I get mad maybe once a year. It's something I find difficult to relate to
you didn't get mad when your faulty design sent a flaming ball of fire into a crowd of people
you have transcended anger
Why would I have gotten mad at that? That was awesome.
In those kinds of situations I have learned to recognize, and enjoy, that tiny fleeting moment of "holy shit that was awesome" that you get right before the "oh fuck I hope that didn't maim anybody" comes rushing in
See, I react first and put out the fire (real or metaphorical) and by the time it's appropriate to process emotionally then there's never a reason to be angry.
I can't really see "angry" being an emotion involved here at all
the emotions are "AWESOME!" or "OH FUCK DID I JUST SET PEOPLE ON FIRE?", period
Totally not my business but this is a thing that I cannot fathom or understand. It is literally the most foreign concept I've ever encountered on these forums.
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I mean, I know it's strange and when I explain the situation to people I always get that "She's dickmatized to be doing something as dumb as this."
The situation was basically I liked Sarks for a long time, we were FWBs for awhile and I liked him and wanted a relationship but we realized that we wanted very different futures. It was strange to set a time limit on the relationship, but to me it would've been worse to not have had him as my boyfriend. So I took this really unconventional chance. I'm happier for it and knowing it wasn't going to last forever allowed me to maximize what time I had with him.
wait are you just breaking up just cause or is one of you leaving?
Miiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiim, my heart, she is broken for your heart!
There are many reasons! They're understandable and won't affect our friendship, I hope.
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i watched my laid back roommate get so mad at guacamelee last night
he sucks at platformers
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i am terrible at computers
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It is better to have loved and lost than to have injected heroin, smoked meth and burned down a Burger King.
Totally not my business but this is a thing that I cannot fathom or understand. It is literally the most foreign concept I've ever encountered on these forums.
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I mean, I know it's strange and when I explain the situation to people I always get that "She's dickmatized to be doing something as dumb as this."
The situation was basically I liked Sarks for a long time, we were FWBs for awhile and I liked him and wanted a relationship but we realized that we wanted very different futures. It was strange to set a time limit on the relationship, but to me it would've been worse to not have had him as my boyfriend. So I took this really unconventional chance. I'm happier for it and knowing it wasn't going to last forever allowed me to maximize what time I had with him.
The romantic in me is sad for you.
The old in me wants to be condescending and be like "It's adorable that you think you know what future you really want!" But that's not helpful because it really doesn't fucking matter.
The Ludious in me hates you both for changing and growing as people.
Totally not my business but this is a thing that I cannot fathom or understand. It is literally the most foreign concept I've ever encountered on these forums.
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I mean, I know it's strange and when I explain the situation to people I always get that "She's dickmatized to be doing something as dumb as this."
The situation was basically I liked Sarks for a long time, we were FWBs for awhile and I liked him and wanted a relationship but we realized that we wanted very different futures. It was strange to set a time limit on the relationship, but to me it would've been worse to not have had him as my boyfriend. So I took this really unconventional chance. I'm happier for it and knowing it wasn't going to last forever allowed me to maximize what time I had with him.
The romantic in me is sad for you.
The old in me wants to be condescending and be like "It's adorable that you think you know what future you really want!" But that's not helpful because it really doesn't fucking matter.
The Ludious in me hates you both for changing and growing as people.
I feel like sloth is my favorite of the list of forumers I rarely talk to. Like, he is cherubic, white Korean eddy. Why don't he and I speak more often
Sloth we are beginning a one month trial friendship starting today send me your contact info immediately
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Totally not my business but this is a thing that I cannot fathom or understand. It is literally the most foreign concept I've ever encountered on these forums.
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I mean, I know it's strange and when I explain the situation to people I always get that "She's dickmatized to be doing something as dumb as this."
The situation was basically I liked Sarks for a long time, we were FWBs for awhile and I liked him and wanted a relationship but we realized that we wanted very different futures. It was strange to set a time limit on the relationship, but to me it would've been worse to not have had him as my boyfriend. So I took this really unconventional chance. I'm happier for it and knowing it wasn't going to last forever allowed me to maximize what time I had with him.
The romantic in me is sad for you.
The old in me wants to be condescending and be like "It's adorable that you think you know what future you really want!" But that's not helpful because it really doesn't fucking matter.
The Ludious in me hates you both for changing and growing as people.
what does Smeagol think?
Why would a Southron ever date a Gondorian? That's weirder than cooked fish.
ChelleYeahMrs. LudiousLiving it up in Cinderella's CastleRegistered Userregular
i have complete control of my emotions 99% of the time when i am around other ppl. lud says i am vulcan.
i almost never say anything i dont mean to say, i do not immediately react to upsetting events and whenever i get angry i never actually lose my cool.
the trick is that i just bottle it all up inside and explode later when i'm at home in fits of tears and rage that ludious has to calm me down during.
growing up in a hostile environment teaches you that reacting emotionally is the number one thing you do not do because it makes you vulnerable. always behave like a duck - calm on the surface but paddling like the dickens underneath.
I feel like sloth is my favorite of the list of forumers I rarely talk to. Like, he is cherubic, white Korean eddy. Why don't he and I speak more often
Sloth we are beginning a one month trial friendship starting today send me your contact info immediately
Be careful Sloth. Once you're in Chu's web of love, you can never get out.
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Sarksus insists on doing it with the lights out and, due to a crippling fear of spermjacking, always fakes his orgasm and substitutes a couple squirts from a dish detergent bottle full of simple syrup and egg whites.
Thousands of hot, local singles are waiting to play at bubbulon.com.
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I react like a dyslexic crash test dummy. Hit the wall then the brakes.
There is something majestic about those ships racing that you just don't find in racing yachts.
majestic's the word alright.
My sister sailed on Christian Radich for the Shetland-Stavanger leg year before last. I wanna do that to. Maybe next year, on Statsraad Lehmkuhl or Radich.
i have complete control of my emotions 99% of the time when i am around other ppl. lud says i am vulcan.
i almost never say anything i dont mean to say, i do not immediately react to upsetting events and whenever i get angry i never actually lose my cool.
the trick is that i just bottle it all up inside and explode later when i'm at home in fits of tears and rage that ludious has to calm me down during.
growing up in a hostile environment teaches you that reacting emotionally is the number one thing you do not do because it makes you vulnerable. always behave like a duck - calm on the surface but paddling like the dickens underneath.
Ducks are adorable and very good at swimming, this is a fantastic way to be if your analogy is anything to go on.
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I made a game! Hotline Maui. Requires mouse and keyboard.
Totally not my business but this is a thing that I cannot fathom or understand. It is literally the most foreign concept I've ever encountered on these forums.
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I mean, I know it's strange and when I explain the situation to people I always get that "She's dickmatized to be doing something as dumb as this."
The situation was basically I liked Sarks for a long time, we were FWBs for awhile and I liked him and wanted a relationship but we realized that we wanted very different futures. It was strange to set a time limit on the relationship, but to me it would've been worse to not have had him as my boyfriend. So I took this really unconventional chance. I'm happier for it and knowing it wasn't going to last forever allowed me to maximize what time I had with him.
That's pretty much how my breakup with my first serious girlfriend went.
We didn't put an expiration date on anything, but it became very clear that, despite our mutual affection, we wanted very different things in life, and there was no realistic way for us to compromise in a way that would make both of us happy.
Also re: sports -- the adult response to your team losing a big game is bowed head resignation followed by a week or more of harrowing depression
followed by years of getting angry for about 15 seconds every 6 or 7 months when you remember that ELI WAS FUCKING SACKED 3 TIMES BEFORE RODNEY COULDNT JUST WAVE HIS ARM AND JAR LOOSE A SLICK BALL PINNED AGAINST A SLICKER HELMET BY ONE HAND
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I feel like sloth is my favorite of the list of forumers I rarely talk to. Like, he is cherubic, white Korean eddy. Why don't he and I speak more often
Sloth we are beginning a one month trial friendship starting today send me your contact info immediately
I feel like sloth is my favorite of the list of forumers I rarely talk to. Like, he is cherubic, white Korean eddy. Why don't he and I speak more often
Sloth we are beginning a one month trial friendship starting today send me your contact info immediately
Be careful Sloth. Once you're in Chu's web of love, you can never get out.
Sarksus insists on doing it with the lights out and, due to a crippling fear of spermjacking, always fakes his orgasm and substitutes a couple squirts from a dish detergent bottle full of simple syrup and egg whites.
mim can only orgasm while wearing full ski gear
their love is strong but the relationship is doomed by these infernal summer temperatures
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I feel like sloth is my favorite of the list of forumers I rarely talk to. Like, he is cherubic, white Korean eddy. Why don't he and I speak more often
Sloth we are beginning a one month trial friendship starting today send me your contact info immediately
I'm hurt Chu
You're sort of like a gentile Chu and there's only one person Chu hates. Himself.
As anyone who has worked in a call center, retail, or any other customer-facing job knows, the secret to dealing with anger is channeling it into passive-aggressiveness.
passive aggressiveness is great and all but it just isnt enough for me. if i am really angry about something i want to go for the throat of the matter and resolve the issue. i spent way too many years pretending like something wasnt wrong when everything was. nowadays i like to use passive aggressiveness to fuel dissent and cause uprisings.
I feel like sloth is my favorite of the list of forumers I rarely talk to. Like, he is cherubic, white Korean eddy. Why don't he and I speak more often
Sloth we are beginning a one month trial friendship starting today send me your contact info immediately
Be careful Sloth. Once you're in Chu's web of love, you can never get out.
This is why I am quite careful never to talk to Chu.
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I can't really see "angry" being an emotion involved here at all
the emotions are "AWESOME!" or "OH FUCK DID I JUST SET PEOPLE ON FIRE?", period
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GoCOg8ZzUfg
I am officially on a cartel bus this pleases me. I am a mule.
There are many reasons! They're understandable and won't affect our friendship, I hope.
he sucks at platformers
That's what I always say.
Come on up, lay your hands in mine
Come on up for the Narwhal
Come on up for the Narwhal tonight
The romantic in me is sad for you.
The old in me wants to be condescending and be like "It's adorable that you think you know what future you really want!" But that's not helpful because it really doesn't fucking matter.
The Ludious in me hates you both for changing and growing as people.
Oh man, we wasted so much money on condoms then if that's the case...
Can confirm sarks is shooting blanks
Hmm, might need to re-evaluate my itinerary for this weekend
twitch.tv/tehsloth
I broke two controllers on that phase of the game before I got to where I could consistently beat it.
Chu, you were trying to get AIDS from him, not Pregnant. He's AIDS free, not infertile.
You and me jake. Like brothers.
what does Smeagol think?
Sloth we are beginning a one month trial friendship starting today send me your contact info immediately
Why would a Southron ever date a Gondorian? That's weirder than cooked fish.
i almost never say anything i dont mean to say, i do not immediately react to upsetting events and whenever i get angry i never actually lose my cool.
the trick is that i just bottle it all up inside and explode later when i'm at home in fits of tears and rage that ludious has to calm me down during.
growing up in a hostile environment teaches you that reacting emotionally is the number one thing you do not do because it makes you vulnerable. always behave like a duck - calm on the surface but paddling like the dickens underneath.
There is something majestic about those ships racing that you just don't find in racing yachts.
Be careful Sloth. Once you're in Chu's web of love, you can never get out.
majestic's the word alright.
My sister sailed on Christian Radich for the Shetland-Stavanger leg year before last. I wanna do that to. Maybe next year, on Statsraad Lehmkuhl or Radich.
Ducks are adorable and very good at swimming, this is a fantastic way to be if your analogy is anything to go on.
That's pretty much how my breakup with my first serious girlfriend went.
We didn't put an expiration date on anything, but it became very clear that, despite our mutual affection, we wanted very different things in life, and there was no realistic way for us to compromise in a way that would make both of us happy.
But he told me he was poz... what of my dreams of creating a super strain..
not dragon.
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Nonononononono!
*helmet catch*
FUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUU!
I'm hurt Chu
Because its very sticky?
mim can only orgasm while wearing full ski gear
their love is strong but the relationship is doomed by these infernal summer temperatures
You're sort of like a gentile Chu and there's only one person Chu hates. Himself.
passive aggressiveness is great and all but it just isnt enough for me. if i am really angry about something i want to go for the throat of the matter and resolve the issue. i spent way too many years pretending like something wasnt wrong when everything was. nowadays i like to use passive aggressiveness to fuel dissent and cause uprisings.
yep.
This is why I am quite careful never to talk to Chu.