I really feel after running into people intent into playing games and bot after bot I feel it's just better I give up
I have far better mathematical odds meeting extraterrestrial life than I do every meeting someone in person
tossing this thought out into the thread because it's better than just letting it stew but
a few months back my girlfriend and I were experimenting with an open relationship thing because I'd been in almost exclusively open relationships in the past, so just to try it we both ended up doing the thing with someone else in the same span of a week, and then ended up debriefing and deciding for various reasons that the open thing just wasn't super for us
but every once in a while I definitely find myself getting infatuations of varying degrees (including with the person I hooked up with back in September), and it's like "geez brain no, we have a great thing going, please try to be good at monogamy". none of it's ever crisis levels of bad and I'm not super worried about it, but it's still an annoying thing to have taking up extra brain space
So I went and saw Rogue One tonight by myself. Usually I always go see movies stag and I enjoy it but man, there were so many things that popped up that I wanted to point out to somebody and I kept remembering I was there alone. Not being able to share dumb things that make you excited with others kinda sucks but it's not getting me too down cause of this raging Star Wars erection so hey
She asks "Are we divorced yet? Did you hear from your lawyer yet?"
I'm not answering her tonight.
It has been six months.
Block her number. No good comes from communicating with her. You have a lawyer for that.
I don't really know how to do that
I just don't answer
Meanwhile, I'm having a debate with myself on asking a lady to a bar for a beer
Becuase it's been six months since I left my wife, I haven't seen her in five, and aside from the thing with her hooking up with a dude who was such a solid bro to me I considered him my brother less than a month after I moved out, I'm pretty much over everything.
Except the thing with my bro
That's the thing that I can't quite get over
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so after being hit by a car and having two limbs shattered my boyfriend has gone ridiculously out of his way to take care of me since all i can do now is sit in lone place for several months
i am pretty lucky.
except for the car thing that was pretty unlucky i guess in retrospect.
so after being hit by a car and having two limbs shattered my boyfriend has gone ridiculously out of his way to take care of me since all i can do now is sit in lone place for several months
i am pretty lucky.
except for the car thing that was pretty unlucky i guess in retrospect.
so after being hit by a car and having two limbs shattered my boyfriend has gone ridiculously out of his way to take care of me since all i can do now is sit in lone place for several months
i am pretty lucky.
except for the car thing that was pretty unlucky i guess in retrospect.
Holy shit hit by a car what
yeah he ran a red light and plowed right into me on my bike in the crosswalk
points for him: he stopped and called 911
red card offense: he said "yeah a bike hit my car". sideways at 60 mph somehow but you know details details
so after being hit by a car and having two limbs shattered my boyfriend has gone ridiculously out of his way to take care of me since all i can do now is sit in lone place for several months
i am pretty lucky.
except for the car thing that was pretty unlucky i guess in retrospect.
Holy shit hit by a car what
yeah he ran a red light and plowed right into me on my bike in the crosswalk
points for him: he stopped and called 911
red card offense: he said "yeah a bike hit my car". sideways at 60 mph somehow but you know details details
joke's on him my wrist broke his windshield
Jesus Christ
I'm so sorry to hear that happened, but glad you're still here
Same thing happened to a guy I went to high school with a few years back, and he wasn't so lucky
one of the sadly fundamental flaws of American motor culture (and increasingly worldwide, I hear) is that we have no idea how to watch for cyclists or motorcyclists
nor is there really any incentive to get good at it
I (very begrudgingly) started a new Facebook account because I figured I'd need a place for all my trip photos.
My ex just friended me. That's a negative right? Or is that common procedure? I honestly don't know. mean, I feel kinda petty about it but I have absolutely no desire to have anything to do with that.
I suppose I could just ignore the request all together cause I mean fuck it. She hasn't nor ever did she move in my friend circles so best she can do is call me a piece of shit to people I don't know and man that doesn't bother me one bit.
It honestly just kinda took me off guard. I guess she's being a normal adult person about it but nah man I ain't about that life
I (very begrudgingly) started a new Facebook account because I figured I'd need a place for all my trip photos.
My ex just friended me. That's a negative right? Or is that common procedure? I honestly don't know. mean, I feel kinda petty about it but I have absolutely no desire to have anything to do with that.
Last night I was having a major brain spiders moment. Well, it's been all week, but last night it just get getting worse. Wanting to quit uni, move out of London, essentially shit of the last few years of hard work. The nerd is quite black and white with stuff like this. What are the pros and cons, how to fix things practically etc. It was nice that he was trying, but rationally I know what I need to do and so I mainly just need support and sympathy while I try to calm myself and work through it. I was trying to find a way (over Whatsapp) to explain to his that while I appreciated his practical way of helping, that it wasn't what I needed, and would probably stress me out more. This first message I sent made him think I was ending it, and he was so relieved when the next message showed what I was actually trying to say. And it made me realise...he actually wants to be with me, and would be sad if I ended it. I know that should be obvious, but thanks to some childhood stuff and a shitty ex, I kinda think of myself as a burden that people put up with. So despite me crying my eyes out, something good came from last night. Someone likes me.
I had an online thing to do for uni today that's 10% of an assignment. Couldn't do it. All the crying. So I've phoned uni and set up an appointment with study support people in the new year to try and work through why assignments make me a crying mess. See if I can break this before the end of my course.
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a few months back my girlfriend and I were experimenting with an open relationship thing because I'd been in almost exclusively open relationships in the past, so just to try it we both ended up doing the thing with someone else in the same span of a week, and then ended up debriefing and deciding for various reasons that the open thing just wasn't super for us
but every once in a while I definitely find myself getting infatuations of varying degrees (including with the person I hooked up with back in September), and it's like "geez brain no, we have a great thing going, please try to be good at monogamy". none of it's ever crisis levels of bad and I'm not super worried about it, but it's still an annoying thing to have taking up extra brain space
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At half one in the morning? Sure :P
I don't really know how to do that
I just don't answer
Meanwhile, I'm having a debate with myself on asking a lady to a bar for a beer
Becuase it's been six months since I left my wife, I haven't seen her in five, and aside from the thing with her hooking up with a dude who was such a solid bro to me I considered him my brother less than a month after I moved out, I'm pretty much over everything.
Except the thing with my bro
That's the thing that I can't quite get over
hate stayin up all night stressin abt seeing Crushes this weekend
31 live at home crippling depression shit job never go out or meet people
I had a girl message me on OKC this morning and am glumly watching it go the way of all dating site exchanges, small talk that fizzles into nothing
Merry Xmas
I really like the phrase "egregiously single"
You have to love yourself first
Focus on the good parts of you, things you're good at
Aha we've found their weakness--timezones!
I'm good at being a piece of shit!!!
(yes I am working on Self Improvement, got an interview in Jan, dragging my carcase to the gym and cutting bad habits)
i am pretty lucky.
except for the car thing that was pretty unlucky i guess in retrospect.
yeah he ran a red light and plowed right into me on my bike in the crosswalk
points for him: he stopped and called 911
red card offense: he said "yeah a bike hit my car". sideways at 60 mph somehow but you know details details
joke's on him my wrist broke his windshield
Jesus Christ
I'm so sorry to hear that happened, but glad you're still here
Same thing happened to a guy I went to high school with a few years back, and he wasn't so lucky
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nor is there really any incentive to get good at it
really sorry to hear, Pink
That is awful
Good luck to you, and I hope you have a great recovery
How much effort is too much and crosses into desperate weird guy?
What's the accepted protocol for Facebook messenger chatting?
I'm already friends with her on Facebook, but I have never messaged her on it.
I see her a few times a week at work, for about five minutes a pop, pleasant small talk is exchanged, then I go to my next stop.
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This is the person at work who you occasionally interact with, right?
You will get another chance to talk to her, inevitably, and at that point, ask her if she wants to go out for drinks.
I get that you're eager, but I think you'd be better off taking the opportunities presented to you than trying to create your own.
She works at one of the departments whose inventory I manage, yeah
I was about two sentences away from asking her to drinks last week, and I've spent the last week wishing I had
I (very begrudgingly) started a new Facebook account because I figured I'd need a place for all my trip photos.
My ex just friended me. That's a negative right? Or is that common procedure? I honestly don't know. mean, I feel kinda petty about it but I have absolutely no desire to have anything to do with that.
This is why I fucking hate Facebook, goddamn.
problem solved!
It honestly just kinda took me off guard. I guess she's being a normal adult person about it but nah man I ain't about that life
Facebook is shit.
But if an ex wanted to get coffee or something I'd be down.