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I Know Women But I Don't KNOW Women

Small Time CrookedSmall Time Crooked Post Malone's Hairdresser Des Plaines, ILRegistered User regular
edited January 2011 in Help / Advice Forum
Possibly a PA first -- Instead of getting help for the lack of women in my life, I need to learn how to get rid of some of the excess.

Three parties involved; A, B and myself.

Past couple months I was pretty much homeless, sleeping wherever was warm (which is surprisingly hard to find in Illinois during the winter months haha). An old time friend of mine from high school eventually took me into his place and let me get settled until I could stand on my own two feet. A couple weeks pass and his upstairs neighbor (college girl) is throwing a halloween party with some of her friends, she invites the two of us, we decline, so they bring the party to us. I get inebriated, get too touchy with A, this leads to drunken pig-sex on the floor.

Now, I've already let A know that I'm not interested in pursuing a relationship with her. I let her know this shortly after we first met, I just wasn't situated physically or mentally to be with anyone, and she's not exactly my cup of tea. So anything we did sexually was to stay just that, sex. Of course, I didn't mind it when she showered me with gifts and dinners.

So, to the now, I'm actually better than I was ever before. Kicked my drug and alcohol addictions, began getting closer to God, I'm appreciating life. As a result I pursue a relationship with B, a girl who I used to date when I was a heroin addict (yeah, that relationship was short lived). Even B says that I've changed a lot since the summer, and we're actually really happy together, preparing for college together and everything, it's almost like we never parted.

Only thing, A won't leave me alone. I've let her know countless times that she gives me way too much attention, and it's actually borderline creepy. I made it clear if she wants to be friends, that's cool, but I'm with someone and it's not respectful to B for her to float around me as much as she does. Still showing the willingness to do things for me, buy me things, etc. After a long heated argument with A one day, I finally think everything is hunky-dory, but I've come to find out she's discovered how to get a hold of my personal contacts (co-workers on the label and personal friends) and vents her sorrows about my being in a relationship. I don't even know how the hell she got these numbers

This is actually getting really carried away, when facebook is becoming littered with pseudo-poetry she writes that are obvious odes to me. And my co-workers and friends are getting as sick of her as I am. I tried eliminating all contact with her but that just resulted in her sitting outside of my house banging on the door for God knows how long. I'm feeling like I'm stuck in the plot of a really bad horror flick.

What are the best routes to deal with this woman?

tl;dr -- Psycho becomes infatuated with Small Time. Small Time has woman of his own. Small Time do not want psycho. HALP!1!1!!!

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  • Iceman.USAFIceman.USAF Major East CoastRegistered User regular
    edited January 2011
    Temporary restraining orders do wonders to deliver the message of "back the f off". That's how I'd do it. I mean, its pretty clear you're not having a normal friendly relationship with her anytime.

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  • DemerdarDemerdar Registered User regular
    edited January 2011
    Small Time get police involved.

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  • admanbadmanb unionize your workplace Seattle, WARegistered User regular
    edited January 2011
    When you say you tried eliminating all contact with her you did tell her you were doing that, right? If that's the case than yeah, police. If not, you should probably try that first.

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  • Small Time CrookedSmall Time Crooked Post Malone's Hairdresser Des Plaines, ILRegistered User regular
    edited January 2011
    I figured it would boil down to this, I was hoping it wouldn't. But oh well, c'est la vie.

    Thanks duders. That was like my baby-making sessions, quick and appreciated. Haha.

    I think this can be locked, my thirst for answers has been sated.

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