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Ain't Talkin' 'Bout [Love]
Grey Ghost
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MY LOVE IS ROTTEN TO THE CORE
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SuyvT8nFMLY
Are you in love
Do you wanna be
Are you trying to purge all human emotions from your body and become a perfect, immortal machine
Talk about it all here!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SuyvT8nFMLYAre you in love
Do you wanna be
Are you trying to purge all human emotions from your body and become a perfect, immortal machine
Talk about it all here!
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*clutches chest*
Steam ID - VeldrinD
Or is it indigestion
-Indiana Solo, runner of blades
Both, probably
But the other day I was thinking about my past relationships. Now, there have traditionally been four women that I have counted as the ones I loved (and lost). the Big Four, as it were
but some time ago I really examined my memories of those relationships and decided that 3 of the 4 I would now say were emotional states that I mistook for love - infatuation, or just a really hard crush, etc. - which means, odds are, the 4th one falls under that as well
Which would mean I've never actually been in love! which is kind of a bummer thought after almost 30 years of life
Also possibly indicates that I'm just a really easy mark
So what you're saying is I should make you fall in love with me and have you buy me stuff
Nice try, Steve! I'm not falling for that play a fifth time!
What if I convince you I'm a cute girl with purple hair who's into punk rock and has lots of tattoos
Go on
This will be here until I receive an apology or Weedlordvegeta get any consequences for being a bully
Limerence, huh? Fair play. I've had this pattern myself. I'm trying to figure out what it is exactly that has me stuck there -- falling in love a bit too soon and feeling like it's never really requited.
In my case, near as I can tell, I have a lot of past life experience that's tied to living in depression, and though I have lived pretty much on the up and up for 6 years now.
I still tend to gravitate toward people I feel would more easily 'get' that part of my life -- it's very easy for me to hit it off with people from similar life circumstances (dysfunctional family sitch) and who definitely have a history of dealing with a similar mental state -- or unfortunately, being stuck in that themselves in the moment.
Well, I'm beginning to understand, I have enough coping skills and support in place, that I haven't been comfortable self-describing as depressed for nearly two years.
Maybe I should start dating people who aren't in the thick of it. Which is no slight to people in those circumstances, I just recognize that at least for my case -- when I was depressed in my adolecence and young adult life I felt that I was totally unlovable; and dang isn't possible that the people I've fallen for, being so inflicted might not be there themselves.
Well I'm thinking it's perfectly possible for someone who hasn't shared that sort of journey to understand it's place in my life. It's just a subtle difference in order of operations, I gotta win em over first, and then when they grow to value me, maybe they will make the effort to understand.
A little explanation of the symptoms
Or is everyone else different?
I love you guys.
Best internet family ever.
Also @Infidel I miss you and stuff.
Also I'm past exhausted to the point of almost stink drunk.
Also, baby is crawling now. Kinda sorta. Ahhhhhh.
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(In my defense, I've had my dog for 12 years, only dated the guy for six months, and the dog got me through really tough family/school stuff.)
He did rate higher than my guinea pig, though. So I did really like him. (I've had her for six years, and she kept me from being hopelessly lonely in college & grad school. I'd pick my guibea pig over my grandfather.)
I miss having someone to share things, like a stupid song on the radio, or a good song on the radio, or sharing sunsets etc
Congratulations, you're about two weeks away from "climbing up everything" and about 2 years from "safely climbing down from anything".
But if I had to pick to save a people or my pupper... let's just say everyone but my dearest dear ones is in the At Risk category.
Well, him and not wanting to sentence some random driver to a life of knowing they hit a person, cause that ain't fair
...he's a pretty great dog, is my point
"Sandra has a good solid anti-murderer vibe. My skin felt very secure and sufficiently attached to my body when I met her. Also my organs." HAIL SATAN
Wanna meet those dogs.
Yeah, I have really latched on to my parents dogs. One of them is getting old for his breed and I am terrified
I am thankful for the Love thread and all of its miseries and sometimes joys.
Satans..... hints.....
Hope you're feeling a bit better soon, LS.
Hugs to you and Haechi.
Steam ID - VeldrinD
Steam ID - VeldrinD
But alas I know I will never have that conversation
We been talking back and forth through text quite a bit, and our texts have gotten really long. I'm sorta worried that we skipped a lot of the "get to know you " material that we could have talked about, but we'll see.
She seems to enjoy active stuff, so I may suggest a bike ride or something followed by lunch or something.
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Chin up, buddy.
I can't find the old comment. Is there a way you could talk to some one and get some help?
I'm thinking of getting some therapy. I don't really know where to begin, and I'm already dreading the conversation with my parents.
On the plus side, I just realized there wouldn't be anything stopping me from getting a dog! Thats way more exciting at this point.
Even when they insist on sitting on your butt and then attempting to stretch so that their paw is JABBING your butt THAT'S NOT COOL HAECHI
BAD TOUCH
"Sandra has a good solid anti-murderer vibe. My skin felt very secure and sufficiently attached to my body when I met her. Also my organs." HAIL SATAN
To get a petting