For a bit of backstory you might want to read
this thread.
But if you can't be bothered to read all that random crap, I'll summarise it:
A mate of mine was dating a guy that I had the hots for. They broke up and she took it badly, then he was outted as gay. She moved to Scotland and he and I started dating. She got engaged up there recently.
Now, she is coming back to town with Terrence, her fiancé, for him to get her parents' permission to marry her (they're somewhat old-fashioned).
But here's what I need a bit of help with. She took her and Karl's (her ex, my boyfriend) breakup badly, and even though she says she's fine with me dating him and says she doesn't have any feelings or resentment for him, I've known her long enough to read between the lines with her.
And when she asked on the phone (when she told me her and Terrence are coming down) if it's all good with me and Karl, I could detect a bit of annoyance and coldness in her voice.
So I need to know how, if it all possible, to casually prevent her from bringing up old demons and making a bit stink about the situation. Because I admit it's an odd situation not unlike something from an old soap opera.
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Maybe read the paper or some other news so you have lots of good topic changers if the conversation is going south?
Or talk to her about it beforehand.
Thank you, Rubacava!