Anyway, we know it's not child fucking, animal fucking or corpse fucking.
If you're not willing to provide more info, I'm going to have to say you're the one overreacting. All the "objectively wrong" porn types are listed as not being in the recycle bin.
Well there's also the kind that is physically impossible for most normal people to do.
Hmmm the fact that Cloudman has had sorta a panic attack on finding porn from SO in recycle bin coupled with the gentleman don't tell antic he's putting up seems to me that him and his SO need to have a good talk about knowing one another more.
Yeah you can do the round about way of saying you found porn and deleted it for her and then act as if you brush it off as nothing but that is going to keep lingering questions as to why she was looking at it and is keeping it hidden.
You want answers. You don't have to tell us what they are but you should get some for yourself and then maybe also share some new info with her.
Who knows maybe her buddy IMed her some links and said look at this gross stuff and she went eewww and that was it.
Anyway, we know it's not child fucking, animal fucking or corpse fucking.
If you're not willing to provide more info, I'm going to have to say you're the one overreacting. All the "objectively wrong" porn types are listed as not being in the recycle bin.
Well there's also the kind that is physically impossible for most normal people to do.
I don't know any guy who can have lesbian sex, but many seem to enjoy looking at it.
It's happened once before, about a month ago if I recall correctly.
I'm kinda (not really) surprised that no one else picked up on this little bit of information. Once a month, usually before our monthly "visit from Aunt Flo", women get omgfucking-horny. It's baby making time and we want sex. Maybe you should fuck her more? Increase the quantity if not the quality? :winky:
I'm betting it's just a fantasy for her, to fulfill her "needs" right now, but isn't something that she'd really be into doing in real life. At least that's how it is for me - YMMV.
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Eddy's is good if you must say something, but there's no reason to even raise the subject.
If it was group sex that doesn't exactly mean she wants multiple people, sometimes you just get bored of watching the old in out.
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Nobody else would do it so I feel obligated to both quote and lime this.
Which is why I didn't quote it.
Because text on the internet is not a finite resource?
I also assume people know how to use the scroll down function in their browser.
but i digress. cloudman, you just gotta decide if it bothers you enough to bother mentioning or not
Because that's kind of how we roll around here. It directly references the specific point Nocturne was supporting without forcing us to go digging back through the thread, and it cuts down confusion if Eddy had posted more than once in the thread. It's a huge time saver for all involved.
But yeah, the best thing to do is just to talk to her about it. It may just be a fantasy that she would never, ever want to try in real life, or it's something she's interested in and you guys could maybe dwelve into it lightly.
the "no true scotch man" fallacy.
Unless it really bugs you I wouldn't bring it up with her. If it does do like others have been saying and make it clear that you're cool with it, although I wouldn't really include the "I don't want to try it" bit because like some have said as well she may not even actually want to try this stuff IRL. Along those lines if she does, she can bring it up with you to which you can kindly decline.
Really though, do you never look at porn? Do you tell her about every single porn you look at? Cuz it's kinda the same deal.
And no I'm not going to post what kind of porn it is, because that isn't relevant.
Except for it sorta is considering some of the things people are into are illegal and/or immoral, and some of us figure you're overreacting unless it falls into these categories.
The only thing that could possibly change any of the advice given above is if it's child porn, because merely downloading child porn is illegal, and can get both of them in deep shit.
Anything else that crosses the bounds of legality would either be zoophilia, which he's already said it's not, or simulated acts of rape or torture, which are still just fantasy, so all of the above advice still applies. It's just a fantasy she's into and there's no reason to freak out, nor is there any reason to tell us what the fantasy is.
the "no true scotch man" fallacy.
I don't know, I get the feeling perhaps theres more to it, Perhaps there are some insecurities in relation to whatever this porn might be on his part that are influencing the situation.
I'm not saying that, definitely.. It's just how it comes across, because anyone else would simply say " Hey guys my girl is into asian gangbang " or what have you.
Pretend nothing happened and move on, or confront her very casually about it.
But then, confront her about what? I honestly don't know what the discussion would be like:
"You left some porn in the recycle bin."
"Oh, I did? I meant to delete it."
"Well, I did."
"Oh, ok, thanks."
"So..."
"Yeah?"
"You were looking at porn."
"Yeah."
"Uh, well... yeah, that's pretty much it."
"Ok, I'm off to work, see ya."
Actually she kept on wanting me to spend the night even after we split up and i move out.
But there is a good chance that it is just a "fantasy" but something that she would never actually want to do in real life.
For me all it took was putting the mere thought of it in her head. It was something we both knew was actually impossible to do and something neither of us really would ever want to partake in.
This. To be hiding the type of porn is to hide the actual issue. It feels semi-troll like, this is an anonymous web forum. Who cares if anyone here knows what your girlfriend is in to, its not like any of us know her, or you on a personal level and would give you any real crap about it.
This the Help and Advice forum, we can not advise unless you apprise us of the entire problem at hand. You asked a question, but didn't give the details.
On a side note: A persons definition about what is to risky and whats not that risky are very different. What could be gross and vile to you, could be regular porn to everyone else. By defining the type of porn, you would then define your position in sexual relations allowing us to diagnose and possibly help you react better to the situation. That is why you came here right?
Yes. If you said "The porn's about guys with huge penises", then it wouldn't be the same as if you said "It's basically 2 hours of 2 girls 1 cup" or "It's pedophilia". The advice would be different.
I disagree. There's plenty of stuff I look at that I wouldn't even pretend to do in reality.
If they talk about it - maybe he cracks a joke about finding it and then goes into more serious discussion - then maybe he can get to the bottom of it. But for now - all we have is conjecture, which is a pretty shitty thing to be basing your decisions off of.
this is why most dudes make an alt for these threads, but cloudman dove right on in haha
I understand that everyone's different, but not everybody will panic at the idea of giving out personal information.
Hell, if I was to go to PAX and meet Cloudman and he'd admit in this thread that his GF was into scat porn, I wouldn't talk to him about this. I have good manners. I wouldn't even judge him, or his GF if she was with him. I find scat and scat porn absolutely disgusting myself, but unless she'd come over with stains on her face and hands I wouldn't be creeped out by talking to her. Of course, for a fleeting second, the first time I'd see her, I'd think "Oh, this is the girl who liked scat porn from that H&A thread", because I just met her and I mentally need some point of reference, but then I'd stop thinking about it because the conversation will have started and I want to be part of it.
Though, the OP's reluctance to say what type of porn was in the recycle bin lets me believe that either it was some real heavy shit or he has a problem with porn that he needs to solve.
Quick edit: Am I the only one who, when reading the thread title, mentally adds "Dun dun DUUUUN"?
Yeah.
I added "It's more likely than you may think."
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If it is child porn, then he absolutely should not tell us what it is and should consider consulting a lawyer instead.
the "no true scotch man" fallacy.
PS She wants to pee on you, doesn't she?
God no.
I read it as.
Candy, FOR BREAKFAST?
Satans..... hints.....
suffice to say it isn't kiddy porn, animal porn, or corpsefucking.
People have already told you that the type of porn can provide some context as to the advice they give you. If you are unwilling to provide that information, then don't. Otherwise, don't play games.
Who knows you may like it.
And at the end of the day if you hated it you didn't lose anything other then fulfilling one of your SO's fantasies. There are worse ways you can spend an evening.
Porn is porn. You watch it for kicks. Just because I like watching 30 dudes blast on a chicks face doesn't mean I want my girlfriend to get blasted by 29 of my good friends. And the same holds true in reverse.
If you're not willing to provide more info, I'm going to have to say you're the one overreacting. All the "objectively wrong" porn types are listed as not being in the recycle bin.
Well there's also the kind that is physically impossible for most normal people to do.
In which case, well.. yeah.
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Yeah you can do the round about way of saying you found porn and deleted it for her and then act as if you brush it off as nothing but that is going to keep lingering questions as to why she was looking at it and is keeping it hidden.
You want answers. You don't have to tell us what they are but you should get some for yourself and then maybe also share some new info with her.
Who knows maybe her buddy IMed her some links and said look at this gross stuff and she went eewww and that was it.
I don't know any guy who can have lesbian sex, but many seem to enjoy looking at it.
I'm kinda (not really) surprised that no one else picked up on this little bit of information. Once a month, usually before our monthly "visit from Aunt Flo", women get omgfucking-horny. It's baby making time and we want sex. Maybe you should fuck her more? Increase the quantity if not the quality? :winky:
I'm betting it's just a fantasy for her, to fulfill her "needs" right now, but isn't something that she'd really be into doing in real life. At least that's how it is for me - YMMV.
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