Also the woman who was drooling at me last week came by last night with friends and talked to me about where things were yet kept staring at me
It's really disconcerting.
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And, you need to at least double check your shoes are tied up correctly.
Anywhere that sufficiently public that neither party should have to worry about anything bad going down and would feel comfortable being able to leave at any time. Coffee shops are typically good for this because there's likely to be a number of other people around, but they're typically at least quiet enough that you can carry on a conversation easily enough.
Safe spaces are basically places where:
A. There are lots of people
B. In a region all parties know already and aren't going to be lost
C. With cameras
D. And escape options
So I start this new job where I happen to work right next to my high school crush. Looks exactly like I remember. We start catching up and really hit it off. One day she invites me to come with her to a party after work. Things are going great--I'm totally relaxed, getting along great with everyone, she's laughing at all my jokes and just generally smiling a lot. Someone asks if the two of us are together, and she says "well actually we-" and I wake up.
God I can't remember the last time I've been so crushed by a dream. Although in retrospect it does explain why the house we were in (with a fully finished basement, mind you) was cruising down the highway at speed.
So I start this new job where I happen to work right next to my high school crush. Looks exactly like I remember. We start catching up and really hit it off. One day she invites me to come with her to a party after work. Things are going great--I'm totally relaxed, getting along great with everyone, she's laughing at all my jokes and just generally smiling a lot. Someone asks if the two of us are together, and she says "well actually we-" and I wake up.
God I can't remember the last time I've been so crushed by a dream. Although in retrospect it does explain why the house we were in (with a fully finished basement, mind you) was cruising down the highway at speed.
You know that whole bit about the pain of back and forth scheduling texts, I'm having that problem
Two ladies from Tinder, and then my friend's friend who I crushing on but only see once in a while, so hard to schedule things... people are so busy and I'm traveling a lot hrgh
Just talked to some ladies about things. They were love adjacent things, closeted in the language of 1950s French existentialism. Where's the goddamn cool thread when you need it?
welp managed to schedule a date for tonight
only been on one other one in all of 2015 and it was meh
it's gonna thunderstorm so we will see how that goes and how soggy i am
don't know much about this person aside from her one photo and our short chat but i am taking aziz's advice and just trying to meet people
i suck at text chit chat with people i don't know anyway, meeting people is much better
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We both have the day off today so we get to go out for lunch!
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Aziz's modern romance tour was amazing. Being in a fairly committed long term relationship a lot of that stuff didn't apply to me per se but it was fucking hilarious nonetheless.
Also he was wearing a red velvet blazer and it owned.
I'm taking this lady on a minor culinary adventure through the cuisine of my motherland tomorrow
and I'm already nervous/anxious
and I wish there was just an easy reason for it
but she has expressed nothing but excitement for it and I like showing people new things
brain you need to get your shit together bro
I asked her out this morning and while I haven't exactly been spamming refresh on OKC all day I have been checking in pretty frequently and as far as I can tell she hasn't logged in all day
Which either means she saw the email notification of my message and is now avoiding dealing with telling me no way I smell
Or she's just you know busy living her life outside of looking at a dating site
I'm taking this lady on a minor culinary adventure through the cuisine of my motherland tomorrow
and I'm already nervous/anxious
and I wish there was just an easy reason for it
but she has expressed nothing but excitement for it and I like showing people new things
brain you need to get your shit together bro
there was a food stand selling "Himalayan" food at the music festival I was at this weekend. But I missed out. Pretty sure they were from Nepal.
What I'm trying to say is you should date me and make me food. I might put out.
and I wonder about my neighbors even though I don't have them
but they're listening to every word I say
So that guy I've been talking to on okcupid tried to invite himself to the fair with me and my friends and I didn't really like it. it was kinda pushy and a red flag for me. Friends thought it was cute but I didn't because we haven't met yet....when I was standoffish about him coming instead of going to work he got a bit quiet and I don't think he liked that I didn't want to meet him at the fair...
He knew I was going with friends and he was like "I think I'm going to take off work tonight" and when I asked why he was like "to go to the fair lol" it just made me uncomfortable .....if it was like oh I'm at the fair too! we should meet (and didn't know I was there), it would have been different...
I forgot my date had driven and thus could not drink as much (no one drives in nyc but she had a car for work that day) when I ordered the pitcher of beer after we had the first beer but it was economically efficient even if I didn't finish it
But then I am a sucker for peer pressure so I finished it
I regret that now, my poor stomach
My poor shite sleep
I need date ideas for Thursday with other person and maybe not a bar would be good... I've been drinking so much lately x_x
He knew I was going with friends and he was like "I think I'm going to take off work tonight" and when I asked why he was like "to go to the fair lol" it just made me uncomfortable .....if it was like oh I'm at the fair too! we should meet (and didn't know I was there), it would have been different...
Is there such a thing as being too aggressive on timing a second date?
Because I am thinking fuck it why not this Friday I know she is free and then I'm gone for all of the next week and then a long weekend after too - and it'd be good to hang
But I am also hesitant but I had a good time and feel like she did as well so
(It's not like I have experience to back either thought up hence asking to the crowd)
There is still that whole mental bit of breaking past that barrier of disbelief of oh, people can actually be into me too, as a thing - so maybe it's not so ludicrous and that the other person is a person who might also enjoy it, and it doesn't have to be some intricate game, or an intimidating thing that I probably subconsciously built up especially due to my age and etc
... I was/am doing some high self reflection in bed because I couldn't sleep from the beer. It's helped actually. Honestly I've been surprised by the effect of going to therapy for the last year, meditation on and off, and introspection (often the last bit uh while stupid high) has had though on helping think things through
Opinions still welcome
Oh god I made a stupid high post I guess, whatever, it's valid thoughts I ain't embarrassed
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It's really disconcerting.
Satans..... hints.....
A. There are lots of people
B. In a region all parties know already and aren't going to be lost
C. With cameras
D. And escape options
Dives are fun, but can be sketchy as fuck, so I tend to aim for cocktail bars for first dates
Like, there was that one time that a girl came to see me in a play after we talked about it and then we went out to the diner until 3 AM
But that's a special circumstance
I kinda have a hard time internally reconciling the ratio of how gorgeous this girl is to how well I seem to be hitting it off with her
She's the same level of pretty as the girls in high school that would flirt with me so that their boyfriends would harass me or threaten to beat me up
Prettier frankly
Like
Holy dang she's pretty
I'm gonna ask her out sometime this week and if she says yes I think I might actually melt
http://www.audioentropy.com/
we were talking about ridiculous cars and she said
"one word: thundercougarfalconbird"
send help
I just read this in a dead silent office and let out the stupidest sounding snort and now I'm stuck in the giggle loop.
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in person, when you greet them. imho
i know you already did it but I GOT OPINIONS
God I can't remember the last time I've been so crushed by a dream. Although in retrospect it does explain why the house we were in (with a fully finished basement, mind you) was cruising down the highway at speed.
Watch out for hop-ons
You know that whole bit about the pain of back and forth scheduling texts, I'm having that problem
Two ladies from Tinder, and then my friend's friend who I crushing on but only see once in a while, so hard to schedule things... people are so busy and I'm traveling a lot hrgh
Still talking board games with that one woman.
Still not taking the next step to talk to her in person.
Satans..... hints.....
It's a good read and fun too
only been on one other one in all of 2015 and it was meh
it's gonna thunderstorm so we will see how that goes and how soggy i am
don't know much about this person aside from her one photo and our short chat but i am taking aziz's advice and just trying to meet people
i suck at text chit chat with people i don't know anyway, meeting people is much better
Also he was wearing a red velvet blazer and it owned.
and I'm already nervous/anxious
and I wish there was just an easy reason for it
but she has expressed nothing but excitement for it and I like showing people new things
brain you need to get your shit together bro
tam can you edit your post and tell your bran to get its shit together instead
That works better if you say it aloud.
"Tam 'pan", as in "brainpan"
i am probably horrible at smooching given how little i have done it but i don't think i was bad enough to be a severe negative
now another date with another lady on thursday eep
this one was much better than the only other one in 2015 that i had months ago
Which either means she saw the email notification of my message and is now avoiding dealing with telling me no way I smell
Or she's just you know busy living her life outside of looking at a dating site
http://www.audioentropy.com/
http://www.audioentropy.com/
there was a food stand selling "Himalayan" food at the music festival I was at this weekend. But I missed out. Pretty sure they were from Nepal.
What I'm trying to say is you should date me and make me food. I might put out.
but they're listening to every word I say
Did he know you and your friends were going to be there? Did he see you and try you join your group?
But then I am a sucker for peer pressure so I finished it
I regret that now, my poor stomach
My poor shite sleep
I need date ideas for Thursday with other person and maybe not a bar would be good... I've been drinking so much lately x_x
Because I am thinking fuck it why not this Friday I know she is free and then I'm gone for all of the next week and then a long weekend after too - and it'd be good to hang
But I am also hesitant but I had a good time and feel like she did as well so
(It's not like I have experience to back either thought up hence asking to the crowd)
There is still that whole mental bit of breaking past that barrier of disbelief of oh, people can actually be into me too, as a thing - so maybe it's not so ludicrous and that the other person is a person who might also enjoy it, and it doesn't have to be some intricate game, or an intimidating thing that I probably subconsciously built up especially due to my age and etc
... I was/am doing some high self reflection in bed because I couldn't sleep from the beer. It's helped actually. Honestly I've been surprised by the effect of going to therapy for the last year, meditation on and off, and introspection (often the last bit uh while stupid high) has had though on helping think things through
Opinions still welcome
Oh god I made a stupid high post I guess, whatever, it's valid thoughts I ain't embarrassed