Will try and keep to relevant stuff ( will dump some feelings stuff behind a spoiler possibly)
When my mom passed a badly worded will stuck her estate between me and my sister, which included the house I had bought myself and my mom to live in.
My sister will accept no deals, to the point of I had her accepting a deal once, got the mortgage set up, then she backed out of the paperwork at last second( which was a nice little bonus hit to my credit cancelling it at the last second too)
It's been almost 3 years, contact from her has all but ceased to exist, and here I am stuck in my ghost box, unable to move forward with anything,
Do I have any legal recourse? I've been the only one of us to pay any estate bills, I pay all the rents and costs on said estate, for 3 years post her death, and 10+ years prior to her death. ( have paperwork showing both)
I just, I need to move forward with this, I am slowly circling a mental drain being trapped by this situation.
The main reason this dwells on me so hard is ya, she almost never contacted/gave a shit about either parent when they got sick, when my dad died, when mom then got sick, it was 100% on me, I took care of both of them, both of them died in my arms. I had gifted my mom a visit to said sister about 3 weeks before she died, sister ignored her, and let her get badly hurt in a fall as well. an injury she died clutching. She had even realized how the bad wording could end up and we had an appointment with the lawyer to adjust it ( that lawyer shrugged about it , and was useless so that's sadly not a route)
It was me and my mom against the world post my dad's death, and being trapped unable to move any of our plans to improve life forward, being trapped by the sister that has abused her the most , it's just destroying me, and I need an option, she's had multiple high priced offers she's accepted then rejected at last minute for no reason, and offers no further options, then just vanishes from contact for a year at a time.