It possibly shows my naivety, but I've often wondered about this with prostitutes. I pay for an hour. So really I should be plugging away there trying to get in as many orgasms as a young, virile gentleman as myself can. Is that how it works? Or is it, you buy an hour which includes up to one orgasm. What about if I am just on the cusp when the time runs out? Do we have to stop while I pay for another three minutes? How strictly do said whores adhere to times? Or is a session much less strictly regimented?
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Rear Admiral ChocoI wanna be an owl, Jerry!Owl York CityRegistered Userregular
edited March 2010
Basically I get what you're saying Nocturne and while I mostly agree I just can't say in good confidence that I'd ever want another individual to be raped.
Violently beaten or murdered wouldn't bother me, but I wouldn't be the one to do it. I doubt jail is fun.
Not that that's any better, mind you.
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It possibly shows my naivety, but I've often wondered about this with prostitutes. I pay for an hour. So really I should be plugging away there trying to get in as many orgasms as a young, virile gentleman as myself can. Is that how it works? Or is it, you buy an hour which includes up to one orgasm. What about if I am just on the cusp when the time runs out? Do we have to stop while I pay for another three minutes? How strictly do said whores adhere to times? Or is a session much less strictly regimented?
I read a blog by a prostitute and she charged per act.
So she was amazing at giving blowjobs, had it down to the science, because guys who had only had meh blowjobs up until then would pay for it figuring it would last a long time and give the most bang for the buck as it were. Then she would rock their worlds and collect her cash.
i basically don't believe in vengeance, eye-for-an-eye, or even really the penal system as punishment
the penal system should exist to segregate dangerous people from the rest of society and rehabilitate them
if rehabilitation to an acceptable level is essentially impossible (paul bernardo, for example), then segregating them from anyone they can harm will have to be good enough
It possibly shows my naivety, but I've often wondered about this with prostitutes. I pay for an hour. So really I should be plugging away there trying to get in as many orgasms as a young, virile gentleman as myself can. Is that how it works? Or is it, you buy an hour which includes up to one orgasm. What about if I am just on the cusp when the time runs out? Do we have to stop while I pay for another three minutes? How strictly do said whores adhere to times? Or is a session much less strictly regimented?
I read a blog by a prostitute and she charged per act.
So she was amazing at giving blowjobs, had it down to the science, because guys who had only had meh blowjobs up until then would pay for it figuring it would last a long time and give the most bang for the buck as it were. Then she would rock their worlds and collect her cash.
Interesting. I got about two thirds into Belle De Jour's Diary of a something something unremarkable title "that girl who worked as a prossie while she was writing up her PhD", and she seemed to have upfront payment on a "per session" basis, which I presumed was about time. And then it had had a narrative added, which diluted the voyeuristic fun.
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i basically don't believe in vengeance, eye-for-an-eye, or even really the penal system as punishment
the penal system should exist to segregate dangerous people from the rest of society and rehabilitate them
if rehabilitation to an acceptable level is essentially impossible (paul bernardo, for example), then segregating them from anyone they can harm will have to be good enough
The earth is rumbling! It's coming from the south! :shock:
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KageraImitating the worst people. Since 2004Registered Userregular
edited March 2010
The Craiglist types seem to charge for time Then again they are trying to lie and say they only give massages and since I never actually tried one I don't know if that is actually what they are charging for or if the difference between a half hour and an hour is really just a half BJ/half sex and bareback anal.
actually this is kind of funny because i am writing a paper which argues against mandatory minimums and incarceration as a way of reducing crime right nooooowwwwwwwww
a large part of tackling rape, at least as far as young people go
is that, well
most of them don't even realize that they are committing rape
this is something that really needs to be drilled into people's heads.
This too. Although the story that was linked was most definitely not one of these cases.
These guys were going from dorm room to dorm room looking for unlocked doors so they could break in and rape women.
the reality is dudes like this Broseph trawling the residences looking for nubile freshmen to violate is not the majority of rape
by a longshot
the majority of sexual assault is committed by people well-known to the victim, and in a context where consensual sexual activity could've been possible, at least in the eyes of the perpetrator.
which is why rapists default to a "it was consensual!" defense 9/10.
the reality is most rapists do not acknowledge that what they did was rape. it's either confusion or outright active denial, but they will not accept that what they did was rape. they will insist that the victim wanted it, because they actually do believe that (or, are trying hard to believe it because they want to believe it)
most rapists are not heartless sociopaths incapable of human empathy. for the most part, they're self-absorbed, ignorant jerks who care about their needs first and don't really consider the other person an equal or someone who "knows what they want".
rapists are often not monsters and are usually just asshole-ish people who make some very critical and selfish errors of judgment
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KageraImitating the worst people. Since 2004Registered Userregular
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I think I'd be more than happy to suicide bomb myself to kill mister Daniel Katsnelson there.
That smug face, it just makes me wanna go all irrational on him.
Man I'm betting a whole bunch of people will get really snippy with each other at the LHC over the next few weeks in that "holy shit don't break it now!" way.
Man I'm betting a whole bunch of people will get really snippy with each other at the LHC over the next few weeks in that "holy shit don't break it now!" way.
yeah there's a lot of scientists with very nervous puckered anuses over in switzerland right now
Man I'm betting a whole bunch of people will get really snippy with each other at the LHC over the next few weeks in that "holy shit don't break it now!" way.
yeah there's a lot of scientists with very nervous puckered anuses over in switzerland right now
not gonna unclench them anytime soon
Haha, the webcast has pretty much said exactly that. "It's stable, now we will touch nothing!"
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but i do hope the universe sorts him out
Trust me. I know where you're coming from.
Seeing his smug bro face awakens some primal fucking urge in me that makes me want to stomp his balls in.
But that's hardly a perfect solution.
hrm
can't say i like that viewpoint, duder
i mean, i understand it
but there ain't nobody i would ever wish rape upon
even paul bernardo
I am aware of this. I still want it to happen to him, though.
Edit: Understandably, Pony. I'm not expecting people to agree with me here. I'm admitting that I'm being biased and inconsistent.
i get it dude
just so long as you realize that ain't a good quality and not a viewpoint society as a lot should hold
it's okay to be angry
it's quite another to be like "that makes it okay" based on the anger
It possibly shows my naivety, but I've often wondered about this with prostitutes. I pay for an hour. So really I should be plugging away there trying to get in as many orgasms as a young, virile gentleman as myself can. Is that how it works? Or is it, you buy an hour which includes up to one orgasm. What about if I am just on the cusp when the time runs out? Do we have to stop while I pay for another three minutes? How strictly do said whores adhere to times? Or is a session much less strictly regimented?
Violently beaten or murdered wouldn't bother me, but I wouldn't be the one to do it. I doubt jail is fun.
Not that that's any better, mind you.
And now I go to work!
Right. And I recognize it's not a viewpoint that society should hold, and not the way punishment should be assigned.
I'm admitting clouded judgment due to anger and personal bias. I still want it to happen, though.
I read a blog by a prostitute and she charged per act.
So she was amazing at giving blowjobs, had it down to the science, because guys who had only had meh blowjobs up until then would pay for it figuring it would last a long time and give the most bang for the buck as it were. Then she would rock their worlds and collect her cash.
the penal system should exist to segregate dangerous people from the rest of society and rehabilitate them
if rehabilitation to an acceptable level is essentially impossible (paul bernardo, for example), then segregating them from anyone they can harm will have to be good enough
is that, well
most of them don't even realize that they are committing rape
this is something that really needs to be drilled into people's heads.
This too. Although the story that was linked was most definitely not one of these cases.
These guys were going from dorm room to dorm room looking for unlocked doors so they could break in and rape women.
Interesting. I got about two thirds into Belle De Jour's Diary of a something something unremarkable title "that girl who worked as a prossie while she was writing up her PhD", and she seemed to have upfront payment on a "per session" basis, which I presumed was about time. And then it had had a narrative added, which diluted the voyeuristic fun.
especially for young offenders.
we were almost there, once
:O
The emergency pump failed.
I have no heat or hot water.
the reality is dudes like this Broseph trawling the residences looking for nubile freshmen to violate is not the majority of rape
by a longshot
the majority of sexual assault is committed by people well-known to the victim, and in a context where consensual sexual activity could've been possible, at least in the eyes of the perpetrator.
which is why rapists default to a "it was consensual!" defense 9/10.
the reality is most rapists do not acknowledge that what they did was rape. it's either confusion or outright active denial, but they will not accept that what they did was rape. they will insist that the victim wanted it, because they actually do believe that (or, are trying hard to believe it because they want to believe it)
most rapists are not heartless sociopaths incapable of human empathy. for the most part, they're self-absorbed, ignorant jerks who care about their needs first and don't really consider the other person an equal or someone who "knows what they want".
rapists are often not monsters and are usually just asshole-ish people who make some very critical and selfish errors of judgment
That smug face, it just makes me wanna go all irrational on him.
considering the link Cass posted was to a feminist blog that had a warning about "triggering" ahead of time
i am pretty sure the picture was specifically chosen by the person who wrote the post to invoke this reaction from you
i am willing to wager it was taken from like, his facebook or some shit before he even got busted
But I was talking about this particular broseph, who I would classify as a monster.
I don't think they let anything black in.
Yes. It marks a bright new day for the continent.
oh, totally is
dude should be locked up forever
i would happily pay my tax dollars to keep a dude like that in prison the rest of his days
i just don't believe we should rape or kill him
this was fucking ace, man, i wanted to let you know i literally laughed out loud
I loved Prof. Cox's comment on this on Wossy the other night. The very scientific term of "bollocks".
so quickly. it blows my mind.
I saw another picture of him posing with some mayor. Not as douchey, still wanted to at least paralyze him from the waist down.
yeah there's a lot of scientists with very nervous puckered anuses over in switzerland right now
not gonna unclench them anytime soon
Haha, the webcast has pretty much said exactly that. "It's stable, now we will touch nothing!"