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So, I finally got together with this girl I've kind of liked for a while now and things got into the bedroom. Unfortunately she seems to have never had an orgasm before and things down there are just kind of numb for her during intercourse. I'm not one to freak out about this, but, I have to admit it was king of frustrating. No one finished and we kissed and fooled around until she had to leave this morning.
I'm the kind of guy that wants to figure this out for her, if I can. I love sex and the intimacy involved and I feel like this could be an area where she feels really uncomfortable and somehow at fault for not orgasming and that will translate into harder times in other areas of our relationship. But I don't want to make it seem like I'm suddenly transfixed by this lack of orgasm and refuse to focus on anything else; I really like this girl.
I did my best to kind of make it seem like not a big deal and make her realize that I really wanted to see her again and all of that stuff that I genuinely feel; to at least try shake her out of the melancholy funk the whole situation put her in.
I want to know if anyone out there has had experience with this type of situation and what, if anything, can be done to help her and I out of this situation into a relationship where sex is something good and fun we do together because we both enjoy it and really get what we want out of it.
Summation: She's never had an orgasm. What should I do to change this? She's responsive to kissing ear lobe and neck and breast stimulation but after a short while vulva stimulation just stops completely for her.