Sexins: How to spruce up already awesome sex? Electronic aids?

Naked-Celtic-Lady

Well, I'll keep this short.

I have a fantastic relationship with my boyfriend, I love him, we get along so well. We've been together for almost a year (2 and a half really but there was a gap)

Now, we have awesome sex, it is rad as, our proportions are perfect so there is no real awkward positions. My question is, how do I further spruce it up?

Currently we don't use any electronic aids, just wondering if anybody has experimental suggestions? Things you have tried that have worked well? Pretty much open to anything... except anal, not so keen on that.

Would be great hear some suggestions

JebusUD

I would suggest trying some more position variations. Nothing against electronic help though.

Awk

PIITB

Farout Foolio

I have two general suggestions:

1) Spontaneity.
Whatever that means to you, know that the death of fun sex is routine and predictability.

2) This thing.

It is amazing.
Little pricy, though.

cooljammer00

That We-Vibe thing sounds awesome, but I can't help but feel it'd get in the way of the man's business. Especially if he were a shorter man.

edit: I'm watching the video now. It's smaller than I thought it was.

Djinn

Theres always the saber saw blade option.

Darkewolfe

That thing looks interesting. Those sorts of things have always made me wonder, though, do you ever find that you don't want to get the sexins on without them? Seems they'd almost be addicting.

Nakatomi2010

My wife tends to require her egg to get off these days, which is slightly upsetting to me since it means I can't get her off anymore like I used to.... It's also annoying during sex because it tends to be there, and it also generates a significant amount of noise to be annoying during sex...

We spruced it up a bit by inviting another girl into the mix a couple times, that was fun... Watch her kiss another girl was surprisingly quite fun... Though your mileage may vary on that one, it does spruce it up...

kaliyama

As nakatomi points out, vibes are tons of fun, but once you get used to the increased intensity, it can be hard to achieve orgasm without at.

Restraints, role-playing, things like swings or wedges all let you do different things in differently fun ways.

cooljammer00

Vibrators, the gay-teway drug.

Yeah. Think about it.

edit: That power saw injury, the idea behind it is solid. The execution was not. I've seen enough porn with devices like that to know it works. I guess the guy was too cheap to buy a legit Fucking Machine.

Cervetus

cooljammer00 wrote: »

edit: That power saw injury, the idea behind it is solid. The execution was not. I've seen enough porn with devices like that to know it works. I guess the guy was too cheap to buy a legit Fucking Machine.

Jesus, you'd at least hope to have the foresight to dull the blade first.

ilmmad

Oh God it's the exact same thing as in Will Arnett Sex Tape.

cooljammer00

ilmmad wrote: »

Oh God it's the exact same thing as in Will Arnett Sex Tape.

With the romantic fisting attachment?

Cervetus wrote: »

cooljammer00 wrote: »

edit: That power saw injury, the idea behind it is solid. The execution was not. I've seen enough porn with devices like that to know it works. I guess the guy was too cheap to buy a legit Fucking Machine.

Jesus, you'd at least hope to have the foresight to dull the blade first.

let's assume his brain was deprived of blood and oxygen due to blood rushing elsewhere. Like I said, the idea is solid. He probably also assumed the saw wouldn't cut through whatever they wrapped around it.

But why didn't he just add like a broom handle, and then attach the dildo to that? She got cut in the cooter, man! She's gonna be out of action for months. It's like she's a vaginal Evel Knievel.

Naked-Celtic-Lady

All very helpful suggestions - We don't get much of a chance to do the 'role-play' 'tieing eachother up' thing, but we should make time for that... I really couldnt invite another girl in, I'm sure he wishes I was that cool haha

cooljammer00

No anal, no les experimentation...

Not much of an 'anything goes' type of girl, after all. :-D

Naked-Celtic-Lady

Well if that's the only way then I guess we'll never have completely awesome sex, I knew it would be my fault

Ah well lol

Trentus

Skyhooks wrote:

Womeeeeeen in uniform!

Playing dress ups can always be fun, maybe mixed with a bit of role play. Perhaps try it in some unconventional locales.

Sarcastro

There's no pressure to win the Awesomest Sex award or anything, so if its really good already, just keep it going. Don't get to caught up in routine, press the boundaries a bit, don't forget to set time for foreplay, etc.

Meanwhile, 'sprucing up' can mean many things to many people, so I would say maybe figure out what you want, so you have somewhere to go together. Some of these things may include:

Best Possible Orgasm: Power, Sensation, Duration. What you think that would be, and how you think you might get it.

Most Incredibly Intimate Moment: How to really get in touch with your partner, to the point where it feels like you are making love with the same body, mind and spirit.

The Checklist: Top ten/twenty/one hundred escapades, from macking in a natural hot spring, to a hotel room in Paris, maybe an elevator, maybe doing it tied up with a burning rope suspended over a shark tank. Make a list, check it twice, go out and do it, naughty and nice.

The Liar, the Bitch, and the Wardrobe: Dressing up in different costumes, outfits, taking on different roles, fulfilling little fantasies. Everybody's got'em, bring yours to life. Maybe he's seeing a 'mistress', maybe he he wants a 'schoolgirl', maybe he wants a hostile corporate takeover. Maybe you're the one who wants to play teacher. Figure out what's hot and whats not, and bend your reality for a while.

These things can be done as their own explorations, or tied all together. There's more than just the above of course, I just threw those out there as they seem to be pretty common. And fun. Really though, its about imagining real goals (not just vague ideas of improvement) and then putting together the time and resources to achieve them.

Honestly, the direction (as long as it exists and is clear) doesn't matter; the effort, the investment made in each other, that's what will make your sex life awesome. Happy fucking, and to all a good night.

underdonk

Two words: Donkey Punch