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  • Magic PinkMagic Pink Tur-Boner-Fed Registered User regular
    edited April 14
    Veldrin wrote: »
    y'all better quit yer squabblin' or so help me I'll turn this dad around

    i have that video

    edit: motherfucker why do all my creepiest posts end up totp

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  • WeaverWeaver Who are you? What do you want?Registered User regular
    Listening to this jazz playlist at work this morning and it really has me missing pre-covid when we go to stage production stuff all the time.

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  • EinzelEinzel Registered User regular
    I wonder if dad-isms cross cultural and international lines. If so I need the idiomatic translations of as many as possible.

  • stimtokolosstimtokolos Registered User regular
    edited April 24
    Well. My relationship of almost 4 years just ended.

    My girlfriend had been getting steadily more unwell for over a year (MH) and it hit crisis point about 3 months ago.
    She's getting the help she needs at least now but can't be in any kind of relationship.

    No one's mad at each other. We both love each other but there's just too much pain. It's just really fucking sad.

    I'm just, tired.

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  • Kaboodles_The_AssassinKaboodles_The_Assassin Kill the meat. Save the metal.Registered User regular
    I am so desperately lonely that I've started posting dumb shit on Whisper just so I can talk to the many obvious scammers. At least when they pretend to be some local escort or sugar daddy/momma, they pretend to want me, and I can pretend to feel wanted as well.

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  • Blake TBlake T Registered User regular

    Well. My relationship of almost 4 years just ended.

    My girlfriend had been getting steadily more unwell for over a year (MH) and it hit crisis point about 3 months ago.
    She's getting the help she needs at least now but can't be in any kind of relationship.

    No one's mad at each other. We both love each other but there's just too much pain. It's just really fucking sad.

    I'm just, tired.

    I’m sorry Tim. You’re a good dude.

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  • stimtokolosstimtokolos Registered User regular
    edited April 25
    Thanks Blake, it means a lot to me coming from you!
    I'll be right. It's just pretty shit for now.

    I am currently minding the cats and although they're starting to piss me off I'm also going to miss seeing them every day.

    I'm listening to sea shanties about loss and I think I've just discovered a new coping mechanism.

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  • Blake TBlake T Registered User regular
    May I suggest,

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  • stimtokolosstimtokolos Registered User regular
    It's queued.

    Right now I'm listening to "Bones in the Ocean" on loop.

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  • sarukunsarukun RIESLING OCEANRegistered User regular
    My fiancée is the very best person I know and puts too much pressure on herself and I love her very much and am very grateful I get to be here to support her every day and maybe help take some of that pressure off.

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  • DepressperadoDepressperado I just wanted to see you laughing in the pizza rainRegistered User regular
    edited April 25
    I've accepted that, barring some crazy changes to my status quo, my role in a relationship is to support the partner with ambition

    like, I try and be a soothing, dare I say zen presence, and now I get to do that AND get smooches and stuff, hell yeah.

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  • DysDys Registered User regular
    Well. My relationship of almost 4 years just ended.

    My girlfriend had been getting steadily more unwell for over a year (MH) and it hit crisis point about 3 months ago.
    She's getting the help she needs at least now but can't be in any kind of relationship.

    No one's mad at each other. We both love each other but there's just too much pain. It's just really fucking sad.

    I'm just, tired.

    Stim, I can absolutely emphasize with you on this.

    Similar thing happened with me and my ex-fiancée, and I wish there was something that I could have done or some way I could have read her mind enough to do what she needed me to.

  • DysDys Registered User regular
    Real talk, I posted in here a month ago or so about us not being able to maintain a friendship and me being psyched to not be responsible for her happiness anymore.

    And I am genuinely tired of missing her so goddamn much, still. I can't help but think about her daily.

    I'm seeing a therapist and getting help, but it still feels like a big chunk of me has been missing and it has been five damn months since she broke us up.

    I know time heals all wounds and all, but I am starting to feel like I am losing my damn mind. Time needs to hurry up, already.

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  • DepressperadoDepressperado I just wanted to see you laughing in the pizza rainRegistered User regular
    edited April 25
    Dys wrote: »
    Real talk, I posted in here a month ago or so about us not being able to maintain a friendship and me being psyched to not be responsible for her happiness anymore.

    And I am genuinely tired of missing her so goddamn much, still. I can't help but think about her daily.

    I'm seeing a therapist and getting help, but it still feels like a big chunk of me has been missing and it has been five damn months since she broke us up.

    I know time heals all wounds and all, but I am starting to feel like I am losing my damn mind. Time needs to hurry up, already.



    may I suggest that a state of emotional upheaval is the perfect time to get into The Mountain Goats

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  • DepressperadoDepressperado I just wanted to see you laughing in the pizza rainRegistered User regular
    in Real Talk, as you say, eventually those feelings will scab over and scar. They'll always be there as a reminder, because existence is cruel, but they'll stop being an injury and start being just a part of your story.

    Life is a series of callouses, this is just another layer.

    Dys
  • DouglasDangerDouglasDanger PennsylvaniaRegistered User regular
    That's some pretty profound stuff, @Depressperado

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  • DepressperadoDepressperado I just wanted to see you laughing in the pizza rainRegistered User regular
    thanks, I stole it from songs and people smarter than me

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  • BrainleechBrainleech 機知に富んだコメントはここにあります Registered User regular
    in Real Talk, as you say, eventually those feelings will scab over and scar. They'll always be there as a reminder, because existence is cruel, but they'll stop being an injury and start being just a part of your story.

    Life is a series of callouses, this is just another layer.

    Sometimes they are ripped open to be fresh and hurt

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  • DepressperadoDepressperado I just wanted to see you laughing in the pizza rainRegistered User regular
    oh yeah

    I am reminded that scarring is an active process. When you have a scar your body works to maintain that tissue, and if you get like, scurvy, or are starving or dehydrating, the scar will open back up.

    I think psychic scars are the same way. a smell or noise and whoops, there you go again.

  • PeasPeas Registered User regular
    宇多田ヒカルUtada Hikaru 『初恋Hatsukoi』 4:48


    Lyrics translations:
    https://shinitakashi.blogspot.com/2018/05/utada-hikaru-hatsukoi-english-lyrics.html
    First Love

    Lyrics, Composition, & Arrangement: Hikaru Utada

    My chest loudly throbbing,
    and my feet uncharacteristically paralyzed,
    and the tears quietly going down my cheeks
    they tell me now that this is my first love

    I need you, I need you
    I need you, I need you
    I need you, I need you
    I need you, I need you

    Humans, all of us,
    of course fall in love
    I've always thought that, but

    If I hadn't met you,
    then I don't think anyone
    would've ever made me feel like this

    My chest loudly throbbing,
    and my feet starting to run on their own,
    and my tears certainly going down my cheeks,
    they tell me now that this is my first love

    I need you, I need you
    I need you, I need you
    I need you, I need you
    I need you, I need you

    I used to blame others
    for what I couldn't do anything about
    and pretended to accept them
    All the time

    If I hadn't met you,
    then I probably would've just kept on living
    not knowing the reason for being born

    Now I want to offer myself,
    so weak I get hurt by a single word
    A season that'll never again come
    tried to mark the end
    so clumsily

    The things I want
    I can see them where I can reach them
    There's no way I can't chase after them
    Is that right? The truth is...
    no one knows

    The treetops sway, blown by the wind,
    and stretch where the sunlight shines
    We were pleased with the small things
    and also hurt by the small things

    My chest throbbing maddeningly
    and the rain hitting my shoulders gently
    and my tears overflowing though I hold them back,
    they tell me now that this is my first love

    I need you, I need you
    I need you, I need you
    I need you, I need you
    I need you, I need you

    Having not fallen in love in my entire life, this song did hit me hard in the middle of the night for some reason
    Gonna copy the japanese lyrics later

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  • stimtokolosstimtokolos Registered User regular
    Dys wrote: »
    Well. My relationship of almost 4 years just ended.

    My girlfriend had been getting steadily more unwell for over a year (MH) and it hit crisis point about 3 months ago.
    She's getting the help she needs at least now but can't be in any kind of relationship.

    No one's mad at each other. We both love each other but there's just too much pain. It's just really fucking sad.

    I'm just, tired.

    Stim, I can absolutely emphasize with you on this.

    Similar thing happened with me and my ex-fiancée, and I wish there was something that I could have done or some way I could have read her mind enough to do what she needed me to.

    It's pretty shit hey.

    Over the past month there has been a lot of "You could've done better" but nah I really couldn't have.
    She told me over the phone that she's only alive because of me. Which feels fucking weird. I know it's true. It's still weird to hear someone say it.

    It's stinging particularly badly because it's more or less drug related, and similar shit happened with my brother when I was 15 (I'm 31 now) so it's dredging up a lot of that crap.

  • TefTef Registered User regular
    Oh Stim I just saw your posts, buddy :(

    Where are you now? If I’m able to travel from NZ to NSW in this travel bubble and you’re around, we should catch up

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  • stimtokolosstimtokolos Registered User regular
    Yeah I'm Sydney in the Inner West these days. If you're in NSW let me know for sure.

    Tef
  • GvzbgulGvzbgul I am silent and my silence is complicity. Registered User regular
    edited April 28
    Did you know that "quite" has two meanings? I did not! I have been using it when talking to my girlfriend one way and she's been hearing it the other. Whoooops.

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  • BahamutZEROBahamutZERO Registered User regular
    how so?

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  • GvzbgulGvzbgul I am silent and my silence is complicity. Registered User regular
    Quite is a degree adverb. It has two meanings depending on the word that follows it: ‘a little, moderately but not very’ and ‘very, totally or completely’:

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  • godmodegodmode Southeast JapanRegistered User regular
    Quite so!

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  • NaphtaliNaphtali Null Registered User regular
    godmode wrote: »
    Quite so!

    Not quite.

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  • Munkus BeaverMunkus Beaver Registered User, ClubPA regular
    Oh so it's one of those words that is simultaneously its own acronym.

    Like Quick or Fast.

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  • SolarSolar Registered User regular
    I hear quite in the US means something different from in the UK, maybe that has something to do with it?

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  • Grey GhostGrey Ghost Registered User regular
    I have used it to mean both of those but generally you have to hear the tone I'm employing

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  • SolarSolar Registered User regular
    quite to me is slightly

    Quite good

    That means

    it's good but not like, fabulously so

    (But also like, with british understatement it could mean fucking great but that's not cos quite means loads just cos no need to overdo it bloody hell)

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  • Munkus BeaverMunkus Beaver Registered User, ClubPA regular
    Solar wrote: »
    I hear quite in the US means something different from in the UK, maybe that has something to do with it?

    In my usage of it, it's almost always used as an emphasis except for "Not quite" which can either mean "Almost, but not totally on the mark" or "Completely off the mark, wildly wrong" depending on tone/context

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  • DepressperadoDepressperado I just wanted to see you laughing in the pizza rainRegistered User regular
    yeah depending on your tone of voice, quite means either "pretty good" or "pretty bad"

    I like how "nonplussed" means two opposing things

    it's either "surprised and confused" or "not surprised or confused", depending on context

    like, "Karl was nonplussed."

  • GvzbgulGvzbgul I am silent and my silence is complicity. Registered User regular
    I suspect that, like nonplussed or literally, there is a correct use of quite and a wrong but generally accepted so no longer wrong use of quite.

  • Munkus BeaverMunkus Beaver Registered User, ClubPA regular
    yeah depending on your tone of voice, quite means either "pretty good" or "pretty bad"

    I like how "nonplussed" means two opposing things

    it's either "surprised and confused" or "not surprised or confused", depending on context

    like, "Karl was nonplussed."
    Gvzbgul wrote: »
    I suspect that, like nonplussed or literally, there is a correct use of quite and a wrong but generally accepted so no longer wrong use of quite.

    Yeah, I've only ever heard of nonplussed as Surprised unless the person was themself confused about what the word meant.

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  • JedocJedoc Bringing the past to life so we can beat it to death with a shovelRegistered User regular
    edited April 28
    My list of qualifiers, in ascending order: theoretically, technically, barely, kinda, sorta, actually, actually pretty, pretty, definitely, quite, mostly, surprisingly, comprehensively, excessively, hella, and goddamn.

    I think Solar's usage would slot in between "barely" and "kinda."

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  • DoodmannDoodmann Registered User regular
    Dys wrote: »
    Real talk, I posted in here a month ago or so about us not being able to maintain a friendship and me being psyched to not be responsible for her happiness anymore.

    And I am genuinely tired of missing her so goddamn much, still. I can't help but think about her daily.

    I'm seeing a therapist and getting help, but it still feels like a big chunk of me has been missing and it has been five damn months since she broke us up.

    I know time heals all wounds and all, but I am starting to feel like I am losing my damn mind. Time needs to hurry up, already.

    Hey, you're not going crazy.
    I'm falling pretty hard for the lady I'm currently dating but that doesn't stop me from thinking about my ex all the time, I don't even have any desire there...it's just burned into my brain so I work on not dwelling on it.

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  • Brovid HasselsmofBrovid Hasselsmof [Growling historic on the fury road] Registered User regular
    Gvzbgul wrote: »
    I suspect that, like nonplussed or literally, there is a correct use of quite and a wrong but generally accepted so no longer wrong use of quite.

    The modern usage of literally to mean figuratively is quite annoying

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  • GvzbgulGvzbgul I am silent and my silence is complicity. Registered User regular
    So it's kinda annoying but only a little?

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