Coffee date "hug at the end" sometimes throws me for a loop.
Especially if it was a tepid date overall, they go for the hug and my reaction is a "what? really? Well okay I just didn't see it coming..." expression/hesitant hug motion.
If I am genuinely attracted to somebody, I kiss on the first date. Every time. It is a rule.
You only get a hug if I don't like you that much.
every person who doesn't like an acquired taste always seems to think everyone who likes it is faking it. it should be an official fallacy.
the "no true scotch man" fallacy.
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OnTheLastCastlelet's keep it haimish for the peripateticRegistered Userregular
It's hard to decide what to do on a first date. That's the true test of a person.
Coffee date "hug at the end" sometimes throws me for a loop.
Especially if it was a tepid date overall, they go for the hug and my reaction is a "what? really? Well okay I just didn't see it coming..." expression/hesitant hug motion.
If I am genuinely attracted to somebody, I kiss on the first date. Every time. It is a rule.
Coffee date "hug at the end" sometimes throws me for a loop.
Especially if it was a tepid date overall, they go for the hug and my reaction is a "what? really? Well okay I just didn't see it coming..." expression/hesitant hug motion.
If I am genuinely attracted to somebody, I kiss on the first date. Every time. It is a rule.
You only get a hug if I don't like you that much.
I have the same rule. Kiss if I like ya, hug if I don't!
Coffee date "hug at the end" sometimes throws me for a loop.
Especially if it was a tepid date overall, they go for the hug and my reaction is a "what? really? Well okay I just didn't see it coming..." expression/hesitant hug motion.
If I am genuinely attracted to somebody, I kiss on the first date. Every time. It is a rule.
You only get a hug if I don't like you that much.
I have the same rule. Kiss if I like ya, hug if I don't!
The fact that some people hug on first date if they like you makes the presence of you types extremely confusing.
"and the morning stars I have seen
and the gengars who are guiding me" -- W.S. Merwin
Coffee date "hug at the end" sometimes throws me for a loop.
Especially if it was a tepid date overall, they go for the hug and my reaction is a "what? really? Well okay I just didn't see it coming..." expression/hesitant hug motion.
If I am genuinely attracted to somebody, I kiss on the first date. Every time. It is a rule.
You only get a hug if I don't like you that much.
I have the same rule. Kiss if I like ya, hug if I don't!
The fact that some people hug on first date if they like you makes the presence of you types extremely confusing.
The best way to meet people is when there is some kind of obstruction in the way. Weird ideas about personal space are then eliminated from the discussion.
"and the morning stars I have seen
and the gengars who are guiding me" -- W.S. Merwin
Coffee date "hug at the end" sometimes throws me for a loop.
Especially if it was a tepid date overall, they go for the hug and my reaction is a "what? really? Well okay I just didn't see it coming..." expression/hesitant hug motion.
If I am genuinely attracted to somebody, I kiss on the first date. Every time. It is a rule.
You only get a hug if I don't like you that much.
I have the same rule. Kiss if I like ya, hug if I don't!
The fact that some people hug on first date if they like you makes the presence of you types extremely confusing.
Us-types are the best types.
GET ON OUR DATING LEVEL.
Really everyone should just have a dating questionnaire we carry around and exchange at the end of the date. 5 minutes to fill out the form. Further action to be decided upon review and consultation.
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Hi I'm Vee!Formerly VH; She/Her; Is an E X P E R I E N C ERegistered Userregular
I have never been kiss-denied.
Which sounds great, except that now I am TERRIFIED of it happening, so I try to make 99% sure she wants to kiss me before I go in for it.
Coffee date "hug at the end" sometimes throws me for a loop.
Especially if it was a tepid date overall, they go for the hug and my reaction is a "what? really? Well okay I just didn't see it coming..." expression/hesitant hug motion.
If I am genuinely attracted to somebody, I kiss on the first date. Every time. It is a rule.
You only get a hug if I don't like you that much.
I have the same rule. Kiss if I like ya, hug if I don't!
The fact that some people hug on first date if they like you makes the presence of you types extremely confusing.
Us-types are the best types.
GET ON OUR DATING LEVEL.
Really everyone should just have a dating questionnaire we carry around and exchange at the end of the date. 5 minutes to fill out the form. Further action to be decided upon review and consultation.
I start pulling out pie charts. I take emotional precision seriously.
Which sounds great, except that now I am TERRIFIED of it happening, so I try to make 99% sure she wants to kiss me before I go in for it.
Predictably, this has not turned out well.
This is my thing too.
But I take it to pretty far extremes.
Like, how I had this one girl lying on my bed with me watching a movie. And then she turned around and cuddled up to me. And then I let her lie there staring at me for a good two or three minutes before I attempted the kiss.
I heard from her later that it was apparently pretty frustrating.
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If I am genuinely attracted to somebody, I kiss on the first date. Every time. It is a rule.
You only get a hug if I don't like you that much.
the "no true scotch man" fallacy.
Take her to the Avengers movie premiere.
n...no....
there is a hole in the curtain just in case
and the gengars who are guiding me" -- W.S. Merwin
*takes notes*
I have the same rule. Kiss if I like ya, hug if I don't!
YOU ARE A UNICORN
the "no true scotch man" fallacy.
The fact that some people hug on first date if they like you makes the presence of you types extremely confusing.
and the gengars who are guiding me" -- W.S. Merwin
I am an excessively poor person to ask for dating advice.
i wasn't sure until now if that was good or bad
i guess that's why i got the hug
You just said you lost five pounds. You are slimming down.
:whistle: Always look on the briiight side of life. :whistle:
Uh, I meant hug or handshake........
Not... an actual thing to do!
*runs away*
I haven't had one, I don't need one.
and the gengars who are guiding me" -- W.S. Merwin
I probably sensed your hug-ambivalence and pivoted to a regular joe handshake because I'm so savvy
Mazzy is saying he is a hugger but I don't think we hugged at PAX
Us-types are the best types.
GET ON OUR DATING LEVEL.
and the gengars who are guiding me" -- W.S. Merwin
yeah I remember it clearly
you ran toward me, arms outstretched
I looked at you puzzled, and extended my hand with my eyes squinted
And do you have a routine mouth examination you do on the second date?...
Really everyone should just have a dating questionnaire we carry around and exchange at the end of the date. 5 minutes to fill out the form. Further action to be decided upon review and consultation.
Which sounds great, except that now I am TERRIFIED of it happening, so I try to make 99% sure she wants to kiss me before I go in for it.
Predictably, this has not turned out well.
you almost definitely do, you're prolly just asymptomatic like most people
I bumped my face into his and then sprinted into my mom's car where I giggled all the way home
We had sex three months later
So my real ones could be anything.
I start pulling out pie charts. I take emotional precision seriously.
twitch.tv/tehsloth
I go "Have you ever had a cold sore IN YOUR LIFE. THINK HARD."
just do one of your sexy dances
*looks at current love life status*
no wait, don't.
This is my thing too.
But I take it to pretty far extremes.
Like, how I had this one girl lying on my bed with me watching a movie. And then she turned around and cuddled up to me. And then I let her lie there staring at me for a good two or three minutes before I attempted the kiss.
I heard from her later that it was apparently pretty frustrating.