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She also burned a CD full of stuff for me.
She was pretty awesome, even discounting the porn-related stuff.
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I pretty much have to import them from Asian countries.
Also, they are very frustrating when they are not currently trying to rape you.
So it's something have to do with them being Asian?
'Cause my girlfriend is.
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General agreement here, however I feel that having live strippers or attending a strip joint weighs much more than say checking out some porn clip. Watching a video does not permit any interactivity which can allay concerns of committing real physical acts of infidelity.
One cannot totally write off that it is totally normal for one partner to feel initially inept or undesirable because the other watches porn or goes to strip clubs. I personally think that young American males are enculturated to watch porn and want to go watch strippers with their buddies. For the most part, it seems that middle america expects us men to have a healthy heterosexual appetite for hot young females yet to seek a single woman to tie us down.
The way I see it on this topic...very few of us would agree that porn is cheating. Doing so, in part, breaks our male code...in which case they're considered gay or a fundamentalist
Im in a long distance relationship and it is also a don't really care situation
it would be very hard to deal without it
Dunno.
One of them is only half Asian, and the other is Quebecio, but grew up in Japan.
But oh my god.
But one of them once suggested we write erotic fiction to each other, and wanted to find porn on my TV, and the other one has a taste for hentai and that one famous bondage pinup girl.
Either way, there are porn-loving women out there.
They are the fun ones.
They may destroy you, but you will love them for it.
No. Admitting that porn is cheating breaks our sense of logic, in which case they're considered to have a very poor understanding of what the word "cheating" means.
It isn't like we're all sitting here secretly agreeing that porn = cheating and just afraid to admit it because of peer pressure.
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Porn is one sided (in the vast majority of cases, live interactive webcam shows aside), it's self indulgent and based purely on your pleasure without any consideration for the subject. And why should there be? Books don't have feelings, and movies/files don't care about being pleased.
Anyone who says they're truly equal has a loose grasp of relationships, and should really ponder if looking at a naughty website is truly equal in all ways to nailing a stripper / friend / co-worker in a seedy hotel. THAT (assuming it's not an 'open' relationship) is cheating.
There are many grey areas in human sexuality, I don't really feel this is one of them. Clearly, the OP's wife has an issue with the matter, but as we've discussed at length, this is an issue in need of professional help, and not the norm.
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Is this healthy for males relationship wise? I mean why have normal sex with your girl when you can watch fantasy sex masturbate and move on? I have heard this line from more then a couple guys I know and I wonder, is too much of a good thing becoming a bad thing now? Are we becoming dependent on this stream of porn for our sexual satisfaction?
I don't have any answers, but the way that men seem to think that going without porn is impossible makes me worried, hell I don't think I can go without porn for too long and I have to wonder what that says about me.
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Because the only thing normal sex has in common with wanking it to porn is that they both involve orgasms. Sex >>>>>> masturbation.
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I don't see it as "being forced to go without porn being impossible", but rather an aspect of yourself you can't explore in real life, but don't feel you should be deprived of the ability to do the exploring.
Dismayed By Humanity Since 1992.
Gather round kids.
Porn is like Tennis.
Most exciting with a partner...
We've all seen those kids practicing down at the nets on one of those walls with the line painted across, batting the ball back at themselves (this works on many different levels). But the game is most enjoyable playing with another.
Hell, some people like playing doubles... Not my thing, but who am I to judge? They seem to be enjoying themselves.
I've always wondered... where do you put your elbows?
Dismayed By Humanity Since 1992.
I'd think elbows would be the least of my worries...
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I just wonder if there has been a study since the I'd say the mid 90s that looks into adult males and sexual relationships. I'd really be interested.
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I dunno man. If part of your thinking is "how does this impact my schedule?" perhaps you're just not in the right frame of mind for it anyway?
...I'd rather be late.
Reminds me of that John Wing bit...
"You know you're old when your wife looks at you and says 'Would you rather watch Law and Order, or do you want to go have sex?'
You think about it and say, 'Well.... it's a new one...'"
Dismayed By Humanity Since 1992.
and yes, I'm a hippocrate
p.s. I do NOT watch gay porn
(As a side note, if he told me to stop hanging out with my male friends I'd tell him to fuck right off, unless these male friends were giving me videos of them banging chicks or were naked all the time)
If he went ahead and ignored what I asked, without talking to me or whatever, that would be kind of cheating in that we laid down terms for the relationship and he ignored them. It wouldn't be nearly the same as him porking another chick, but there'd still be some of the same sentiments involved in that he willingly ignored what I said to go gratify himself and broke my trust.
You took the doctor's oath?
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Now he's off to eat hickory-smoked horse buttholes... from a cup!
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That seems way closer to cheating than looking at some titty pics.
I can understand not looking at porno as often if your girlfriend doesn't like it - I've significantly reduced my porno related past times when requested by my girlfriend of two years.
Now, when I get home from work or class alot of the time I like to have a little time to myself to shower or nap or to just sit and clear my head and do nothing. A lot of times my current girlfriend would get home earlier and want to do something, go out or do a project or watch a movie, cook dinner together, whatev. Mind you we didn't live together so I would have to drive. She usally called when I was driving home so I would say, if I needed some privacy, I'll be there in an hour.
She didn't like this, and eventually it blossomed into a lovely little argument wherein I was accused of loving myself more than her, all because I liked to have twenty minutes to myself some times. Apparently she wanted me to be at her beck and call, in her words, during this argument. We tried to work it out but it was too late and a week later she was dating some hipster kid who worked at the apple store.
My point is, one of you is having a problem, call it early and work on it, don't save it bottled up for late in the game. And if its an on-going problem one of you has been silent about, or keeps getting brought up just sit down and talk.
To be honest the women who responded in that article don't understand it at all.
Top marks to the priest though!
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hahaha
I thought that was a link
that would have been awesome
You do realize that watching straight porn is more "gay" than watching gay porn directed at your opposite gender, right?
Just saying.
However, girls that get 'offended' by it are just fucking retarded. The reason for this is simple- its shows that they don't trust their man, that they think he is somehow going to leave them for these internet girls. More importantly, if their man is turning to porn, then maybe they need to think about why this is happening. Its all very well and good to cry foul when your man is viewing porn, but if you are not having sex with him (or are barely having sex), then really you can't expect him not to get aroused.
I am not trying to 'push blame' or anything like that, but if you don't understand the reason why guys watch porn, then you are just asking for trouble.
Its pretty simple- if you don't like the fact that this is happening, be proactive and attempt to change things! maybe spice up the love life, perhaps sit down and talk about, but most of all, have an OPEN mind about things. I think the main reasons why relationship suffer troubles is because people are so close-minded about what they think should be the norm, and how people should act. Then they get stuck in that mindset and are unwilling to change...