Rebound + Rebound = <3? (girl thread)

anon23

Hey guys,
So just to be original, theres this girl..
An amazing incredibly wonderful girl in fact.
We often hang out, go out together and generally have the best time.

Now there has always been something really there between us, but we both always had a partner at those times. We spoke of our feelings recently and both agreed that while they are definitely there we can't act on them or even speak of them while we are with other people, of course.

However!
These past few weeks though have seen us Both separated from our partners, which is strange in itself.

So she wants to go out and stuff this week, and i certainly am going to, im just unsure how to read the whole situation.

I don't want to get involved in anything if she is still going through the break up (which may or may not have had something to do with me and her hanging out a lot).

So i don't want to be "that guy" or anything like that, but i do want to see what happens.

So what should i do? Just continue going along as we always have and let it be up to her if something happens?

I really don't want to rush this if it is meant to be, and it seems a strange twist of fate we are finally both single at the same time, but i also dont want to be a rebound or her to be a rebound for me.

Confusion abounds.

EskimoDave

quit trying to make excuses and go for it.

Esh

Just play it cool, don't overthink it, and let the chips fall where they may. You'll know if it's supposed to work out or not.

Also, don't read too much into the "OMG! BOTH SINGLE AT THE SAME TIME!". This isn't exactly divine providence.

Henroid

You go for it if things just align to happen that way (and since you've been in past relationships, you already have your own idea for what qualifies for that).

And if something does happen, be sure to talk to her about it in the aftermath.

Angel177

GO FOR IT, my WIFE and I were in that situation...and that worked out pretty sweet, just do one thing, ask her questions, and listen, you are not "that guy" if your both interested go for it.

Eat it You Nasty Pig.

man I had this relationship. We moved really quickly for three or four months before realizing we didn't actually like each other that much. I found out later that basically all of my and her friends were O_o about the whole thing.

You never know until you try though, OP, so go nuts.

contendr

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Mostlyjoe13

EskimoDave wrote: »

quit trying to make excuses and go for it.

Honestly. Gift Horse, Mouth.

Ioga

There's nothing that should be confusing about this.

Do it. Seriously. Do it. C'mon. Do it. Do it. Do it.

anon23

Well uh looks like i better go for it then huh!
I may return with some disastrous tale of rejection, then again maybe not!
Going out with her tonight so we shall see!

Thanks again guys