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Unless I do something tonight.....it's surely over
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Yea what exactly are you saying OP? You explain how the first bad thing she did was bad but just danced around it for a few paragraphs. I only read the first half of the OP because I'm so confused as to what exactly is happening. Please explain this situation more clearly.
But I'm really confused as to the details.
Leave her before she does some real damage to you man. If she can't find work (due to her action or inaction... we don't know ((WE don't know? what the hell. you know good and well))) and you're supporting her and she still wants to go do something with another guy (albeit not sexual) then fuck her.
Whatever she did, it obviously upset you and you seem stressed as it is. She didn't talk to you about it before she did it and you don't know if there've been other times.
Cut your losses.
So did she do that with another guy? Is that it?
I'm still confused.
I could get into greater detail, but the bottom line is that when you make multiple allusions to the fact that you're suspicious she's just mooching off you and you find the need to snoop on her because you don't trust her "faithfulness" to you, I don't think it's a healthy relationship any more.
Is the problem she has a fetish?
Is it that she's emailing guys? Is she having an affair online?
What the hell are you talking about as a problem here?
This part did jump out at me and would give any person reason to question the relationship.
EDIT: Okay, so she's basically been having an offline affair with someone right?
Otherwise I'm still misunderstanding the problem.
Also masochists often like to be yelled at an insulted, there's a chance she's doing it on purpose.
I mean, seriously who leaves something like that out?
But this is starting to sound like the type of crazy one should not be building a relationship with no matter the "love" involved. This sounds like some bad kind of crazy.
She's a whole person, not just parts to pick and choose. You need to figure out if you can come to terms with the shit she's into. And for the love of God, if she's such a burden on your pocketbook because she's not working help her find something.
You have a lot of issues with your GF. Instead of talking about it here or letting them all build up until you go nuts on her you need to talk to her about them.
Every post you make confuses me. Please answer this question in the least sentences possible.
What did she do that started the fight?
Try slapping her silly (in bed i mean, not domestic abuse) and see where you go from there. srsly. Sounds like you have some frustration there, shouldn't be too tough.
And I am still unsure whether I understand what you're saying.
There's basically only one way to insult someone and hurt their feeling and everyone knows that is to pick on something they're insecure about.
So if you called her fat, it doesn't matter if you really think she is because you don't mean to tell her she needs to lose weight, you mean to hurt her. You MEAN it.
You should end it and move on for both your sakes.
What one that started the ordeal? The act? What do you mean sexual jesus christ fucking explain the details.
I'd be overtly suspicious about this. I find it highly doubtful that cleaning an ex's house is actually... well cleaning an ex's house.
lol... this make her sound like shes running some sort of S&M escort service online.
Yeah people lash out, we don't care about the fact you called her names we're all adults (well kinda) but even we're prone to lash out. What we want to know is the reason. NOT THE REASONING the REASON.
Errm... Don't care, it doesn't affect the situations really.
Again seriously you sound hysterical. Fucking take a deep breath and post what you mean. Telling us the conclusions of your own imaginary thought process that we can only hope to guess at does not help us give you advice.
So wait, you're not in a committed relationship? Or are you in a committed relationship?
What's your problem?
It's just as plausible that she's cheating on you and you're really bad at spotting it.
'cleaning' a guys house on your birthday? Seriously man?
Snoop if you have to to find out the truth but it seems like a pretty dysfunctional relationship. Obviously you could be biasing the story a lot and just be paranoid, but you'll have to interpret that.
Also you need to take into account whether or not you were 'going steady' at the time and how long you'd been together. Many people engage in infidelities early on in the relationship then get their act together and that later comes to bite them (10 years of perfect marriage ruined by cheating a month after they started dating etc).
Dump her, and find someone you can trust.
but they're listening to every word I say
This isn't fucking 20 questions. Say what she did in the OP. Otherwise we can't help you.
edit: that is slightly better. I would include the whole story though.
but they're listening to every word I say
And apologizing is never tantamount to that sort of thing.
Seems to me she's definitely stringing you along but that's only from what you've told us. I can't really understand why you'd put up with any of that much less several instances of it.