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Whining, Moaning, Bitching
BroloBroseidonLord of the BroceanRegistered Userregular
as it turns out my girlfriend is pregnant. We've been dating for a year and a half now, and we're both out of school and making decent money (and have been talking about marriage and kids and we're both on the same page), so while this wasn't planned it also wasn't that bad. While it was a bit of a shock we started to look forward to it, for about three weeks...
...until yesterday, when we just found out that she's got a uteral fissure, possibly caused by a tumor. This means that there's a high chance that any baby we try and have will either be a late-term stillborn or have severe birth defects. It also puts her at extreme risk if she ever goes into childbirth since her womb will likely rupture.
With such a risk to her health, her doctor is now advising her to have an abortion. My girlfriend doesn't want to, since apparently a small percentage of women (according to her doctor it's less than 5%) manage to beat the odds, successfully delivering the child and living through childbirth.
I don't really know what to do. I think she should abort, and then once we're married we can adopt. But she doesn't want to hear it. I have no idea what I'm supposed to do here but wait. Either she eventually realizes she has to have the abortion or...
But this isn't a thread about sympathy. This is a thread about whining and bitching about anything, the more trivial the better. Take my mind off of things by telling me your trivial and petty grievances, SE++.