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Getting Poached for a Senior position when I'm a Junior, Salary Negotiations

Giggles_FunsworthGiggles_Funsworth Blight on DiscourseBay Area SprawlRegistered User regular
Cross posted from the SE++ Jobs thread.
So today, for the first time, I had a recruiter contact me about a Senior position, and when I emailed them back and said "Hey bro, send me the job description so I can take a glance but I'm not sure I'm what you're looking for." because I'm really more Junior-Mid, and after I looked at the thing and told them as much they mailed me back and said "No bro the description is kind of misleading and I think you're a good fit specifically because of the minestrone soup of skills you've accumulated." So now I need to get my resume in order for the manager's perusal.

Job thread, how bad of an idea is taking a job I think I might be underqualified for?

On the one hand, I rock it, I adapt, and I have a nifty title on my resume, make lots of big decisions, and accelerate my career by 3-5 years.

On the other hand, I fuck it up, there's a newsworthy security breach, and maybe I have some trouble finding employment for a little while after that and end up back where I was before I took it at a different (same?) company.

I think I've got pretty good odds at accomplishing the former depending on how much of a team there is in the form of peers and technical management above me. In the past few years I've created a vasty network of contacts in the Silicon Valley, and worldwide security community and if I end up between a rock and a hard place with something I have no experience with or don't understand I've got lots of people to reach out to. In the past two and a half years I've gone from knowing almost nothing about what I do, never attended any industry events or met any industry people, to rubbing elbows with CEOs and being seen as competent enough to hold technical conversation with some ridiculously smart people who have been around so long they consider the events I was unaware of when I started old news and I'm about to start getting invites to more cutting edge, underground invite only events.

On the other hand horrible failure. But nobody ever accomplished anything awesome without taking some pretty big risks right?

Further details:

In addition to seeming above my paygrade the job req was tailored more to a Network Security person and I've been doing Web Application Security for the past few years-ish. Guy is telling me that is misleading because what they like about me is my AppSec abilities and that I've got NetSec skills in the past even if they're rusty. So I think maybe they thought they couldn't find an AppSec candidate for the position (highly in demand, all about being poached from one company to the next) so they were settling for a NetSec guy who could understand some AppSec. The position is with a large-ish well known car insurance company in San Francisco owned by a huge and well knowner car insurance company so they aren't small potatoes. I would need to work from an office and wear pants again I think, and I would want to relocate because I don't want to commute from San Jose and go to school (no time, commuting for five hours a day at my last job instilled a deep hatred of commutes over half an hour in length in me).

So I send him my resume because fuck it why not at least practice my interviewing skills if they really think I'm a good fit and this morning guy is asking about my salary expectations and what I am making now.

I am lead to believe through more senior friends, and THE INTERNET that I should make no less than six figures a year as a SENIOR SECURITY ENGINEER in SAN FRANCISCO. The range I seem to be getting online is between $100-150k and I think Senior AppSec people generally make even more what with all the poaching. I know at least one guy who is making $400k+ but sometimes he gets shot at. Plenty of people I know at that level make more than $200k though.

The problem with just saying that is that I currently make about $60k a year. There are a few reasons for this, and why it is out of line with my abilities anyway. I got fired from my first AppSec job after a year for something that wasn't really my fault because a sacrificial lamb was needed, the two years before that I was "freelancing" from my "home office (car)" because holy fuck the recession. Most places I was interviewing at were offering about $70-80k for people like me, but it was hard finding a place that would take a risk on someone with a tainted record like that. My current employer took me on in a sort of provisional basis, in a newly created Junior classification, even though my manager admitted that I was probably qualified enough to be a Mid-level consultant like most of my group. They are also based out of the Midwest so salaries don't always scale quite as well as they could to Bay Area cost of living. That was almost a year ago now.

I definitely don't want to accept less than $100k because:
1. Rent in San Francisco is significantly more (2-3x) than what I'm paying in San Jose.
2. I don't want to leave my current employer without a sizable reason considering the bridges it would probably burn and the lack of longevity it would instill in my resume.
3. I would be giving up a significant amount of perks for this position. Being able to work from anywhere almost any time, being able to work without office clothes, or any clothes, a large pool of talented people that are obligated to help me out if I get stuck on something, a travel coordinator and corporate rates, rental insurance, and other perks I am allowed to use for personal travel, and a company that has a 1950s level of loyalty towards their employees.
4. I would be investing a significant amount of my personal time picking up skills I haven't used in a while and learning new ones to excel at this position.
5. When I eventually leave this position I don't want to be in the same weak bargaining position I am now.

Should I just tell them that, minus 5 and parts of 3, and how do I explain why I was in such a weak bargaining position before?

Is it a terrible idea to entertain this? Considering I was able to land on my feet after getting fired with the company talking what I hear was all kinds of borderline legal smack about me in a worst case scenario I think I could end up back where I am now or better. If it works out the gain would be huge for me both in career advancement and immediately tangible pay.

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    DeebaserDeebaser on my way to work in a suit and a tie Ahhhh...come on fucking guyRegistered User regular
    Don't explain shit. It aint a crime to have a salary requirement and since it's a part of your story that doesn't make you look awesome, it's none of their beeswax.

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    schussschuss Registered User regular
    Yep, definitely set your salary expectations high. SF is expensive as shit, which is why I now live in Oakland.

    Honestly though, just go on the interview just for the experience, then go from there. If you're happy where you are, you're working from a position of strength, as they have to REALLY woo you.

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    Giggles_FunsworthGiggles_Funsworth Blight on Discourse Bay Area SprawlRegistered User regular
    The problem is they are specifically asking what I want and what I make now. $60k to $100k is a significant jump, I don't want them to feel like I'm delusional. In some ways I think I should be asking for more based on the duties of the job and levels of pay for the industry in the area, but again, that is a meteoric rise in title and pay. I want to go on the interview for the experience and to feel things out, but they are asking for this now, probably to weed out whether our expectations line up before wasting time on the process with me.

    I have no illusions about living in San Francisco, it's where my girlfriend grew up, where we were living with her parents, and where we were planning on moving back to after she gets work as an iOS developer because we both love it there even though it's pricey.

    I was super happy with where I am now until a couple things cropped up recently. I've got a meeting in the office tomorrow with my manager to discuss this, and some things that went wrong on a project I was on last week. If those things can be resolved (off hours scheduling that is fucking with my health because I don't physically adapt well to changes in sleeping pattern, weird expectations from a consultant above me that I do not thing line up with my manager's views about staying in my apartment to stop automated tools if they fuck up when they need to be run 24/7 to deliver on time but I'm not getting paid 24/7 and wouldn't want to because I have a life outside work) I will continue to be super happy, if not I was quietly looking for an exit strategy before this guy contacted me.

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    Giggles_FunsworthGiggles_Funsworth Blight on Discourse Bay Area SprawlRegistered User regular
    Actually the more I look at this the more it looks like a Chief Information Security Officer that they are calling a Senior Security Engineer. They want me to decide what the security policy for an entire Enterprise is, make decisions about incident response, security awareness training, etc. This is nuts, although in a lot of ways I'm probably better suited to making broad overarching decisions about lots of inter-working pieces than I am at the technical minutiae of my day to day now. $100k may be way too little.

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    DjeetDjeet Registered User regular
    The problem is they are specifically asking what I want

    Your nut (what you're worth factoring cost of living adjustments, those bennies you have I think are worth maybe $20K or more) plus 20%. You always start by asking more than what you think they'll pay in anything other than an entry-level position. If you're flirting with 6 figures another 20K is not an unreasonable start for negotiations, esp if you don't know full costs of the switch (retirement plan, health insurance premiums, perks).

    and what I make now

    They're fishing. They want to take your salary, pad it nicely and offer you that; that is the only reason to ask you that question. You don't have to answer, but then you're "playing hardball". If you have to answer pad your salary with what you think your current benefits are worth cause that figures into the calculus.

    Next time I get asked "what were you paid before" I want to answer "how much salary are you authorized to give to fill this position"?

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    khainkhain Registered User regular
    Don't reveal either what you make now or what you want to make. Being able to deflect these two questions is probably the most important part of a salary negotiation because they set the starting point.

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    Giggles_FunsworthGiggles_Funsworth Blight on Discourse Bay Area SprawlRegistered User regular
    Djeet wrote: »
    The problem is they are specifically asking what I want

    Your nut (what you're worth factoring cost of living adjustments, those bennies you have I think are worth maybe $20K or more) plus 20%. You always start by asking more than what you think they'll pay in anything other than an entry-level position. If you're flirting with 6 figures another 20K is not an unreasonable start for negotiations, esp if you don't know full costs of the switch (retirement plan, health insurance premiums, perks).

    and what I make now

    They're fishing. They want to take your salary, pad it nicely and offer you that; that is the only reason to ask you that question. You don't have to answer, but then you're "playing hardball". If you have to answer pad your salary with what you think your current benefits are worth cause that figures into the calculus.

    Next time I get asked "what were you paid before" I want to answer "how much salary are you authorized to give to fill this position"?

    I basically went with that. I asked for clarification on the duties of the job and what sort of team I'd be working with, underlings, peers, seniors. If the description they sent me is to be taken literally it sounds like I would be THE BOSS. As in maybe not CISO by title but definitely CISO by duties and stress levels. That shit is a C level position for a well known company in an expensive place to live. It is hard to get an idea of what people get paid to do that job because the people who have those jobs don't talk about what they're paid. $100k would definitely be low, $150k is probably low. If I'm just researching and influencing those decisions from a position of seniority with a team I work with and a boss above me that's cool too, and $100-150k seems about right, but is a hard sell coming from $60k.

    I asked him how responsible I would be for the duties detailed and what sort of team I'd be working with so I could get an idea of what I should be asking for. Then I ask if he has a range he is willing to offer for this position.
    khain wrote: »
    Don't reveal either what you make now or what you want to make. Being able to deflect these two questions is probably the most important part of a salary negotiation because they set the starting point.

    Yeah but how? "I am negotiable depending on the terms of the position and associated perks."

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    zepherinzepherin Russian warship, go fuck yourself Registered User regular
    Ask for a severence package, it is often overlooked, but sometimes things don't work out, and you don't want to make a jump from san jose to san fran, get an apartment, get settled and then be on unemployment, which doesn't pay jack shit, I think it maxes out at $450. Also it is not unreasonable to ask for a signing bonus, or to ask for moving costs. If you are going to have to make the first move in terms of asking.

    Negotiations can work too ways, one is to make them give a number first, then you give them a counter number. However psychologically if you know the value of the position, you can get more by going first. Essentially your initial offer should be enough so that they wince (also a negotiating strategy), but not so much that they laugh at you. And that is your starting point, then when they low ball the counter offer, start coming down, but adding things on the back end.

    Here is a grossley simplified negotiations setup.
    let's start with 120k

    They say you only made 60k at your previous job so we are offering 80k

    I would be willing to go down to 110k, but I want 4 weeks of vacation and a 6 month severence package.

    We don't do severence packages, but we can do 3 weeks of vacation and 90k a year.

    I really am worth at least 100k a year, and the 3 month severence package is necessary to protect myself.

    We can really only do 95k a year for the position, and a 2 month severence.

    95k a year, and a 2 month severence... pause only with a 8k signing bonus and moving expenses covered.

    Of course they may simply set a salary and refuse to budge, and you can walk away, but if they are poaching you, by all means shoot for the moon.

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    DjeetDjeet Registered User regular
    Genuine Chief or Director level comp includes options and/or performance-based bonuses. The job duties may include functions you'd consider Chief/Director level responsibilities, but you're not there yet if there's no equity stake or no performance-based comp.

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    DeebaserDeebaser on my way to work in a suit and a tie Ahhhh...come on fucking guyRegistered User regular
    khain wrote: »
    Don't reveal either what you make now or what you want to make. Being able to deflect these two questions is probably the most important part of a salary negotiation because they set the starting point.

    Being adversarial and difficult is a great way to not get the job.

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    Giggles_FunsworthGiggles_Funsworth Blight on Discourse Bay Area SprawlRegistered User regular
    Looks like I've successfully dodged the question for the time being. He came back at me and said he wasn't sure about the things I'd asked and the best thing to do was get my resume to the hiring manager and set me up for a phone interview.

    Further advice is greatly appreciated. I've had jobs that weren't temp or an internship for all of two or so years and all this is new to me.

    Honestly I'm flabbergasted they think I'm a good fit for the position.

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    BlazeFireBlazeFire Registered User regular
    I don't know what the angle would be, but are you sure this is all legitimate? Not to cut you down, but you said yourself you don't have a ton of experience and a not-stellar reputation in the field.

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    Giggles_FunsworthGiggles_Funsworth Blight on Discourse Bay Area SprawlRegistered User regular
    Djeet wrote: »
    Genuine Chief or Director level comp includes options and/or performance-based bonuses. The job duties may include functions you'd consider Chief/Director level responsibilities, but you're not there yet if there's no equity stake or no performance-based comp.

    Totally understood but if I am responsible for all the Information Security decisions of an entire Enterprise with a gianthuge attack surface then it is a CISO in all but name. I should definitely be asking for the upper limits of what someone who isn't a CISO but has similar aptitudes makes, and in San Francisco I am lead to believe my floor should be $150k.
    Deebaser wrote: »
    khain wrote: »
    Don't reveal either what you make now or what you want to make. Being able to deflect these two questions is probably the most important part of a salary negotiation because they set the starting point.

    Being adversarial and difficult is a great way to not get the job.

    Totally agree with this and it's what I'm afraid of. This would be such a jump for me just based on duties and title that it would honestly probably be worth it even if they paid me less than I'm making now because of what I could make elsewhere with it on my resume. It is honestly poor judgement on their part to consider me when I have so little proven experience but I do have a pretty unique skillset.

    But they gave me a description for a different sort of candidate, told me they were looking for someone with my skillset over that with a little bit of that, and then asked me how much I want. How am I supposed to know what the position actually encompasses and what I should be asking for when the description they sent me is that shoddy? I was honest with them and it seemed to work out.
    Djeet wrote: »

    Oh man, I got that bad. It gets worse when you are regularly hanging out with people who invented core parts of the internet. I was having drinks with a guy that made a piece of malware that executes via error messages without ever touching the processor. It was fucking brilliant. Kid is 19 and just finished his Bachelor's at a fucking Ivy League school. This shit happens regularly. The Silicon Valley and my industry in particular is hell on your confidence.
    BlazeFire wrote: »
    I don't know what the angle would be, but are you sure this is all legitimate? Not to cut you down, but you said yourself you don't have a ton of experience and a not-stellar reputation in the field.

    I am a pretty savvy guy and it definitely seems to. They contacted me via LinkedIn initially, internal recruiter for the company, internal email address he's corresponding from now. I will not be surprised if this is a case of non-technical people misunderstanding the qualifications of technical people, but if I'm able to fake it until I make it with this it's too big an opportunity to pass up. I don't really have anything to lose.

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    DjeetDjeet Registered User regular
    edited February 2013
    Djeet wrote: »
    Genuine Chief or Director level comp includes options and/or performance-based bonuses. The job duties may include functions you'd consider Chief/Director level responsibilities, but you're not there yet if there's no equity stake or no performance-based comp.

    Totally understood but if I am responsible for all the Information Security decisions of an entire Enterprise with a gianthuge attack surface then it is a CISO in all but name. I should definitely be asking for the upper limits of what someone who isn't a CISO but has similar aptitudes makes, and in San Francisco I am lead to believe my floor should be $150k.

    All of the responsibilities, but non-commensurate comp. Welcome to the field. Good thing is play this well for a couple years and your opportunities are much wider when you jump ship.


    Djeet wrote: »

    Oh man, I got that bad. It gets worse when you are regularly hanging out with people who invented core parts of the internet. I was having drinks with a guy that made a piece of malware that executes via error messages without ever touching the processor. It was fucking brilliant. Kid is 19 and just finished his Bachelor's at a fucking Ivy League school. This shit happens regularly. The Silicon Valley and my industry in particular is hell on your confidence.

    IME this is a ridiculously common phenomenon, underestimating your worth cause you think the rest of the field must obviously know what you do (they don't necessarily)..

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    Giggles_FunsworthGiggles_Funsworth Blight on Discourse Bay Area SprawlRegistered User regular
    Also my reputation is not bad maybe I should rephrase.

    Like I said, I lost that first job for work that I did that caused problems, but were more of a problem with the practices of the company than anything that was my fault or avoidable. When I told other people about it immediately after I got fired the responses from the oldtimers were generally along the lines of "That's hilarious!" "Heh, I've done that a few times." or "You should sue for wrongful termination there's no way that was your fault."

    I moved on immediately and got a new job with a significant pay increase and I'm very active in the community and well networked now. I don't think anybody thinks bad of me besides a few assholes at the last place I worked that are more interested in maintaining morale for their underpaid workers than admitting they shitcanned a guy because their policies were fucked and they needed a scapegoat and maybe they should fix that so it doesn't happen again...

    The other thing I've got in the pipeline right now is Apple. Say what you like about Apple but they don't hire dummies.

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    Jimmy KingJimmy King Registered User regular
    This sounds like an outside recruiter/headhunter. Some of those people are very good, but they overall are notorious for matching up a few keywords, and spamming as many resumes as they can find that are even remotely related/qualified at jobs in hopes of placing someone. If you're truly not qualified at all, you won't hear anything more after submitting your resume. If you do get an interview, then at least on paper, the company thinks your qualified. If you interview and get made an offer, then they think you're qualified and they are the ones who know what the job is and what they expect of you, so don't worry about it. If they don't offer enough to be worth the trouble after all of that, pass on it. I've had to do that several times and everyone has always understood that it needs to be a good fit for me as well... and if they didn't, well, was that a place I wanted to work for?

    It sounds to me like you're probably more qualified than you think, not necessarily based on experience, but based on being able to truly understand what you're doing, figure shit out, and get the job done, which is way too rare. Many people can only do what they've had their hands held doing 500 times in the past... and barely competently at that.

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    Giggles_FunsworthGiggles_Funsworth Blight on Discourse Bay Area SprawlRegistered User regular
    edited February 2013
    Jimmy King wrote: »
    This sounds like an outside recruiter/headhunter. Some of those people are very good, but they overall are notorious for matching up a few keywords, and spamming as many resumes as they can find that are even remotely related/qualified at jobs in hopes of placing someone. If you're truly not qualified at all, you won't hear anything more after submitting your resume. If you do get an interview, then at least on paper, the company thinks your qualified. If you interview and get made an offer, then they think you're qualified and they are the ones who know what the job is and what they expect of you, so don't worry about it. If they don't offer enough to be worth the trouble after all of that, pass on it. I've had to do that several times and everyone has always understood that it needs to be a good fit for me as well... and if they didn't, well, was that a place I wanted to work for?

    It sounds to me like you're probably more qualified than you think, not necessarily based on experience, but based on being able to truly understand what you're doing, figure shit out, and get the job done, which is way too rare. Many people can only do what they've had their hands held doing 500 times in the past... and barely competently at that.

    To the first part, it definitely seems like an internal recruiter from HR based on stalking, credentials, etc. I've experienced the dipshit headhunters plenty of times but they don't usually come back at me and go "NO YOU'RE RAD." when I explain why I'm probably not what they are looking for and ask if it's cool if I pass this on to somebody I know who is more along the lines of what they are looking for.

    The second part, that is definitely my primary strength. I am a failed child prodigy that taught myself to read adult novels and do long division before I'd even started school. Followed that up by dropping out of highschool. Got swindled by a college offering technical degrees, did some internships while I was doing that doing a combination of bench tech, helpdesk, sysadmin, and network support duties. Tried to get a real job in the middle of the recession and ended up doing anything and everything I could for small businesses and home users on the sly, bullshitting and teaching myself how to do something if they asked me to and I didn't know already. Accidentally ended up in Web Application Security despite no real proficiency with programming languages or background as a developer and I've been teaching myself everything about the internet since then that I ignored because I didn't like it (programming, all I do is break programming now). I've also got ridiculously developed empathy and soft skills for a technical person because I realized that was a deficit for me and made it more of a focus than my technical training.

    It is hard to communicate finding almost everything intuitive and being extremely adaptable though, because fucking everybody says they're adaptable on their resume. I have little doubt that I know the right places to look for information and a broad enough knowledge and experience base to draw from to thrive at a position like this, and failing that the right people to talk to that I've been sharing drinks for the past few years that I can call up that will know. I'm just completely out of my depth here because I planned to need to grind for at least a few more years to get the paper credentials and further experience to be considered for positions like this.

    Even if this doesn't work out, assuming the phone interview doesn't go horribly (or happens at all) it's making me reconsider the value of a CISSP certification.

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    ToxTox I kill threads he/himRegistered User regular
    Also you really need to stop worrying about the whole, "but I only make $XXk now" mindset. Your currently salary is based on your current job. Your new salary should be based on your new job. You said yourself, this is a huge step up, going from what you view as a jr/mid job to a very clear senior one. Guess what else should be a big jump?

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