I'm in a situation that I really don't know how to deal with. I'm a very indecisive and very sensitive person so it's very difficult for me to make certain decisions.
I'm been staying at my sister's house for a little over half a year, my nephews and I are very close. They look up to me as a big brother and I think think of them as siblings as well a little over a month ago I was laid off nad have had so much trouble trying to get ah old of another job. I've applied to so many places with no luck. After many failed attempts my sister called my parents who are living in another country saying that I have not been trying to get a job that I just lay around the house and another negative things that just weren't true. My parents know how hard I've tried to get a job and suggested that I move in with my uncle and that I could go work with him until I can get a hold of a better job. Unfortunately he lives in another state but just the thought of leaving my nephews makes me feel so guilty for considering the option of leaving. we are so close, I have always been with them since they were born. My uncle has offered to help me move to his place this week just as I got offered a job near where I'm currently residing. Even though my sister was very rude and was dropping hints that she didn't want me living in her house anymore, should I try and convince her to let me stay now that I got offered a job nearby or is it better to move with my uncle, to people that are lending me a hand to get my life together? The only real reason why I don't want to leave is because I don't want to leave my nephews. My sister has made it clear that me being able to visit them will be very unlikely. What should I do? please help