Serious response: Is cohabitation before marriage frowned upon? Ask if you can meet her first. If you think it could work, stay together a while and see if she is impossible to live with. I am culturally inept.
Wait, I am inept period.
Stormin Joe on
Tossrock: Somolia, you know Mogadishu, Blackhawk down?
Qorzm: I'm sorry, I don't follow hip-hop
Serious response: Is cohabitation before marriage frowned upon? Ask if you can meet her first. If you think it could work, stay together a while and see if she is impossible to live with. I am culturally inept.
Wait, I am inept period.
I can meet her before the marriage, but I don't forsee that happening. She's finishing medschool (meaning she has no time off) and I don't have a month to take off to go visit. Living together is not an option, as our parents would more or less cut our heads off if we did. Maybe I'll facebook her or something
Serious response: Is cohabitation before marriage frowned upon? Ask if you can meet her first. If you think it could work, stay together a while and see if she is impossible to live with. I am culturally inept.
Wait, I am inept period.
I can meet her before the marriage, but I don't forsee that happening. She's finishing medschool (meaning she has no time off) and I don't have a month to take off to go visit. Living together is not an option, as our parents would more or less cut our heads off if we did. Maybe I'll facebook her or something
Its fun to be an injun
Medschool?
You can let her do all the moneymakin in the house.
Stormin Joe on
Tossrock: Somolia, you know Mogadishu, Blackhawk down?
Qorzm: I'm sorry, I don't follow hip-hop
that's perfect. My brother got out of being pressured on going to church and other things like a mission because hes gay. I, on the other hand, am a heathen and everyone hates me
I still keep in touch with this indian chick I used to know in high school, and she calls me up one day telling me that her brother is a doctor. The weird part is seemed all surprised.
Seriously, you're probably better off just flat out refusing. Letting someone else pick your wife is just asking for misery, and if you can't even refuse to allow them to arrange your marriage for fear of shaming them, I doubt divorce is going to be looked upon real well. Others have said this, but it bears repeating.
Seriously, you're probably better off just flat out refusing. Letting someone else pick your wife is just asking for misery, and if you can't even refuse to allow them to arrange your marriage for fear of shaming them, I doubt divorce is going to be looked upon real well. Others have said this, but it bears repeating.
I'm not certain but I believe divorces are relatively fine.
Seriously, you're probably better off just flat out refusing. Letting someone else pick your wife is just asking for misery, and if you can't even refuse to allow them to arrange your marriage for fear of shaming them, I doubt divorce is going to be looked upon real well. Others have said this, but it bears repeating.
The way I look it is that I know tons of people who met their spouses on their wedding day, and while it does take some adjustment, they are happy people. Maybe I could have one of those quirky new arranged marriages that warrants a sitcom...or horror movie
1: Shes a really hot awesome Doctor chick who'd be awesome
2: Shes not
Maybe atleast meet her? Like others said, some dude that you'll never meet thinking it shameful of you not marrying a person you've never met is bad incentive for marriage.
If its any consellation, if you get into a crappy arrange marriage, there will be more people ashamed of you than there would be people who would be ashamed if you did not do it.
Im thinking 2 of those sentences I wrote are going to be very hard to comprehend. And I dont even care.
Seriously, you're probably better off just flat out refusing. Letting someone else pick your wife is just asking for misery, and if you can't even refuse to allow them to arrange your marriage for fear of shaming them, I doubt divorce is going to be looked upon real well. Others have said this, but it bears repeating.
The way I look it is that I know tons of people who met their spouses on their wedding day, and while it does take some adjustment, they are happy people. Maybe I could have one of those quirky new arranged marriages that warrants a sitcom...or horror movie
Makes sense. And if what Raneados said about divorce being all right is true, then it's the path of least resistance anyway.
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It's like he's following some sort of Indian set of rules or something.
yea at least she gets a greencard out of me. Hopefully she'll be like handicapped so I can get the tag for my car.
I think its also worth mentioning that my dad met her mom in medschool, and that she's in medschool now.
Can we say "Texas$"???
Dude, I would totally marry you for a green card.
I'm 5' 11', have brown hair, brown eyes, a sexy name, and a sexy accent.
Also I'm a dude.
Arrange your dick
in the ring box
it's probably about time anyway.
Wait, I am inept period.
Tossrock: Somolia, you know Mogadishu, Blackhawk down?
Qorzm: I'm sorry, I don't follow hip-hop
seems to work for you.
This time it would work. Although I'm pretty sure his family will still end up shamed.
I can meet her before the marriage, but I don't forsee that happening. She's finishing medschool (meaning she has no time off) and I don't have a month to take off to go visit. Living together is not an option, as our parents would more or less cut our heads off if we did. Maybe I'll facebook her or something
Its fun to be an injun
You can let her do all the moneymakin in the house.
Tossrock: Somolia, you know Mogadishu, Blackhawk down?
Qorzm: I'm sorry, I don't follow hip-hop
Tossrock: Somolia, you know Mogadishu, Blackhawk down?
Qorzm: I'm sorry, I don't follow hip-hop
then like whatever dude
rich hot doctor chick?
indian accent
"what would you like for dinner husband?"
"what are you trying to say? what?"
and hey indian food's tasty
win win imo
mmm that's good racism
EDIT: Gay married
Tossrock: Somolia, you know Mogadishu, Blackhawk down?
Qorzm: I'm sorry, I don't follow hip-hop
I'm not certain but I believe divorces are relatively fine.
The way I look it is that I know tons of people who met their spouses on their wedding day, and while it does take some adjustment, they are happy people. Maybe I could have one of those quirky new arranged marriages that warrants a sitcom...or horror movie
But in that same vein, didn't Apu eventually go on to have a very happy marriage?
1: Shes a really hot awesome Doctor chick who'd be awesome
2: Shes not
Maybe atleast meet her? Like others said, some dude that you'll never meet thinking it shameful of you not marrying a person you've never met is bad incentive for marriage.
If its any consellation, if you get into a crappy arrange marriage, there will be more people ashamed of you than there would be people who would be ashamed if you did not do it.
Im thinking 2 of those sentences I wrote are going to be very hard to comprehend. And I dont even care.
Should you shame them, you will never dine with your ancestors at longtable in the great hall in the after life.
Unless you are really cool. Then like, you'll be at another table and they might drop by and say hi once in a while.