Ok, so I'm in need of some lady advice and I'm not even gonna go anonymous for this. I'm gonna put my issues out for everyone to see!
Ok so to give as much info as possible on the situation - A female friend of mine who I hadn't seen in 2 years sent me a text message recently. I remembered really enjoying speaking to her so I said we should hang out. I went to her place and we played some Mario Kart 64 and some other stuff then watched a movie. After the movie we start making out. She gives the whole "Oh my god, we haven't seen each other for 2 years and now were making out, this is crazy!" thing. So a few minutes later she's not wearing any clothes because I have a knack for getting people naked.
Things go extremely well here because I also have some very impressive lady pleasing skills
Note: We covered everything but the home run.
After this I hang out there for a while and head home. I think about the situation and decide while she is a cool girl and a pretty girl, I could not be more than friends with her. Reason for this being as much as I don't mind being friends with people who do drugs I could not date someone that did. At least not more than smoking pot maybe. Also she is moving many states away in a few months so that's another good reason.
The next day I go back over for some more gaming fun. Later that night things got hot and heavy again. I use my impressive skills once again and then we decide to take it further and go for that home run..... But I can't get it up. Now this in and of itself is not the actual problem. Because I can say with much certainty that it is nerves... I just figured that by now my nerves wouldn't get to me in this situation but they did. Now I haven't had sex in a couple months before this and hadn't even wanked it for like a week. So really I shoulda been ready to go but those damn nerves are impressive things and left me high and dry and incredibly frustrated.
And here's where this all comes together. After I left she sends me a text... and thinks it was her. Asking me if I didn't find her attractive and all of that jazz. I kept trying to explain but it doesn't seem like she fully believes that it wasn't her. So I've managed to be blue-balled AND hurt her feelings all at the same time. I don't quite know how to make her feel better about this.