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So my mom has been having knee problems, and she went to an acupuncturist, which seems to have helped with the sharp pains she had been having. Or at least it coincided with the pain lessening. Separate from that she just found out she has osteoporosis. I'm not sure what other treatments or medication she's getting, but just today she went and got a homeopathic bone density treatment. I tried the usual "it's basically just water, they dilute it so much there's essentially none of the original ingredient left, and that ingredient probably wouldn't have helped anyway" but i'm not too good at articulating this sort of thing.
What sorts of information would anyone recommend I pass on to her to inform her about this stuff? I know there are videos out there and some Penn and Teller's BULLSHIT things, but i'm afraid those sorts of things might just get dismissed out of hand before she watches them in their entirety.
Homeopathic is all natural remedies. They don't use the everyday antibiotics or treatments. It includes things like accupuncture, massage therapy, herbal remedies, and the like.
People believe in it and if it helps her and she has the finances to do it, then all the power to her. Sometimes in medicine it is more treating the brain than the problem.
I work in the OR. There are people all the time complaining about pain in their knee, nothing helps it, etc. We will go in and scope it. Do absolutely nothing in terms of repair, trimming, or removal because there is nothing like that to do. We put the scope in and look around, run some saline through it and close up. They come to see us to have their stitches removed and we are miracle workers. Knee pain is gone, never felt better, blah blah blah. Did the salt water running in the joint treat their pain, most likely no. Did the fact we washed out the knee and they're feeling better make the happy, sure.
Anyone who is taking homeopathic medicine in the first place isn't making decisions in a rational, evidence based manner, so asking "where can I find the really convincing evidence" is usually an exercise in uselessness and frustration. You're much better off making sure she also talks to a real doctor and takes their advice, because like Tom819 points out, it's not like this stuff's going to hurt her.
It only hurts her if she decides to go that route instead of medical treatment. Your efforts should probably focus on trying to get her to go to a regular doctor to treat the osteoporosis. If she doesn't have the money or means to go to a regular doctor, she most certainly shouldn't be spending the means to throw away on homeopathy.
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JuliusCaptain of Serenityon my shipRegistered Userregular
People believe in it and if it helps her and she has the finances to do it, then all the power to her. Sometimes in medicine it is more treating the brain than the problem.
Of course if she has osteoporosis that is dumb.
It's hard to convince people that homeopathy doesn't work. Make sure she goes to a doc and gets some regular calcium and vitamine D (and TSH if the doc says it). You could explain about how bones work (it's relatively straight-forward) and how whatever she's getting in that homeopathic stuff could not possibly help.
If you got the time and she's willing you can give her a few journals or articles about journals. http://rationalwiki.org/wiki/Homeopathy is a good starting point.
before you tell her anything ask her why she's doing homeopathic. Ask her to explain her reasoning.
People usually clam up when you go judgmental so keep that in mind to keep the avenue open.
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For your consideration: we define medicine as the parts of homeopathy that work.
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zepherinRussian warship, go fuck yourselfRegistered Userregular
To be fair, there are alternative herbs and medicines that have drug contents in them that can help with certain problems. There are also certain therapies that can help a person, however what it comes down to is common sense. Is having someone putting needles in me going to increase my bone density? Sorry the chemical process doesn't work like that. However doing low levels of weight training and walking increase muscle mass around the bones combined with drugs that stop re-absorption of bone back into the system and a daily vitamin supplement, can increase bone density.
Homeopathic is all natural remedies. They don't use the everyday antibiotics or treatments. It includes things like accupuncture, massage therapy, herbal remedies, and the like.
Sorry to be blunt, but this is just wrong. Homeopathy is about using incredibly diluted "elements" to create a "cure." It is a subset of "Alternative Medicine," and things like acupuncture, massage, herbals, are also alternative medicines.
Homeopathic is the quackiest of the bunch, in my opinion, and it is dangerous to the user because it predates on their health. Someone who uses homeopathy is spending money and time on a cure that will do nothing beyond placebo, and in many cases will cause a delay in treatment that may actually cure them.
Just a few months ago, Steve Jobs died and there were tons of articles written about how the man essentially shortened his life by seeking alternative medicine for his ailments rather than simply seeing a real doctor for treatment. He engaged in quackery when what he needed at the time was a cancer-free liver.
If the OPs mom has arthritis and osteoporosis, there are medical treatments that actually work available. There is excellent arthritis medication available that will eliminate pain and swelling, giving sufferers a normal life. Unfortunately, for most people who seek out alternative medicine, they fear being branded a "Patient" and taking pills, so they look for something different.
OP, I suggest sitting your mom down and telling her that going to an actual doctor, at a hospital or clinic, will get her down the path towards actual relief, as the only medicine doctors prescribe are those that have been thoroughly tested. Tell her that acupuncture doesn't work for everyone, and that looking for herbal remedies is a little silly because doctors may prescribe the same basic ingredient but without the extra stuff. You can tell her about Willow Bark, which contains aspirin, as an example. She could chew willow bark and make willow bark tea, which would get her a random dose of aspirin along with whatever else may be good or bad in the bark, or she could simply take a pill of aspirin, which is simply the active ingredient condensed down.
You could always pull a James Randi. Sit down in front of her with a box of pills, read the "overdose" warning, and proceed to eat the entire box worth of pills with no ill affect. No talking required, just empirical evidence.
Many people don't necessarily respond to "empirical evidence" but give a good story or anecdote and they're all ears. What's the Harm.net provides that.
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Aurora Borealisruns and runs and runs awayBrooklynRegistered Userregular
My fiance is a massage therapist and acupuncturist. He despises homeopathy as complete nonsense and considers it an expensive placebo at best. Alternative medicine does not equal homeopathy.
Not all alternative medicine is created equal. Some of it is better regulated than others. Some of it is more or less effective than others. Some practitioners are caring, intelligent people with years of experience, others are cynical quacks out to fleece you, and many others are well meaning but delusional folks with a limited understanding of how the human body actually works. And it can be awfully hard to tell the difference between them. Big box of chocolates that, except some of them have poisonous mercury inside.
Alternative medicine is no substitute for an actual medical doctor's care. Also, what EggyToast said.
Anecdote time!
I once went to a massage therapist for a nasty crick in the neck that was ruining my weekend. She was experienced and kind, and I felt much better after. The next day it was back and I had a mild fever. She fixed me up again but told me it seemed worse than the day before and that was not normal. The next day I was in agony and cried like a baby on the table. She told me to go to the ER. I resisted. Later that evening I couldn't keep any food down, only wanted to be horizontal, and I was crazy burning up, so my friends overruled my objections and got me to the hospital. Turned out that the root cause of my muscle aches was a rather severe UTI. And there ain't nothing in the world can knock that out except crazy potent antibiotics.
I don't blame the MT. She was wonderful and I'd gladly see her again. But she was not an MD and she had no way of knowing what was really wrong with me. I'll be quicker to see an actual Dr. next time.
The point being is that Alternative Medicine cannot and should not be expected to replace modern scientific medicine. Sure, acupuncture can be an effective method of pain relief. Most of my fiance's patients are people for whom conventional painkillers do nothing and/or would be harmful for whatever reason. Acupuncture and/or massage often works for these people, but to be perfectly frank nobody really truly knows why. It also does not work for everyone. And just because acupuncture seems to work for your mom does not in any way mean that homeopathy will as well.
My fiance goes to a Dr. when he's sick. He wouldn't be caught dead in a homeopathic practitioner's office. He thinks they are a rotten moldy apple in the orchard of alternative medicine, and he would be greatly offended to be put in a barrel with them. So there's that.
There is naturopathy and there is homeopathy. Naturopathy covers a lot of ground and may or may not be medically redeemable depending on who you're dealing with.
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ceresWhen the last moon is cast over the last star of morningAnd the future has past without even a last desperate warningRegistered User, ModeratorMod Emeritus
Many people don't necessarily respond to "empirical evidence" but give a good story or anecdote and they're all ears. What's the Harm.net provides that.
The problem with this site is that a lot of the stories amount to little more than "Emily took some sugar pills and the next day as she was crossing the street BAM hit by a bus. If she'd been looking across the street instead of taking those sugar pills each morning she'd still be alive today."
There are better sites out there.
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Apothe0sisHave you ever questioned the nature of your reality?Registered Userregular
edited February 2012
Ask her why the instructions tell you to take more if the symptoms get worse. If we are to accept the framework, the effect should be greater the less of the substance we ingest.
You could also show her James "The Amazing" Randi taking whole bottles of homeopathic sleeping pills.
Homeopathic is all natural remedies. They don't use the everyday antibiotics or treatments. It includes things like accupuncture, massage therapy, herbal remedies, and the like.
Sorry to be blunt, but this is just wrong. Homeopathy is about using incredibly diluted "elements" to create a "cure." It is a subset of "Alternative Medicine," and things like acupuncture, massage, herbals, are also alternative medicines.
If we are to accept the framework, the effect should be greater the less of the substance we ingest.
Honestly, I think a lot of homeopathic patients don't know about, and don't really understand, the theory behind homeopathy. (In much the same way, a lot of patients don't know about, and don't really understand, the theories behind conventional medicine.) Trying to explain it is ineffective - you're asking them to evaluate a (pseudo)scientific model that they don't believe they have the expertise to evaluate. You might as well be asking them to choose between two competing models of quantum mechanics.
Sometimes, the best thing you can do is urge her to see homeopathic medicine as complimentary, and to see a conventional doctor at the same time.
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every person who doesn't like an acquired taste always seems to think everyone who likes it is faking it. it should be an official fallacy.
Many people don't necessarily respond to "empirical evidence" but give a good story or anecdote and they're all ears. What's the Harm.net provides that.
The problem with this site is that a lot of the stories amount to little more than "Emily took some sugar pills and the next day as she was crossing the street BAM hit by a bus. If she'd been looking across the street instead of taking those sugar pills each morning she'd still be alive today."
There are better sites out there.
Well, I did say that this was merely to provide the OP with stories and anecdotes... so yes, I am aware there are "better" sites out there. With that said, there are people that are more compelled by a "good" story than by scientific evidence. Also, I've read many of the articles on the site and I'd describe them more along the lines of "Emily took some sugar pills to cure her treatable cancer instead of seeking help from conventional medicine. If she'd gone to see an oncologist instead of taking those sugar pills each morning she'd still be alive today."
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Yeah, thanks for all the feedback guys. I'm supposing that she doesn't actually know the specifics about homeopathy, she just sees it as any other sort of "natural" treatment. I'll talk to her tonight about the details, hopefully finding out will be an eye-opener for her. If she does know about it and actually believes the "water memory" stuff, then i'll leave it at that and let her waste the $20 a bottle.
I really hope that's not the case, but who knows.
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ceresWhen the last moon is cast over the last star of morningAnd the future has past without even a last desperate warningRegistered User, ModeratorMod Emeritus
Many people don't necessarily respond to "empirical evidence" but give a good story or anecdote and they're all ears. What's the Harm.net provides that.
The problem with this site is that a lot of the stories amount to little more than "Emily took some sugar pills and the next day as she was crossing the street BAM hit by a bus. If she'd been looking across the street instead of taking those sugar pills each morning she'd still be alive today."
There are better sites out there.
Well, I did say that this was merely to provide the OP with stories and anecdotes... so yes, I am aware there are "better" sites out there. With that said, there are people that are more compelled by a "good" story than by scientific evidence. Also, I've read many of the articles on the site and I'd describe them more along the lines of "Emily took some sugar pills to cure her treatable cancer instead of seeking help from conventional medicine. If she'd gone to see an oncologist instead of taking those sugar pills each morning she'd still be alive today."
I've read them too, and if you think critically about the way those stories read, you'll see I really wasn't exaggerating as much as you seem to think. A deception is a deception, and they often don't do much better than the activities they decry. That sort of thing doesn't do anybody any favors.
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I would venture a guess that all those who just come in and slam on non traditional medicines and treatments have never experienced severe chronic pain. As a sufferer I can tell you, doctors can't fix everything, and when you're completely tired of being miserable all day every day, and the only doctor prescribed remedy is to take pain killers all day everyday, you'll give just about anything a try, to see if it offers some sort of relief. So just coming in and essentially saying she's crazy and/or stupid, isn't helpful at all.
If her placebos or treatments actually relieve pain, and they aren't interfering with traditional treatment, and not causing financial stress, let her keep doing what she's doing.
Make sure she tells her physician what she's doing in case it isn't really homeopathy and is actually natural herbal medicines that do real things such as interfere with drug dosage and tax the liver.
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If her placebos or treatments actually relieve pain, and they aren't interfering with traditional treatment, and not causing financial stress, let her keep doing what she's doing.
That is the main reason people slam on alternative medicine, rather than a lack of empathy. It's one thing if the practitioner provides a quick fix and pain relief and tells you straight up that this is what they are doing. It's another thing entirely when they are scammers who are selling promises that can't be kept. More importantly, osteoporosis is a medical condition that requires care beyond only pain relief, and without this care, it can be fatal (especially in an older population).
I would venture a guess that all those who just come in and slam on non traditional medicines and treatments have never experienced severe chronic pain.
I have back pain from a weird muscle thing that occurs in my sleep. I wake up and am in pain, but once I move around a bit it gets better. Sometimes it's so bad I'm unable to go back to sleep.
So I went to the normal doctor, and she said "it's just posture, go to a physical therapist." At the therapist, I received massage and a list of exercises. I did them, and my pain improved. I also take ibuprofen now before sleeping. My pain is dramatically reduced.
It's not that alternative medicines don't work at all, but rather that there's a lot going on in the body. I have an uncle-in-law who woke up with neck pain and thought it was just a muscle thing, and turns out he had a slipped disc that would've paralyzed him if he had encountered a shock that slipped it further. They scheduled surgery 24 hours later and kept him at the hospital. If he had gone to a chiropractor, he may be paralyzed. Another friend of mine had some back stiffness and went to a chiropractor -- the guy gave him a big bear hug to crack his back, and my friend blacked out. 30 seconds later he came to and realized that chiropractors were idiots.
Yet yes, in my case, my doctor "prescribed" massage and physical therapy, and it worked. I'm still amazingly skeptical of acupuncture, but a good doctor will know when something is minor and can be treated simply, and will also determine when something is actually seriously wrong with you. If you have severe chronic pain, go to a doctor. If the doctor can't help, then find another doctor and research alternatives, too. My ex-mother-in-law experienced sudden chronic pain and was debilitated, and it turns out she had rheumatoid arthritis. Humera cures her 100%, but it took a lot of visits to different doctors to find one who believed she had suddenly developed it at age 55.
I would venture a guess that all those who just come in and slam on non traditional medicines and treatments have never experienced severe chronic pain. As a sufferer I can tell you, doctors can't fix everything, and when you're completely tired of being miserable all day every day, and the only doctor prescribed remedy is to take pain killers all day everyday, you'll give just about anything a try, to see if it offers some sort of relief. So just coming in and essentially saying she's crazy and/or stupid, isn't helpful at all.
By and large, I think people are concerned about two main things:
1. People who use non traditional medicine as a substitute for professional medical care. Alternative treatments are fine, so long as you continue to keep doctors in the loop.
2. People falling for cons. There are alternative treatment providers who are legitimately concerned about providing relief, and there are people looking to take all of your money. And especially when someone's desperate to try anything, that makes the person quite vulnerable.
If her placebos or treatments actually relieve pain, and they aren't interfering with traditional treatment, and not causing financial stress, let her keep doing what she's doing.
Well, the main concerns are the exceptions you mentioned. If a sugar-pill makes the pain go away and doesn't cost much, by all means, buy the sugar-pill! At worse it'll do nothing and you'll be out a few dollars. However if it costs alot, and you're not quite sure what's in the pill or treatment, that's worrisome. Overall, I'd say you're one of those with the right mindset about alternative treatments, but not everyone is so rational about them or approaches them in the same way.
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EsseeThe pinkest of hair.Victoria, BCRegistered Userregular
edited February 2012
I gotta be honest, I'm a little confused as to why things like massage and physical therapy are being labeled "alternative" treatments. I mean, maybe that's because my mom has fibromyalgia (with all its lovely little muscle knots-- and no, she's not one of those people that just feels chronic pain and that's why they're diagnosed with it) that is known to respond to someone massaging the area where the person has a muscle spasm, and she's had several sessions of physical therapy over the years, prescribed by a doctor, that gave her long-lasting relief and improved her quality of life after she completed them. She has always taken painkillers as well, naturally. I was pretty sure that physical therapy, in particular, was a medically-accepted treatment for injuries and stuff? Am I misinformed? It just seems so intuitively obvious to me that massage and physical therapy (coupled with exercise to make sure you keep moving things) help muscle pain like that. I thought they were a regular, medically-accepted part of treatment for muscular problems. They happen to be drug-free and all that, but that doesn't make them "alternative" in my book.
Now, granted, I was having serious pain due to a muscle spasm in my own shoulder some time back (most likely due to being a poor college student and not using a chair) and when I went to a physiotherapist up where I live right now (Canada) it kind of annoyed me that instead of just massaging the stupid knot out or anything like that which would conceivably directly relieve the knot, the guy mostly just hooked me up to what I presume from googling was some ultrasound massage machine for a while and left it at that. Twice, since I told him the problem was still there after the first time (though the worst pain had subsided for the moment) and figured he'd do something different. My bad on that one... I was able to get temporary relief and all, but the basic problem is still there and the pain has come back over time so I'm not too happy with that guy (and he didn't give me any recommendations for how to possibly keep it from getting worse again either). My mom's physical therapist in the States, on the other hand, was waaayyy more helpful (gave her plenty of exercises to do on a regular basis) and probably knows what she's doing a thousand times better than that guy.
Anyway, obviously the whole sugar pill and herbal medicine and whatnot stuff isn't medically supported and can actually be dangerous depending on what's in the pill. I agree with having her see a regular doctor as well (if only for your sake) if explaining to her what the deal is with homeopathy doesn't convince her. Hopefully she doesn't believe too religiously in the stuff just yet, that's your best bet.
EDIT: Oh yeah, you should also stress to her that none of said herbal treatment stuff is indicated to help osteoporosis so for that part she MUST be getting some proven medicine from a real doctor to stop its progression. But do be warned that stuff does pop up if you google for that sort of thing... I just hope she doesn't know about it.
I gotta be honest, I'm a little confused as to why things like massage and physical therapy are being labeled "alternative" treatments.
I'm pretty sure massage and physical therapy are treated as acknowledged treatments. The stretching and massaging of muscles is a verified treatment. I think it's more Chiropractic care that's treated as an alternative medicine, when you're getting right into bone manipulation. [/quote]
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ceresWhen the last moon is cast over the last star of morningAnd the future has past without even a last desperate warningRegistered User, ModeratorMod Emeritus
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Homeopathic is all natural remedies. They don't use the everyday antibiotics or treatments. It includes things like accupuncture, massage therapy, herbal remedies, and the like.
People believe in it and if it helps her and she has the finances to do it, then all the power to her. Sometimes in medicine it is more treating the brain than the problem.
I work in the OR. There are people all the time complaining about pain in their knee, nothing helps it, etc. We will go in and scope it. Do absolutely nothing in terms of repair, trimming, or removal because there is nothing like that to do. We put the scope in and look around, run some saline through it and close up. They come to see us to have their stitches removed and we are miracle workers. Knee pain is gone, never felt better, blah blah blah. Did the salt water running in the joint treat their pain, most likely no. Did the fact we washed out the knee and they're feeling better make the happy, sure.
If it helps her, let her be.
Of course if she has osteoporosis that is dumb.
It's hard to convince people that homeopathy doesn't work. Make sure she goes to a doc and gets some regular calcium and vitamine D (and TSH if the doc says it). You could explain about how bones work (it's relatively straight-forward) and how whatever she's getting in that homeopathic stuff could not possibly help.
If you got the time and she's willing you can give her a few journals or articles about journals. http://rationalwiki.org/wiki/Homeopathy is a good starting point.
People usually clam up when you go judgmental so keep that in mind to keep the avenue open.
Doc: That's right, twenty five years into the future. I've always dreamed on seeing the future, looking beyond my years, seeing the progress of mankind. I'll also be able to see who wins the next twenty-five world series.
For your consideration: we define medicine as the parts of homeopathy that work.
Sorry to be blunt, but this is just wrong. Homeopathy is about using incredibly diluted "elements" to create a "cure." It is a subset of "Alternative Medicine," and things like acupuncture, massage, herbals, are also alternative medicines.
Homeopathic is the quackiest of the bunch, in my opinion, and it is dangerous to the user because it predates on their health. Someone who uses homeopathy is spending money and time on a cure that will do nothing beyond placebo, and in many cases will cause a delay in treatment that may actually cure them.
Just a few months ago, Steve Jobs died and there were tons of articles written about how the man essentially shortened his life by seeking alternative medicine for his ailments rather than simply seeing a real doctor for treatment. He engaged in quackery when what he needed at the time was a cancer-free liver.
If the OPs mom has arthritis and osteoporosis, there are medical treatments that actually work available. There is excellent arthritis medication available that will eliminate pain and swelling, giving sufferers a normal life. Unfortunately, for most people who seek out alternative medicine, they fear being branded a "Patient" and taking pills, so they look for something different.
OP, I suggest sitting your mom down and telling her that going to an actual doctor, at a hospital or clinic, will get her down the path towards actual relief, as the only medicine doctors prescribe are those that have been thoroughly tested. Tell her that acupuncture doesn't work for everyone, and that looking for herbal remedies is a little silly because doctors may prescribe the same basic ingredient but without the extra stuff. You can tell her about Willow Bark, which contains aspirin, as an example. She could chew willow bark and make willow bark tea, which would get her a random dose of aspirin along with whatever else may be good or bad in the bark, or she could simply take a pill of aspirin, which is simply the active ingredient condensed down.
Many people don't necessarily respond to "empirical evidence" but give a good story or anecdote and they're all ears. What's the Harm.net provides that.
Not all alternative medicine is created equal. Some of it is better regulated than others. Some of it is more or less effective than others. Some practitioners are caring, intelligent people with years of experience, others are cynical quacks out to fleece you, and many others are well meaning but delusional folks with a limited understanding of how the human body actually works. And it can be awfully hard to tell the difference between them. Big box of chocolates that, except some of them have poisonous mercury inside.
Alternative medicine is no substitute for an actual medical doctor's care. Also, what EggyToast said.
Anecdote time!
I once went to a massage therapist for a nasty crick in the neck that was ruining my weekend. She was experienced and kind, and I felt much better after. The next day it was back and I had a mild fever. She fixed me up again but told me it seemed worse than the day before and that was not normal. The next day I was in agony and cried like a baby on the table. She told me to go to the ER. I resisted. Later that evening I couldn't keep any food down, only wanted to be horizontal, and I was crazy burning up, so my friends overruled my objections and got me to the hospital. Turned out that the root cause of my muscle aches was a rather severe UTI. And there ain't nothing in the world can knock that out except crazy potent antibiotics.
I don't blame the MT. She was wonderful and I'd gladly see her again. But she was not an MD and she had no way of knowing what was really wrong with me. I'll be quicker to see an actual Dr. next time.
The point being is that Alternative Medicine cannot and should not be expected to replace modern scientific medicine. Sure, acupuncture can be an effective method of pain relief. Most of my fiance's patients are people for whom conventional painkillers do nothing and/or would be harmful for whatever reason. Acupuncture and/or massage often works for these people, but to be perfectly frank nobody really truly knows why. It also does not work for everyone. And just because acupuncture seems to work for your mom does not in any way mean that homeopathy will as well.
My fiance goes to a Dr. when he's sick. He wouldn't be caught dead in a homeopathic practitioner's office. He thinks they are a rotten moldy apple in the orchard of alternative medicine, and he would be greatly offended to be put in a barrel with them. So there's that.
homeopathy is the one you want to run away from without asking any questions
that's why we call it the struggle, you're supposed to sweat
The problem with this site is that a lot of the stories amount to little more than "Emily took some sugar pills and the next day as she was crossing the street BAM hit by a bus. If she'd been looking across the street instead of taking those sugar pills each morning she'd still be alive today."
There are better sites out there.
You could also show her James "The Amazing" Randi taking whole bottles of homeopathic sleeping pills.
Honestly, I think a lot of homeopathic patients don't know about, and don't really understand, the theory behind homeopathy. (In much the same way, a lot of patients don't know about, and don't really understand, the theories behind conventional medicine.) Trying to explain it is ineffective - you're asking them to evaluate a (pseudo)scientific model that they don't believe they have the expertise to evaluate. You might as well be asking them to choose between two competing models of quantum mechanics.
Sometimes, the best thing you can do is urge her to see homeopathic medicine as complimentary, and to see a conventional doctor at the same time.
the "no true scotch man" fallacy.
Well, I did say that this was merely to provide the OP with stories and anecdotes... so yes, I am aware there are "better" sites out there. With that said, there are people that are more compelled by a "good" story than by scientific evidence. Also, I've read many of the articles on the site and I'd describe them more along the lines of "Emily took some sugar pills to cure her treatable cancer instead of seeking help from conventional medicine. If she'd gone to see an oncologist instead of taking those sugar pills each morning she'd still be alive today."
I really hope that's not the case, but who knows.
I've read them too, and if you think critically about the way those stories read, you'll see I really wasn't exaggerating as much as you seem to think. A deception is a deception, and they often don't do much better than the activities they decry. That sort of thing doesn't do anybody any favors.
If her placebos or treatments actually relieve pain, and they aren't interfering with traditional treatment, and not causing financial stress, let her keep doing what she's doing.
http://www.psychologicalscience.org/index.php/news/full-frontal-psychology/how-do-placebos-relieve-pain.html
Doc: That's right, twenty five years into the future. I've always dreamed on seeing the future, looking beyond my years, seeing the progress of mankind. I'll also be able to see who wins the next twenty-five world series.
I have back pain from a weird muscle thing that occurs in my sleep. I wake up and am in pain, but once I move around a bit it gets better. Sometimes it's so bad I'm unable to go back to sleep.
So I went to the normal doctor, and she said "it's just posture, go to a physical therapist." At the therapist, I received massage and a list of exercises. I did them, and my pain improved. I also take ibuprofen now before sleeping. My pain is dramatically reduced.
It's not that alternative medicines don't work at all, but rather that there's a lot going on in the body. I have an uncle-in-law who woke up with neck pain and thought it was just a muscle thing, and turns out he had a slipped disc that would've paralyzed him if he had encountered a shock that slipped it further. They scheduled surgery 24 hours later and kept him at the hospital. If he had gone to a chiropractor, he may be paralyzed. Another friend of mine had some back stiffness and went to a chiropractor -- the guy gave him a big bear hug to crack his back, and my friend blacked out. 30 seconds later he came to and realized that chiropractors were idiots.
Yet yes, in my case, my doctor "prescribed" massage and physical therapy, and it worked. I'm still amazingly skeptical of acupuncture, but a good doctor will know when something is minor and can be treated simply, and will also determine when something is actually seriously wrong with you. If you have severe chronic pain, go to a doctor. If the doctor can't help, then find another doctor and research alternatives, too. My ex-mother-in-law experienced sudden chronic pain and was debilitated, and it turns out she had rheumatoid arthritis. Humera cures her 100%, but it took a lot of visits to different doctors to find one who believed she had suddenly developed it at age 55.
By and large, I think people are concerned about two main things:
1. People who use non traditional medicine as a substitute for professional medical care. Alternative treatments are fine, so long as you continue to keep doctors in the loop.
2. People falling for cons. There are alternative treatment providers who are legitimately concerned about providing relief, and there are people looking to take all of your money. And especially when someone's desperate to try anything, that makes the person quite vulnerable.
Well, the main concerns are the exceptions you mentioned. If a sugar-pill makes the pain go away and doesn't cost much, by all means, buy the sugar-pill! At worse it'll do nothing and you'll be out a few dollars. However if it costs alot, and you're not quite sure what's in the pill or treatment, that's worrisome. Overall, I'd say you're one of those with the right mindset about alternative treatments, but not everyone is so rational about them or approaches them in the same way.
Now, granted, I was having serious pain due to a muscle spasm in my own shoulder some time back (most likely due to being a poor college student and not using a chair) and when I went to a physiotherapist up where I live right now (Canada) it kind of annoyed me that instead of just massaging the stupid knot out or anything like that which would conceivably directly relieve the knot, the guy mostly just hooked me up to what I presume from googling was some ultrasound massage machine for a while and left it at that. Twice, since I told him the problem was still there after the first time (though the worst pain had subsided for the moment) and figured he'd do something different. My bad on that one... I was able to get temporary relief and all, but the basic problem is still there and the pain has come back over time so I'm not too happy with that guy (and he didn't give me any recommendations for how to possibly keep it from getting worse again either). My mom's physical therapist in the States, on the other hand, was waaayyy more helpful (gave her plenty of exercises to do on a regular basis) and probably knows what she's doing a thousand times better than that guy.
Anyway, obviously the whole sugar pill and herbal medicine and whatnot stuff isn't medically supported and can actually be dangerous depending on what's in the pill. I agree with having her see a regular doctor as well (if only for your sake) if explaining to her what the deal is with homeopathy doesn't convince her. Hopefully she doesn't believe too religiously in the stuff just yet, that's your best bet.
EDIT: Oh yeah, you should also stress to her that none of said herbal treatment stuff is indicated to help osteoporosis so for that part she MUST be getting some proven medicine from a real doctor to stop its progression. But do be warned that stuff does pop up if you google for that sort of thing... I just hope she doesn't know about it.
I'm pretty sure massage and physical therapy are treated as acknowledged treatments. The stretching and massaging of muscles is a verified treatment. I think it's more Chiropractic care that's treated as an alternative medicine, when you're getting right into bone manipulation. [/quote]
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