I'm just not social, and I just don't care. When people try and act like they care about me I am immediately suspicious and want to know what they think they'll get from hearing about me.
I did a meet up once and went to the bathroom and people asked my wife while I was in the restroom to find out embarrassing things about me. So I have trust issues.
I'm 41, I have had several times in my life people lie to my face and screw me over. I don't hate myself. Like I'm glad that worked for you, but what you're saying here is basically the equivalent of telling a woman to smile more. I'd appreciate if you didn't with me thank you.