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Hey, I do something like that!
It's mostly fear-based respect, though.
Guy I'm with now told me that he was engaged. He was with a girl for three years and they were going to get married, but it didn't work out. He has infinitely more relationship experience than I can conceive at this point. Kind of intimidating.
Don't bother with definition! Make sure you both know what you and the other wants and what is expected, and then you have what you have, and it's awesome and custom-made.
You have a big hairy spider in your sig. You can't top that level of repulsiveness irl.
That is my suggestion as the hugest hypocrite ever.
We'll all learn jujitsu and it'll be great!
Well, I suppose it's possible there's no real expectation for you to entertain the friend.
Like the friend just needs somewhere to be, but doesn't want to be in the way or anything.
Maybe.
Blueberrywerewlf on the Sony Anime Games Box | BluberryWerewlf on the BroBone
no shit.
it's a friday, man!
also the drinking too much was just a cover.
I have to count sometimes when I'm sober too.
Most of my intimidation comes through sheer volume.
Like, I'm not a loud dude, but I can be.
I've never had to resort to violence because of it!
Also because I am a fairly rational person.
Yeah but... this has gotten me into a lot of trouble in the past. I thought I had something that evidently wasn't there from his side. I kind of want to say "will you be my boyfriend?" to Boy and hope that it comes off as endearing.
Challenge accepted
(also it is a spider crab)
I have it on good authority that syndalis and nexus do this every "sausage saturday"
so much you guys
so much
No I don't.
I don't drink too much. I drink often and I drink a bunch when I do, because the friends I've got now drink often and we drink a bunch when we do.
But like, shit, I've had far more unhealthy drinking habits before when I was drinking far less.
Damnit, what am I supposed to do with this erection for one month?
https://twitter.com/Hooraydiation
It has? Well I mean, that's why you need to set it up explicitly. I mean "boyfriend" means different things to different people too, so you'll want to go over that anyway...
Also that would be totally adorable and you should do that.
Here's precisely how the conversation goes down.
You two are doing whatever, sitting together, cuddled up, all that jazz. While you only half have his attention, say "So what are we, anyway?"
"Hmm?" He'll respond, distracted by the movie / TV show / strippers.
"Like, are we boyfriend / girlfriend, or...?"
"Oh! Hmm, yeah, that sounds good."
And then your romantic evening at the strip club continues.
Teach me how to schmooze, Kana.
Are you trying to be loud and intim, or are people getting intim when you get loud?
You seem even keel to me.
alternatively
say
"will you be my boyfriend?"
because if he is anything like me it would be too cute and his heart would melt and any and all aversion to commitment wouldn't matter because saying no would be like pushing a puppy through a meat grinder
intim is norwegian for intimate
That's pretty much textbook introvert, yeah.
I'm fairly gregarious for periods of time and then I sort of crash and just want to read a book in a ball on the floor for a couple days. It goes in waves.
Blueberrywerewlf on the Sony Anime Games Box | BluberryWerewlf on the BroBone
Ewww. I could never say "so what are we, anyway?" I will need to come up with a scripted game plan of how to breach this topic of conversation. Also he is attentive as fuck.
Who goes to a strip club to watch TV shows and movies?
my for real advice is be as adorable as possible about it
Mostly the former. I'm often pretty quiet in person, actually (unless I've had a few, then I can get kinda sloppy with the volume knob).
So when I AM loud, I can kind of use it as an instrument of intimidation if that's my goal.
When that's reflected in real life, I'll believe it
how do you expect it to be reflected in real life?
back to your regularly scheduled cat pictures
Just ask him adorably!
It will be adorable!
I mean everyone here says it will be and we have good tastes in adorable.
Look at how many of our awesomes are from pictures of kittens.
The scenario kinda went off the tracks pretty quickly.
It is a goddamn shame we lost this beautiful crazy bastard.
@Kana is backup!
Geth, close the thread
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