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calling someone a bad kisser is an awesome backdoor compliment because it implies you've smooched on a lot of people and are most likely a good kisser yourself nice move
it's like no one even bothers to read the back half of the Critique of Pure Reason anymore.
hmm, is there a 5 minute youtube summary available
not one that you should watch?
the audiobook is 8 videos long with the first two being 2 hrs and 1.5 hours respectfully
there's a series of 4 intro videos that are 5 minutes a piece, and the 3rd video hasn't yet finished the Transcendental Aesthetic (which is literally like the first tiny bit.
The First Critique is fucking enormous, and it's impossible to do it in 5 minutes with any sort of scholarship
i feel like you misunderstood my post!
edit: to be clear, i was not asking in earnest. just being a shitter and riffing on your previous statement about people not reading.
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I mean I'm actually an abrasive asshole during the intermediate period between just met and good friend which is a significant barrier to being able to establish new relationships
calling someone a bad kisser is an awesome backdoor compliment because it implies you've smooched on a lot of people and are most likely a good kisser yourself nice move
I want to have short but memorable relationships with half the women hanging out at this cafe. Also, why does liaison sound both pretentious and creepy? Is it because of that one French movie.
Most french words for things make things sound lecherous.
la proposition. Sick.
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amateurhourOne day I'll be professionalhourThe woods somewhere in TennesseeRegistered Userregular
i am somewhat dismissive of bad at kissing/sex/blowjobs/etc in terms of a reason to cancel a relationship (presuming the intent of the relationship was a search for a long term partner)
these are all things that can easily be improved with practice and communication
calling someone a bad kisser is an awesome backdoor compliment because it implies you've smooched on a lot of people and are most likely a good kisser yourself nice move
But
But the bad kissers are always guys
nah
I JUST CALLED YOU A BAD KISSER THUS PROVING MY OWN WORTH AS A GOOD KISSER HAHA I USED YOUR TRICK
I want to have short but memorable relationships with half the women hanging out at this cafe. Also, why does liaison sound both pretentious and creepy? Is it because of that one French movie.
Most french words for things make things sound lecherous.
Not a "Nice Guy", just a nice guy: Friend dude picked up a prescription for me because I was on a tight schedule and it was about to get shelved again. He did this just because he's my friend.
"Nice Guy" behaviour: Downstairs housemate dude loaned me hangers when I moved in, offered me beer and talked about trying to integrate me into housemate stuff. Eventually made comments about my ass which I said I was uncomfortable with. Eventually made more comments after that and then when I was like "dude no" basically stopped talking to me and has been mostly cold and obnoxious since.
Sad that #2 is usurped because that is just a guy that is not nice.
yes that's the point, Nice Guys aren't actually nice people, they just think they are and act like they are until it becomes clear that they can't get anything out of it
Ill just say disagree. I find exception with that terminology but people these days like to appropriate and relabel everything.
I would also disagree. I feel like ppl can be so jaded they wouldn't know nice if it hit them in the face. There are truly nice guys. There really are guys who are just nice without other motives.
No one has, at any point, said otherwise? The whole thing is that capital-letter Nice Guy is an Internet Term for guys that think they're nice, and think they're owed something for it, and generally throw a tantrum when they don't get it. It comes from the guys themselves, because they kind of band together in 4chan/reddit type spots to commiserate about how their "niceness" would get them laid if women didn't suck.
of course there are nice dudes, my first example was of a nice dude
I am finding I have very little patience with the type of argument that attacks the person for not caring about a "worse cause" just cause that's not what they're fighting against this very minute
why do you care so much about women's rights here when women in the middle east get stoned to death
the real travel ban is what China is doing to repatriate NK fugitives
obviously I have a lot of distaste for anyone that continues to support Trump's shitty policies, but I guess I really have even more distaste for someone that won't even advance a positive argument for or against something and instead tries to pretend the real issue is somewhere else
fking stand up for what you believe in you fucking coward
The particular instance you're talking about was so passive aggressive too.
I forget how that dude is related to you and/or Porp, but he's a major toolbag.
he is my uncle
i have been giving him a pass because his wife has been going through the most hellish 16 months of chemo I've ever heard of
but she's done now and I'm tired of his shit
I've said it before, but fuck that. Chemo isn't a free fucking pass to be a drunk idiot who spews dumb and idiotic words.
no it's not, but he was under enough stress that i considered it the lesser evil to just ignore his posts
shrug
I did ignore them. But I curse him in my head every time he chimes in.
Chemo is a free pass for the person receiving the Chemo. You get to be a dick. 6 month pass. The person taking the person to chemo, you can have a biweekly bitch session. 3 month free pass. I feel like that should be a codified social convention. Also if you are receiving Chemo, no speeding tickets ever.
it's like no one even bothers to read the back half of the Critique of Pure Reason anymore.
hmm, is there a 5 minute youtube summary available
not one that you should watch?
the audiobook is 8 videos long with the first two being 2 hrs and 1.5 hours respectfully
there's a series of 4 intro videos that are 5 minutes a piece, and the 3rd video hasn't yet finished the Transcendental Aesthetic (which is literally like the first tiny bit.
The First Critique is fucking enormous, and it's impossible to do it in 5 minutes with any sort of scholarship
i feel like you misunderstood my post!
edit: to be clear, i was not asking in earnest. just being a shitter and riffing on your previous statement about people not reading.
oh
yeah
i don't always pick up on people not being earnest.
*walks away to sad music*
"The only way to get rid of a temptation is to give into it." - Oscar Wilde
"We believe in the people and their 'wisdom' as if there was some special secret entrance to knowledge that barred to anyone who had ever learned anything." - Friedrich Nietzsche
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Riemann you asked something akin to "Nargirl is clearly crazy. Why back her in this situation?"
And to that I say
A) consider the people who must have raised her
adventure!
C) It's been a while since I've mentioned that butt tho.
D) I almost went four bars without talking about my big dick.
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amateurhourOne day I'll be professionalhourThe woods somewhere in TennesseeRegistered Userregular
"The only way to get rid of a temptation is to give into it." - Oscar Wilde
"We believe in the people and their 'wisdom' as if there was some special secret entrance to knowledge that barred to anyone who had ever learned anything." - Friedrich Nietzsche
Not a "Nice Guy", just a nice guy: Friend dude picked up a prescription for me because I was on a tight schedule and it was about to get shelved again. He did this just because he's my friend.
"Nice Guy" behaviour: Downstairs housemate dude loaned me hangers when I moved in, offered me beer and talked about trying to integrate me into housemate stuff. Eventually made comments about my ass which I said I was uncomfortable with. Eventually made more comments after that and then when I was like "dude no" basically stopped talking to me and has been mostly cold and obnoxious since.
Sad that #2 is usurped because that is just a guy that is not nice.
yes that's the point, Nice Guys aren't actually nice people, they just think they are and act like they are until it becomes clear that they can't get anything out of it
Ill just say disagree. I find exception with that terminology but people these days like to appropriate and relabel everything.
I would also disagree. I feel like ppl can be so jaded they wouldn't know nice if it hit them in the face. There are truly nice guys. There really are guys who are just nice without other motives.
No one has, at any point, said otherwise? The whole thing is that capital-letter Nice Guy is an Internet Term for guys that think they're nice, and think they're owed something for it, and generally throw a tantrum when they don't get it. It comes from the guys themselves, because they kind of band together in 4chan/reddit type spots to commiserate about how their "niceness" would get them laid if women didn't suck.
of course there are nice dudes, my first example was of a nice dude
I am finding I have very little patience with the type of argument that attacks the person for not caring about a "worse cause" just cause that's not what they're fighting against this very minute
why do you care so much about women's rights here when women in the middle east get stoned to death
the real travel ban is what China is doing to repatriate NK fugitives
obviously I have a lot of distaste for anyone that continues to support Trump's shitty policies, but I guess I really have even more distaste for someone that won't even advance a positive argument for or against something and instead tries to pretend the real issue is somewhere else
fking stand up for what you believe in you fucking coward
The particular instance you're talking about was so passive aggressive too.
I forget how that dude is related to you and/or Porp, but he's a major toolbag.
he is my uncle
i have been giving him a pass because his wife has been going through the most hellish 16 months of chemo I've ever heard of
but she's done now and I'm tired of his shit
I've said it before, but fuck that. Chemo isn't a free fucking pass to be a drunk idiot who spews dumb and idiotic words.
no it's not, but he was under enough stress that i considered it the lesser evil to just ignore his posts
shrug
I did ignore them. But I curse him in my head every time he chimes in.
Chemo is a free pass for the person receiving the Chemo. You get to be a dick. 6 month pass. The person taking the person to chemo, you can have a biweekly bitch session. 3 month free pass. I feel like that should be a codified social convention. Also if you are receiving Chemo, no speeding tickets ever.
My beat-cancer brother is using it as a lifelong pass to steal from my parents
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amateurhourOne day I'll be professionalhourThe woods somewhere in TennesseeRegistered Userregular
"The only way to get rid of a temptation is to give into it." - Oscar Wilde
"We believe in the people and their 'wisdom' as if there was some special secret entrance to knowledge that barred to anyone who had ever learned anything." - Friedrich Nietzsche
i am somewhat dismissive of bad at kissing/sex/blowjobs/etc in terms of a reason to cancel a relationship (presuming the intent of the relationship was a search for a long term partner)
these are all things that can easily be improved with practice and communication
It's not why I stopped calling her
yeah sorry i wasn't trying to attack you directly
just a related thought, as it's something that came up recently with a good friend (she's amazing! everything's awesome! except the sex) and i was like, ok dude maybe try and work on that with her instead of jumping straight to breaking up
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wow! I actually almost bought one of these once, the idea seemed really cool, but I eventually decided that I wasn't certain enough about how it worked to drop $150 on it
I don't think my deadpan humor is primarily self effacing. It's just I straight-face a lot of jokes and eventually new people look at me like either I'm very stern or maybe mentally retarded
wait, am i supposed to put it away when the sun isn't out?
"The only way to get rid of a temptation is to give into it." - Oscar Wilde
"We believe in the people and their 'wisdom' as if there was some special secret entrance to knowledge that barred to anyone who had ever learned anything." - Friedrich Nietzsche
Posts
But
But the bad kissers are always guys
i feel like you misunderstood my post!
edit: to be clear, i was not asking in earnest. just being a shitter and riffing on your previous statement about people not reading.
I mean I'm actually an abrasive asshole during the intermediate period between just met and good friend which is a significant barrier to being able to establish new relationships
m'lady
Band practice! With me! Send us both money so we can keep going to band practice we have a really.cool punk band
nah
la proposition. Sick.
It's not why I stopped calling her
I JUST CALLED YOU A BAD KISSER THUS PROVING MY OWN WORTH AS A GOOD KISSER HAHA I USED YOUR TRICK
La fin du monde means orgasm mountain
#2017
oh
yeah
i don't always pick up on people not being earnest.
*walks away to sad music*
"We believe in the people and their 'wisdom' as if there was some special secret entrance to knowledge that barred to anyone who had ever learned anything." - Friedrich Nietzsche
And to that I say
A) consider the people who must have raised her
C) It's been a while since I've mentioned that butt tho.
D) I almost went four bars without talking about my big dick.
Aren't we all looking for that?
Yah
All the guys I kissed were terrible at it
"We believe in the people and their 'wisdom' as if there was some special secret entrance to knowledge that barred to anyone who had ever learned anything." - Friedrich Nietzsche
My beat-cancer brother is using it as a lifelong pass to steal from my parents
you're a Canadian treasure ::hands Narwhal a copy of Twilight::
All thanks to Bogart
Nah I need something that fits my anus better.
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"We believe in the people and their 'wisdom' as if there was some special secret entrance to knowledge that barred to anyone who had ever learned anything." - Friedrich Nietzsche
Farewell Bogart chat
yeah sorry i wasn't trying to attack you directly
just a related thought, as it's something that came up recently with a good friend (she's amazing! everything's awesome! except the sex) and i was like, ok dude maybe try and work on that with her instead of jumping straight to breaking up
wow! I actually almost bought one of these once, the idea seemed really cool, but I eventually decided that I wasn't certain enough about how it worked to drop $150 on it
jebus
I'd love it if you took a look at my art and my PATREON!
wait, am i supposed to put it away when the sun isn't out?
"We believe in the people and their 'wisdom' as if there was some special secret entrance to knowledge that barred to anyone who had ever learned anything." - Friedrich Nietzsche
Nice Guy chat?
Kissing Evaluation chat?
What will the next OP adventure be
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