I'm 33 and am unemployed. In fact, I have been unemployed since March 2009. I have a BA degree in English, but I'm beginning to think I may have been better off without it; at least I wouldn't be in debt.
I realize I'm at a point where I can't afford to be picky and choosy about where I want to work, but that has little affect on my motivation.
It's become so bad that I have little desire to do anything, other than eat, sleep, and exercise.
How do become motivated?
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It's rough out there for EVERYONE right now as far as I can tell. I go through periods where I search for a job pretty heavily for a few months, then just accept that it's probably going to be a while, then give up. Then a few weeks later back to it.
You could probably look at places that offer per-diem tutoring to at least get something going.
All I can really say is right now, it's pretty easy to lose motivation. Just keep trying. You're not any worse off than some other people I know, someone's eventually going to hire you.
Use the same motiviation you use when you go to the gym. If you're anything like me, you have a specific time/routine to going to the gym so that you don't forget/procrastinate. When I was unemployed, I scheduled from 10am-Noon applying for jobs like it was my job. If you have a hard time concentrating while at home, go somewhere with internet access. I was applying for 3-5 jobs a day. I got 3 jobs offers and about 7-8 interviews during 3 weeks of looking.
Also, don't be picky. There are jobs out there. Apply for jobs you are underqualified for/over qualified for. The worst that happens is they never call you.
Speaking as a guy with an Masters in English, I am clinging to the Minimum wage job I have now in Data Entry.
Also, I guess if anyone asks you during an interview why you've been unemployed for so long you can tell them you were working on a novel.
Not to mention it gives you something to put on your resume during that time frame.
edit: but really, you won't find a job until you decide you actually want one. It is painfully obvious you have no desire to actually do anything with your life.