Is there training to survive the heat on this train? I'm sweating and will probably smell by the end of the journey. Why is there no air conditioning?!
Well, yes, but the training is mostly just "continuing to spend time on a hot train until you get used to it" so it probably isn't worth it.
It's very conflicting being messaged only about your appearance.
I don't do that
I ask questions based upon what they write in their profile
This seems not to work so o well
I even get messages based upon my appearance so I went and changed all my pics to where I looked just nasty to see what happened
I'm on a bench next to two teenage boys asking out a girl over the phone for the other teenage boy in the group. I wonder if that still works at my age.
I'm on a bench next to two teenage boys asking out a girl over the phone for the other teenage boy in the group. I wonder if that still works at my age.
give me the phone number and we'll see
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BillyIdleWhat does "katana" mean?It means "Japanese sword."Registered Userregular
So yesterday I was told by my job I have to resign because they won't reduce my hours so that I can go to my classes for my last semester of school. That really soured me and I had my first ever date with someone older than me, and I wasn't in the best of moods.
That all changed once I got to the city we were meeting up, because I saw the only thing that could make me feel fantastic no matter what: a DeLorean. I'm ridiculously obsessed with these cars, and got to take a few pictures with it after it parked.
"localfuckbuddy4u" was reported and blocked. Now he has evolved into "localfuckbuddy4u8" with the same pictures, same lines but brand new determination!
HE IS BACK.
Transformed into "Localsexfriend" he's dropped the "4 u" so I guess it wouldn't be exclusive anymore.
"localfuckbuddy4u" was reported and blocked. Now he has evolved into "localfuckbuddy4u8" with the same pictures, same lines but brand new determination!
HE IS BACK.
Transformed into "Localsexfriend" he's dropped the "4 u" so I guess it wouldn't be exclusive anymore.
And back again. Being objectified is getting old.
Do you have to use a picture of yourself on these sites? I'm wondering what your hit rate would be like if you had, like, a really gorgeous soft-edged studio photo of a fern.
...probably find a startling number of dudes into tree-fucking. Never mind.
"localfuckbuddy4u" was reported and blocked. Now he has evolved into "localfuckbuddy4u8" with the same pictures, same lines but brand new determination!
HE IS BACK.
Transformed into "Localsexfriend" he's dropped the "4 u" so I guess it wouldn't be exclusive anymore.
And back again. Being objectified is getting old.
Do you have to use a picture of yourself on these sites? I'm wondering what your hit rate would be like if you had, like, a really gorgeous soft-edged studio photo of a fern.
...probably find a startling number of dudes into tree-fucking. Never mind.
I could give her one of my pictures. I never get messages!
"localfuckbuddy4u" was reported and blocked. Now he has evolved into "localfuckbuddy4u8" with the same pictures, same lines but brand new determination!
HE IS BACK.
Transformed into "Localsexfriend" he's dropped the "4 u" so I guess it wouldn't be exclusive anymore.
And back again. Being objectified is getting old.
Do you have to use a picture of yourself on these sites? I'm wondering what your hit rate would be like if you had, like, a really gorgeous soft-edged studio photo of a fern.
...probably find a startling number of dudes into tree-fucking. Never mind.
hey hey
you might find some guys just looking to be fronds
Also, that there is a premium search function by which you can sort by attractiveness and body type seems tailor-made for guys who get a kick out of sending garbage messages to ladies
Yeah, the "sort by attractiveness thing" made me go "ugh" at first and then I thought about it and realized "wait, how could that possibly even actually work?" Either it's largely bullshit metadata garbage or they have some crazy image-processing algorithms.
And yeah, Tynic, there's a spot in your profile where you can list your body type from a pre-generated set of options. I could do without it, really.
Attractiveness is probably a measure of how many clicks a profile gets - when you're looking for matches, you see the pictures and match percentage, so that determines whether you click on a profile
Like, my biggest pass-fail metric for OKC is the profile. I don't care what our match percentage is or what your pictures are like, if you don't have anything substantial in your profile, if I don't have the slightest idea of what you're like as a person, I'm not interested.
(My second biggest pass-fail metric is my stupid brain and it's really more like fail-fail)
I can still count on one hand the number of profiles I've looked at that gave me a "I must talk to this person" kind of vibe. Most of the time, there's just enough there to get the bare minimum of what their personality might be.
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BillyIdleWhat does "katana" mean?It means "Japanese sword."Registered Userregular
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Well, yes, but the training is mostly just "continuing to spend time on a hot train until you get used to it" so it probably isn't worth it.
I don't do that
I ask questions based upon what they write in their profile
This seems not to work so o well
I even get messages based upon my appearance so I went and changed all my pics to where I looked just nasty to see what happened
I have a bear club you can join
or maybe not it gets messy
I am prepared to never hear from this person again as long as I live.
Have you offered her some more cowbell?
tell her to alternate motrin and tylenol and if she's not better in a few days to see her doctor
You could have sat on the floor, like all great British politicians!
When I think of British politics and sitting on things, "floor" isn't the first word that comes to mind.
Oh, well fucking done.
I have a strong feeling you dodged a bullet
I have my own suspicions.
give me the phone number and we'll see
That all changed once I got to the city we were meeting up, because I saw the only thing that could make me feel fantastic no matter what: a DeLorean. I'm ridiculously obsessed with these cars, and got to take a few pictures with it after it parked.
Oh the date went well too.
we want details
more importantly did you sit in it?
And back again. Being objectified is getting old.
I think not only are dudes not reading the profile, they might not even be looking at the picture.
Island Name: Felinefine
That or a lot of people in your area have a thing for Cousin It.
Do you have to use a picture of yourself on these sites? I'm wondering what your hit rate would be like if you had, like, a really gorgeous soft-edged studio photo of a fern.
...probably find a startling number of dudes into tree-fucking. Never mind.
eeeeemmmmmmmmmmmememememe!
I could give her one of my pictures. I never get messages!
hey hey
you might find some guys just looking to be fronds
I'm not saying it's a lousy dating site but it doesn't make things very easy or fun
Ugh it all sounds pretty gross and meat market-y to be frank
OkCupid makes me feel like I'm window-shopping anytime I look for matches
And yeah, Tynic, there's a spot in your profile where you can list your body type from a pre-generated set of options. I could do without it, really.
Especially when you get the quickmatch thing where you can't even view their profile, just "look at these pictures and say yes or no".
(My second biggest pass-fail metric is my stupid brain and it's really more like fail-fail)
It's less "hooray, let's see who we'll talk to today" and more "this feels miserable"
Sadly it was not mine to kiss or get inside. I did take some stealth pics when the car wasn't looking.
When I get my own you bet I'll kiss it so much, the stainless steel good will look like John Mayer leaving the club.
OkC is trash. At best it is a diversion from the fact that we all die alone, largely unsatisfied by our lifetime choices in expedient dining.
Eat at Arby's.
I'd say I'm more of an otter than a bear though.