Safewords for vanilla sex: Totally not overkill. It takes a great deal more effort to pull yourself out of the moment to utter a firm and unambiguous "no" or "stop" than it does to remember and squeak out a mutually agreed-upon "STOP" word.
"Yellow light" for 'slow down, too fast, too hard, too much stimulation'
"Red light" for 'okay, time to stop, put on a robe, have a glass of water, and talk about this'
It's a system that works really well for BDSM, because it's pretty much impossible to forget (people do forget their safewords in the heat of the moment); and it's not so silly that you feel goofy saying it during vanilla sex.
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But then we just have a competition between Germany and Hentai.
I thought I was familiar with most of the weird sex shit out there. I was wrong.
Wow,wtf? Why did I have to google that D:D:D:D:
Sounds like guro.
Sounds like something that should be banned by the Geneva convention.
Now, I recall that one of your posts specifically is the reason that I originally googled guro. So no.
No, I will not find out what Dolcett is and contribute further to the conversation.
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One of these things involves eating poop.
There's got to be a venn diagram showing some overlap. Dolscatt?
the "no true scotch man" fallacy.
Wikipedia first, then possibly Urban Dictionary.
http://www.theonion.com/content/news/japan_pledges_to_halt_production
I think wikipedia has a picture of guro.
The telephone game through different languages is fun!
And.... now the term "dulcet tones" is forever ruined for me.
Meh, never used it anyway.