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  • TasteticleTasteticle Registered User regular
    edited August 2009
    Tasteticle wrote: »
    I've said it before and I'll say it again.

    Somebody should start up "Approaching Women" classes that make sure you are not a creepy fuck.

    Just teach you things about cleaning yourself up, conversation starters, etiqette, confidence boosting, etc.

    Not predatory, but a "hey it's nice to meet you" kind of way.

    A lot of people need to learn that "nice guys finish last" is the furthest from the truth.

    People without backbones finish last, and usually those people are pretty nice guys.

    I have a lot of friends that are great people but have ZERO clues when it comes to just talking to women.

    I know this is a little old but NO

    NO

    this is NOT what we need

    we do not need to make talking to the other gender more of a THING than it already is

    What the fuck are you talking about? It ISN'T a thing and thats what something like this should be used to pound into a persons head.

    Tasteticle on

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  • the wookthe wook Registered User regular
    edited August 2009
    i once again point out that you don't need to talk if you just pull out your wiener

    the wook on
  • DichotomyDichotomy Registered User regular
    edited August 2009
    Quoth wrote: »
    Dichotomy wrote: »
    Quoth wrote: »
    before we started dating i would sit on his lap at lunch because there were no chairs

    huh, some girl used to do that to me back in high school

    it was her way of saying she liked you

    was she hot

    she kinda was and I'm pretty sure she had a thing for me but was also annoying so pfffffft

    Dichotomy on
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  • QuetziQuetzi Here we may reign secure, and in my choice, To reign is worth ambition though in HellRegistered User, Moderator mod
    edited August 2009
    Druhim wrote: »
    Tasteticle wrote: »
    I've said it before and I'll say it again.

    Somebody should start up "Approaching Women" classes that make sure you are not a creepy fuck.

    Just teach you things about cleaning yourself up, conversation starters, etiqette, confidence boosting, etc.

    Not predatory, but a "hey it's nice to meet you" kind of way.

    A lot of people need to learn that "nice guys finish last" is the furthest from the truth.

    People without backbones finish last, and usually those people are pretty nice guys.

    I have a lot of friends that are great people but have ZERO clues when it comes to just talking to women.

    I know this is a little old but NO

    NO

    this is NOT what we need

    we do not need to make talking to the other gender more of a THING than it already is
    shank you are being pretty retarded again
    what he said is reasonable

    I'd say Shank is kinda being reasonable too though

    Even if you are doing things fairly, well, correctly, in teaching people to talk to the opposite sex

    You're still creating this us and them mentality

    Which is pretty fucking dumb

    Quetzi on
  • DogDog Registered User, Administrator, Vanilla Staff admin
    edited August 2009
    I don't see anything wrong with what Tasteicle said


    also man this thread makes me depressed

    Unknown User on
  • QuothQuoth the Raven Miami, FL FOR REALRegistered User regular
    edited August 2009
    the wook wrote: »
    i once again point out that you don't need to talk if you just pull out your wiener

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z4iiyRv_NrQ

    Quoth on
  • GRMikeGRMike The Last Best Hope for Humanity The God Pod Registered User regular
    edited August 2009
    My current fiancee is like 5 years in the making, but our romantic relationship pretty much happened over night.

    Honestly, if you are just a genuine person and like yourself (and you don't have anything growing on your face that shouldn't be there) you will have no trouble at all meeting somebody and having meaningful relationships.

    Now if you just want to meet women in clubs, hit it and then quit it so you can tell your bros over a rousing game of Madden- then you are destined to be a lonely fuck for the rest of your life.

    GRMike on
  • EdcrabEdcrab Actually a hack Registered User regular
    edited August 2009
    Mysst wrote: »
    man I just start making out with girls and then find out they're crazy or get married or something

    I thought this was what normal people did

    So far this thread makes me think Mysst is secretly my friend Vince and wook is secretly my friend Phil

    Guys

    You're both gits and I forget what else I was going to say

    Edcrab on
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  • Charles KinboteCharles Kinbote Registered User regular
    edited August 2009
    making academic classes to talk to women is only going to reinforce the notion that you need academic classes to talk to women

    Charles Kinbote on
  • RuckusRuckus Registered User regular
    edited August 2009
    the wook wrote: »
    JoeUser wrote: »
    the wook wrote: »
    man

    i've hit that age where all of the good ones are already taken

    i need to start dating 21 year olds

    What's so great about twenty one year olds?

    it's the youngest you can be and drink legally

    18 here in Manitoba, but you can still find lots of drunk 16-17 year olds.

    ...not that I'm looking.

    <_<

    >_>

    Ruckus on
  • Kuribo's ShoeKuribo's Shoe Kuribo's Stocking North PoleRegistered User regular
    edited August 2009
    you know, if a girl's ever liked me and hasn't flat out told me so I never picked up on it

    I'm willing to bet that's never happened though

    Kuribo's Shoe on
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  • DruhimDruhim Registered User, ClubPA regular
    edited August 2009
    Straightzi wrote: »
    Druhim wrote: »
    Tasteticle wrote: »
    I've said it before and I'll say it again.

    Somebody should start up "Approaching Women" classes that make sure you are not a creepy fuck.

    Just teach you things about cleaning yourself up, conversation starters, etiqette, confidence boosting, etc.

    Not predatory, but a "hey it's nice to meet you" kind of way.

    A lot of people need to learn that "nice guys finish last" is the furthest from the truth.

    People without backbones finish last, and usually those people are pretty nice guys.

    I have a lot of friends that are great people but have ZERO clues when it comes to just talking to women.

    I know this is a little old but NO

    NO

    this is NOT what we need

    we do not need to make talking to the other gender more of a THING than it already is
    shank you are being pretty retarded again
    what he said is reasonable

    I'd say Shank is kinda being reasonable too though

    Even if you are doing things fairly, well, correctly, in teaching people to talk to the opposite sex

    You're still creating this us and them mentality

    Which is pretty fucking dumb
    what taste is talking about is pretty much the opposite of that though

    Druhim on
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  • KrunkMcGrunkKrunkMcGrunk Registered User regular
    edited August 2009
    People treat PUA shit like it's all universal. I used to read some of it. I found that there is a lot of variance.

    Like any field of advice, there's good advice, and there's awful, shitty advice. You just have to not be an idiot to figure out what actually good advice, and what makes you a douchebag.

    KrunkMcGrunk on
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  • the wookthe wook Registered User regular
    edited August 2009
    Quoth wrote: »
    the wook wrote: »
    i once again point out that you don't need to talk if you just pull out your wiener

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z4iiyRv_NrQ

    the last girl i hooked up, i just told her that she was looking good and i wanted to sleep with her

    of course, it helped that we were both already naked

    the wook on
  • celandinecelandine Registered User regular
    edited August 2009
    Straightzi wrote: »
    celandine wrote: »
    Nine months later he wanted to date me.

    Damn girl

    Getting yourself knocked up and tellin' the dude he's the father

    You got some brass fucking balls

    Oh, for Christ's sake! The school year is 9 months long! That's what I meant!
    NO BABIES.

    celandine on
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  • KrunkMcGrunkKrunkMcGrunk Registered User regular
    edited August 2009
    I see this is the SE thread du jour

    KrunkMcGrunk on
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  • World as MythWorld as Myth a breezy way to annoy serious people Registered User regular
    edited August 2009
    I didn't want to like my boyfriend because it was so clear that he thought I should for so long

    but I started to suspect that he was actually a super sweet dork in disguise

    and I was totally right; he's the sweetest boyfriend in the galaxy

    World as Myth on
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  • Dr. FrenchensteinDr. Frenchenstein Registered User regular
    edited August 2009
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  • DogDog Registered User, Administrator, Vanilla Staff admin
    edited August 2009
    you know, if a girl's ever liked me and hasn't flat out told me so I never picked up on it

    I'm willing to bet that's never happened though

    It's happened to me twice in the past few years and I have to kick myself for being so oblivious

    Unknown User on
  • DichotomyDichotomy Registered User regular
    edited August 2009
    back in elementary school we used to play a game called Boys Vs. Girls

    it was pretty much tag with teams divided by gender

    terrified memories of being the only boy left on his feet, being chased and hunted through the whole playground by a pack of screeching harpies

    Dichotomy on
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  • KrunkMcGrunkKrunkMcGrunk Registered User regular
    edited August 2009
    Tasteticle wrote: »
    Tasteticle wrote: »
    I've said it before and I'll say it again.

    Somebody should start up "Approaching Women" classes that make sure you are not a creepy fuck.

    Just teach you things about cleaning yourself up, conversation starters, etiqette, confidence boosting, etc.

    Not predatory, but a "hey it's nice to meet you" kind of way.

    A lot of people need to learn that "nice guys finish last" is the furthest from the truth.

    People without backbones finish last, and usually those people are pretty nice guys.

    I have a lot of friends that are great people but have ZERO clues when it comes to just talking to women.

    I know this is a little old but NO

    NO

    this is NOT what we need

    we do not need to make talking to the other gender more of a THING than it already is

    What the fuck are you talking about? It ISN'T a thing and thats what something like this should be used to pound into a persons head.

    There is actually some shit like this. But people love to be outraged, so you'd never hear about it.

    KrunkMcGrunk on
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  • the wookthe wook Registered User regular
    edited August 2009
    robothero wrote: »
    you know, if a girl's ever liked me and hasn't flat out told me so I never picked up on it

    I'm willing to bet that's never happened though

    It's happened to me twice in the past few years and I have to kick myself for being so oblivious

    i think this happens to me all the time

    but that's just because i have such a high opinion of myself that i think everybody wants to date me

    the wook on
  • MysstMysst King Monkey of Hedonism IslandRegistered User regular
    edited August 2009
    Edcrab wrote: »
    Mysst wrote: »
    man I just start making out with girls and then find out they're crazy or get married or something

    I thought this was what normal people did

    So far this thread makes me think Mysst is secretly my friend Vince and wook is secretly my friend Phil

    Guys

    You're both gits and I forget what else I was going to say
    man my life would have been so much different were my name vince

    Mysst on
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  • Charles KinboteCharles Kinbote Registered User regular
    edited August 2009
    anyway here is my tried-and-true method

    1. Go to a party
    2. Get real drunk
    3. Start tuning in to a girl's conversations; laugh at her jokes from the other side of the party so she knows that I care
    4. Put my arm around her for forty-five minutes until her friend drives her home
    5. Crying, call her and ask her three times why she had to leave the party
    6. Wait for her to come back to the party
    7. Have sex like seven times

    Charles Kinbote on
  • satansfingerssatansfingers Registered User regular
    edited August 2009
    I didn't want to like my boyfriend because it was so clear that he thought I should for so long

    but I started to suspect that he was actually a super sweet dork in disguise

    and I was totally right; he's the sweetest boyfriend in the galaxy

    gross

    satansfingers on
  • the wookthe wook Registered User regular
    edited August 2009
    Mysst wrote: »
    Edcrab wrote: »
    Mysst wrote: »
    man I just start making out with girls and then find out they're crazy or get married or something

    I thought this was what normal people did

    So far this thread makes me think Mysst is secretly my friend Vince and wook is secretly my friend Phil

    Guys

    You're both gits and I forget what else I was going to say
    man my life would have been so much different were my name vince

    my life would be two letters different if my name were phil

    the wook on
  • WeaverWeaver Breakfast Witch Hashus BrowniusRegistered User regular
    edited August 2009
    When I was in 3rd grade this girl in my homeroom had a crush on me and asked me to be her boyfriend and I said yes, then about ten minutes later I was all "So now what?"

    Weaver on
  • GRMikeGRMike The Last Best Hope for Humanity The God Pod Registered User regular
    edited August 2009
    Dichotomy wrote: »
    back in elementary school we used to play a game called Boys Vs. Girls

    it was pretty much tag with teams divided by gender

    terrified memories of being the only boy left on his feet, being chased and hunted through the whole playground by a pack of screeching harpies

    Kiss and Tackle. I guess the object of the game was to force yourself on the opposite sex and then be forever scarred for life by it.

    I was never cool enough nor svelte enough to be invited to play.

    GRMike on
  • celandinecelandine Registered User regular
    edited August 2009
    Also, yes, if you're over fourteen and have problems just talking to girls, stop making a thing of it. Talking is just talking.

    celandine on
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  • QuetziQuetzi Here we may reign secure, and in my choice, To reign is worth ambition though in HellRegistered User, Moderator mod
    edited August 2009
    Druhim wrote: »
    Straightzi wrote: »
    Druhim wrote: »
    Tasteticle wrote: »
    I've said it before and I'll say it again.

    Somebody should start up "Approaching Women" classes that make sure you are not a creepy fuck.

    Just teach you things about cleaning yourself up, conversation starters, etiqette, confidence boosting, etc.

    Not predatory, but a "hey it's nice to meet you" kind of way.

    A lot of people need to learn that "nice guys finish last" is the furthest from the truth.

    People without backbones finish last, and usually those people are pretty nice guys.

    I have a lot of friends that are great people but have ZERO clues when it comes to just talking to women.

    I know this is a little old but NO

    NO

    this is NOT what we need

    we do not need to make talking to the other gender more of a THING than it already is
    shank you are being pretty retarded again
    what he said is reasonable

    I'd say Shank is kinda being reasonable too though

    Even if you are doing things fairly, well, correctly, in teaching people to talk to the opposite sex

    You're still creating this us and them mentality

    Which is pretty fucking dumb
    what taste is talking about is pretty much the opposite of that though

    Sorry, but making it some sort of class hurts just as much as it helps

    Quetzi on
  • DogDog Registered User, Administrator, Vanilla Staff admin
    edited August 2009
    the wook wrote: »
    robothero wrote: »
    you know, if a girl's ever liked me and hasn't flat out told me so I never picked up on it

    I'm willing to bet that's never happened though

    It's happened to me twice in the past few years and I have to kick myself for being so oblivious

    i think this happens to me all the time

    but that's just because i have such a high opinion of myself that i think everybody wants to date me

    well everybody does want to date you

    Unknown User on
  • the wookthe wook Registered User regular
    edited August 2009
    celandine wrote: »
    Also, yes, if you're over fourteen and have problems just talking to girls, stop making a thing of it. Talking is just talking.

    what if i'm over 28

    can it cycle back around to talking being a huge deal?

    the wook on
  • GRMikeGRMike The Last Best Hope for Humanity The God Pod Registered User regular
    edited August 2009
    Mysst wrote: »
    Edcrab wrote: »
    Mysst wrote: »
    man I just start making out with girls and then find out they're crazy or get married or something

    I thought this was what normal people did

    So far this thread makes me think Mysst is secretly my friend Vince and wook is secretly my friend Phil

    Guys

    You're both gits and I forget what else I was going to say
    man my life would have been so much different were my name vince

    For one it would actually have a "V" in it...

    GRMike on
  • EdcrabEdcrab Actually a hack Registered User regular
    edited August 2009
    Mysst wrote: »
    Edcrab wrote: »
    Mysst wrote: »
    man I just start making out with girls and then find out they're crazy or get married or something

    I thought this was what normal people did

    So far this thread makes me think Mysst is secretly my friend Vince and wook is secretly my friend Phil

    Guys

    You're both gits and I forget what else I was going to say
    man my life would have been so much different were my name vince

    You'd also be a giant man mountain

    Who is compensating for something what with all the boxing and Judo and is thus probably gay

    Are you reading this yet V, I bet you are you lurking gay man mountain martial artist who is gay

    Edcrab on
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  • World as MythWorld as Myth a breezy way to annoy serious people Registered User regular
    edited August 2009
    I didn't want to like my boyfriend because it was so clear that he thought I should for so long

    but I started to suspect that he was actually a super sweet dork in disguise

    and I was totally right; he's the sweetest boyfriend in the galaxy

    gross
    you're gross

    World as Myth on
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  • I Win SwordfightsI Win Swordfights all the traits of greatness starlight at my feetRegistered User regular
    edited August 2009
    Pretty much every girl friend I have has told me that they liked me at one time or another

    One guy friend, too.

    I Win Swordfights on
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  • TasteticleTasteticle Registered User regular
    edited August 2009
    making academic classes to talk to women is only going to reinforce the notion that you need academic classes to talk to women

    yes yes god forbid something is formed out of the desire to help some people jump over a personal hurdle they have in their head for no good reason.

    Tasteticle on

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  • WeaverWeaver Breakfast Witch Hashus BrowniusRegistered User regular
    edited August 2009
    I'm 30. I remember the first time I was at a party and found myself attracted to a woman in her 40s and I was all "ok this is odd"

    Weaver on
  • bongibongi regular
    edited August 2009
    when i met my boyfriend




    i don't have a boyfriend

    bongi on
  • MysstMysst King Monkey of Hedonism IslandRegistered User regular
    edited August 2009
    GRMike wrote: »
    Mysst wrote: »
    Edcrab wrote: »
    Mysst wrote: »
    man I just start making out with girls and then find out they're crazy or get married or something

    I thought this was what normal people did

    So far this thread makes me think Mysst is secretly my friend Vince and wook is secretly my friend Phil

    Guys

    You're both gits and I forget what else I was going to say
    man my life would have been so much different were my name vince

    For one it would actually have a "V" in it...
    man german is a pretty white language I dunno what all of you guys' problems were

    Mysst on
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