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I've started seeing a new girl. I really, really like her. Problem is, when we try and have sex with a condom, my penis dies. She has now put an ultimatum on what's going on between us. If I can't pull it off with a condom, it's over because there is no barebacking until we're exclusive. Seeing as we're adults, that's months away, and she ain't going to stick around.
Up until the attempt to put a condom on, rock hard. Dry humping, rock hard. Naked humping, rock hard. Oral sex from her, rock hard. But as soon as the condom enters the equation, it just dies. Every time we've attempted sex, I have had at least four drinks and it has been fairly late at night.
Some background is necessary. I'm 28 and in very good shape. I work out 4-5 times a week. For the past five or so years, I've been somewhat of a "player". Unfortunately, I haven't had a lot of times where I've been forced to use a condom, which may be part of the problem. I am clean in terms of STDs, though. The alcohol and time of night may also not be helping. But then again, it doesn't seem to be a problem until the condom shows up.
As far as past sexual history, while condoms aren't my norm, problems maintaining erections are fairly unusual.
So, I would like to fix this. Part of me says I should tell this girl to go fuck herself for making so much dependent on sex. The other part wants to make this work because I don't meet many people I like this much.